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Creative mentoring ETC Group Belgrade, November 30th, 2012 Charlotta Wikström

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Creative mentoring. ETC Group Belgrade , November 30th, 2012 Charlotta Wikström. My ” commercial ”. VP Group HR Director at Eniro Second book. Mentorship Author. Degree Economics Scandinavian Airlines, 15 yrs Telia NASDAQ/OMX MSA Law Firm. Management Consultant. - PowerPoint PPT Presentation

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Creative mentoringETC Group

Belgrade, November 30th, 2012

Charlotta Wikström

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My ”commercial”

•Degree Economics•Scandinavian Airlines, 15 yrs•Telia•NASDAQ/OMX•MSA Law Firm

MentorshipAuthor

VP GroupHR Directorat Eniro

Second bookManagementConsultant

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If you like to walk fast – walk alone

If you like to walk far – walk together

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Today’s agenda• Origins of mentorship• Definitions• Roles and responsibilities• Matching mentors and mentees• Pitfalls and success factors

• The ”dart board” model• Modules• Get started• Q&A session

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Objectives

• To inspire• To give practical tips

– Mentoring process and concept– Personal and professional development

• To guide you to successful and ”profitable” mentoring programme

• Contribute to the development of your society

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Origins of mentorship

• Mentor – Greek mytholgy, Homer´s epic The Odyssey

• Mentee– A specially selected apprentice. The primary

driving force is a will to develop personally.

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Increasing interest in Mentorship

Why?

• A shift in values in society• Time to reflect and contemplate• More complex leadership roles• Knowledge transfer • Mentoring as an alternative to education• A winning concept

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A winning concept

1. Dialogue 2. Tailor-made for the mentee3. Possibility to experience new insights in own

environment4. The time perspective – learning for life

Experience

Train

Understand

Reflect

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Coaching or mentoring?

• Mentor – life experience• Coach –coaching experience

• Mentor – leaning back• Coaching – leaning forward

• Mentor - works for free• Coaching - a profession

• Mentorship – helicopter perspective• Coaching – results-oriented

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The essence of mentorship

”Dialogue is the art of thinking together

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The mentor’s role and responsibilities

• Being present• Interesting speaking partner and listener • Inspiration and challenges• Willingness to share and to see the mentee grow• Engaged in the mentee’s situation • Network• Sound judgement• Patience• Have time – take time

The mentor is responsible for the process

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A good mentor…• …Says things you might not want to hear, but which give you

the feeling of being listened to• …Is someone who is credible and has integrity• …Interacts with you in a way that makes you want to go forward• …Makes you feel safe enough to take risks• …Gives you the confidence to dare to surpass your own limits

and challenge your fears• …Supports you in setting goals you never dared to express

yourself• … Shows you the challenges and opportunities that never

occured to you

(Harvard Business Review 2008/01)

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The mentee’s roles and responsibilities

• Clarify your aims and goals– Personal– Professional

• Use the mentor as an asset and really work between meetings• Take responsibility for your own development• Come to the meetings prepared• Put yourself in the centre, be ”egoistic”• Ask all your questions (there aren’t any stupid ones)• Put your new knowledge and insight into practice

The mentee is responsible for the content

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Matching

•Personality?•Background/Professional accomplishments ?•Objectives of the Mentee?

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• Respect and trust

• Personality is more important than expert knowledge

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Pitfalls

• Mentee pitfalls– Does not use the mentor fully– Does not take responsibilty for making the relationship work– Does not come prepared for meetings– Lets time pass

• Mentor pitfalls– Mom/Dad– Buddy– Nice friend– Goal definer– Leadership counsellor– Underestimates the time needed

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The loyalty issue

Q: Is the mentor commissioned by the mentee´s employer (if any) or by the mentee?

A: By the mentee!

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Success factors

• Define goal and objectives• Get support from a sponsor• Be prepared to set aside time• Select and match carefully

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Define goals and objectives

”Imagine running the 100 metres without a finishing tape” (W. Railo, 1998)

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Creative Mentorship Program• The aim of the project is to encourage life-long learning

through the informal exchange of knowledge and experience between individuals active in the field of culture and education.

– Development of the mentor concept as a method of personal development

– Creation and development of a network – Promotion of the idea of the life-long learning through exchange of

knowledge

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Your own goals

• Personal?• Professional?

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Structure and method are essential

”mentorship is not about chit-chatting over a cup of coffee: it’s

about personal development”

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The dart board – Structure and method

Time line - start

Goal

Topic for discussion: the world around us

Topic for discussion: relationships

Topic for discussion: me and my personal development

Organization

Department

Individual

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Discussion topics (modules)for leadership programme

1. Introductory meeting2. Organisation’s goals, strategies och leadership

3. Manager or team leader4. Good leadership5. Poor leadership6. Overambitious girls7. Study visit

8. Work-life balance9. The importance of networks10. The future11. Summary and conclusions

Example

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2. As a mentor, what would you like to share with a mentee?

1. Write down some discussion topics / questions which you as a mentee would like to discuss with your mentor

Workshop

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Many mentors say ……

• The mistakes I’ve made in my life• To help mentees find their true motives• To teach mentees to be thoughtfulness

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Module: Introductory meeting

• Mentee’s expectations of the programme• Setting concrete goals• Ground rules– confidentiality and contracts– where and when we’ll meet – taking notes or not– other practicalities

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Module: Handling conflict

• with manager• with direct reports • with team or collegue

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The Giraffe LanguageExample

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• I EXPERIENCE …..

• The CONSEQUENCE of this is …..

• Therefore I PROPOSE …..

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Module: The importance of networking• Introduction to the topic– why are networks important?– the economy of networks

• Reflections– what does the mentee’s network look like in the local

municipality, in other municipalities?– what contacts are missing and why?– how can the mentee use their network in their job?

• Exercises– network map– defining five important contacts that are missing

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Mentee

Network mappingProfessional

Personal

Utbildning

SläktVänner

Fritiden

Mannheimer Swartling

StockholmsbörsenTelia

SAS

JKLProducenterna

Madeleine Lars GRalf

Biörn FredrikAnders

Urban

Anne

Katarina

Näverket ”Marknadsledarna”

Röda Korset

Cecilia ERA-mäklarna

GymnasietUniversitetet

IHR

Vanja

SOS Barnbyar

Pappa

KungsledenMillesgården

Maria

Industrivärden

Anne

Gillan

Agneta & Johan

Market CapThomas

If

Elisabeth

SHR

Ingrid

Ishockeyn

Ridningen

NK

Charlotte

”tjejgänget”HeleneAgnetaLinda

BirgittaKerstin

Konsulter

Gunilla

Kenny

Barnensskolor

IDG

Johan

IT bolagen

Stefan B

Example

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Module: Work-life balance

• Work life• Private life• Own space

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The priority matrix

IMPORTANTLess important More important

URGENT

More

Less

Do now!

Wait!

Example

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Mentee• Greater self-insight and greater appreciation of

your strengths and weaknesses• Learn to formulate goals for the future• Prepare for future challenges • Equipped with a concrete toolbox• Set aside special time for contemplation and

reflection• Extended network• Life-long friendship

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Culture and education field and the Country• Mature and discerning employees and leaders in the field

of culture and education to start with

• Extended networking within and outside own field, organization and country

• Extended knowledge about mentoring which can be spread to other fields; companies, organizations, student organizations and institutions

• Transfer positive outcomes of the mentorship process.

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Mentors

• Gain insight into the attitudes and values of the next generation

• Personal satisfaction from taking part in and contributing to the growth of the mentee

• Opportunity for personal learning and problem-solving by confronting own old truths

• Reinforce own network• Boost own position

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And it’s fun!

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Mentorship combines in a unique way

benefits to organizations and companies with personal development

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Practical tips to get started

• Book your meetings right away!• Mentee writes a diary • Meet more frequently at the beginning• Neutral place• Mentee selects discussion topics• Mentor ready with ”back-up” suggestions for

topics• Formal ending after one year• Voluntary informal continuation

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How can you use the book?

• templates and forms to get started• suggested ways to formulate goals• questioning technigques for

mentors• proposed structure for one-year

programme• discussion topics• concrete examples and exercises• crib sheets and check lists• evaluation forms• … and much more …

Source of inspirationEncyclopediaImportant topics

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”You never stop needing a mentor”

(Helene Larsson, Sponsor, Swedish Embassy in Belgrad)

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Thank you and I wish you all good luck!

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