dj fuji t21c 2010
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The Tao of DJ FujiThe 21 ConventionJuly 2010
2009 Review: Fundamentals DATE Model Fundamentals Eliminating Flakes Not Ejecting Pushing Comfort Zones Qualification
2010: Call to Action What’s Changed in a Year The What and The How Defining and Implementing the
Fundamentals Improving Progress/Game/Life
Ground Rules Write Down & Hold Questions Until End Forget Everything You Know About
Game Participation For Those Watching at Home
DATE RevisitedAction & Aggressiveness
Discipline
1 Example Where You Lack Discipline
How & When Will You Fix it?
Aggressiveness
A Specific Area Where You Should Be More Aggressive
How & When Will You Fix it?
Training
1 Reason You use for not Taking Training
How & When Will You Fix This?
Execution
1 Way You Fail to Execute
How & When Will You Fix it?
Hierarchy of Skills Body Language and Sub-Communication Social and Conversational Skills Teasing and Humor Leading Kino and Physical Contact Flirting and Showing Interest Rapport and Connection Seduction and Sex Relationship Management
Approach AnxietyReal World Solutions Opening the First Set The Goal is to Open Get a Sponsor Index Card Portable Coach
"Are you here to get the girl or get the skill? If it’s skill, then why does a rejection matter? Does it have any effect on your life whatsoever? Do not let fear control your life. The fear is an illusion. Don’t let illusions hold you back from achieving your goals."
-DJ Fuji
Index Card Coach
Practical Inner Game Actions Influence Beliefs Approach Direct Perception is Reality
Evidence for your beliefs Reframing non-helpful beliefs You are not your results
Fashion Fundamentals Fit Accent Pieces Stereotypes
Dominance and Leading Take on Leadership Positions Lead Socially Commit 100% - “Act as if”
Conversational Jiu-Jitsu Word Association Thread Cutting Monologues Investment Value Cycling Steering Conversational Topics
Goals & Obstacles Identify, Pursue, Attain, Reset. Pursue Unapologetically Failure isn’t the Absence of Success. It’s
the Absence of Persistence Always Err on the Side of Action “I Can’t”