beliefs

Speed Seduction Coaching Program

Answers to Students Kiado

Transcript

December 2008

Created By

Ross Jeffries The Guru of Getting Some

Website: http://www.speedseduction.biz

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Speed Seduction Coaching Program Answer to Student: Kiado Transcript | December 2008 Copyright 2008, Ghita Services, Inc. All Rights Reserved. Website http://www.speedseduction.biz

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Ross: Beliefs can open up the circuitry for new possibilities. Again, if you

believe something is possible, you will open up those circuits that give

you the potential to learn to do that thing. If you dont believe its

possible to learn to get good with women, you wont even open up the

circuitry thats there.

Beliefs can open or close access to flows of information. Again, if you

dont believe something is possible, you wont see it, pay attention to it

or take in the information. Because I believe certain things about

women, I can see things that are obvious in their responses that I know

are like the gold-key roadmaps to seducing them. Other guys dont see

it because they dont believe its even there.

Beliefs can open or close access to talents, abilities and capabilities.

They can also open or close access to flows of feeling, energy and

vibe. I happen to believe that we dont live only in a cause-and-effect

material reality. We also live in a reality that includes the possibility of

connecting with people non-locally, outside of cause and effect, time

and separation of space.

Kiado used the idea of getting rid of old beliefs. When Im teaching

someone, I look at what theyre asking for and ask, Is that really the

best way to phrase it? Is it really necessary to get rid of old beliefs? Is

it possible? Is it the optimum solution?

I dont think we ever get rid of a belief, nor should we. You never know

when it might come in handy. The aim is not to get rid of old beliefs,

but to have freedom of choice and be able to take on a belief that suits

you in the moment like a suit of clothes. If you dress up for a party, you


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dont want to wear your party clothes to work. You want to pick and

choose what you wear. Theres nothing more magical than being able

to design the beliefs that serve you for the context in which youre

going to use them.

My question is, What can we do to create a state from which we can

observe our patterns, beliefs and filters and create choice? In other

words, rather than having our perpetual way of perceiving and acting

glued to us, what if we could create a state where we can see those

beliefs and say, No, maybe thats not so useful here?

The real answer here is to develop what I call a witness

consciousness. The best way I know to do this is to develop

vipassana practice, taught by my teacher, Shinzen Young. You can

see the link for Shinzen, www.Shinzen.org. I also mention the

possibility of Gurdjieff who talked of reaching this from a different

practice, but I like Shinzens practice best.

Heres what I say. First of all, dont get rid of the old belief. You want to

attenuate it. You want to take the energy out of it and stop repeating it,

dwelling on it and feeding it with emotional energy. Then, take the

energy you were adding to it and redirect it into the new beliefs and

new ways of thinking. Rather than clearing it out, youre going to

recycle it.

This is all covered in my Nail Your Inner Game program. I dont want to

get into the technique here. If you look at

http://www.speedseduction.biz/products/nailyourinnergamepromo.php

youll see exactly how to do this.


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What do you do to get a belief-reprogramming ritual? First of all, you

want to learn to energize breath. Second, youre going to create an

anythings possible circle and step into it. Then, youre going to

imagine the old belief outside the circle as an image or symbol.

Lets back up here and look at these steps. I dont think I can go

backward in this program. Lets talk about energizing breathing. Many

of you know the breath of fire. Its basically rapid breathing from your

belly, in and out through your nose. Do that for 10 minutes. Energize

yourself with breath.

Then, youre going to draw a circle on the ground. I do this on the

beach, so I literally take my finger and draw a circle in the sand. If you

cant do that, you can take a stick and imagine that its actually drawing

a circle on the ground. This circle is going to be the place where

anything is possible. When I do this, I imagine that inside that circle is

a place where anything is possible and anything could be made real.

The only thing that determines what will occur is my will, intent, energy,

imagination and emotion.

I step into the circle. As I do, I imagine Im peeling off a wetsuit. I

actually make the physical movements with my hands and arms. I

mime like Im taking off a wetsuit. That wetsuit I leave outside the circle

represents any kind of limited pattern of thinking, feeling, believing or

interpreting that would get in my way.

Then, imagine the old belief outside the circle as an image or symbol.

It can be a simple geometric figure or something more complex.


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Imagine the energy draining out of it, however that happens. You can

imagine a brown or black color coming out. You can imagine it running

out through little tubes.

Next, I want you to imagine the energy is being purified. Its being

recycled. The metaphor I would give you is how astronauts get fresh

drinking water in space when theyre up in the International Space

Station. Do they bring the Sparkletts truck out into orbit and fill er up?

No. They recycle their urine.

Imagine that energy is going through a series of filters. Its being

purified.

Then, I want you to see it returning to you for your peace of mind,

grounding and a balanced, unlimited sense of possibility and wonder.

This is incredibly powerful when you do it. It makes you unbelievably

attractive to people on a subtle level.

I want you to extend your actual physical arm outside the circle.

Imagine youre writing the new belief outside the circle. Imagine youre

actually writing the letters. Allow the letters to form some kind of

symbol. Charge up with breath again. After a few minutes, blow the

energy of that breath into the symbol.

Finally, I want you to reach out and bring the symbol inside yourself.

Lie down. Imagine the new belief integrating through your past.

Imagine what it would be like if this new belief had been with you in

your past. Imagine it now in your present, and then imagine having this

belief in action in the future.


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I want you to finish the ritual by either falling asleep or stepping outside

the circle and saying, This work is now completed. I release any and

all demand for result. This, in a very brief session, is how you do a

ritual.

Theres a crucial last step. This really matters, Kiado. Immediately take

some action, however large or small, thats congruent and in line with

the new belief. Ill say to myself, What can I do right now to begin to

move in the direction of this belief? If the old belief comes up, just

imagine taking the energy from it and putting it into the new belief.

I realize Ive run through a lot in a small amount of time. I would like

you to practice what youve learned here and then give me your

feedback. Thanks a lot. Well see you next month.

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