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Invisibility or Flight?
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LLAMA Career Institutelibrarian.net/talks/llama16
A Workshop forDeveloping & Articulating
Our Values
What Matters?
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Outline of the dayI. Intro & basic overviews & definitions
II. Workplace & personal values exercises
III. Discussion about values conflicts and priorities
IV. Lightning exercise about optimism
V. Learning about elevator pitches
VI. Buddying up and farewell
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My Personal ValuesStory
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–Jessamyn West (not me!)
"You make what seems a simple choice choose a
spouse or a job or a neighborhood—and what you have chosen is not a
spouse or a job or a neighborhood, but a life."
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values…•… are not beliefs•… can change over time•… are sort of judgmental (is ok)
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values1. How to live your life2. How to act with others3. Your secret thoughts and feelings
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I learned what I know from
• Moderating a large online community
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I learned what I know from
• Moderating a large online community
• A lot of difficult conversations with a lot of difficult people
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I learned what I know from
• Moderating a large online community
• A lot of difficult conversations with a lot of difficult people
• Books & therapy (and books about therapy!)
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I learned what I know from
• Moderating a large online community
• A lot of difficult conversations with a lot of difficult people
• Books & therapy (and books about therapy!)
• Library school & "our professional values" stuff
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• Exploring your values with othersWhat Matters?
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"I chose this."
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• Exploring your values with others• Acknowledging your choices &
agency
What Matters?
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Where do values come from?
• Family• Community• Role models• ??????
• ????
• ????
• ????
• ????
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exercise
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Top 5
• ????
Bottom 5
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Some of my current values
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Some of my current values
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Some of my current values
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exercise
Personal ValuesInventory
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values inventory• Circle ten to keep. Cross out ten. Then
cross out five of the circled ones. Then cross out two more.
• You can't have twenty "core values." Conflicting values is normal, not aberrant.
• Think about something not just as a concept you like, but one that makes you want to do something in your life
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• Exploring your values with others• Acknowledging your choices & agency• Being honest about your own
capabilities
What Matters?
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Personal vs. Professional values
• What does it mean to say an organization has values?
• What is the difference between decision making that is values-based and other kinds of decision making?
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exercise
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• Exploring your values with others
• Acknowledging your choices & agency
• Being honest about your own abilities
• The ability to evaluate & make decisions when there is no right or wrong answer
What Matters?
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Hidden Values
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–Tom Robbins
"If you're honest, you sooner or later have to confront your
values. Then you're forced to separate what is right from
what is merely legal. This puts you metaphysically on the run. America is full of metaphysical
outlaws."
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Ask vs. Guess Culture
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Does it matter if the person is family, friend or colleague?
"I'm coming to your city for a few days.
Can I stay with you?"
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It's OK to ask. Answer might be "No."
Ask Culture
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Only ask if the answer is likely to be "Yes."Guess Culture
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"I'm coming to your city for a few days. Can you suggest places to stay?"
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Ask• Direct (and/or rude)
• Puts onus on askee
to say "No."
• Askee may feel
pressured to say yes
Guess• Subtle (and/or
vague)
• Presumes
agreement first
• Face-saving
• Works best with
single-culture
groups
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"A charitable interpretation would be…."
exercise
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"That person cut me off in traffic."
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"That person won't get off the computer."
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"That person is asleep in the
library."
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"That person didn't say hello back to
me."
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"That waiter won't come to our table."
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"This person is hogging our shared
armrest."
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"My request for a holiday was
denied."
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charitable ≠ chump
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• Exploring your values with others.
• Acknowledging your choices & agency.
• Being honest about your own abilities.
• Evaluating & making decisions when there is no right or wrong answer.
• Trying to see people's decisions through their eyes and offering choices that are real to them.
What Matters?
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Why You Need an Elevator Pitch
exercise
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elevator pitch is…• Me
• What I do
• What this is
• What happens
a quick, succinct summary of what you’re doing or making
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"We lend ebooks
worldwide for free."
•it's not your slogan
•it's not your mission
•it's not your tagline
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avoidspecifics• Minimal
superlatives
• Focus on one thing
• Differentiate!
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now you try
• Find a partner.
• Make your pitch.
• Help refine theirs.
• Share in 15 min.
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buddysystem
exercise
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- Gandhi
"Your beliefs become your thoughts. Your thoughts become your words. Your words
become your actions. Your actions become your habits. Your habits become your
values. Your values become your destiny."
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LLAMA Career Institutelibrarian.net/talks/llama16
What Matters?
You matter.