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RABBI EFREM GOLDBERGMarah D’asrah
RABBI PHILIP MOSKOWITZAssistant Rabbi
DAVID WOLGIN, PhDPresident
RABBI JOSH BROIDEOutreach Rabbi
RABBI URI PILICHOWSKITeen Rabbi
RABBI MORDECHAI SMOLARCIKRabbi, BRS West
RABBI KENNETH BRANDERRabbi Emeritus
MATTHEW HOCHERMANSynagogue Administrator
ALIZA PILICHOWSKI Youth Director
KERRY PURCELLEditor-in-Chief of the Weekly
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FRIDAY NIGHTCandle Lighting 5:15 pmMincha/Kabbalat Shabbat 5:20 pm
SHABBAT DAYRabbi’s Class 4:00 pm
“Unscripted and Unplugged: Questions and Answers with Your Rabbi”
Rabbi Efrem GoldbergShabbat Mincha 5:00 pm Ma’ariv/Havdalah 6:12 pm
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FROM THE RABBI’S DESK When King Solomon, the wisest of all men, said, “It is better to go to a house of mourning than a house of celebration,” he probably didn’t have in mind three funerals in two days. All three funerals I participated in this week were of special individuals from whom we can learn so much as King Solomon intended. However, the juxtaposition of two in particular was incredibly powerful.
A 19-year-old boy, son of members of our Sephardic Minyan, tragically died from a horrific motorcycle accident. His funeral on Monday was attended by hundreds of people, many of them his peers. Their outpouring of love and their palpable ache from the acute sense of loss of their friend was heartbreaking. The unspoken question that permeated the air was, simply, how? How and why would God do such a thing? Jeremy was a special person, a ball of energy who wasn’t just the life of the party, he was the party. His friends described that he would engulf you in his hugs, he would shower you with his love, and lift your spirits every time you were with him. One could not leave his funeral without confronting the question and feeling a need to understand – why? Perhaps the response had come a day earlier. On Sunday, our community said goodbye to an extraordinary individual, a beloved member and a man of remarkable faith, Chazzan Lazar Wax. Chazzan Wax had survived nine concentration camps, had witnessed the murder of his father, came to America by himself, learned a new language and made a new life, all without ever asking why. If anyone were entitled to challenge, doubt, wonder or even walk away, it would have been him. But he didn’t. Not only did he not walk away, he walked closer and closer to God and His Torah throughout his life and held our hands as he brought us with him.
It is impossible to believe that Chazzan Wax never thought about how the Holocaust could have happened. It is completely understandable that in the aftermath of a tragedy like the loss of a teenager we wrestle with God. But Chazzan Wax put one foot in front of the other and despite the questions or challenges he may have felt inside, he faithfully embraced a Torah way of life with fidelity to halacha and a desire to fulfill God’s will as articulated by our sacred tradition. He may have suffered and at times struggled to see God, but you would never know it when you heard him daven or watched as he said every word slowly and with great concentration. Chazzan Wax’s funeral was terribly sad not only for the loss of the individual, but because we are losing a generation, losing our connection to another world and an altogether different category of human beings called survivors. Holocaust survivors endured unfathomable suffering and incomprehensible conditions, and yet many of them maintained their belief. In losing our survivors, we are losing role models of simple faith, living examples of accepting God in our lives, even when what He wants from us or does to us seems incompatible with our understanding and comprehension. Paradoxically, the previous generation was entitled to demand answers and rarely, if ever, asked questions. Our generation, which has for the most part been blessed in so many ways, nevertheless seems plagued by questions and an insatiable appetite for answers. That is not a judgment, rather an observation, and one that demands a new approach to how we communicate a living, compelling Judaism. Many of our parents and grandparents, not just survivors but those that came from a less privileged and less assimilated time, certainly studied and searched for the reasons and deeper meaning of mitzvos. But ultimately, if asked why they observe, their answer was concise, simple and clear – “Because this is what my parents, grandparents and people has always done and how we have always lived. This is what Hashem wants from me and He knows best.” For better or worse, the “because God said so,” of the past, or “that’s just the way it is,” which may have worked in earlier times, clearly no longer suffice and we are going to need to do a better job of articulating the “whys” of a Torah way of life, if we want to retain our rank and file, let alone attract new people to an observant way of life. This week, Tablet magazine had an article entitled, “Why One Orthodox Woman Stopped Covering Her Hair.” While the article is interesting in its own right, it was the comments generated after I shared it that really caught my attention. It was refreshing to see the honesty of those who commented publicly or wrote to me privately to share their own struggles with covering hair or observing some other Jewish law when it just doesn’t make sense to them. One person even described feeling “intellectually dishonest” observing a mitzvah that they could not intellectually understand or explain. Blind faith and simple obedience seem to rapidly be becoming things of the past. The pendulum has swung so far that today’s generation demands understanding and comprehension, and when they run into a wall or come up short from being satisfied, many feel more noble not observing that particular law, than continuing observance while being dishonest to their intellect. Assumptions of the past are far from givens in the present. Is that good or bad, progress or regress? Were our grandparents intellectually dishonest? Are we better off or worse off than them? I don’t know. What I do know is that our explanations of mitzvos and Jewish outlook must be increasingly sophisticated, nuanced, and compelling if they are going to resonate with many of us and certainly with the next generation. A friend this week described an incident with his young daughter. Her teachers sent an email saying she was tuning out in class and didn’t seem interested. My friend and his wife confronted their young daughter asking why she was tuning out in her Judaic studies
“Struggling With
Intellectual Dishonesty”
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BOCA RATON SYNAGOGUE DERECH ERETZ STATEMENTIn the spirit of our mission “Valuing Diversity and Celebrating Unity,” we believe that a community is built on the collective engagement of individuals representing differing perspectives, whether religious, political, or social. As Boca Raton Synagogue is an environment where all of its members and visitors need to feel valued and welcomed, members are required to comport themselves in a manner which reflects mutual respect and a sense of inclusiveness. In our Synagogue, we value debate about pressing issues. This is consistent with the American democratic tradition. Our sages saw the value of arguments conducted L”Shem Shamayim,“ for the sake of heaven, believing that great minds who engage in respectful debate will arrive at better solutions. They valued and welcomed alternate views, as do we. “Derech Eretz,” good and proper conduct, and mutually respectful dialogue are core values of the Synagogue community. These create a “safe place” for inspiration and spiritual growth, the central purpose of the Synagogue. It is a violation of Jewish law and ethics to use harsh language (vitriol) to demonize or to marginalize people with whom one may disagree. Uncivil expression reflects negatively on our Synagogue as well as on the individuals who engage in such behavior. Boca Raton Synagogue expects its members to act and to speak with kindness and sensitivity to others. It is only in this fashion that a strong, vibrant, and harmonious community can be created and maintained. Adherence to this policy is a requirement for membership in good standing at the Boca Raton Synagogue.
A New Pharaoh Oppresses The Israelites. A new Pharaoh, fearful that the Israelites would join his enemies in overthrowing him, instituted a policy of oppression to reduce the Israelites to slaves. Moshe is Born and is Adopted by Pharaoh’s Daughter. Amram and Yocheved, members of the tribe of Levi, gave birth to Moshe. After Yocheved could no longer keep Moshe’s birth a secret, she placed him into an ark in the Nile. Pharaoh’s daughter found the baby in the Nile and decided to adopt him. Moshe was taken to the palace, at which time he was named “Moshe” (“drawn out of the water”).Moshe Kills an Egyptian Overseer. After he had matured, Moshe went to be among his fellow Jews and observed their suffering. One day, he noticed an Egyptian overseer savagely beating an Israelite and, seeing no one else around, killed and buried the overseer. The next day, Moshe intervened in a quarrel between two Jews, during which one of them asked him who he was to judge them and whether he intended to kill them as he had killed the overseer. It now being clear that his act was known and he was in grave danger, Moshe fled to Midian. Moshe soon married one of Yitro’s daughters, Zipporah, and they had two sons, Gershom and Eliezer.Moshe Sees the Burning Bush. While tending Yitro’s sheep, Moshe saw an amazing sight -- a thorn bush which burned but wasn’t consumed. As he gazed in wonder, Hashem spoke to him for the first time.
Hashem Assures Moshe that He is Worthy to Lead the Israelites. Moshe told Hashem that he was unworthy of this awesome task, but Hashem assured him that He would assist him. Moshe meets with the Israelites. Moshe met his brother Aharon at Mt. Chorev and told him what had happened. Upon reaching Egypt, they assembled the Elders of Israel and told them Hashem’s words.
Moshe and Aharon Meet with Pharaoh. Moshe and Aharon appeared before Pharaoh and asked him to let the Jews go and deliver offerings to Hashem in the wilderness. Not only did Pharaoh reject their request, but he imposed even harsher decrees against the Jews.
when she seemed totally engaged in her secular subjects? Her answer was troubling and reassuring at the same time. She explained that what the teacher was saying just didn’t make sense to her and so she had no interest in listening. “My teacher said Rivkah got married at 3 years old, but that just doesn’t make any sense. My teacher said that Hashem is always with me but I can’t see Him or feel Him and never hear Him and so that makes no sense. My teacher said I need to be tzanuah, modest, and have my legs covered. But my face is much prettier than my legs and I don’t have to cover it at all. It just doesn’t make sense Mommy and Abba, and so I just tune out and start doodling.” Her words are troubling, particularly for a young girl, as they indicate the beginning of a path that could lead to a very unwelcome destination. On the other hand, her questions are reassuring as they reflect a thoughtful, insightful and searching young mind looking to understand instead of following blindly without ever asking why. While it is helpful to draw from Chazzan Wax’s faith when confronting the death of a 19 year old, I don’t believe it to be an effective strategy in evading the genuine search for answers to difficult questions of the younger generation. Like Rav Hirsch and others before us, we need to adapt to a new language to communicate Torah and mitzvos if we are going to keep people engaged, enriched, and committed. Together we can strive and aspire for the unconditional faith of our ancestors while at the same time searching for a dialect and a language that will keep our Torah lifestyle relevant, compelling and inspiring. Our schools and our shuls must create opportunities to dialogue on this growing challenge, validate those struggling with it and provide an outlet for respectful questioning and inquiry. Towards that end, Rabbi Moskowitz will be speaking about this issue on Shabbos morning in his sermon in the 9:00am minyan and for the first time, I will be hosting a question and answer session at the Rabbis class welcoming questions on halacha, Jewish philosophy, contemporary issues or anything else on people’s minds. I certainly won’t have all the answers, but I will do my best to honor your questions and to create an environment where it is comfortable to ask. I hope you will join me for the first installment of “Unscripted and Unplugged: You Bring the Questions, Together We Will Look for Answers” at 4:00pm in the Rand Sanctuary of BRS.
Good Shabbos,
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FRIDAY NIGHTSephardic Minyan (Sephardic Beit Midrash) 5:15 pmCandle Lighting 5:15 pmMincha/Kabbalat Shabbat (Rand Sancturay) 5:20 pmFriday Night Live: Please invite someone to this Outreach Program 6:00 pm
SHABBAT DAYNeitz Minyan (Sephardic Beit Midrash) 6:20 amHashkama Minyan (Social Hall) 7:25 amSephardic Minyan (Sephardic Beit Midrash) 8:30 amAshkenazi Minyan (Rand Sanctuary) 9:00 am Sermon: Rabbi Efrem GoldbergShtiebel Minyan (Shtiebel Beit Midrash) 9:30 amSof Zman Kriat Shema 9:45 amTeen Minyan (Berdugo Beit Midrash) 9:45 amYouth Tefillah Groups (Jacobs and Rubin Youth & Senior Center) 10:00 amEarly Mincha (Rand Sanctuary) 3:00 pmRabbi’s Class 4:00 pm
“Unscripted and Unplugged: Questions and Answers with Your Rabbi”
Rabbi Efrem GoldbergSephardic Mincha (Sephardic Beit Midrash) 4:55 pmAshkenazi Mincha (Rand Sanctuary) 5:00 pmSh’kiah 5:33 pmDaf Yomi between Mincha/Ma’arivMa’ariv/Havdalah 6:12 pm
SHABBAT LEARNINGSichot of the Lubavitcher Rebbe with Rabbi Levine (Shtiebel Biet Mid) 8:30 amTefillah Insights with Rabbi Josh Broide (Rand Sanctuary) 8:30 amTeachings of the Ba’al Shem Tov (Shtiebel Beit Midrash) 9:00 amParshat Hashavua with Rabbi Dr. Zvi Yehuda (Board Room) 9:15 am Advanced Gemara Chabura 15 minutes after Hashkama MinyanJunior Congregation (Shechet Beit Midrash - Room 205 & 206) 10:00 amYouth Groups (Drop-off begins at 10:00 am) 10:30 amSephardic Roundtable (Sephardic Beit Midrash) 11:00 amFather & Son Learning (Senders Library) 4:00 pm
PARSHAT VA’EIRASephardic Minyan (Sephardic Beit Midrash) 5:15 pmCandle Lighting 5:18 pmMincha/Kabbalat Shabbat (Rand Sanctary) 5:20 pmFriday Night Live: Please invite someone to this Outreach Program 6:00 pmMa’ariv/Havdalah 6:15 pm
BRS WEST (At the Hillel Day School, 21001 95th Ave. • (305) 725-2292 • www.brswestonline.org)
MAIN MINYAN KIDDUSH CLUBNEW SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES
The BRS Kiddush Club prepared an unbelievable Kiddush two weeks ago for BRS’s birthday. In order to continue our monthly gala Kiddushim, we are in need of additional sponsorships. Please consider making a one-time donation for the year of either $1,000 as an Executive Chef sponsor or $500 as a Sous Chef sponsor. We look forward to future scheduled Kiddushim on January 18, February 22, and March 15.
Simcha Sponsorships are available as follows:Bar Mitzvah or Aufruf $360Bat Mitzvah or New Baby $250Birthday or Anniversary $100Grandchild or other occasion $100
Your sponsorship will be announced from the pulpit on Shabbat morning of the Kiddush and listed in the Weekly. If you would like to sponsor on any level, please contact Matthew Hocherman at [email protected] or our Kiddush Club chairs, Donny Cohen and Avi Greenbaum.
We would like to thank our Executive Chef Sponsors.
FRIDAY NIGHTMincha 5:00 pm Candle lighting 5:15 pm
SHABBAT DAYShacharit 9:30 amYouth Groups 10:30 amKiddush follows Davening Mincha (Shabbat) 5:00 pmShabbat Ends/ Maariv 6:12 pm
WEEKDAYSSunday Morning Minyan 8:00 am
Breakfast is Sponsored by the D’Var Torah Club
Joseph BensmihenDonny & Dr. Freyda CohenMartin & Ileana Flics Avi & Dr. Laura GreenbaumYanki & Lauren HofstatterDaniel & Caroline KatzDrs. Joseph & Seema Loskove
DAILY MINYAN TIMES SUNDAY MONDAY TUESDAY WEDNESDAY THURSDAY FRIDAY
Ashkenazi Shacharit 6:25 amSocial Hall
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Sephardic Shacharit 6:35 amSephardic Beit Midrash
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Ashkenazi Shacharit 8:00 am Social Hall
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Sephardic Shacharit 8:00 amSephardic Beit Midrash
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Ashkenazi Shacharit 9:00 amSocial Hall
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1:00 pm Senders Library
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We would like to thank our Sous Chef Sponsors.Neil & Rachel Greenbaum Dr. David Markowitz & Dr. Sara Levine
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SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENTSMAZAL TOV
Dr. Moshe & Shari Hirth on the birth of their granddaughter, Eliana Yaffa. Proud parents are Yael & Chaim Laufer. Proud uncles are Jacob and Josh. Proud great grandparents are Helen and Charles Samowitz and Shaindel and Leo Hirth z’l. Natalie Silverman on the engagement of her grandson, Zachary Gold, to Kim Syvarth. AND the engagement of her grandson, Solly Silverman, to Arielle Birnbaum.Henry and Lois Schwartz on their 50th Wedding Anniversary.Jack & Rhoda Azar on their 50th Wedding Anniversary. Rabbi Samuel Levine and Dr. David & Sharona Kay who were honored at the Hillel Journal Dinner last Monday.
KIDDUSHFriday Night Live sponsored by Dr. Jaime Alalu and Ms. Josie Newhouse in honor of the birthday of his daughter, Alicia Rosenberg. AND in honor of Rabbi Josh Broide’s birthday.Hashkama Minyan Kiddush sponsored by Dimitry & Galina Feigin in honor of their return to Israel.Sephardic Minyan Kiddush Jack & Rhoda Azar in honor of their 50th Wedding Anniversary. Seudah Shlishiet sponsored by Moshe & Lori Applebaum in appreciation for everything the community has done for them over the last year. Guest Speaker: Moshe ApplebaumVeshinantam Levanecha sponsored by Sruly and Penina Landa for a Refuah Shlaymah for Tzeluva bat Esther Malka and Yehudis bat Chana.
KOSHER SUPERMARKET WALK This Monday, November 25, at 8:00 pm at Winn Dixie.Rabbi Pesach Weitz, Kashrut Administrator of the ORB, will tour with you through Winn Dixie and answer all of your product questions. Please visit our website at www.brsonline.org to register. There will be another Walk held on February 17, 2014.
VESHINANTAM LEVANECHA THIS MOTZAI SHABBAT
Veshinantam Levanecha Season XIV - This Motzai Shabbat, December 21 at 7:00 pm. Live from Boca Raton, it’s Motzai Shabbat with Rabbi Broide, Big Dov, and YOUR family! Great Parent/Child Learning followed by an inspira-tional “new” Kumzits, prizes, and pizza. Please contact Simone to sponsor a week of Veshinantam Levanecha for $150 at (561) 394-0394.
SUPPORT THE COMMUNITY ERUVThe Eruv is a vital necessity to our Community and one that almost 100% of our members benefit from. If you carry keys, tissues, a Tallit or Siddur, push a stroller or wheelchair, you are benefitting from the Eruv. Of our 710 families, only 109 have contributed to the Eruv this year. Please send a donation as soon as you can. Checks should be made payable to Boca Community Eruv, Inc and sent to Boca Raton Community Eruv, Inc 7653 London Lane, Boca Raton, FL 33433. The Eruv needs your caring support…JUST DO IT!!
GLOW IN THE DARK NIGHT WITH AVI FRIERSaturday night, February 15. Cost is $7 per person for boys in Grades 6-8. Pizza dinner will be served. More information to follow.
BRS – AIPAC SOUTH FLORIDA ISRAEL WEEKSave the dates, January 11-16, for our annual Israel Week, this year in partnership with AIPAC. Featured lecturers will be Bret Stephens from the Wall Street Journal, Dr. Jonathan Schanzer from the Foundation for Defense of Democracies, Rabbi Ken Spiro from Aish HaTorah’s Discovery Seminars and the Jerusalem Online
University, and Jonathan Kessler, AIPAC’s Leadership Development Director. For more information or to register for these incredible classes, visit brsonline.org/Israelweek
WOMEN’S SHIURAt the Women’s Shiur on Simchat Torah morning, many women were inspired to begin or continue baking Challah each week with a deeper understanding of this beautiful Mitzvah. This Shiur for women with Rabbi Goldberg will focus each session on a different Mitzvah and its deeper meaning. The next Shiur will take place Monday, January 27 at 8:30 pm at the home of Farley & Jessica Weiss, 7633 Martinique Blvd (Captiva).
SHABBAT PARTY IN THE PARK THIS SHABBATAfter an extremely successful event a few weeks ago, we would like invite you to come join your friends of Boca Raton Synagogue for our next Party in the Park! We will eat snacks, play some games, learn some great Torah, and have some good fun. Don’t forget to bring your BLANKETS!!!
Who: Families and children of all agesWhat: Party in the ParkWhen: This Shabbat, December 21, 4:00-5:00 pmWhere: Right before the lake, between the Shul, Lago, and Thornhill Green Why: ‘Cause it’s Shabbat.
This event will not be held if it is raining at or after 2:00 pmEMPTY NESTER PROGRAM
Game Night & Dinner has been canceled. Please save the date for Sunday, March 16 for a Purim Seudah. More details to follow.
NEED YOUR HELPBRS Chesed committee is looking for volunteers who can donate 20-30 minutes of their time a week . Please contact Michal Marcus at [email protected] or (917) 804-6924.
SAVE THE DATES - FEBRUARY 6-13 A week of learning with Rabbinit Dr. Avigail Rock. Schedule to follow. This program is generously sponsored by Dr. & Mrs. Zorik Spektor in loving memory of his beloved parents, Yocheved & Natan Spektor in commemoration of their 1st Yahrzeits.
RABBI SHMUEL RABINOVICI Rabbi Rabinovici will be giving his Chabura this Friday night at 8:30 pm at the home of Chaim Davis & Dr. Deena Grant, 22321 Guadeloupe Street in Captiva. He will also be giving a Chabura on Shabbat morning after Hashkama Minyan. Rabbi Rabinovici will be continuing his series of Shiurim on Masechet Kidushin on Sunday morning at 8:00 am.
DAF YOMI IN MEMORY OF LOIS LUPIN SALZMANWith deep appreciation to the Lupin Foundation and Michael & Esti Lupin, we are very proud to announce that the Daily Daf Yomi class with Rabbi Ben Sugerman, will now be learned in memory of Lois Lupin Salzman for the remainder of the 2013/2014 fiscal year.
DAF YOMI ON SHABBAT AFTERNOONWe are proud to introduce Seudah Shlishiet in conjunction with the Shabbat Daf Yomi. The time for the Daf remains the same (between Mincha/Maariv) but we will meet in room 105. We will be able to both learn and fulfill the Mitzvah of Seudah Shlishiet. There are sponsorship opportunities available, for more information email Matthew Hocherman at [email protected].
SPECIAL LECTURE BY RABBI YAKOV HOROWITZ“Raising Respectful and Inspired Teens” this Wednesday night, December 25 at 8:00 pm at BRS. Following up on his inspiring Shabbat at BRS, Rabbi Horowitz has generously agreed to deliver another talk providing inspiration and practical tips for raising inspired teens. Cosponsored by BRS and Weinbaum Yeshiva High School.
WINTER KOLLEL AT BRSBRS is thrilled to be hosting a weeklong winter Kollel the week of January 12th. If you are interested in setting up a nighttime chavruta with one of the Kollel members, contact Rabbi Simmy Shabtai at [email protected]
QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS WITH RABBI GOLDBERG
The Rabbi’s Class this Shabbat will be unscripted and unplugged. Rabbi Goldberg will entertain questions on topics from halacha, Jewish philosophy, or his opinion on contemporary issues. Don’t miss this exciting, first time format!
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LIFE CYCLE
Rabbi Shmuel Jarashow Shmuel Tzvi ben ShaynaMerv Jacobs Meir ben SarahMoshe Applebaum Moshe Zvi ben Rachel LeahYosef Chaim ben FaigaShlomo ben TamaraBob Silver Reuvan Lieb ben MiriamGeorge Saks Aron Asher Zelig ben Maymi
Helen Ijac Alta Haita bat DevorahRuth Sherman Rochel bat BatshevaJoan Noven Rochel Tova bat MalkaBeverly Kassirer Briendle bat PesselAriella Berman Ariella Sarah bat Elisheva MalkaBeverly Kellman Baila Rus bat SarahChana Guta bat RochelRuth Malinowitz Rivka bat FreydaCarolynn Jarashow Chaya bat GussieNoa Maya Carmel Noa Maya bat Devora RachelJean Cohen Ita Chaya bat Yocheved Rachel
REFUAH SHLAYMAHFor members of BRS Community.
For all other Refuah Shlaymah needs, please see Tehillim Circle
YAHRZEITS Helene Amar in memory of her father Prosper Messod Amar, 16 TevetDave Grunberg in memory of his daughter Daniella Fastag, 16 TevetFaigie Grunberg in memory of her daughter Daniella Fastag, 16 TevetDr. Michael Galer in memory of his father Moishe Galer, 16 TevetBonnie Weinreb in memory of her father Jack Riesel, 16 TevetMarcia Feldman in memory of her father Irving Konick, 17 TevetSusan Berkowitz in memory of her mother Ceil Schlesinger, 17 TevetJuly Gelbart in memory of her brother Harvey Guttman, 18 TevetYehudah Hoffman in memory of his father Simon Hoffman, 18 TevetDevora Goldwasser in memory of her father Jacob Saltzman, 18 TevetSylvia Pruzansky in memory of her mother Lillian Schneider, 18 TevetEva Friedman in memory of her father Salomon Gold, 19 TevetJudi Krasna in memory of her father Herman Greenberg, 19 TevetGeorge Berman in memory of his mother Claire Berman, 20 TevetRhoda Azar in memory of her mother Frieda Miller, 20 TevetMalka Schyndel in memory of her brother Michael Schyndel, 20 TevetAnna Cohen in memory of her father Nathaniel Wasserman, 20 TevetNancy Charm in memory of her father Joseph Silverman, 21 TevetJeff Herman in memory of his father Richard Herman, 22 TevetGershon Schwadron in memory of his mother Evelyn Schwadron, 22 TevetBarnett Yukolis in memory of his mother Rose Yukolis, 22 TevetDeanna Shulman in memory of her mother Serena Green, 23 TevetEphraim Haimson in memory of his father Moshe Haimson, 23 TevetDavid Lieber in memory of his father Joseph Leiber, 23 TevetLily Levontin in memory of her brother Moshe Manis, 23 TevetBetty Maikhor in memory of her father Baruch Zabner, 23 TevetIra Berger in memory of his aunt Rosalia Berger, 24 TevetJoel Greene in memory of his mother Pauline Greene, 24 Tevet
WELCOME TO NEW MEMBERSYitz & Avrora Frid
DAILY• DAF YOMI (Sunday - Friday)
with Rabbi Ben Sugerman at 7:00 am in Rooms 211-212.• MISHNA BERURA YOMI (Sunday - Thursday)
with Stuart Silverman 15 minutes before Mincha• NIGHT BEIT MIDRASH (Sunday - Thursday) community learning in the Senders Library at 8:00 pm• NIGHTTIME DAF YOMI (Sunday - Thursday)
with BRS Rabbinate at 8:40 pm in the Board RoomMONDAY
• MOMMY AND ME will take place at 9:30 am in the women’s section of the Rand Sanctuary• HEBREW POETRY CLASS with Hassia Yehuda at 9:30 am in the Board Room• HEBREW READING with Rabbi Josh Broide at 7:30 pm in Room 101• ZUMBA FOR WOMEN with Hanna Cohen at 8:30 pm in Rooms 205 & 206
TUESDAY• CAFFEINE FOR THE SOUL with Rabbi Philip Moskowitz at 8:30 am at Hillel Day School• PARSHAT HA’SHAVUA with Rabbi Efrem Goldberg at 9:30 am in the Social Hall• HAFTORAH CLASS with Rabbi Philip Moskowitz at 10:30 am in the Social Hall• JEWISH HISTORY with Rabbi Josh Broide at 7:30 pm in Room 101• PEOPLE OF THE BOOK with Rabbi Yosef Kassorla at 8:00 pm in the Social Hall
WEDNESDAY• CUP OF JOE & KNOW
with Rabbi Efrem Goldberg after 7:45 am Minyan in the Social Hall• IN-DEPTH STUDY OF BOOK OF JUDGES
with Malka Morris will resume January 8• KABBALAH & SPIRITUALITY: THE SOUL OF THE TORAH
Level 1 with Shoshana Deakter will resume January 8• RAISING RESPECTFUL AND INSPIRED TEENS
with Rabbi Horowitz at 8:00 pm in the Social Hall• KABBALAH & SPIRITUALITY: THE SOUL OF THE TORAH
Advanced with Shoshana Deakter will resume January 8THURSDAY
• THE BOOK OF BAMIDBAR with Rabbanit Dr. Avigail Rock at 9:30 am in the Board Room• JUDAISM A-Z with Rabbi Josh Broide will not be taking place this week• SATELLITE LECTURES
with Rabbi Yissocher Frand at 9:00 pm in the Board Room• WEEKLY SHMOOZE
with Rabbi Efrem Goldberg at 9:45 pm in the Senders Library
BIRTHDAYSLori Applebaum Lily Katz Rabbi Josh BroideDana Petrover Rabbi Uri Pilichowski
ANNIVERSARIESPatti & Gary Lieber Henry and Lois Schwartz Jack & Rhoda Azar
CONDOLENCES TO• Ida and Stuart Wax on the passing of their beloved husband and father,
Cantor Lazar Wax.• Armond & Debbie Ouknine on the passing of their beloved son, Jeremy
Ouknine.• Nathan Zucker on the passing of his beloved father, Berton Zucker.
COMMUNITY CONNECTIONS
AARP SAFETY DRIVER PROGRAM - NEW DATEThe new date for the BRS AARP Safety Driver Program will be Thursday, March 6, 2014 that will give each participant a 3-year car insurance discount. The cost is $15 per person for AARP members and $20 for non-members. The maximum size of the class is 30 people. The class runs from 9:30 am to 5:00 pm with breaks. You must have a valid Florida drivers license. Registration closes on Monday, February 17, 2014. To register, please bring a check (one check for each person) to the BRS office, made payable to “AARP Safety Driver Program” dated March 6, 2014. On the day of the class, you must present your Florida drivers license and your AARP membership card to get the $15 price. For any questions, please e-mail Lou Miller at [email protected]
SINGLES, SUSHI, AND SONG EVENTSaturday night, December 21 at 7:30 pm. Join JPS for an acoustical evening and delight in the art of sushi making. Featured guest speaker Rabbi Y.Y. Jacobson on “How do I know I’ve met the right one?” Enjoy a social, interactive evening! Learn to prepare the perfect sushi, enjoy acoustic upbeat music and hear meaningful messages. Palm Beach Synagogue, 120 N. County Road, Palm Beach. RSVP required $30 in advance - $36 at the door. Call Palm Beach Synagogue (561) 838-9002 Ex. 4.
Please have in mind children and grandchildren of members of our community currently serving in the IDF: Amiel Abir, Ben Weiss, Asher Kaplan, Adam Barel, Orelia Elkaim, Stav Gare, Menachem Kaplan, Shabtai Kaplan, Jeremy Siegman, Noam Ivri (Makover), Arie Hizkiya, Daniel Makover, Charlie Pollack, Yakov Simcha ben Moshe Yisroel, Yehuda Strauss, Elad Shachar, Liel
Reinfeld, Amichai Berman, Matt Firestone, Dov Lieber, Isaac Marco Romano, Yuchiel Shlomo Lowenstern, Amir Tsarfati Reuben Gladstone and Mordechai Wolfson. If you have children or grandchildren currently serving in the IDF, please let us know their names so we can include them.
ISRAEL DEFENSE FORCES (IDF)
PLEASE KEEP IN YOUR PRAYERS
WRITE TO ALAN GROSSAlan Gross has been in prison for over 1400 days. Now you are able to write to him via his website www.bringalanhome.org/write
Aba Chonah ben Hava Chana - Alan GrossAmerican Jew Alan Gross has been wrongly held in a Cuban prison since December 2009. Since that time, Alan’s physical and emotional state has deteriorated. He has lost over one hundred pounds and has suffered partial paralysis. Join us to call upon the Cuban government and the international community for the immediate release of Alan on humanitarian grounds. For more information and to get involved, visit www.jcouncil.org
Yehonatan ben Malka - Jonathan PollardJonathan Pollard has been imprisoned in the United States since 1987. While working as an American civilian intelligence analyst, Pollard has admitted to passing classified information to Israel. Although even his most ardent supporters agree that he was in the wrong and guilty, the nature and length of his imprisonment is disproportionate and unparalleled. Join a multitude of prominent politicians, officials from the national intelligence world, and the legal world who have called for Pollard’s sentence to be commuted. For more information and to sign a petition, visit www.jonathanpollard.org.
PARENTS AND GRANDPARENTS OF IDF SOLDIERS The Emek Learning Center in Baka has a program that offers support to IDF Soldiers without families in Israel. If you a child or grandchild in the IDF and would like the center to reach out to them, please send Linda their name and contact information and it will be forwarded to the center. If you want to learn more about the center, the website is emeklearningcenter.com. Linda can be reached at [email protected] or by calling (561) 394-0394.
WRITE TO JONATHAN POLLARDYour letters - the only ray of light in Jonathan’s dreary cell. Write to him today: Jonathan Pollard #09185-016, c/o FCI Butner, P.O. Box 1000, Butner, North Carolina, U.S.A 27509-1000.
ISRAEL UPDATE
SOCIAL ACTIONIn his talk Sunday evening, “Reclaiming the Word Zionism,” Boston Globe award winning journalist, Jeff Jacoby, exhorted those in attendance to respond to the “big lie” with the BIG TRUTH. “Zionism is Jewish sovereignty, Zionism is self defense, Zionism is an indigenous population, Zionism is the answer to Jewish powerlessness, Zionism is home!” Sitting quietly by as Israel is demonized, and the word Zionism evolves into a derogatory epithet, is not an option. In an event co-sponsored by the SAC and CAMERA, Jacoby urged the audience to call or write letters to the media, those elected to represent us, and campus officials, to protest lies, misrepresentations, and half-truths about our homeland. He warned that the next generation of American leaders is currently being fed anti-Israel propaganda at colleges and universities across the country. These young people will likely not be great friends of Israel when they are called upon to lead, if we do not act now. Parents must become educated and engaged in order to counteract this serious threat.
A TRIBUTE TO THE BIKUR CHOLIM OF BOCA REGIONAL HOSPITALTo the hospital we hurried from Boca Raton. Three frightened people, who felt so alone. Little did we know what Chesed us awaited. With such warmth and kindness,Our fears soon abated. The cupboards were filled with food galore. Who could have asked for anything more? Every amenity one could imagine was there. Prepared with such thoughtfulness and care. May Hashem bless Stanley Smith with continued good health and strength. To continue his noble deed,To serve the many people, so many in need. With Deep Gratitude, The Wax Family
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Boca Raton Jewish academyJoin us for the SECOND semester
Monday 5th & 6th Grade ~ 4:30-6:00 pm with Rabbi Josh Broide
Tuesday 7th & 8th Grade ~ 4:30-6:00 pm with Rabbi Josh Broide
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Youth
-BRS YOUTH NEWS-
WEEKLY AND COMING EVENTS
* Shabbat Morning Youth Chabura after Hashkama Minyan in Room 103 with Rabbi Eisenberger. * Shabbat Morning Groups for children ages 2-10. Groups take place in the classrooms every Shabbat and start at 10:00 AM *Shabbat Morning Teen Minyan each Shabbat in room 104-105, starts at 9:45 AM. * Once a month Shabbat in the Park, in the park adjacent to the Shul on Shabbat afternoons. Check the Weekly if SITP is on this week. * Nursing Home Visits for girls in 4th-5th grade. Every Shabbat afternoon leaving from the Pilichowski home. Check with Aliza or Gila Pilichowski for the exact time the group is leaving this Shabbat. * Once a month 5th Grade Girls Seudat Shlishit at various homes. Stay tuned for the next great Seudat Shlishit. * Teen Seduat Shlishit, each Shabbat in the BRS board room after Mincha. Listen to various speakers and enjoy great food. * Teen Mincha takeover. Once a month teenagers take over the main BRS Ashkenaz Mincha. *Pro-Israel Advocacy classes for teens. Each Friday at 3:00 PM in the BRS Board Room. * 8th grade boys Shabbat Kiddush and lunch. This Shabbat at the Pilichowskis. * February 7-8 National Teen Pro-Israel Advocacy Shabbaton at BRS. *Saturday Night, February 15 Glow in the Dark Night For grades 6-8 boys with Avi Frier. $7 per person, a pizza dinner will be served. * February 28-March 3 Teen Policy Conference in Washington, DC.
BRS TEEN BOYS BBQ ASHER, RAV IN BY SENDER GALBUT Rabbi Dovid Asher, the Morah D'asrah, of Richmond, Virginia, and his wife Aliza were visiting family in Miami this past week and came to Boca Raton to speak to a group of BRS teenagers. Besides the incredible Dvar Torah, we enjoyed an amazing BBQ while he spoke. He was gracious in his opening remarks, speaking about the wonderful BRS community and the unique opportunity teens have in this community with all of its resources. Rabbi Asher spoke to us about the great responsibility we have to spread wisdom throughout our community and the world at large. He drew his remarks from last week's Parsha where we are told that seventy Jews came up from Mitzraim. Having been the targets of the Egyptians, you would think they'd be diminished; instead they grew in their numbers. Rabbi Asher questioned how they grew under persecution.
WITH RABBI DOVID RICHMOND, VA He explained that their growth seems to be proof that the Deracha that Hashem gave the Jews has come to fruition. One of the Derachot given to Bnei Yisrael was that the Jews would be as plentiful as the dust of the Earth. Of all the things to bless Bnei Yisrael with, why did Hashem chose dirt? Rabbi Asher quoted Rav Moshe Feinstein who explained that the Gemara in Ervin says that dust and dirt are a source of life. He explains, animals eat from the ground-animals that we eat in a BBQ (we were in the middle of a naming BBQ) eat from the ground, so dust is an integral part of our life. There is nothing great about having a lot of people, rather we should be a people who give life so that the world can tap into the truth that we hold so dear. That's what Rav Moshe Feinstein explained, the significance of dirt is, we should have a significant part in this world spreading wisdom and we should have the merit of living to give this contribution to the world.
PRO-ISRAEL TEENS MEET WITH MINORITY WHIP STENY HOYER
By Avi Schneider My name is Avi Schneider, I am a Boca Raton Synagogue teen member. Part of being a BRS teen means I am an Israel advocate and have has a love of Israel always instilled within me which leads me to be involved in Israel advocacy. I have gone to AIPAC's High School Summit and attend Rabbi Pilichowski's weekly Israel advocacy meetings on Friday afternoons. Through my Israel Advocacy efforts at BRS, I have met many members of Congress and people influential in advocating for Israel. On Sunday, December 15, I had the chance along with other teens to go to the house of AIPAC board members and Pillars of the BRS community Carlyn and Lothar Mayer who hosted Congressman and Minority Whip Steny Hoyer for a Pro-Israel event. It was a real privilege for our group to be invited, and we are grateful to the Mayers for the opportunity. Congressman Hoyer spoke about his many trips to Israel and the critical need for Israel's existence. Turning to our group, he spoke about the importance for youth to get involved in advocacy. Congressman Hoyer talked about America's shared values with Israel and the current threats that Israel faces. He spoke about Israel's need for a two state solution. Congressman Hoyer wrote a resolution to further sanctions on Iran but backed out just a few days ago. He explained that he trusts current inspections on Iran and there's no reason to take any further steps now because we can enact new sanctions right away. If Iran "continues doing the ropey dope" and delaying steps to stopping their nuclear program, there will be further sanctions taken and military actions will always be on the table.
INSIDE INTERVIEW With Ettie Sharp Ettie, a BRS all-star, goes to Veshinantam every Motzie Shabbat with her father Joe. We had an opportunity to chat with Ettie after Veshinantam this week. BRSYN: Did you have fun this week? Ettie: Alot of fun! BRSYN: What did you learn? Ettie: I learned about the Parsha, and that Yaakov died, and that he gave a Brachah to Ephraim and Menashe. BRSYN: What did you love about it? Etie: The raffle, the prizes, and the singing
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Join us for this week long seminar hosted at Boca Raton Synagogue that will focus on contemporary Israel in the context of Jewish history and the broader Middle East. Each class will be preceded by a short film.
AIPAC & BOCA RATON SYNAGOGUE INVITE YOU TO THE SOUTH FLORIDA ISRAEL WEEK
JANUARY 11-16, 2014 Open to the entire community!
Monday January 13
Tuesday January 14
Wednesday January 15
Thursday January 16
9:45am
Rabbi Ken Spiro - “The Holy Land of Israel: An Overview
of the Last 3,300 Years” Part I
Rabbi Ken Spiro - “The Holy Land of Israel: An Overview
of the Last 3,300 Years” Part II
Rabbi Efrem Goldberg - The Religious Significance of
Israel
11:15 AM Film Series: A State is Born
12:00 PM
*Lunch Seminar: Dr. Jonathan Schanzer -
“Analysis of the Palestinian-Israeli Conflict: Past,
Present & Future”
8:00pm
Evening Seminar: Dr. Jonathan Schanzer -
“Analysis of the Palestinian-Israeli Conflict: Past,
Present & Future”
Rabbi Ken Spiro - “The Holy Land of Israel: An Overview
of the Last 3,300 Years” Part I
Rabbi Ken Spiro - “The Holy Land of Israel: An Overview
of the Last 3,300 Years” Part II
Reception & Briefing - Jonathan Kessler "Now that
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Movie: History of the State
7:15pm Movie: A State is Born Movie: Israel in the Bible Movie: From Abraham to Modern Zionism Movie: History of the State
9:00am Movie: Israel in the Bible Movie: From Abraham to Modern Zionism
Course Fee & Registration: The seminar fee is $10 per class or $35 for the entire week long seminar series. To register or for more information visit brsonline.org/IsraelWeek or email [email protected]. Advance reservation required. The morning and evening presentations on Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday will cover the same topic and information.
*Lunch seminar on Monday, January 13 is an additional charge of $10 per lunch.These events are off the record and closed to the press.
Opening lecture: January 11 Bret Stephens will speak at 11:15 a.m. at the conclusion of Shabbat services. Free and open to the public.
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