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Chapter 15
The Dissolution of Marriage
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Chapter Outline
• Let No One Put Asunder
• Reasons for America’s High Divorce Rate
• Emotional Divorce and the Emotions of
Divorce
• Divorce but Not the End of the
Relationship
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Chapter Outline
• Problems of the Newly Divorced
• Divorce: The Legalities
• Divorce Counseling and Mediation
• Reducing Divorce Rates
• Divorce May Not Be the Answer
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Divorce Rates
The crude divorce rate—the ratio of divorces to each 1,000 persons within
the population—is really a better, though less dramatic, measure of marital
stability than the ratio of divorces to marriages in a given year.
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The Number of Divorces and Divorce Rates
Year # DivorcesRate/1000 total
population
2003 3.8
2002 4.0
2001 4.0
1998 1,135,000 4.3
1996 1,158,000 4.4
1990 1,175,000 4.7
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The Number of Divorces and Divorce Rates
Year # DivorcesRate/1000 total
population
1985 1,172,000 4.9
1980 1,182,000 5.2
1970 773,000 3.7
1960 393,000 2.2
1950 385,000 2.6
1946 610,000 4.3
1940 293,000 2.2
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Serial Marriages
Serial marriages: Marrying, divorcing, and marrying again; a
series of legal marriages
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Divorce Rates Worldwide
CountryDivorce as a % of all
Marriages
Russia 65
Sweden 64
Finland 56
Britain 53
United States 49
Canada 45
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Divorce Rates Worldwide
CountryDivorce as a % of all
Marriages
France 43
Germany 41
Israel 26
Greece 18
Spain 17
Italy 12
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Reasons for America’s High Divorce Rate
1. Most divorcing couples cite personal reasons, such as unhappiness, poor communication, sexual failure, and general dissatisfaction.
2. Americans ask a great deal of modern marriage. High expectations often lead to disappointment and failure.
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Reasons for America’s High Divorce Rate
3. Tied closely to Americans’ high expectations of marriage is the freedom of individuals to make marital choices.
4. Changing gender roles are part of the American interest in the general concept of change and its benefits.
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Reasons for America’s High Divorce Rate
5. Economic independence of women encourages separation and divorce. When a wife had no economic alternatives, she was forced to tolerate an unsatisfactory marriage, in return for economic security.
6. With so many kinds of people and so many beliefs, attitudes, and value systems, family and marriage will naturally mean many and different things to different individuals.
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Reasons for America’s High Divorce Rate
7. The mobility of Americans may contribute. Families that move often may not create support networks.
8. Social upheaval, economic problems, and the general health of the society.
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Reasons for America’s High Divorce Rate
9. The stigma of divorce has largely vanished over the past 30years.
10. Personal inadequacies, failures, and problems that contribute to each individual divorce.
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Reasons for America’s High Divorce Rate
11. A number of risk factors tend to predict marital instability. Those marrying at a young age are more prone to divorce. Premarital pregnancy, children born out of wedlock, parental divorce, and remarriage all relate to a greater probability of divorce.
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Emotions of Divorce
1. First, there are clouds of doubt, early
signs that the marriage is getting into
trouble.
2. This is followed by a variety of distancing
behaviors as the couple becomes more
dissatisfied.
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Emotions of Divorce
3. One of the partners begins to imagine
living apart, or substituting a new partner
for the old partner.
4. The possibility of divorce is first
mentioned.
5. The appearance of solidarity is broken
before the public.
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Emotions of Divorce
6. The decision to divorce is made, usually
after long discussion and much
vacillation.
7. The crisis of actual physical separation
follows.
8. Final severance comes with the actual
divorce.
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Emotions of Divorce
9. A period of mental conflict and reconstruction follows the divorce.
10. If children are present, the divorced partners’ relationship may never end, because the problems of coparenting remain.
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Types of Child Custody
1. The most common is sole custody. In this case, the children are assigned to
one parent who has sole responsibility for physically raising the children.
2. In joint custody, the children divide their time between the parents, who share the various decisions about their children.
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Types of Child Custody
3. In split custody, children are divided between the parents.
This method separates the children from each other but reduces the burden on a parent who might otherwise have sole custody of the children.
4. The court may award custody to someone other than a parent or parents.
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Legal terms
• No-fault divorce: Divorce proceeding
that does not place blame for the divorce
on one spouse or the other.
• Reviewable alimony: An award of
alimony that is reviewed periodically and
changed if necessary.
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Describing Goals in Behavioral TermsVague Goals Action Goals
Be respectful. You will ask me about my day.
I will compliment you about your work.
Be more loving. You will tell me you love me at least once a week.
I will volunteer to watch the kids so you can go out.
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Describing Goals in Behavioral Terms
Vague Goals Action Goals
Be more sexual.
I will initiate sex once a week.
I will suggest we try something different.
You will be more verbal when we make love.
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Describing Goals in Behavioral Terms
Vague Goals Action Goals
Be less selfish. You will ask what I want to do on weekends.
I will check with you before making plans.
I will clean up if you make dinner.
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Quick Quiz
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1. In this custody case, the children are assigned to one parent
a) Joint Custody
b) Sole Custody
c) Split Custody
d) None of these
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Answer: b• In sole custody cases, the children are
assigned to one parent.
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2. An award decreed by divorce that is reviewed periodically
a) Reviewable alimony
b) Palimony
c) Joint custody
d) Split Custody
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Answer: a• Reviewable alimony is an award that
can be reviewed periodically.
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3. Which of these are one of the last emotional stages of divorce as
described by the text?
a) Doubt
b) Broken Solidarity
c) Separation
d) Reconstruction
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Answer: d• Reconstruction is one of the last
emotional stages of divorce, according to the text.