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Susan Marcuccio - October 2021
Catholic Healthcare Pastoral Care Conference
SELF CARENourishing Self to Nurture Others
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Nourishing Self to Nurture Others
Nourish Self• To supply what is necessary for life, health and growth• To cherish, encourage, champion, keep alive• To strengthen, build up or promote• To sustain, tend, foster, comfort, attend, support
Nurture Others• To nourish - all of the above• To support and encourage• To care for • To serve and provide for
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Nourishing Self to Nurture OthersSELF CARE MODEL
Susan Marcuccio
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CER A
SELF CARE MODEL - Nourishing Self
CONNECTION.• With your support systems• To your calling• With your strengths• With your uniqueness• Your worldview• Your values• Your beliefs• Your faith• What is important to you• What gives your life meaning
Susan Marcuccio
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Who is walking alongside you on your journey through life?
• God• Family• Friends• Church• Ministers• Counsellor• Mentor• Spiritual Director• Supervisor• Others??
Susan Marcuccio
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Connecting with your calling
ACTIVITY:Answer the following questions:
• I feel passionate about….• I feel energised when….• I love it when I get to…..• I would love to be a voice for….• What’s most important to me is…. • The thing that drives me is…..• Anything else you would like to add?
Susan Marcuccio
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Above the surface - What you do and sayReactions, responses, comments
What others see and hear
Susan Marcuccio
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Under the surface - who you areWorldview, values, beliefs, faith, meaning
What others don’t see or hear
Susan Marcuccio
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CER A
Awareness.• Triage• Personally (Personal Life)• Professionally (Work Life) • Spiritually (Spiritual Life)
• Four Areas• Bodily • Emotional• Cognitive• Spiritual
SELF CARE MODEL - Nourishing Self
Susan Marcuccio
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Your Work Life
Your Personal
Life
Your Spiritual
Life
CounsellingTherapy
Spiritual Direction
© Susan Marcuccio 2013
S U P E R V I S I O N
THREE RINGED MODEL
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Triaging – Personally..Professionally..Spiritually
Susan Marcuccio
Red = Emergency
Yellow = Average
Green = Flourishing
Personal Life – now and overallWork Life – now and overallSpiritual Life – now and overall
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Four Storey Mansion of Awareness
Roof Garden - Spiritual Awareness
Third Floor - Cognitive Awareness
Second Floor - Emotional Awareness
First Floor - Bodily Awareness
Steve Biddulph 2021
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CER A
RESPONSE.• What do I need?• Acknowledge my losses• Process my emotions/grief• Egoism V Altruism• Deal with offences• Guard my heart• Active steps for holistic health• Personal & professional growth• Goals for my future• My action plan
SELF CARE MODEL - Nourishing Self
Susan Marcuccio
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Box of Emotions
Every time you experience an emotion that you can’t or don’t process straight away, you put it in your box of emotions.
Over time this builds up and then eventually you try and put one more emotion in the box and the whole box explodes and all the emotions come out - it can be messy…..
Do you have a safe, brave place to take off the lid and take out and process the emotions in the box? Who may assist you with this?
If the emotion is stuck, you may need to see a counsellor or psychologist.
Susan Marcuccio
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(Stroebe and Schut)
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Personal Growth & DevelopmentWhere are you now?
Rise in leadership and/or re
sponsibility
Personal growth & development
GAP
Susan Marcuccio
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Your Action Plan
Susan Marcuccio
Imagine yourself in six/twelve months time…
Who would you like to be?
What would you like to have achieved?
Who can assist you with this?
What is your plan now?”
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CER A
EMPOWERMENT.• Living authentically• Having a voice• Integrated self care• Flourishing in life• Living life to the full• Doing that which sparks life• Nourishing your soul
SELF CARE MODEL - Nourishing Self
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Being empowered and having a voice
Susan Marcuccio
ACTIVITY:• Draw yourself – add anything else that helps this to be uniquely you
• Right now:• Mouth - What do you want to say?• Ears - What do you want to hear?• Eyes - What do you want to see?• Nose - What do you want to smell? • Brain - What do you want to think or think about? • Hands - What do you want to do? • Feet - Where do you want to go? • Heart - What is in your heart? • Arms - Where do you get your strength?• Additions - What is significant about these?
• What has emerged from this activity – themes etc?
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Connection
AwarenessResponse
Empowerment
SELF CARE MODEL - Nourishing Self
Susan Marcuccio
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CARE MODEL – Nurturing Others
CONNECTION.• Safe brave space• Fully present• Clear role/s• Listening• Empathy• Compassion• Communication• Non-judgemental• Validate feelings• Boundaries
CER A
Susan Marcuccio
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AWARENESS.• What’s happening for them?• What’s really going on?• How are they feeling?• What they not saying?• Is there loss & grief?• Are there duty of care issues?• Physical & emotional• Cognitive & spiritual• Worldview, meaning, values
CARE MODEL – Nurturing Others
CER A
Susan Marcuccio
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RESPONSE.• What do they need?• How can you help?• What can you do?• What must you do?• Ethical/legal? • Resources or referrals?• Provide comfort• Provide support • Provide care
CARE MODEL – Nurturing Others
CER A
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EMPOWER.• Healthy boundaries• Avoiding enmeshment• Avoiding co-dependency• Self esteem• Not trying to fix• Their options• Their solutions• Their decisions• Their support options• Follow up
CER A
CARE MODEL – Nurturing Others
Susan Marcuccio
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