conflict resolution with family or friends win -win solutions edited by: teresa griffin, oak canyon...
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Conflict Resolutionwith
Family or Friends
Win -Win Solutions
Edited by:
Teresa Griffin, Oak Canyon Junior High
and students Annie Madsen, Lindsay Clegg
Definitions
Conflict: Two people disagree on something.
Conflict Resolution: Resolves conflicts in a positive way, by
understanding others point of view.
Win-Win Conflict Resolution: A compromise so everyone will win. Avoids competition and arguing.
What Doesn’t Work to Resolve Conflicts?• Yelling, • Refusing to work
out the conflict,• Name calling, • Hitting, • Most Passive and
Aggressive Behaviors.
3 Behavior Styles used in
Relationshipsto resolve conflict
1.Aggressive2.Passive 3.Assertive
Aggressive BehaviorMy rights are more important
than other people’s rights!
My Attitude: “I’m never wrong”
“Everyone should be like me”
Passive BehaviorI consider others rights, not my
own.
I don’t express my true feelings,
and always agree with others.
Assertive Behavior Win-Win attitude -- Everybody
wins something
I listen to others, but still stand up for myself.
Lose-Lose: The Downward Spiral You Lose ---- Other Person Loses
Lose-Win: The Door-Mat You Lose --- Other Person Wins
Win-Lose: The Bulldozer You Win - Other Person Loses
Win-Win: The All You Can Eat Buffet You Win - Other Person Wins
Win-Win
Solutions
Lose-Lose “The downward spiral”
This is when nobody wins and the conflict is not solved.
Win-Lose“The Bulldozer”
One person wins,
the other loses.
You Win - Other Person Loses
Lose-Win“The doormat”
One person wins, the other loses.
You Lose --- Other Person Wins
Win-Win“The All You Can Eat Buffet!!”--
Each person gets what they want!
Both people win and the conflict is resolved!
Goldilocks and Three Bears Conflict
In order to solve problems, you will need to be able to
see things from several points of
view! Can you do it?
Eskimo or Indian?
Young or OldWoman?
What do you see? Anything else?
Brainstorm all possible solutions to solve problems using win-win
solutions Think of any and all possible ways to solve the
problem so that everyone will win something and be happy!
Evaluate later NOT NOW
Do not criticize any suggestion until it is time to evaluate and make a decision.
Hug O’War by Shel Silverstein
I will not play a tug o' warI'd rather play a hug o' war,
Where everyone hugsInstead of tugs
Where everyone gigglesAnd rolls on the rug,
Where everyone kissesAnd everyone grins
And everyone cuddlesAnd everyone wins.