ClickThe Magic Instant ConnectionsbyOri Brafman and Rom Brafman

Lecture byMelih Arat

Paul and Nadia

Paul: I uttered something about there being nothing new in human relations since the time of Plato, Aristotle, and Socrates.

Paul: I’d like to continue the conversation…

If I would offer you would you marry me?

Nadia: I completly disagree with you. …. What about the change in master-slave relations and relationship between men and women?

Is that a hypothetical question?

Clicking

Magical State Quick-set

intimacy

MR Results Dopamine flood

in brain

Magical Moment Euphoric Energizing Thrilling And special Quick intimate

Jim West and Gerhard Sessler

Phd in physics A first black in

the scientific environment.

Phd in physics Emigrant from

Germany

The Philharmonic Hall of Lincoln Center

Three Category Couples

25 years of marriage Long time

friends Purposeful

dating Click Which

group still feels love?

The movie test

Research on Touching

A group of students were touched randomly by another group of students

Male face photos were shown to woman

With and without armpit pads.

3 Definers Sight Smell Touch

Vulnerability:Police Officer Greg SancierThe Negotiator

Once I went through a tough situation myself…

Not like yours-but I remember, like when my mother died.

Touchy-Feely Group at Stanford

Embarassment

Rating The most

embarassing memories

Vulnerability

Transactional Phatic

Social niceties How are you

Factual I live in NY.

Evaluative I like your new

hair cut

Vulnerability

Connective Gut Level

I am sad that you are not here

Peak When you sad

you were not a mother, I was hurt.

Peaks

When you share your peaks, you become closer than close relative to the third persons.

Clinton’s step father was an alcoholic.

Confession to a notebook

There are times when this computer chrashes for reasons that are not apparent to its user. It usually does this at the most inopportune time, causing great inconvenience to the user.

What have you done in your life that you feel most guilty about?

Proximity

Exponential Attraction Spontaneous

Communications Passive Contacts

Florida Gators

Police Academy Best Friends

MIT Dormitory – The Secret of the Most Popular Student

Academic Research Papers

Safe Place

Joint adversity Frame

Resonance

Flow Presence

Intentionality Mutuality Individuality Attentiveness Lidia Bastianich

(Kitchen Show in USA)

Pope Benedict XVI Chicken Soup,

Kugel, Strudel (German meal)

Similarity

Quantity over quality

In-group Long-lasting

effect

Kelly Hildebrandt is married to him/herself

High Self Monitors

Have fluid personalities

Modulate emotional expressions

Quickly incorporate norms

Manage other’s perceptions

Act as network hubs

Heidi Klum