“You don’t marry someone you can live with, you marry the person you cannot

live without.”

Author Unknown

So the answer was Yes, you’ve got the ring now there’s so much to think about and so much to do but where do you start?

• Do I use a wedding planner or do we do it ourselves

• Where do we start?• Where do I find suppliers, who can I trust?

Planning your special day will be the most exciting but at the same time it’s likely to be the most stressful event you will probably ever organise. But don’t panic, the Truly Scrumptious Wedding Planner will take you through the planning process step by step.

So first things first and this is a biggie, always, always use a professional wedding supplier. Every single one of our Approved Suppliers brings with them a wealth of knowledge and experience and are highly regarded in the wedding industry.

Don’t trust your special day to someone who thinks they can take a good picture or can bake a cake - trust the

professionals, they won’t let you down!

And finally the rules . . .

• Set a budget and stick to it – it’s easy to get carried away!

• Tiny steps – do one thing at a time. • Accept help from supportive people –

you don’t need to do it all by yourselves!

Sincere congratulations to you both have a brilliant wedding day!

CONGRATULATIONS

Stephanie x

“I dreamed of a wedding of elaborate elegance

and a church filled with family and friends.

I asked him what kind of wedding he wished for, he said one that would make

me his wife.”

Managing Director of Truly Scrumptious

TRULY SCRUMPTIOUS WEDDING SERVICESHaven’t you ever wished you could find everything all in one place? Well now you can! Truly Scrumptious can provide everything for your special day and can create a bespoke wedding package or provide individual wedding services.

By having one company provide all your wedding services will ensure everything is coordinated, will save you precious time searching and is often cheaper then booking each item separately!

From cakes to cars, favours to flowers, everything you’ll need for your special day.

“Every love story is beautiful but ours is

my favourite.”

Author Unknown

• Photography • Hair, Nails and Make-Up • Videography • Wedding Transport • Disco / Wedding Band • String Quartet • Guitarist • Flowers • Balloons • Dove release • Stationery • Toastmaster

• Cakes • Chair covers and sashes • Chocolate Fountain • Table Centerpieces • Victorian Candy cart • Topiary Bay Trees • Personalised Chocolates • Wall and Ceiling Drapes • Venue Staging • Wedding Celebrant • Wedding Planning

“I love you not only for what you are but for what I am when I

am with you.”

Roy Croft

Wedding Services include...

MARRIAGE CEREMONIESMarriages are permitted in licensed venues that are approved for ceremonies and in Register Offices. The law does not allow for marriage ceremonies to be held in the open air, in a tent or marquee, a hot air balloon or at a private address. To have your ceremony at a licensed venue you will need to co-ordinate the date and time with your venue AND the Register Office so that a Registrar is available.

Legal notice must be given at least 28 days before the date of your ceremony and can be given up to one year beforehand. If you are booking your wedding 18 months in advance book a date with your venue then contact the Register Office 12 months before the date to book your civil ceremony.

Contact your local Register Office to book an initial appointment and obtain further information on fees.

Peterborough Register Office 33 Thorpe Road Peterborough PE3 6AB

Tel: 01733 864646

Cambridge Register Office Shire Hall Cambridge CB3 0AP

Tel: 0345 045 1363

Huntingdon Register Office Lawrence Court, Princes street Huntingdon PE29 3PA

Tel: 0345 045 1363

Wisbech Register Office Awdry House, 110 Ramnoth Road Wisbech PE13 2JD

Tel: 0345 045 1363

Ely Register Office Old School House, 74 Market Street Ely CB7 4LS

Tel: 0345 045 1363

March Register Office March Library, City Road March PE15 9LT

Tel: 0345 045 1363

Music, readings and wording of a religious nature are not permitted within a civil ceremony.

Passports

If you are going abroad immediately after the ceremony you can get a new ten-year password post-dated into your new name up to three months in advance of your wedding.

Complete a standard passport and PD2 form, both obtainable from selected Post Offices, telephone 0300 222 0000 or visit the website on www.direct.gov.uk/passports.

In the presence of God and before this congregation you have given

your consent and made your marriage vows to each other. You

have declared your marriage by the joining of hands and by the giving and receiving of rings. I therefore

proclaim that you are husband and wife. whom God has joined together let no one put asunder.

I want a Religious wedding – where do I start?

As a country we are a wonderful melting pot of faiths and cultures and so it is impossible to provide detailed information on everything and this is intended to be a general guide only and will vary dependent on different cultures/faiths.

Find your local place of worship and contact them as early as possible. A change in the law allows you to marry outside your local area but different faiths may and will impose different criteria on what you must do to quality.

You will usually be invited to attend a meeting to discuss your wedding and sometimes your faith and why you wish to have a religious ceremony. If you are not a regular attender at church – be prepared!

At the time of print, it is not legally possible for same sex couples to marry in the Church of England.

Banns are announcements in the Church of England of your intention to marry and a chance for anyone to put forward a reason why the marriage may not lawfully take place. It can be a very special and moving occasion so go along if you can.

If there is insufficient time for Banns to be announced a Common Licence can take their place - your Church of England Vicar can provide further details.

Not all ceremonies conducted in a place of worship are recognised as valid according to the law of Gt Britain and WILL require a Registrar to attend the ceremony or a civil marriage to also be performed.

WhenHarry met Sally

“When you realise you want to spend the

rest of your life with somebody you want the rest of your life to start

as soon as possible.”

First things first, think of your budget, be realistic, it’s easy to get carried away! Use the list below to identify your wants and needs and set your budget.

SERVICE WANT NEED QUOTE BUDGET BOOKED

Girl Talk

Dress

Lingerie

Shoes

Make-up

Hair

Gown & Accessories

Bridesmaids

Menzone

Formal Hire

Shoes

Venue

Catering

Bar Hire

Marquee

Venue Decor

Ceremony

Celebrant

Church

And some more...

Jewellery

Cake

Flowers

Sweet Treats

Stationery

Transport

Photography

Videography

Musicians

Band / Disco

Entertainment

Photobooth

First Dance

Dentistry

Childcare

Stag and Hen

Honeymoon

SERVICE WANT NEED QUOTE BUDGET BOOKED

WEDDING PLANNER ~ WHERE DO I START?

“You know you’re in love when you can’t

fall asleep because reality is finally better then

your dreams.”

Dr Seuss

“Beauty is about enhancing what you have, let yourself shine though”

Whether you are looking for classic, natural, modern or vintage makeup, Hannah Spendelow will work with you to create your perfect bridal look that will last long into the night.

Fully qualified and mobile throughout Cambridgeshire, Hannah is also a MAC, Charlotte Tilbury and Bobbi Brown Pro Member.

Contact Hannah on 07887 726681 www.hannahspendelowmakeup.co.uk

The hours, days, weeks, months of preparation have finally come to fruition. It is your wedding day. Will it all go as you want it to? With Dennis at the helm, as your TOASTMASTER, you have no worries. Having met with you previously to discuss and advise on all your desires

and preferences, Dennis will steer you through a relaxed yet accomplished reception. The minutest detail is of paramount importance. Nothing is too much trouble.

Dennis will make it a day to remember. “FOR THE ASSURANCE OF EXPERIENCE” Dennis’ advice and

good humour are but a phone call away.

Sidings, 72 Station Road, Warboys, Huntingdon, Cambridgeshire PE28 2TH

Telephone 01487 824244

VENUE DÉCOR THE BIG COUNTDOWN...By Truly Scrumptious.

‘Style is your way of saying who you are without saying a word!’ Whether your vision is traditional, vintage or completely unconventional, we can dress your venue to reflect your personal style. With a wide range of decoration we can develop any existing ideas you may have; we have the creativity and passion to bring your ideas to life!

Bird Cages Fish Bowls Starlight CurtainsCandelabras Furniture Asian Wedding StagingCeiling Draping

Lanterns Table CenterpiecesChair Covers Martini Glasses ThronesDance Floors Mehndi Stages

Topiary Bay TreesFairy Lights Mirror Plates UplightingOstrich Plumes Venue DrapingFloral Arrangements

“You don’t need to promise me the moon and the stars

just promise to stand under them with me

forever.”

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3 to 1 month before

Confirm numbers for venue

Work on speeches

Hair and Make-up trial

Do table plan

6 to 3 months before

Send out Invitations

Confirm your Gift List

Teeth Whitening

Think about favors

&

The wedding ring goes on the fourth finger of the left hand because it is the only finger with a vein that connects to the heart.

Superstition

It is good luck for a bride to see a chimney sweep on the way to her wedding.

It is bad luck for a groom to see his bride in her gown before the ceremony.

Before the Ceremony

British tradition states that the bride stands to the right of her father, they lead the procession followed by the

bridesmaids and pageboys.

The Wedding Ceremony

The bride stands on the left of the groom to allow his sword arm to be free to fight off other men

who may want her as their bride.

Receiving Line

The bride’s parents are traditionally hosts and should be the first to greet guests followed by the bride

and groom and then the groom’s parents.

Top Table Seating

The bride and groom should always be in the centre of the table with the groom to the right and the bride and grooms

parents on either side. The best man and chief bridesmaid can also be seated on the top table.

Speeches

The first speech is given by the father of the bride ending with a toast to the bride and groom. The groom then thanks the bride’s parents and toasts the bridesmaids

and lastly it’s the best man’s speech.

Favours

Traditionally five almonds were given to represent fertility, longevity, wealth, health and happiness.

Tossing the Bouquet

The bouquet is tossed to single women with the belief that whoever catches it will be the next to marry.

Cutting the Cake

The bride cuts the cake with the help of her groom to symbolize his added strength to always help and support her. They then feed each other from the first slice to symbolize

their commitment to provide for each other.

First Dance

The happy couple start then the groom should dance with his mother-in-law then his mother while the bride dances with her

father-in-law then her father. Best man and chief bridesmaid join as the happy couple dance with their in-laws.

...THE BIG COUNTDOWN SUPERSTITIONSWEDDING ETTIQUETTE

The last month

Try on all wedding clothes, there’s still time for alterations

Order currency (if going overseas)

Stag and Hen weekends!

Make final supplier payments

Buy Bridesmaids and Groomsmen gifts

Get married!

“This day I will marry my friend, the one I laugh with, dream with, live for and

love.”

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PLANNING YOUR TOP TABLE

Bridal Hair and Nail packages.

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Traditionally from left to right when standing facing the top table it would be :

Chief bridesmaid, Groom's father, bride's mother, groom, bride, bride's father, groom's mother, best man.

If the bride’s parents have divorced and remarried

From the left: bride’s stepfather, chief bridesmaid, groom’s father, bride’s mother, groom, bride, bride’s father, groom’s mother, best man, bride’s stepmother.

If the groom’s parents have divorced and remarried

From the left: best man, groom’s stepmother, groom’s father, bride’s mother, groom, bride, bride’s father, groom’s mother, groom’s stepfather, chief bridesmaid.

If both sets of parents have divorced and remarried

From the left: groom’s stepmother, bride’s stepfather, chief bridesmaid, groom’s father, bride’s mother, groom, bride, bride’s father, groom’s mother, best man, bride’s stepmother, groom’s stepfather.

But remember it's your wedding and placings at the top table are YOUR decision.

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The Celebrant/Vicar will be at the front awaiting the bridal party.

The Bride's Mother: The mother of the bride's entrance indicates the wedding is about to begin. Once she reaches the end of the aisle, she takes her seat to the left of the aisle in the first row. (In Jewish ceremonies, she and the bride's father escort their daughter down the aisle together.)

The Groomsmen: The groomsmen walk down the aisle one by one. Some couples also choose to have the groomsmen and chief bridesmaid walk in together arm-in-arm.

The Best Man: The best man either walks up alone and takes his place at the altar next to the groom or he walks in as the last groomsman or very often together with the groom.

The Groom: The groom will walk down the aisle alone and take his place to the right. However, many couples choose to have the groom's parents escort him down the aisle (then, his parents would sit to the right of the aisle in the front row).

The Flower Girl(s) and Ring Bearer(s): The ring bearer and flower girl precede the bride down the aisle.

Traditionally, the ring bearer carries the wedding rings (or decoys, if he's too little to be trusted with the

real things), tied to a small pillow. The flower girl may carry a basket of petals, which she scatters as she walks, or a posy of flowers. After the procession is over and the rings are handed to the best man, the children's work is done, and they can be seated with their parents.

The Bridesmaids: The bridesmaids walk down the aisle one by one or in pairs before the

bride.

The Father of the Bride (or whoever is 'giving the bride away' and the Bride: The bride is the last to make her entrance and the father traditionally escorts his daughter down the aisle, standing to her right. After he "gives her away" to the groom, he lifts her veil (if she's wearing one) and kisses her, signifying his blessing, then takes his seat beside the bride's mother.

Remember there are no rules - do what is right for you!

THE COMPLETE GUIDE TO WHO WALKS WHERE!

Tip!

Men's buttonholes go on the left with the flowers pointing up and ladies

go on the right with the flowers pointing down.

A – Ask for help: You don’t have to do everything yourself.

B – Bartering: If you don’t ask you won’t get!

C – Cocktails: Ditch the expensive bubbles and serve pitchers of your own bespoke cocktail, ask your venue for ideas!

D – DIY: By making some items yourself you’ll cut down the cost.

E – Experience: It counts so don’t be tempted to make savings with professional wedding services.

F – Fun: Weddings are fun so relax!

G – Great Entertainment: Outdoor games go down really well and don’t cost a lot to buy.

H – Honeymoon: There are lots of discount travel sites so make sure you check them before booking!

I – Imagination: Let your imagination run wild and don’t be afraid to go for something out there!

J – Join: You can join internet wedding forum sites for ideas and inspiration.

K – Keep: Keep everything up to date.

L – Lists: What bride doesn’t have a list?

M – Music: Ceremony, first dance, play list – it’s OK to have your favourite love song and a sprinkling of cheese!

N – No: If you don’t like something speak up and just say No!

O – Organisation: Don’t leave everything untill the last minute.

P – People: It’s important to have input but it’s YOUR wedding!

Q – Quality not quantity: You don’t need to have everything that has wedding next to it!

R – Recommendations: These are great, so ask your recently married friends who did they use?

S – Savvy shopping: Take advantage of sales and cut the cost of those must haves.

T – Tough love: Be ruthless with that guest list!

U – Unpopular: Some midweek venue

dates are often much cheaper and you could save a fortune!

V – VAT: Make sure the price you are quoted is the price you pay and nothing is hidden!

W – Win: Enter as many wedding-related competitions as you find – somebody’s going to win!

X – XXX: All the way!

Y – You: Your Wedding day so do it YOUR way!

Z – Zero: 0% interest rates on credit cards are great, so if you use a credit card try and use one which is 0% APR

A - Z OF WEDDING TIPS

“I love you then, I love you

still, I always have and

always will.”

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PAY IT FORWARDTruly Scrumptious Wedding & Events are privileged to be a part of couples very special Wedding Day, work alongside the most professional and friendliest local wedding suppliers within an industry we love and for this we are extremely grateful. We believe it’s important to pay it forward and support two worthy causes at our Wedding Shows.

The Wedding Wishing Well Foundation

A national charity who organise weddings for bride or grooms with life-limiting or terminal illnesses. A collection tin is available on the Registration Desk at all our weddings shows and you are invited to contribute, if every single one of our couples donated just £1 we would be able to contribute £1,000 every year to this worthy charity.

You can also help by donating your wedding dress or other outfits and accessories by simply taking them to your local Johnson's the cleaners. Alternatively many couples, instead of providing their guests wedding favours, make a donation to the The Wedding Wishing Well Foundation and every penny donated will go towards helping couples achieve what they already have.

www.weddingwishingwell.org.uk

Cherished Gowns for Angel Babies UK

Every year around 17 babies a day or 3500 a year are born sleeping or sadly pass away shortly after birth. These babies can be very small and too often the parents are unable to find something appropriate to dress their baby in. All parents should be given the opportunity to dress their baby and all babies should be laid to rest in a special item of clothing.

The aim of Cherished Gowns is to provide the families of these previous babies with an item of clothing that they are able to wear for their final farewell. Cherished Gowns provide hospitals around the UK with a comfort pack to give to parents that contain a special gown made from a wedding or other formal dress which has been donated.

www.cherishedgowns.org.uk

Would you like to get involved?

If you are interested in donating your gown we provide an opportunity at our Wedding Shows for you to don your wedding gown for one final time and be a part of our catwalk show. You will have professional hair and make-up styling and a photograph taken by one of our professional photographers which is yours to keep. If strutting your stuff on the catwalk is not for you, you can of course still donate a gown without being involved in the stage show.

Email info@truly-scrumptious-weddings.co.uk

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WEDDING SHOWS

20182 September – Holiday Inn, Peterborough23 September – Marriott Hotel, Huntingdon 7 October – Wyboston Lakes, Wyboston, Beds14 October – The Haycock Hotel, Wansford 28 October – Holiday Inn, Cambridge4 November – Stoke Rochford Hall, Grantham18 November – Marriott Hotel, Peterborough

201913 January – Holiday Inn, Peterborough20 January – Wyboston Lakes, Wyboston, Beds10 February – The Haycock Hotel, Wansford3 March - Marriott Hotel, Peterborough7 April – Marriott Hotel, Huntingdon12 May - Holiday Inn, Cambridge

Dates not to be missed!