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Dynamic mission-driven organizations dedicate themselves to continuous improvement. This process involves constant assessment of changing consumer needs and expectations. For 60 years Oklahoma Methodist Manor has been committed to serving people in the spirit of Christ.

During that timeframe there have been many seasons of change - OMM started in 1956 as a housing provider. In the 1960s nursing services were added along with the Felt House. Between 1964 and 1984 33 villas were added one-by-one. In the late 1980s 52 patio and lakeside homes were constructed. In 2012, Crestwood opened with 103 new residences and in late 2019 the new Holliman Center opened. This year work will begin on a Community Life Center and two Memory Care Assisted Living Households, to serve

those living with mid-stage dementia.

The Board of Directors is charged with setting the strategic direction of the organization and planning for the future. Every day 10,000 Baby Boomers are turning 65. As OMM plans how to prepare to serve the next generation the Board has taken the initiative to convene a Task Force to explore the attributes and expectations of the changing consumer. A marketing fi rm has been hired to conduct research into the Tulsa market’s perceptions of OMM and what expectations future consumers have about retirement communities.

This research includes interviews with key leaders, focus groups, a phone survey of prospects and adult children and an online survey. One of the key issues being considered by the board

is whether a name change might help improve the image and strengthen the brand recognition of the organization.

Because we value your insight, we invite you to participate in the online survey. The survey questions will explore your preference toward continuing care communities and ask your opinions and perceptions of Tulsa’s retirement community options. The survey should only take 5 to 8 minutes to complete. You can access the survey at this link directly from our website: www.ommtulsa.org.

The results of the research and the survey will be reported to the Board of Directors in March and a full report on the fi ndings and outcomes will be provided later this Spring.

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1Go to the Oklahoma Methodist Manor website at www.ommtulsa.org. Look for this icon. Click on the link to take the survey.

2Once you click on the link, it will take you to another page. There is a short explanationand a link to the survey for you to follow.

Let’s Hear your thoughts

Ta k e t h e s u r v e y !WE NEED YOU!

STRATEGICALLY PLANNING FOR GROWTH AND CHANGE

Steve Dickie

CEO

Scott Morgan

SENIOR VP OF FINANCE

Dennis Graham

VP OF OPERATIONS

Matthew Loyd

VP OF HEALTHCARE SERVICES

Jennifer Rawlings

VP OF WELLNESS

Cari Owens

VP OF SALES AND MARKETING

Bill Peterson

VP OF HUMAN RESOURCES

Dub Ambrose

CHAPLAIN

Bonnie J. Polak

DIRECTOR OF DEVELOPMENTAND PUBLIC RELATIONS

PHONE NUMBER: (918) 743-2565

WEBSITE: ommtulsa.org

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OKLAHOMA METHODIST MANORBY DUB AMBROSE

LISTENOR CHOOSE TO BE DEAF!

Last month we considered the Prophet Samuel’s prayer as a young boy as he responded

to God calling him by name. His prayer was, “Speak, Lord, for Your servant is listening.”

Did you know when you and I choose to NOTlisten to the Lord that we ARE choosing to be deaf to Him? I was wondering how someone

would choose to be deaf and I thought of these ways to do just that…

LOOK AWAY AND IGNORE. There are thousands of distractions all around you. It’s

so easy, and sometimes more temporarily pleasurable to look to those things, ignoring the

One who gives you life itself.

LISTEN TO SOMEONE ELSE. While you might rather listen to those who only speak loving things, while your Loving Heavenly

Father always “speaks the truth in love” which, will deepen and extend your life.

MAKE NOISE. Technology. Music. Technology. Traffi c. Technology. Fake news.

Technology.

WHITE NOISE. Technology. These make

is almost impossible to hear God’s still, small whisper.

LEAVE. When you choose to walk away or to never come near, is it any wonder why His

voice can’t be heard?

But, the Good News is…

“Draw near to God and He will draw near to you.” Like the Loving Father of the Prodigal

Son, He runs to you when you turn your face towards Him.

“Everyone who calls, ‘Help, God!’ gets help.”* He is ever watching and awaiting your invitation.

 “If anyone hears My voice and opens the door, I will come in…” Remember, He’s the supreme

Promise-Keeper and He will do as He says.

It’s true. He is here. Make your choice. Choose this day. Choose to listen.

*Romans 10:13, The Message Version

MeetMeet CARRI MATHESON!We are excited to introduce Carri Matheson, she is

the Executive Administrative Assistant to Steve Dickie, CEO, and Bonnie Polak, Director of Development and PR. Carri is originally from Edmond, OK and graduated from

Oklahoma State University. She is married to Brad and they have four boys ranging in ages from 24 to 14 years old.

She enjoys cheering for her beloved OSU Cowboys and spending time with her family at the lake. Her offi ce is in

the Administration area of the Fleming Center, please stop by and introduce yourself and welcome her to OMM.

Fun Facts about Carri:Bible Verse: Do not be anxious about anything,

but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding,

will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. - Philippians 4: 6-7 Favorite Movie: Houseboat (1958) Cary Grant & Sophia Loren

Favorite Food: Mexican

Carri Matheson

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JULIA COUCH……….........JULIA COUCH………............................1...................1SARAH SIEVERT…….........................….1SARAH SIEVERT…….........................….1GEORGE “DALE” CARSON….........4GEORGE “DALE” CARSON….........4DICK BEAUCHAMP………...................7DICK BEAUCHAMP………...................7MARDELL CAMPBELL……..............….8MARDELL CAMPBELL……..............….8GEORGIA LAWLESS……..............….8GEORGIA LAWLESS……..............….8GREGG LAYMAN……......................….8GREGG LAYMAN……......................….8HELEN PUMMILL…....................…….15HELEN PUMMILL…....................…….15

CLARICE SALSTROM………............16CLARICE SALSTROM………............16JUNE CLEARY………...........................17JUNE CLEARY………...........................17BETTY GIEBEL….........................…….17BETTY GIEBEL….........................…….17MARJORIE KOLKER………...............17MARJORIE KOLKER………...............17MERNA JO ROBINSON…......…….22MERNA JO ROBINSON…......…….22WAYNE TREMBLE………...................22WAYNE TREMBLE………...................22JO STALL…..................................…….24JO STALL…..................................…….24KATHERINE REID…...................…….24KATHERINE REID…...................…….24

FLORENCE EHRENMAN….....…….25FLORENCE EHRENMAN….....…….25LINDA PINION……….........................25LINDA PINION……….........................25MARY PAULL……...........................….26MARY PAULL……...........................….26MARG VILVEN….........................…….27MARG VILVEN….........................…….27PATTY EATON…….........................….27PATTY EATON…….........................….27TOMMIE WATZKE……..................….30TOMMIE WATZKE……..................….30JIM DAVIS………..................................31JIM DAVIS………..................................31

March birthdays!

AnniversariesTOM & BETTY SIMMONS……..........................….3/19/1954TOM & BETTY SIMMONS……..........................….3/19/1954 BOB & SHERRY HYER…...............................…….3/21/1980BOB & SHERRY HYER…...............................…….3/21/1980TT

In Memory OfVELVA HALLMAN….........................................…….1/29/2020VELVA HALLMAN….........................................…….1/29/2020JEAN KIELY……….....................................................1/30/2020JEAN KIELY……….....................................................1/30/2020THELMA “BECKY” TRIMBLE…….......................….2/1/2020THELMA “BECKY” TRIMBLE…….......................….2/1/2020LEN EATON……....................................................….2/3/2020LEN EATON……....................................................….2/3/2020

MARY LOU BUTTON…....................................…….2/7/2020MARY LOU BUTTON…....................................…….2/7/2020WILLIAM “BILL” KIRBERGER…...................…….2/11/2020WILLIAM “BILL” KIRBERGER…...................…….2/11/2020LYNN BARTLETT.........................................................2/13/20LYNN BARTLETT.........................................................2/13/20

BOOKclub

BY PHYLLIS RHODES

The Book Club will meet March 17, in the Crestwood Theatre at 7:00 p.m. This month’s book is The Book Woman of Troublesome Creek by Michele Richardson. We are excited to welcome Betty Barrick, retired librarian from Broken Arrow, to facilitate our discussion.

The Book Woman of Troublesome Creek is based on true fact and is such an enjoyable read. The folks of Troublesome Creek have to scrap for everything-that is everything except books, that is. Thanks to President Roosevelt’s Kentucky Pack Horse Library Project, Troublsome’s got its very own traveling librarian, Cussy Mary Carter.

Cussy’s not only a book woman, however; she’s also the last of her kind, her skin a shade of blue unlike most anyone else. Not everyone is keen on Cussy’s family or the government’s new book program, and along her treacherous route, Cussy faces doubters at every turn. If Cussy wants to bring the joy of books to the complex and hardscrabble Kentuckians, she’s going to have to confront dangers and prejudice as old as the Appalachians, and suspicion as deep as the holler.

Inspired by the true blue-skinned people of Kentucky and the brave and dedicated Kentucky Pack Horse library service of the 1930s, The Book Woman of Troublesome Creek is a story of raw courage, fierce strength, and one woman’s belief that books can carry us anywhere—even back home.

We are so lucky to have Lori Johnson, Wellness Coordinator for the Health Center, as the March STARS employee of the month. Lori Johnson will celebrate her ninth year with OMM in April. “Bringing joy, laughter and comfort to all who live and work at OMM” is what she loves about her job.

Lori was born and raised in rural Nebraska on a farm. Her caregiving nature started at an early age when she began sewing and cooking to help her mother and grandmother. After high school she went to Northeast Technical Community College and became an LPN. There is little she hasn’t done in the nursing fi eld and truly believes caring for people is her calling.

Lori is a strong supporter and volunteer for the Alzheimer’s Association. In fact, she always wears purple “to remember all those we have loved and lost.” She collects teacups and Precious Moments fi gurines. She still enjoys cooking and sewing and even singing. One time in college when traveling across Europe she sang at Notre Dame Cathedral.

When she is not spending time with OMM elders she enjoys her family’s Wednesday Night Dinners. Lori and her husband, Bill, have been married 37 years next month. They have four grown children – twin boys, one daughter and a son. She is also the proud grandma of nine grandchildren.

E M P L O Y E E O F T H E M O N T H

BY JOHN C. WESTERVELT

GRANDPA JOHN

Remembers

A DAY TO REMEMBERAt dawn on Thursday, November 19, 2009, I raised the shade on my

east window. The cool fall days of recent weeks had dropped a deep

layer of leaves across the patio and rose garden. A splash of red rested

on top of the Knockout roses. I soaked up this pleasure, knowing that

this day included a four o’clock memorial service for the husband of

my friend Susan, who was the assistant director of Asbury’s weekday

preschool. Since the time I began to serve as a volunteer in Asbury’s

preschool, I had exchanged greetings each morning with Susan.

Arriving early for the memorial service, I could see from the back

of Asbury’s chapel numerous rows fi lled with preschool teachers.

Barbara, a 35-year veteran of Asbury preschool, sat in front of me.

Debbie, a longtime Asbury preschool teacher, moved to Dallas a few

years ago. She arrived on a fl ight from Dallas that morning to be there

for Susan. A few moments later Jan sat beside me on the end of the

pew. I had worked with Jan and Sue in the three-year-old class on

Tuesday and Thursday for ten years. Jan frequently led in prayer on

Tuesdays. She always seemed so close to God as she talked with Him

about the needs of the teachers and the children.

With Jan sitting next to me, I thought, “I have been

in a room with Jan and the children all these years,

but I have seldom sat beside her.” As I listened to Hart

Morris sing “On Eagle’s Wings,” and Bill Mason sing

“In This Very Room,” my emotions were warmed.

In front of me, Barbara wiped her tears. Jan gently placed her hand

on my right arm. I softly touched her hand with my left hand for just

a moment before returning it to my lap. Jan’s hand remained on my

arm. I sensed that I was feeling a caring that stemmed from ten years

of trust.

Driving home as dusk waned, I wondered why I felt such a peace

following a memorial service for a sad loss. I decided that God had used

Debbie and Jan to share Love, Joy, Peace, and Gentleness with me on

this day.

Lori Johnson

STAR

“You can fi nd Lori everywhere on campus. Her presence is really known at events. She sees an opportunity takes note and adjusts. She works out the logistics and solicits help from volunteers to make sure the Health Center elders have the

opportunity to attend events. This is just one way Lori’s passion shines through for the elders she serves.” Jennifer Rawlings, VP of Wellness.

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Tony and Judy Krehbiel - Patio Homes

We are excited to welcome Don and Jackie

Green to the OMM community. The couple

were residents of Broken Arrow, OK prior to

moving OMM. Don and Jackie met in Lindsay,

OK and have been married for 66 years and are

members of the Arrow Heights Baptist Church.

Don was born and raised in Oklahoma City,

OK where he received his bachelor’s degree in

Mathematics from Oklahoma City University.

Don served as a Sergeant in the Army and

enjoyed a career in sales and management.

Jackie was born in Rush Springs, OK and

then moved to Lindsay, OK. She attended the

Oklahoma College for Women in Chickasha,

OK. Jackie worked at the Bank of Oklahoma in

commercial lending before retiring.

Don enjoys woodcarving and Jackie is an

avid reader. They both enjoy traveling and

spending time with their three children, six

grandchildren and three great-grandchildren.

Tony and Judy Krehbiel - Don and Jackie Green –

The Villas

NEIGHBORSMeet your OMM

Meet Tony and Judi Krehbiel! They recently joined the OMM family in August when they

moved from their farm in Bixby. They have been married for 56 years are the proud parents

of three children and eight grandchildren. The Krehbiels are active members at First United

Methodist Church downtown and Tony served on the Financial Committee and will serve

on the Church Council in 2020.

Tony and Judi are both originally from Kansas. Tony was born in Goessel, KS and raised

in Amy, KS and Judi was born and raised in Wichita. They met at Kansas State University,

home of the Wildcats. He received his Bachelor’s in mathematics and went on to earn his

Master’s in math and computer education at OSU. Over his career Tony taught a variety

of subjects such as high school math, post-secondary computer sciences and held various

management positions. Tony likes creating stained glass, playing the bass guitar, ping pong

and his volunteer work at FUMC.

Judi completed her degree in Elementary Education at Northeastern State University in

Tahlequah. Judi worked in education for over 30 years. She was a 5th and 6th grade teacher

she also taught Intro to Computers at TCC as adjunct faculty. She enjoys reading, digging in

the dirt, sewing, travel and still loves to learn new things. She has been an avid horseback

rider and is relearning to play the violin.

We also would like to honor employees who are receiving

Service Pins this month:

5 YEARS OF SERVICESarah Jackson – Cobb Landing

Taunya Mosley – Transportation

10 YEARS OF SERVICEMatt Loyd – Administration

15 YEARS OF SERVICE Emiletha Moore – Hopson Lane

and Mabee Point

Thank you for your dedication to OMM and the elders you have

served over the years!

Stars ClassStars Class

DEDICATION

ServiceO M M

Back Row: Kevin Boyd, Gary Stanphill, Brittany Joslin, LA Lorg, Carri Matheson, Chris Brown,

Ty Westlake Front Row: Melissa Tugmon, Stacy Vance, Deanna James, Linda Chapman

There are a few things on the journey of life you cannot avoid – growing older, taxes and grief! This month we are going to focus on grief. Grief is a too frequent a companion on this journey from the cradle to the grave. Grief is triggered when we lose something that is important or precious to us. Perhaps the most traumatic is when someone we love dies. It is also can occur with the loss of a relationship, fi nancial stability, disappointments, your home, a pet or a personal belonging can also trigger grief. Grief has the capacity to make us bitter or better. It all depends on the choices we make on our journey through it.

Unfortunately, few of us have been taught how to practice good grief. Grief is normal and, in fact, necessary to healing the deep, painful wounds caused by loss. Change in your life delivers several different physical and emotional symptoms. The way you feel and the actions you take during this journey are unique to you. With that in mind, we have engaged Dr. David Willets a former pastor and certifi ed grief counselor. Dr. Willets will speak about the practical application of healing grief and fi nding your Silver Lining in the midst of life’s diffi cult changes.

Dr. Willets has real-time experience on the topic of grief. He has served in local church ministry for more than 45 years. His educational training is in the area of pastoral care and counseling. In 2004, David’s wife of 27 years and 18-year-old daughter were killed in an automobile wreck. Through this painful experience, along with his training, Dr. Willets brings sound psychological, spiritual and applicable expertise to those on the journey of grief.

Have you experienced a signifi cant loss? Have you had changes in your life that have been painful? Have you recently downsized? Or do you know someone who has experienced these? Then this session is for YOU! There are two opportunities to attend this session, choose which one works best for your schedule and invite your friends and family.

IN THE MIDST OF CHANGE

For more information about Dr. Willets you can visit his website at https://www.silverlining.ws/

BY JENNIFER RAWLINGS

Finding your silver lining

Sessions

Monday, March 23, at 7:00 p.m. Fleming Center Tuesday, March 24, at 1:30 p.m. Fleming Center

• 24 ounces broccoli fl orets*• 3 tablespoons olive oil• 4 cloves garlic, minced• Kosher salt and freshly ground black

pepper, to taste• 1/4 cup freshly grated Parmesan• Juice of 1 lemon

GARLIC PARMESAN ROASTED BROCCOLI

INGREDIENTS

• Preheat oven to 425 degrees F. Lightly

oil a baking sheet or coat with nonstick

spray.

• Place broccoli fl orets in a single layer

onto the prepared baking sheet. Add

olive oil and garlic; season with salt and

pepper, to taste. Gently toss to combine.

• Place into oven and bake for 10-12

minutes, or until tender.

• Serve immediately, sprinkled with

Parmesan and lemon juice.

DIRECTIONS

5minute prep!minute prep!

EAT YOUR VEGGIES! MARCH IS NATIONAL NUTRITION MONTH

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Featuring such interesting instruments as bazouki, pipes, drums, fi ddle, guitar, mandolin, and tenor viol, this newly formed group of talented amateur musicians will share a casual program of Celtic music including a sing-along to some of your favorite Irish-themed songs. Come enjoy the music and still have time for Welcome Wednesday afterward.

The Green Country Highlanders Present Celtic MusicWednesday, March 11, at 1 p.m. in Fleming Center

No reservations necessary.

We’ll start the evening with fun and games. You’ll be matched up in teams for some light-hearted trivia with Lucky Chow snacks to give you strength. After that, we’ll enjoy a musical program from Harpwind Duo, featuring harpist Lorelei Barton and oboist Ingrid Lobaugh. Both professional musicians, they will share beautiful Irish music on these two lovely instruments.

St. Patrick’s PartyThursday, March 12, at 7 p.m. in Fleming

Center. RSVP on the Wellness Reservation Form by March 4.

Back by popular demand! Pianist and composer Don Irwin studied Piano Performance and received a Bachelor of Music degree at the University of Illinois. His has worked as a recording studio musician for artists such as Prince, Donna Summer, and many others. He has performed on MTV Europe and MTV Africa, at the Cannes Music Festival, and Bloomingdale’s fl agship store in New York City. You loved him last year and asked that he return - so we are!

Don Irwin Piano ConcertThursday, March 26, 7 p.m. in Fleming Center

No reservations necessary.

FUN.GAMES.LUCKY CHOW.TRIVIA.LIVE MUSIC.

Shenanigans!Shenanigans!

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WelcomeTIN MAN SOCIETYGood deed doers

Oklahoma Methodist ManorThe Tin Man Society was organized to recognize those who make Legacy gifts to OMM. These are couple, individuals or

foundations who have expressed their intentions to leave a gift to OMM until their death through Will or Revocable Living

Trust, Charitable Gift Annuity, A Charitable Remainder Trust, Insurance Policy or Benefi ciary designation. If you are interested

in becoming a member of the Tin Man Society, please contact Bonnie Polak at bpolak@ommtulsa.org or 918-346-6639.

Mr. and Mrs. Gary VanFossenMs. Kerry MaloneMs. Kerry Malone

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