1. Guy: "Can I offer you a drink?"
• She hears: He doesn't think he's worthy of starting a conversation with me, so he's trying to buy my attention for five bucks.
• Don’t get me wrong here, she might of course appreciate a drink after you initiated the conversation.
2. Guy: "Are you single? Can I take you out sometime?"
• She's thinking: He didn't even bother to learn anything about me before offering to take me out. He just assumed that I'm worth taking out.
• This guy might be really desperate. He might have low standards. He might be only interested in sex. He thinks I'm better than him.
• Once again, it may appropriate ask that question after you've talked with her for a while.
3. Guy: "You're so beautiful. You're the most amazing woman I've ever met."
She's thinking: Why is he kissing my ass so much?
• Maybe he's never really talked to a pretty girl before. Must be a loser.
• Women meet these types of guys all the time.
Typically, the nice guy makes some kind of offer, acts submissively; then the woman politely declines, and tells her friends there was "just no spark."