building relationships for good
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Eldon Boldt, September 27, 2009
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James 1:19 (NIV)
19 My dear brothers, take note ofthis: Everyone should be quick to
listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.
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1. PRESUMPTION
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Proverbs 18:13 (NIV)
13 He who answers before listening-that is his folly and his shame.
(TLB)
13 What a shame--yes, howstupid!--to decide before knowing
the facts!
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1. PRESUMPTION
• There is only one way to see things
• Everybody thinks like I do
• People never change
• I can figure out your motives.
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2. IMPATIENCE
• Interrupt
• Jump to conclusions
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Proverbs 29:20 (NIV)
20 Do you see a man who speaks in haste? There is more hope for a
fool than for him.
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Proverbs 19:11 (NIV)
11 A man's wisdom gives himpatience; it is to his glory to
overlook an offense.
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3. PRIDE
Proverbs 12:15 (NIV)
15 The way of a fool seems rightto him, but a wise man listens to
advice.
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Proverbs 20:5 (TLB)
5 Though good advice lies deepwithin a counselor's heart, the wise
man will draw it out.
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Proverbs 15:31 GN
31 If you pay attention when you are corrected you are wise.
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• Lawyer
• Theologians
• Historian
• Psychologist
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THREE HEARING AIDS
1. LISTEN WITH YOUR EYES.
Mark 10:21a (NIV)
21 Jesus looked at him and loved him.
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THREE HEARING AIDS
1. LISTEN WITH YOUR EYES.
2. LISTEN WITH YOUR HEART.
3. LISTEN WITH YOUR TIME.
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“Whoever hears my word andbelieves Him who sent me has
eternal life and will not becondemned.”
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Hebrews 3:7-8 (NIV)
7 So, as the Holy Spirit says:"Today, if you hear his voice, 8 do not harden your hearts.
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Eldon Boldt, September 27, 2009