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DISCUSSION TIME
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The Pains of Growing Up
•A sense of identity •Puberty •Maturing •Peer Pressure •Coming of Age •Crave Excitement •Taking chances
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Questions for Discussion
•What was difficult about your life as a teenager?
•What kinds of bad things did you do with your friends?
•What kinds of things did you argue with your parents about when you were growing up?
•What kind of things did you worry about when you were a teenager?
•What kinds of things do you worry about now?
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High School Life •That is where the similarities end •Personal belongings •Religious schools •Coeducational schools •Socialize •Academic colleges•Commercial colleges•Wide range of sports •School Curriculum •Part-time jobs
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Questions for Discussions
•1. What was your high school life like? Do you look at it as a time of happiness?
•2. How has your personality changed from when you were in high school to now?
•3. What are the differences between American and Korean high schools? How about universities?
•4. Who was your favorite teacher in high school or middle school and why?
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Coeducation
•Single-sex•Envy•Hugging and kissing •Distraction •School Districts •Radical Idea •Goes against tradition•Public/Private Schools
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Questions for Discussions
•What arguments could you make for separating boys and girls in public schools?
•What arguments could you make for making schools co-educational?
•Which policy do you think is the best for Korean schools and why?
•What kind of schools do you want to send your children too?
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Fashion
•Hang out •Designer Goods •People in their 20s •Debt •Show off •Fakes / Imitations •Second Hand •Impress
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Questions for Discussion
1. What kind of brands do you like to purchase?
2. If you had a lot of money, what kind of brands would you like to buy?
3. How important is fashion to your life? 4. What are your key tips to being
fashionable? 5. Why are many Koreans obsessed with
designer goods?
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Dating
•Having a crush •Instantly •Controversial •Curious •They are the exception •Don’t care
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Discussion Questions
1. Who was your biggest crush in middle school, high school, or university? How long did it last?
2. When is it the best time for people to start dating and why?
3. How do your parents feel about going out on dates?
4. Should the boy pay or should it be dutch? 5. Describe the perfect date with your
crush.
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Sex Education
1. Embarrassed, ashamed, or shy2. Taboo subject 3. Open society 4. The birds and the bees 5. Transition 6. Unwanted pregnancy 7. Abortion 8. Emotions 9. Romantic Love 10.Just a fact of life
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Discussion Questions
•At what age should sex education be taught? Middle school or high school?
•When did you first take sex education classes?
•Do you think AIDS is a danger to Korean society?
•How do most Korean teenagers learn about sex education?
•What do you feel about abortion? Is it legal or illegal in Korea?
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Going to College
•Competition is fierce •Graduate •Flunk out •Extracurricular activities •Tough job market •What you get out of it depends on what
you put in...• In this respect...
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Questions for Discussion •Why did you choose your major? •How important were your parent’s opinion
in choosing your university or major? •Do you think all high school students should
go to college? •Did any of your friends not go to college? If
so, what are they doing now? •What do you want to do after graduation? •So far, what have you learned the most from
your university education?
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Family and Social Relationships
•Turn into / changed into / morphed •Close relationships •Guanxi •Nepotism / Favoritism •Breaking away – I feel she is breaking
away. •Center of entertainment, center of
technology, center of finance •Pressures of life, Pressures of ….. • Just do what it takes……
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Discussion Questions
1. How many people are in your family? 2. Are you the only child, first child, middle
child, or the last child? Whatever your position, do you think it has effected your personality?
3. What personal problems would you never talk to your parents about and why?
4. What do you think is the meaning of being a good parent?
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Friends
•Influenced by….•Inseparable •Childhood friends / University friends •Best Friends •Acquaintance / Friend •Comfort and support
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Discussion Questions
1. Who is our one best friend and how did you meet?
2. How many close friends do you have? 3. What is the greatest thing a friend has
ever done for you? 4. Do you also consider some of your friends
as rivals? 5. What kind of responsibilities come from
being a true friend?
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Choosing a Career
•Career •Swamped with….•Talents and interests•Enjoying •Rest of your life…..•Job related to your major…..
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Discussion Questions
•What is your dream job and why? •What are the most important factors for
you in your career decision? Money, respect, pleasure?
•How important will English be in your future and career?
•What jobs do you think will have the brightest opportunities in the future?
•What jobs do you think will have weak demand in the future?
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Animation movies
•Looks so realistic, realistically, …•Blockbuster, low-budget movie •Feature, featuring, …•Those days are over….•Standard….standardization…. •Alien landscape, beautiful landscape, •Bright future, dark future, good prospects •Replace, one day they will replace
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Discussion questions
•What kind of video games do you play? Why is the game fun? What is the game like?
•What were your favorite animation movies and why? Who were some of your favorite characters?
•Can you compare the style and differences of American animation versus Japanese animation versus Korean animation?
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Dangers of smoking
•Regular smoker, I am a regular….•Deadly diseases, lung cancer•Addictive, habit forming, non addictive •Peer pressure •Appear like grownups, appear smart,
appear rich •Lifetime smoker, lifetime member •Secondhand smoke •It is too late, it will be too late
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Discussion questions
•Do you smoke? If so, when did you start? •How much do you smoke? What kind of
cigarettes do you smoke? Why do you smoke?
•Should women be allowed to smoke in public like men?
•What do Koreans think of women who smoke? Do you think it is acceptable?
•How do you feel about electronic cigarettes?
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Private Institutes
•Put a stop to …. rumors, public tutoring, etc.
•Private tutoring, private tutor, etc. •Fee, costs, price, bill, ….•Legal, illegal, unethical, morally wrong,
right on principle, by my conscience •Crackdown •Arrested, jail, prison, thrown into…•School expenses •Role models
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Discussion questions
•Does private education favor wealthy families? How has the government tried to break this trend?
•What hagwons have you attended? Were they beneficial?
•Who is your role model and why? •Is it possible for a student to get a high
score on the college entrance exam without studying at a private institute? Why or why not?
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Learning English
•Written English •Times have changed •That’s cool, That made my day! •Native speakers •Elementary school, middle school, junior
high, high school •Language Fluency •Comprehend / Understand /
Comprehension
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Discussion Questions
•When did you first began learning English?
•Why do you like English? Or, hate English?
•Why is English important in Korea? And to your life?
•What is the main reason why you are studying English now?
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•How do you feel about English being the international language of business? Do you think it is unfair?
•Do you think that in the future, English will continue to be important?
•Do Koreans think English is more important that it actually is to your lives?
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Cars and Driving
•Take the course •Legal age to...•Courteous, courteously, polite, politely...•Driver’s permit, learner’s permit, driver’s
license •Public transportation
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Discussion Questions
•Have you learned how to drive? •Do you have a car, if so what kind? •Do you think women are worse drivers
than men? •Please describe your dream car. •Have you ever been in a car accident? •Do you think that everyone should have a
car, or could you live without a car?
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Animals and Pets
•Guard against burglars •Robbery •Shoplifting •Loyal •Milk section, dairy aisle •Adopt •Benefit •Full-time job
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Discussion Questions 1. Are you an animal lover? If so, why do you
like animals? If not, why don’t you like animals?
2. What was your favorite pet ever? Please describe it and also why you liked it.
3. Which animals should never be eaten as food? Why not?
4. How do you feel about Koreans eating man’s best friend?
5. Which animal is the smartest? Why do you think so?
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City Life, Country Life
•Lure •Transition •Industrialized – G20 •Rapid development •Cut in half •Work is never done •Urban area / Rural area
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Discussion Questions
•What is your favorite city in the world and why?
•What was the most beautiful city you have ever been too?
•Let me know the pros and cons of living in the city versus the countryside.
•What can people do for fun in the countryside that city people can’t do?
•What are the benefits of living in a big city?
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Computers
•Chance’s for success •Software •Hard drive, external hard drive •One big advantage ….. •Makes learning easier than ever before
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Discussion Questions
•What kind of computer do you have? •Can you tell me about the technical
specifications of your computer? •When buying a computer, what are the
most important points? •What is better, Mac or PC? •Some people think that computers or
tablets will one day replace books in schools. What do you think?
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Professional Sports
•Root for, cheer for, root •National pastime •Missionaries, pastor, preacher •Team sports, individual sports, •To name just a few, check list, laundry list•MLB, NHL, NBA, NFL, NCAA
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Discussion Questions
•What sports do you like and why? •Who is your favorite team? •Who is your favorite athlete? •What is Korea’s national pastime sport? •Have you ever been to a real live event? •Do you think famous sports figures
deserve to make huge salaries? Why or why not?
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Hobbies and Interests
•Free time, leisure time •I have put in long hours…•To relax my mind •Neglect school work, neglect friendships •The drawback, the disadvantage, the
negative part, only bad part about it is….
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Discussion Questions
•Do you have a hobby or special interest? If so, what is it, and how man hours per week do you spend doing it?
•Do you think its possible for students to study too much? Have you ever studied too much? Is there a drawback in efficiency when studying too much?
•What hobby of a friend is the strangest you know of?
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Fast Food
•Franchise restaurants •Chain restaurants •Family restaurants •Steakhouse •Fast Food •Sipping •Korea Diet •Nutritional value, nutrition
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Discussion Questions
1. What is your favorite kind of fast food? 2. Why do some Koreans vicariously like
watching someone eat food online? 3. What is the future of fast food in Korea?
Grow or decline? 4. Why do many young people like western
food more than Korean food? 5. What kind of snacks did Koreans eat
before western snacks and candies?