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Ch 11: Attraction & Intimacy Part 4: Apr. 18, 2014

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Ch 11: Attraction & Intimacy. Part 4: Apr. 18, 2014. Marriage Satisfaction. Patterns in marriage satisfaction – Communication patterns: Negative affect reciprocity: Demand/Withdraw pattern: Attribution differences: What is related to higher satisfaction?. - PowerPoint PPT Presentation

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Page 1: Ch  11:  Attraction & Intimacy

Ch 11: Attraction & Intimacy

Part 4: Apr. 18, 2014

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Marriage Satisfaction

• Patterns in marriage satisfaction –• Communication patterns:– Negative affect reciprocity:

– Demand/Withdraw pattern:

– Attribution differences:• What is related to higher satisfaction?

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“Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus”

• John Gray’s series

• 6 couples describe their relationships

• Notice:– What are some themes you consistently hear from the

women? From the men?

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Detaching from Relationships

Passive ActiveConstructive Loyalty Voice

Destructive Neglect Exit

Types of responses:

Loyalty –Voice –Neglect –Exit –

Observational studies of successful marriages – ratio of positive : negative interactions?

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Ch. 12: Helping

Part 1

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Helping (or not helping)• What determines why/when people help?– 1) Evolutionary factors:• A) Role of ‘kin selection’

• What research supports this?

• B) Reciprocity

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• Evolutionary explanations (cont.)– C) Empathy• Cognitive component –• Emotional component –

• Toddler empathy research – how does this research indicate a natural instinct to help?

• monkeys & empathy…