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Debugging your communication for more efficiency!
Sabine Bernecker-Bendixen
Twitter: @Sabine Bendixenwww.sof-it.de www.project-laas.com
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7-8 October 2015
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That´s me at work!
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“We cannot not communicate!“
3Paul Watzlawick, 5 Axiomes of Communication
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Communication is everywhere around us
-all the time &...
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...misunderstanding is mostly hot on the heels
of communication!
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A bad communication...
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...causes trouble
...is the reason for mistakes
...is demotivating
...costs a lot of energy
...costs a lot of time
...is bad for efficiency
...is expensive!
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Because we underestimate complexity & importance
of communication 8
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We all are MASTERS of COMMUNICATION! ?
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we are communicating from our early childhood on
we are able to speak & write
we are able to listen & read
so we do not need to learn how to communicate!
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...sometimes we are like MASTERS of DISASTER!
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Too often we are trapped in the complex web of communication -
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in our patterns!
Thanks to Greta for the picture!
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What can we do?
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First of all...
...change your mindset!
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Communication is important!
We need to learn a lot about communication
We need to ask for help to better our communication
We need to stop concentrating only on technical skills
We need to start our training for communication
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That´s what we all know:
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The oldest parts of communication are 4.5
billion years old!
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The human being is 4.5 million years old,
the modern human being (as we are) only 40,000 years!
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Oops! 98.5%!17
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Complexity of communication
18Source: Sabine Bernecker-Bendixen;Kommunikation: ein vertrautes Konzept mit Stolpersteinen 1Entwickler-Magazin, Heft 06/2015, s&s media
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Inconsistent messages
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The relative importance of verbal and nonverbal
messages
Albert Mehrabian; https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Albert_Mehrabian
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7 - 38 - 55
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7% impact of words
38% impact of voice
55% impact of body language
Albert Mehrabian; https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Albert_Mehrabian
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How many times have you thought about your body language & its impact on others?
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Second time for changing mindset!
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I am okay -you are okay!
Thomas A. Harris;http://www.drthomasharris.com/thomas-harris-biography/
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What happens in the chain of
communication...
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the personal filters are very individual...
...and mostly unknown to ourselves AND to the sender!
Source: Sabine Bernecker-Bendixen;Kommunikation: ein vertrautes Konzept mit Stolpersteinen 1Entwickler-Magazin, Heft 06/2015, s&s media
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The new communication loop!
24Source: Sabine Bernecker-Bendixen;Kommunikation: ein vertrautes Konzept mit Stolpersteinen 1Entwickler-Magazin, Heft 06/2015, s&s media
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Explain exactly your point of view
for a better understanding!
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Helpful tip for the sender:
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Ask questions, if there is a scope for interpretation!
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Helpful tip for the receiver:
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Non-violent communication
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The smart way of communication -with more space for respectful
understanding
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Don´t put yourself as the measure of all
things!
Talk about your impression, your feelings and help with your ideas to improve the situation!
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Express it with your words!
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Show appreciation!
Each team member - needs to know the personal value to the team
- should enjoy working in the team
- should feel like being a part of the team
-should feel well in the team!
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The take-aways:Communication is a complex and important topic!
We are no Masters of communication!
Invest in better communication! It will save time and money!
“I am okay - you are okay“ is the only useful mindset!
Take time to describe exactly your point of view / impression/ etc.!
Ask questions to avoid misunderstandings!
Think about non-violent communication!
Show appreciation!
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Communication is about feelings & emotions!
It is about the human inside of you!
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Thank you very much!
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