COUNSELLINGCOUNSELLING

Mr. Upendra YadavMr. Upendra Yadav

Associate ProfessorAssociate Professor

Depart. of Child Health Nursing,Depart. of Child Health Nursing,

College of Nursing, BPKIHSCollege of Nursing, BPKIHS

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Meaning of CounselingMeaning of Counseling It is helping relationship which includes It is helping relationship which includes

someone seeking help, someone seeking help, someone willing to help,someone willing to help, capable and trained to help, capable and trained to help, In a setting that permits help to be given and received.In a setting that permits help to be given and received.

Both are not synonymous terms. Counseling is the Both are not synonymous terms. Counseling is the part of guidance, not all of it. Counseling as a group part of guidance, not all of it. Counseling as a group of service which make up the guidance programme of service which make up the guidance programme generally accepted.generally accepted.

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Concept of Counseling Concept of Counseling

It is relationship of two person, in which one of It is relationship of two person, in which one of them attempts to assist other is organizing himself to them attempts to assist other is organizing himself to attainattain

An accepted, trusting and safe relationship and An accepted, trusting and safe relationship and client openly discuss their problem andclient openly discuss their problem and

acquires the social skills courage self confidence.acquires the social skills courage self confidence. The relationship between two person i.e. counselor The relationship between two person i.e. counselor

(professionally trained person) and counselee.(professionally trained person) and counselee. To develop a set of goals for future behaviors of To develop a set of goals for future behaviors of

individuals.individuals.

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DefinitionDefinition

Counseling Counseling is a method that helps client to is a method that helps client to use a problem solving process to recognize use a problem solving process to recognize and manage stress and that facilities and manage stress and that facilities interpersonalinterpersonal relationship among client family relationship among client family and health care system.and health care system.

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DefinitionDefinition ( ..)Conti( ..)Conti

““A Series of direct contacts with individuals A Series of direct contacts with individuals which aims to offer him assistant in changing which aims to offer him assistant in changing his attitute and behaviour”. his attitute and behaviour”. Carl RogersCarl Rogers

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PP urposes of urposes ofCCounsellingounselling1.1. EEncourage to think about problem and ncourage to think about problem and

understand the cause.understand the cause.

2.2. Enables to take action to solve problem.Enables to take action to solve problem.

3.3. Action taken by individual itself but may be Action taken by individual itself but may be guidedguided

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Needs of counseling Needs of counseling 1.1. To help the client to accept or impeding change To help the client to accept or impeding change

that are resulting from stress (psychological, that are resulting from stress (psychological, emotional, intellectual and spiritual support)emotional, intellectual and spiritual support)

2.2. To foster cognitive, behavioral development To foster cognitive, behavioral development emotional growth in clientemotional growth in client

3.3. To encourage and develop special abilities and To encourage and develop special abilities and right attitudesright attitudes

4.4. To assist the students in planning for educational To assist the students in planning for educational and vocational choicesand vocational choices

5.5. To help students in the proper choice of course To help students in the proper choice of course according to the interest, aptitude and intelligence according to the interest, aptitude and intelligence of the students.of the students.

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6.6. To help the students to grow , explore and To help the students to grow , explore and maintain or develop their overall personality.maintain or develop their overall personality.

7.7. To develop readiness for choice and change to To develop readiness for choice and change to face new challenge.face new challenge.

8.8. To motivate the student for self-employment.To motivate the student for self-employment.

9.9. To help the students in the period of confusion.To help the students in the period of confusion.

10.10. To help the students in need of special help.To help the students in need of special help.

Needs of counseling ,cont----

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Skill required for effective counselingSkill required for effective counseling

1.1. Active listeningActive listening2.2. RespectingRespecting3.3. Simple acceptanceSimple acceptance4.4. IdentificationIdentification5.5. Structuring and prioritizationStructuring and prioritization6.6. Nondirective leadNondirective lead7.7. QuestioningQuestioning8.8. InterpretationInterpretation9.9. ParaphrasingParaphrasing10.10. Advice and suggestionAdvice and suggestion11.11. Reassurance of praiseReassurance of praise12.12. SummarizingSummarizing13.13. empathyempathy

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Qualities of a counselor Qualities of a counselor

1.1. IPRIPR: friendly, sympathetic, fairness, sincerity, : friendly, sympathetic, fairness, sincerity, patience, tactfulness, attentive listener, patience, tactfulness, attentive listener, confidentiality, respectful, tolerance, acceptance, confidentiality, respectful, tolerance, acceptance, caring nature.caring nature.

2.2. Personal adjustmentPersonal adjustment: mature behavior, integrated : mature behavior, integrated personality, emotional stability, flexibility and personality, emotional stability, flexibility and adaptability, mentally and physically sound, sense adaptability, mentally and physically sound, sense of humor, confidence, knowledgeable.of humor, confidence, knowledgeable.

3.3. Scholastic potentiality and educational Scholastic potentiality and educational backgroundbackground: broad knowledge and skills related to : broad knowledge and skills related to counseling process, well motivated and committed, counseling process, well motivated and committed, capacity to work, positive interest.capacity to work, positive interest.11/04/2311/04/23 1010

Qualities Qualities ( ..)Conti( ..)Conti4.4. Health and Personal appearance: pleasing voice Health and Personal appearance: pleasing voice

and appearance, neat and clean.and appearance, neat and clean.5.5. Leadership: ability to lead others, reinforcement , Leadership: ability to lead others, reinforcement ,

direct the counselee, problem solving, guide to direct the counselee, problem solving, guide to choose the decision.choose the decision.

6.6. Philosophy of life: Good character, positive Philosophy of life: Good character, positive philosophy of life, civic sense, faith in human and philosophy of life, civic sense, faith in human and religious value.religious value.

7.7. Professional dedication: professional attitude, Professional dedication: professional attitude, loyalty, enthusiasm, strong sense of professional loyalty, enthusiasm, strong sense of professional ethics and professional growth, maintain helping ethics and professional growth, maintain helping relationship.relationship.

8.8. Have a high sense of morality.Have a high sense of morality.11/04/2311/04/23 1111

Thank YouThank You

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