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From “Surviving to
Thriving:” Tips for Remote
LearningSarah Kennedy, MSW, Home
to School Liaison
Fern Seiden, MSW, System of Care Coordinator
December 14, 2020
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Managing Conflict and
Responding to Behavior
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Three part series:Session 1:
Session 2:
Session 3:
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Tools and Strategies○
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Review of Last Week
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Types of Stress: Levels of Stress
Response Arousal
The pandemic is a form of stress, and it’s severity is dependent on other factors. For many, COVID is traumatic!
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Resiliency: Protective
Factors
Resiliency occurs when youth have:
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●Check out the Search Institute website for families to help with building resiliency.
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Attunement: Connect and
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Connect and respond
emotionally before attempting to
activate the EF skills of regulation
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Facial Expressions Includes intense expressions as well as lack of expressiveness
Tone of Voice Higher-pitched, louder, softer
Extent of Speech Becoming very verbose, very quiet; rate of speech
Quality of Speech Organization, maturity (example: regression)
Posturing What does body look like (curled up, fists clenched, muscles tense/loose)?
Approach vs. Avoidance
Does child get withdrawn/overly clingy?
Affect Modulation Capacity
Harder time being soothed, and/or self-soothing?
Mood Does mood overtly change (example: normally even tempered, but becomes more labile in the face of intense emotions)?
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Collaborative and Proactive Solutions:
PLAN B!
All behavior is communication.
Plan A -
Plan C
Plan B - CPS - Work to:
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The Importance of Smaller Steps
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Six Steps to Safety
● Reflect○
● Validate○
● Replace○
● Comfort○
● Engage○
● Praise○
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Consistent Response
● Ignore● Limit Setting● Praise
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Ignore the Behavior, not
the Person
Actively not attending to undesirable behaviors that are not immediately dangerous
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Limit Setting
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Limit Setting, Continued
Choose your moments!
Be aware of triggers!
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What does your teenager control? What do you control?
Their friends
Their choices around drugs and alcohol
Their engagement in school
Their activity level
Almost everything in their lives, when you are not around!
Your attitude - positivity -
Your language and behavior!
How you manage your emotions and attitude, even when they are negative
Where you focus your attention
How you demonstrate an interest in their interestsHow you model your values
Love them “no matter what and even if…”
Provide them with love, food, shelter, clothing...and extras!
Control - Understand what is in
your control and Your
Teenager’s Control
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When your child or teen is
angry
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Praise●●●●●
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The Importance of Creating
Joyful Moments
Create and Plan Joyful Moments with Intention
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COVID asks us to find joy in small moments
and commonplace activities.
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It’s so important to have tools! ➢
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When to seek help...
➢ Emotions or behaviors that are intense and persistent
➢ Excessive anxiety➢ Increased aggression or disruptive behaviors➢ Regressive behaviors
○ That don’t resolve with support or that you feel overwhelmed by
Resource GuideYour Life, Your VoiceTeens - Speak with a counselor for free by calling 1-800-448-3000Text with a counselor for free by texting VOICE to 20121 everyday noon to midnightSeize the AwkwardReach the Crisis Text Line by typing SEIZE to 741741 or call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at (800)273-8255
Mobile Crisis Response Team - Harbor Care - 603-816- 0101
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Resources