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HIS BRAIN/ HER BRAINHIS BRAIN/ HER BRAIN
Why It Took Moses Forty Years To Why It Took Moses Forty Years To Find His Way Out Of The DesertFind His Way Out Of The Desert
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THE BRAINTHE BRAIN
• Reptilian• Mammalian• Homo Sapien• Corpus Collosum
• Wired For Survival• Unchanged 50,000 Yrs
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DEVELOPMENTDEVELOPMENT
• Basic Template Female
• Affected By Chromosomes
• XX Girl XY Boy
• Hormonal Wash 6-8 Week Brain
• Genitals
• Brain Orientation
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HISHIS
• Hunter
• Long Range Directional Skills
• Spatial Sense
• Single Task (Charles Emerson Winchester)
• Procreation
• Things
• Pain And Empathy
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HERSHERS
• Nest Protector
• Communal
• More Finely Tuned Sensory Skills
• Multi-Tasker
• Non-Verbal Communicator
• People
• Can Process Input Faster, Integrate
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BRAIN 2BRAIN 2
• MEN– Resting Brain 30%
Active– Logic– Left Brain Dominant
(Except Spatial Area)– When Speak, Only
One Site Active
• WOMEN– Resting 90%
Active– Emotive– Multi-Hemisphere,
Corpus Collossum – Speech And
Hearing Centers Active
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SPEECHSPEECH
• MEN– Left Brain Frontal
– 8000 Signals
– Direct, Literal
– More Stutterers
– Use To Compete
– Emotionless Listening
– Don’t Feel Need To Express Pleasure In Words
• WOMEN– Multiple Sites, Bilat
– 20,000 Signals
– Indirect Language, Negotiating, Emotive
– More Facile, Integrated
– Use As Reward, As Bond
– 6 Listening Postures
– Talks And Talks
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SPEECH 2SPEECH 2
• 60-80% Non-Verbal Signals
• 20-30% Voice Sounds
• 7-10% Words
• Men Only Hear The Words
• Women Hear And Use 6 Tones
• Men Hear And Use 4 Tones
• Silence Is Not Punishment
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LYINGLYING
• Women Lie To Make Others Feel Better
• Men Lie To Make Selves Look Good
• Men Don’t Lie More, They Just Keep Getting Caught
• Most Common Lie Self-Deception
• The Closer A Person Is In Relationship, Harder To Lie
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SOCIALSOCIAL
• MEN– Goal Oriented– Lone Hunter– Problem Solver– Talks Achievement– Defines Self By
Achievements
• WOMEN– Community Builder– Communal– Problem Sharer – Talks Relationships– Defines Self By
Relationships
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PROBLEM SOLVINGPROBLEM SOLVING
• MEN– Linear– Compartmentalize– Emotion Divorced– Solitary– Gives Space– Wants Answers– Help Means He
Failed
• WOMEN– Cluster– Churns Til Solved– Emotion Involved– Communal– Wants A Hug– Wants Support– Wants To Help
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SIGHTSIGHT• MEN
– Tunnel Vision, Great Distances
– Can See Zebras On The Horizon
– Better Spatial Vision
– Color Cones X-attached (What The Hell Is Mauve?)
• WOMEN– Greater Peripheral-
up To 180° – Can Find The Butter
In The Fridge– Better Night Vision
– Rarely Get Caught Ogling Men
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OTHER SENSESOTHER SENSES• SMELL
– Women Can Smell Whether A Man Has Healthy Immune System Within 3 Sec.
– Most Sensitive At Ovulation
• HEARING– Women’s Hearing On At All Times– Men Find Sound Direction Better
• TOUCH– Women 10X As Sensitive– Touch Releases Oxytocin “Cuddle Hormone”– Men Grope, Women Caress
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ATTRACTIONATTRACTION• MAN
– Athletic Body– Sensitive Mouth– Full Breast– 70% Waist-Hip Ratio– Round Butt– Attractive Eyes– Flat Belly– Blonde– 12-14 Yr Old– Meat On The Bone
• WOMEN– Athletic Shape– Broad Shoulders, Chest– Full Hair– Sensual Mouth– Kind Eyes– Strong Nose And Chin– Narrow Hips– Credit Cards
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SEXSEX• MEN
– Larger Hypothalamus– Orgasm 2 ½ Minutes– Need To Spread Seed– Relieve Tension– Really Can Mean
Nothing– Visual Stimulation
(Lights On)(Playboy Handy)
– Talk Dirty Before Sex
• WOMEN– Larger Amygdala– Orgasm 13-30 Minutes– Need Monogamy– Build Tension– Needs Emotional Bond– Touch, Sound, (Lights
Off)– Talk, Listen, Smell,
Touch…
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LOVE and SCIENCELOVE and SCIENCE
Each Stage Has Chemical Release,Specific Brain Activity
LUST - Physical, Non-Verbal Attraction
INFATUATION - Attempt To Form Bond With Potential Partner: Associated With Elation
ATTACHMENT - Build Cooperative Bond To Raise Child
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REFERENCEREFERENCE
• WHY MEN DON’T LISTEN AND WOMEN CAN’T READ MAPS– Barbara and Allan Pease– ISBN# 0-7679-0763-9
• WHY MEN DON’T HAVE A CLUE AND WOMEN ALWAYS NEED MORE SHOES– Barbara and Allan Pease– #ISBN 0-7679-1610-7
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QUESTIONS?QUESTIONS?