Chapter 29The Healthy Family

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Chapter Objectives

1. Explain when and how the concept of dating evolved

2. Discuss the importance of good communication to a romantic relationship

3. List and discuss factors that contribute to a successful marriage

4. List some of the important issues to consider when deciding whether to have children(continues)

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Chapter Objectives (continued)

5. Describe the stages of pregnancy and explain what takes place in the mother and fetus during each stage

6. Describe ways to raise healthy children

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Introduction

• Healthy families are based on healthy relationships

• Good relationship skills include communication and decision making

• An adolescent can start developing these skills and preparing for his or her future

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Marriage

• Deciding to marry

• Responsibilities in a marriage

• Living together before marriage

• Issues in teen marriages

• Challenges to marriages

• Warning signs of a bad relationship

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Recommendations for a Successful Marriage

• Communicate• Be friends first• Don’t violate trust• Listen• Never go to bed angry• Do or say something nice for your partner

every day• Remember birthdays and anniversaries

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Deciding to Have Children

• Most significant decision a couple will make

• Children bring joy as well as challenges

• Important to discuss children with partner

• Many questions to consider when deciding whether or not to have children

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Pregnancy and Childbirth

• Pregnancy– First trimester– Second trimester– Third trimester

• Childbirth– Stage 1 – Stage 2– Stage 3

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Good Childrearing Practices

• Fundamental secret to success is to make sure your child knows he or she is loved

• Be a parent to your children

• From the very beginning, talk to your children

• Encourage self-reliance

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Summary

• Your wellness skills can help make your relationships happy and fulfilling

• Communication with your family can help build a foundation for the decisions you will make later in life

• Think about what you want in the future and work toward your goals