coffee dates 101
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CAMPUS ENGAGEMENT:
COFFEE DATES 101
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WHAT IS A COFFEE DATE
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A COFFEE DATE IS
• Face-to-face meeting
• Casual location
• Explore potential for working
relationship
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WHY GO ON COFFEE DATES
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COFFEE DATES HELP YOU
• Expand your campus network
• Broaden reach of your group
• Diversify support of your group
• Offer new/creative programing opportunities
• Create genuine partnerships
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WHO TO TAKE ON A COFFEE DATE
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CONSIDERING WHO TO TAKE
• Define your goals
• Think strategically
• What are you accomplishing by meeting
with him/her?
• Map out your campus beforehand
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PREPPING FOR THE MEETING
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PREP WORK BEFORE MEETING
• Do you have anything in common?
• Who/what connected you?
• Think of 3 conversation topics
• What are successful outcomes of the
conversation?
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GETTING THE DATE
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GETTING TO ‘YES’
• Show you value the other person
• Be direct
• Use your network
• Invite to coffee/lunch
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DURING COFFEE
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CONVERSATION FLOW
Opener
Connection
Conversation
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ADDITIONAL TIPS
• Body language
• Be present
• Create a safe space
• Ask open and honest questions
• 60/40 rule
They talk 60%
You talk 40%
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WHEN DOES ISRAEL COME UP
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DISCUSSING ISRAEL
• Don’t use talking points; share stories
• Be a character witness
• Be authentic, honest, and reasonable
• Demonstrate empathy
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AFTER THE COFFEE DATE
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FOLLOW UP
• Send a thank you email
• Invite on second coffee date
• Invite to group meeting
• Attend their group’s meeting
• Explore further opportunities for engagement
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THE LATTE INITIATIVE
• Get $ to take students out to coffee
• Ask Campus Coordinator for more info