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A Generation on the Sidelines
Bob ShawSt. Paul Pioneer Press
March 22, 2009
“Once a rite of passage, playing school sports is becoming a thing of the past for many
Minnesota kids. Today’s athletics eat up too much time and money and, for many youth,
they aren’t even much fun anymore.
Like a marathon runner with a leg cramp, school athletics are hitting a wall.
A study by the Pioneer Press shows thatthe percentage of Minnesota boys and girls who participate in school-sponsored sports
has dropped by more than half in one generation.”
Losing
• Damage self-confidence
• Reluctance to try -- withdraw
• Stuck in comfort zone – fear of taking healthy risks
"It is not the critic who counts: not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles or where the doer of deeds could have done better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly, who errs and comes up short again and again, because there is no effort without error or shortcoming, but who knows the great enthusiasms, the great devotions, who spends himself for a worthy cause; who, at the best, knows, in the end, the triumph of high achievement, and who, at the worst, if he fails, at least he fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who knew neither victory nor defeat.”
- Theodore Roosevelt
How’d Ya Do?
1. Did you win or lose? 2. Did you have fun?3. Did you learn anything?4. Did you improve since last time?
How’d Ya Do?
1. Did you win or lose? 2. Did you have fun?3. Did you learn anything?4. Did you improve since last time?5. Did you help a teammate succeed?
How’d Ya Do?
1. Did you win or lose? 2. Did you have fun?3. Did you learn anything?4. Did you improve since last time?5. Did you help a teammate succeed? 6. Did you conduct yourself well?
How’d Ya Do?
1. Did you win or lose? 2. Did you have fun?3. Did you learn anything?4. Did you improve since last time?5. Did you help a teammate succeed? 6. Did you conduct yourself well? 7. Did you do your best?
Friday Night Lights
“Being perfect is not about that scoreboard out there. It’s not about winning….Being perfect is about being able to look your friends in the eye and know that you didn’t let them down because you told them the truth. And the truth is that you did everything you could…”
Coach Carter
“You have to humiliate your opponent….What gives you the right to take the game that I love with trash talk and taunting?”
How’d Ya Do?
1. Did you win or lose? 2. Did you have fun?3. Did you learn anything?4. Did you improve since last time?5. Did you help a teammate succeed? 6. Did you conduct yourself well? 7. Did you do your best? 8. Did you appreciate anything about your opponent?9. Did you develop any Star Qualities?
Star Qualities
• Self-confident: believing in myself, my abilities • Risk-taking: taking the difficult road to expand my Comfort Zone • Self-Motivated: getting myself started • Responsible: being dependable; someone others can count on • Self-Disciplined: taking control of myself • Flexibility: adapting to change and the stress created by it • Toughness: dealing with adversity, when things aren’t going my way • Courageous: responding in spite of fear or lack of confidence• Commitment: putting forth my full effort • Focus: keeping my attention on the task or goal • Persistent: sticking with the job until it is finished • Patience: realizing that success often doesn’t come easily
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‘Getting-through-life’ Star Qualities
1. Asking for help
2. Dealing with DFLIs and Dwannas
DFLIs = Don’t Feel Like It
Dwanna = Don’t want to
Negative Mental Habits
• Roadblocks to success, potential
• The “anti-Star Qualities”
-Self doubt-Apathetic-Judgmental-Angry-Sarcastic-Boredom-Procrastination
-Irresponsible-Unreliable-Hopeless-Pessimistic-Worried-Anxious-Jealous
How’d Ya Do?
1. Did you win or lose? 2. Did you have fun?3. Did you learn anything?4. Did you improve since last time?5. Did you help a teammate succeed? 6. Did you conduct yourself well? 7. Did you do your best? 8. Did you appreciate anything about your opponent?9. Did you develop any Star Qualities?
How’d the Coach Do?
1. Did you win or lose? 2. Did you have fun?3. Did you learn anything?4. Did you improve since last time?5. Did you help someone succeed? 6. Did you conduct yourself well? 7. Did you do your best? 8. Did you appreciate anything about your opponent?9. Did you develop any Star Qualities?