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Impact on Family Systems
Bob Campbell, Psy.D., M.Div.MKSN Conference
April 20, 2013
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Family Differences
“Happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.”
- Tolstoy
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Interconnections
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Interconnections
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Interconnections
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Trauma
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Triangles
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Triangles
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Triangles
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Homeostasis• Every system works to maintain itself• Change increases stress
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Triangles
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The Effect of Childhood Trauma• Stress and stress response• Every situation is different• Diathesis/stress model
• Connections may be broken• Sense of being understood is lost• Feeling intensely vulnerable
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Self-Protection
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System Out of Whack
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Guilt• “I did something wrong”
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Shame• Guilt says “I did something wrong.”• Shame says “I am something wrong.”• Embarrassment• Silence• Stuckness
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Blame• Blaming the perpetrator• Blaming the church• Blaming the structure• Blaming God• Blaming the family• Essence of blame – a struggle
to understand and interpret
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This is even more complex …
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Rigidity
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Rigidity• Secrecy, decorum, rules, and shame• Related to faith stance• Black and white thinking• Oughts, shoulds, and can’ts
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Boundaries• Open and closed systems• Family rules
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Depression
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Isolation
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Anxiety
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Post-traumatic Stress Disorder• Flashbacks• Re-experiencing• Avoidance• Distress• Hypervigilance• Irritability• Comorbid mood disorders
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Even more complexity
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Brokenness from Outside
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External Trauma
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Brokenness from Inside• Most important relationships• Trusted • Empowered• Authorities• Connected with Faith
• Loss of connection, attachment • Abandonment• Betrayal• Development of shame from lack of attachment
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Internal Brokenness
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Internal Brokenness
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Ripple Effects
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Repetitive Traumatization
• Learned hopelessness• Impact on developmental schema• Loss of meaning• Withdrawal from social support
TRAUMA
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Healing the Family System
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Seeking Assistance
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Keeping Healthy Boundaries
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Opening Lines of Communication
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The F-word• Alternatives• Letting go• Softening• Learning assertiveness• Learning self-care• Defusing• Working toward, rather than against• Finding purpose
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Increasing Flexibility
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Resilience
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Dr. Bob [email protected]