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DeathPresentation Team:
Joy Berry
Rev. Natalie Fenimore
Rev. Judy Tomlinson
Gail Forsyth-Vail
LREDA Fall Conference 2016
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Chalice LightingLighting this chalice, we feel its strengthTogether, we are fearless
Lighting this chalice, we feel its warmthTogether, we are radiant
Lighting this chalice, we feel its clarityTogether, we are wise
Kellie Walker Hart, copyright 2016,used by permission
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Love Reaches Out (Vs. 1 & Chorus)
With a mind that holds a plan, with a hand that holds a key,with a heart that holds a dream, love reaches out.When a family's torn apart, when the street is all you have,when your faith begins to break, love reaches out.
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Chorus:
Love reaches out, love reaches out,here by your side, bringing you home, love reaches out.
Words & Music by Pat Humphries and Sandy OCopyright 2014Moving Forward Music, BMIwww.emmasrevolution.com
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Story: The Mustard Seed Medicine
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BreathsWords adapted from a poem by Birago Diop
Music by Ysaye M. Barnwell
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Prayer
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Goals
• Make death more visible. Ask what it means to live in awareness of the presence of death
• Explore the idea of a “good death” • Explore personal stories about death, and the ways in which they are rooted
in culture, ethnicity, geography, religious heritage, socioeconomic location, and other factors.
• Consider what is helpful about familiar narratives/practices about death, and what is not
• Explore Unitarian Universalist culture, practices, and theology about death• Learn about ethical wills and the meaning that can live beyond a loss. • Learn about questions, practices, and tools that are helpful to prepare for
one’s own death• Consider next steps and needed resources for continuing personal and
congregational work
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Bringing Death into the Room: Weaving
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Bringing Death into the Room: Stories
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Exploring
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Guided Meditation
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Readings from the Common Bowl
From the Tapestry of Faith program, Facing Death with Life
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Questions to Ponder
• Which quotes speak to you and why?
• Are there quotes that make you uncomfortable?
• Are there quotes that trigger memories?
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Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me.— Psalm 23 (King James Version)
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The fear of death follows from the fear of life. A man who lives fully is prepared to die at any time.
— Mark Twain
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So let me die laughing, savoring one of life’s crazy moments. Let me die holding the hand of one I love, and recalling that I tried to love and was loved in return. Let me die remembering that life has been good, and that I did what I could. — Mark Morrison-Reed
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Because I could not stop for Death—He kindly stopped for me—The Carriage held but just Ourselves—And Immortality...
— Emily Dickinson
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No one wants to die. Even people who want to go to heaven don't want to die to get there. And yet death is the destination we all share. No one has ever escaped it. And that is as it should be, because Death is very likely the single best invention of Life. It is Life's change agent. It clears out the old to make way for the new.
— Steve Jobs
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There is no such thing as a natural death; nothing that ever happens to a man is ever natural, since his presence calls the world into question. All men must die: But for every man his death is an accident and, even if he knows it and consents to it, an unjustifiable violation.— Simone de Beauvoir.
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Life is better than death, I believe, if only because it is less boring, and because it has fresh peaches in it.
— Alice Walker
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When I think of ages pastThat have floated down the streamOf life and love and death,I feel how free it makes usTo pass away.
— Rabindranath Tagore
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Dukkha. All is impermanence. Nothing lasts. I thought of that yesterday, watching leaves come down in a shower, and the smell of the rotting ones going back into the earth. Leaf to humus and back to earth to nourish the roots of the mother tree. The crows crying as the leaves fall and their nests are exposed: dukkha...all is impermanence.And life goes on, and people who were with us last year at this time have died, all souls pass on, all is dukkha, nothing lasts. — Elizabeth Tarbox
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If you would indeed behold the spiritof death, open your heart wideunto the body of life.For life and death are one, even as theriver and sea are one.
—Kahlil Gibran
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The dead are not under the earth,They are in the fire dying down,They are in the moaning rock,They are in the crying grass,They are in the forest, they are in the home:
The dead are not dead.
— Birago Diop, 20th century Senegalese poet and storyteller
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Questions to Ponder
• Which quotes spoke to you and why?
• Were there quotes that made you uncomfortable?
• Were there quotes that triggered memories?
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Table Conversations:
Understanding Death
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How does UU theology help us relate to those who have died? What do we think happens for ourselves at and after death?
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Which cultural practices about death from your communities of origin do you find helpful and affirming? Which ones do you want to embrace in your own experiences of grief, mourning, and your own death?
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Which cultural practices about death from your communities of origin are less helpful? Which ones do you want to leave behind or not embrace in your own experiences of grief, mourning, and your own death?
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Which Unitarian Universalist practices about death do you find helpful and affirming? Which will be helpful at the time of your own death?
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Is there something missing or unhelpful in your UU experience of death, grief, and mourning-something that you wish for at the time of your own death?
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Grace
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Discoveries and ThoughtsShared Values and Experiences
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Preparing for Death:Resources
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Preparing for Death: Children’s Books
The Dead Bird (2016 edition)
Ghost Wings (out of print but available used or at librairies)
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Preparing for Death: Resources
TheConversationProject.org
Conversation starter kit
Five Wishes from agingwithdignity.org
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Memorial Societies
Visit Funeral Consumers Alliance www.funerals.org
to find your local chapter
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Ethical WillsUUA.org/re/older-adults/legacy
From the High Hill: Odyssey Writing for Elders offers help with reviewing your life and gathering your thoughts before creating an ethical will.
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Resources: UUA.org/re/older-adults/grief• Readings and Guidance for Memorial Services• End of Life Wishes and Conversations with Family• Adult Faith Development• Compassionate Choirs• Reflections about Death and Grief
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Bookstore Resources
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• Have you realized that there is something you need? Resources?
• What personal work do you need to do to be more comfortable with death?
• What work does your congregation need to do?
• What tools do you have?
• What insights point to what might be helpful practices in congregational life?
• What ways can we find in our churches to help hold space to honor death?
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Closing Ritual