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FALL 2011
Family Forum is the
newsletterof the
Minnesota Council on
Family Relations, a
state affiliate of the
National Council on
Family Relations
Friday, December 2, 2011 SAVE THE DATE! MCFR Annual ConferenceFeaturing nationally acclaimed speaker, U of Arkansas’ Dr. H. Wallace Goddard
Como Park Visitor Center, Rainforest Auditorium, St Paul, MN
The Minnesota Council on Family
Relations strengthens all
families by educating and
supporting family professionals and
promoting connections
among those involved in
research, policy and practice.
Annual Elections Issue!PleasereviewthefollowingMCFRSlateofBoardnominees,thenprintyour
ballot(page5)andfaxitto651‐407‐1754byNovember15.
President Elect: Mary Maher, MSW, LPEhasaMaster'sdegreeinSocialworkfromtheUniversityofMinnesotaandisalicensedparenteducator.ShehasworkedfortheChildbirthEducationAssociation(5years),EarlyChildhoodFamilyEducation(26years),ParentWarmline(2years),UniversityofMinnesota(4years)anddonevariousspecialprojectsfortheDepartmentofEducationandMinnesota'sExtensionService.SheiscurrentlyemployedatNorthwestYouthandFamilyServices. HerBoardexperienceincludesapriortermontheMCFRboardandservingontheDownSyndromeAssociationofMinnesotaandTheresaLivingCenterBoardofDirectors.AgoalshehasforMCFRistoincreaseservicestostudentmembersandincreaseourmembershiptoincludeadiversityoffamilyprofessionals. MarylivesinRosevillewithherhusbandMarkandtheirdogAstro.Sheisadjustingtoanemptynest.
Secretary: Kristin Dillon, MS, PhDisaResearchScientistatWilderResearch.Inherwork,sheevaluatesprogramsthatimpactfamiliesinmanydifferentways.Sheevaluatesarangeofprogramsfromsmallonesaimedat
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From the President Leanne SponselMinnesota Council on Family Relations
Board of DirectorsPresident
..............Leanne Sponsel 651-646-1474
President-Elect.........................San Ha 952-285-8685
Immediate Past President...................Beth Yokom 763-506-2469
Secretary..............Michael Brown 651-582-8399
Treasurer................Heather Cline 612-624-3082
Membership Committee Chair ..............Nancy Melquist 651-303-1219
Policy Committee Chair..............................Volunteer Needed
Communications Committee Chair....................Peg Lindlof 651-735-2489
Ethical Practices Project Chair..................Betty Cooke 952-545-0588
Spring Conference Chair................Heather Cline 612-624-3082
Ethics Workshops Coordinating Committee Chairs
.....................Rose Allen 651-480-7745.................Minnell Tralle 763-767-3881
Student Section Chair.............Alisha Hardman 612-616-6906
NCFR Representative.................Minnell Tralle 763-767-3881
Past Presidents....................Ada Alden 612-975-6990
......Marcie Brooke, CFLE 661-714-5162......................Ron Pitzer 612-331-1970
At-Large Members..................MIke Bender 763-331-4443...................Kristin Dillon 612-484-4014
............Eric Hansen, EdD 612-692-1318.............Nancy Melquist 651-407-2024............Raelene Ostberg 507-645-2948
................Monica Potter 612-239-8312................Sharon Powell 612-729-7459
....................Nicole Rice 612-799-2858.......Holly Weisert, CFLE 651-788-0425
Family Forum Editor: ......................Ron Pitzer 612-331-1970
Family Forum Managing Editor: ...............Linda Vukelich 651-278-4241
Minnesota Council on Family Relations2738 Evergreen Cir, St. Paul, MN 55110
phone: 651-407-0950 fax: 651-407-1754www.mcfr.net
Hello to all,
It’sfall!Ummmm,It’ssummer!Ummmm.Whattimeofyearisit?!IknowitisOctober,buttheweatherforecastpredicts80degrees–anicedaytoenjoyboththeemergingcolorsandthesunshine.Wow. As2011beginsitslastquarter,IamlookingforwardtoMCFR’s“wow”ofaconference.OnourtraditionaldateofthefirstFridayinDecember–December2–wehavetheopportunityto
learnfromDr.WallyGoddardandothersaboutimportantaspectsofourworkwithfamilies.The Power of Relationships – Enhancing Skill‐based Practicewillsurelybeaconferencethatcouldbelifeandprofessionalpracticechanging.Ihopeyou’lljoinus! Andspeakingofjoiningus...therearepositionsopenonourboardandwewouldwelcomenewandreturningfaces.Ifyou’renotinterestedinaboardposition,howaboutparticipatinginaone‐timeeventorservingonacommittee?Iknowit’soddto“invite”yourselftosucharole,butwewouldbegratefulandsoenthusiasticitmightblowyouover.Andspeakingofbeingblownover,awindgustjustcreatedaflurryofleavesoutsidemywindow–probablyareminderformetogetonwithmyday. Wishingyouacolorfulfall,LeanneM.Sponsel
supportingteenagemothersorpreventingchildmaltreatmenttolargestatewidealcohol,tobacco,andotherdrugpreventioninitiativesthatengagefamiliesandcommunitiestokeepyouthhealthyandsafe.Asanevaluator,shehelpstomakesurethatprogramsareservingfamiliesaseffectivelyaspossible. KristinhasherMSandPh.D.inFamilySocialSciencefromtheUniversityofMinnesota. ShehasbeenaboardmemberofMCFRforthepastsixyears.Inthattimeshehashelddifferentpositionsontheboard,fromtheStudentSectionfounderandchairtotheTreasurertothechairorco‐chairofthreeconferences.Sheappreciatesthewarmthandpassionoftheboard,andisexcitedfortheopportunitytoexploreanewroleontheboard.
Treasurer: Beth Yokom, LPE, MA, ECFE/SR Supervisor ‐ Anoka‐Hennepin School DistrictIworkedfor14yearsasalicensedparenteducatorintheMoundsViewECFEprogram,including8yearsintheFamilyLearningProgram,afamilyliteracyprogramfundedbyEvenStart.Since2006,I’veworkedasanECFE/SRPSupervisorintheAnoka‐HennepinSchoolDistrict.Also,IhaveexperienceasaworkshopdesignerandtrainerforvariousprojectsinFamily
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LiteracyandECFE,andI’mamemberoftheMNECFECurriculumCommittee,whoserecentprojecthasbeenthecreationandpublicationofMinnesota’sParentEducationCoreCurriculumFramework. EducationalBackground:
• BA,ConcordiaCollege,Moorhead,MN• ParentEducationLicense,UMN• GraduateFellowship,UMN• MA,FamilyEducation,UMN
MyhusbandandIareadjustingtoasometimes‐emptynestasouryoungadultchildrenfindtheirwayintheworld–noeasytaskrightnow,evenwithacollegedegree.So,theycomeandtheygoandtheycomeandtheygo…Ilovetosing,read,knit,travel,hike,communewithnatureandgoodfriends,gotoplaysandconcerts,andsleep!Myferventwishistofindtimeinmydaystosewandquilt,andmaybetorevivemygolfgame,dormantformanyyears. IenjoyservingontheMCFRBoardbecauseofthevarietyoffamilyprofessionalsMCFRserves.We,whoworkwithfamilies,havemuchtoteachoneanother,andMCFRprovidesopportunitiestodojustthat.Becauseit’sagreatgatheringplaceforfamilyprofessionals,MCFRisprofessionallyenergizing. MCFRBoardExperience:
• ConferencePlanningCommittee,Dec.2006• Secretary• CommunicationsCommitteeChair• President‐Elect,President,PastPresident
At Large Board Members:Mike Brown, EdD EarlyChildhoodEducationSpecialist,MinnesotaDepartmentofEducationMikeBrownworksattheMinnesotaDepartmentofEducation.Atthestatelevel,heworkswithEarlyChildhoodFamilyEducation,HeadStartandSchoolReadiness.HereceivedhisB.A.inpsychologyandsociologyfromtheUniversityofMinnesotain1996.HealsoreceivedhisM.Ed.andEd.D.inFamilyEducationfromtheUniversityofMinnesota,in1998and2007,respectively.HeisalsoanadjunctinstructorattheUniversityofMinnesota. MikelivesinBlaine,MN,withhiswifeandtwochildren.
Carol Bruess, PhD MyprimaryworkisasaProfessorofFamilyCommunicationandDirectorofFamilyStudiesattheUniversityofSt.Thomas.WhileI'vebeenatUSTfor14years,myinterestinthestudyoffamilybegan20yearsagowhenIconductedmyfirststudyonmarriageandthedevelopmentofaco‐culturebetweencoupleswhoshareprivatelanguage,likenicknames.SincethenIhavebeenstudyingandteachingaboutfamiliesandmarriages,specificallyritualsofconnectionindaily,mundaneinteraction.I'mpassionateabouttranslatingexcellentresearchonfamilyandrelationshipsintosourcesthatarewidelyconsumedbyindividualsinmarriages,partnershipsandfamiliestohelpthemhavesmarter,strongerandmoreinspiredinteractions.I'vewritten3hybridbooks‐‐scholarshipinprettygiftbookform‐‐onhappycouples,keepingmarriagestrongwhencouplesarealsoparenting,andritualsofconnectionsustainingstrongfemalebonds. MyM.A.andPh.D.arebothfromOhioUniversity'sSchoolofInterpersonalCommunication.IhaveaB.A.inArt. Ilovebeerandhotyoga(notatthesametime),amabouttocelebrate20yearsofhappycoupledomtomycollegesweetheartBrian,amanavidseamstressandrecentlymademysister'sweddingdress,havetworeallycoolkids(Tonyis15andhasagreatsenseofhumorandhisfirstjobatDavanni'sonCleveland/GrandAve;Gracieis11andjustabouteverythingmakesherhappy,especiallyifshecancraftit,kickitaroundafield,catchitwithaglove,orswiminit).WealsohaveFred(woof),our5.5lbYorkie,theyoungestandmostspoiledmemberofourfamily. Assomeonerathernewtothefieldoffamilystudies,yetwantingtolearnasmuchasIcanbecauseIseetheincrediblepassion,excitementanddesireofsomanyofourstudents,I'mexcitedtobeaneagerlearnerintheMCFRjourneyandshare‐fromanovice,fresh,outsiderperspective‐whatMCFRlooks/feelslikefrommymulti‐disciplinary
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vantagepoint.Honestly,Ialsolovemeetingotherswholovestudying/workingwithfamilies;mybestguessisthatwillhappenbyjoiningtheMCFRboard?!
Peggy Cardenas MyworkasaSchoolSocialWorkeratSunnysideElementaryinMoundsViewSchoolDistricthasbeenthefocusofmycareersince1990.Priortothisexperience,IworkedforWilderFoundationfor11years.Icurrentlyworkwithelementaryschoolchildrenandtheirfamiliesaroundmanyissues,including:familychanges,familychemicaldependency,mentalhealthconcerns,social
issuesandacademicconcerns.Imeetwithchildrenindividuallyandinsocialskillsgroupsandhelpthemwithproblemsthatoccurintheirlives.Matchingfamilieswithcommunityresourcesisamajorfocusinmypositionandisalwaysachallenge.Ienjoyservingonseveralcommitteeswithintheschooldistrictandinthecommunity. MyMSWisfromSt.ThomasUniversityandmyBAinSocialWorkandEarlyChildhoodTeachingCertificateisfromtheUniversityofMinnesota. Iamaproudmotherof2childrenandanequallyproudgrandmotherof5children.Iloveanimalsandcurrentlyhave2dogsandacat.Ienjoywatchingsports,playingsports,biking,hiking,readingandquilting.Ienjoyspendingtimewithmyfamilyandwithmyfriends.Ilovetotravelandhopetodomoreofit.Beingapartofagroupofpeoplewhoareworkinginthefieldoffamilyrelationsandhelpingfamiliesnavigatetheirwaythroughresourcesinourcommunity,isveryappealingtome.IbelieveitwillbeagrowthexperienceformeandaplaceformetocontributesomeofthethingsIhavelearnedinworkingwithfamilies.
Colleen ClementsIhavebeenanactivemotherandvolunteerinvariouscapacities(includingGirlScoutleader,ReadingIsFundamentalschoolcoordinator,schoolreadinggroupleader,andothers)forthelast14years,andrecentlycompletedmylicensurerequirementsandMEdinparenteducationattheUniversityofMinnesota.IamcurrentlyaPhDstudentattheU,intheFamily,YouthandCommunitytrack,withanemphasisinFamily.Areasoffocusincludeparenteducationandfamilypolicy.Inaddition,IsharethepositionofcoordinatoroftheParentandFamilyEducationLicensureProgramattheUniversityofMinnesotawithHeatherCline.MyhusbandandIhavethreekids:a14‐year‐oldsonand11‐year‐oldboy/girltwins.WeliketotraveltogetherandhavehadthegreatgoodfortuneofvisitingEuropeandtheBritishIsles,aswellasanumberofstatesintheUS(27andcounting!).Wealsoliketocookandeatgoodfoodtogether,andweallshareapassionformusicandreading.IaminterestedinbeingontheboardofMCFRtoexpandmyownunderstandingandknowledgeaboutfamiliesinoursocietyandtodevelopmyownleadershipskills.Inaddition,IbelievemembershipontheboardofMCFRwillallowmetofindnewwaystoserveandsupportfamilies.
Beth GausmanIamaMinnesotalicensedPre‐KindergartenandParentandFamilyEducatoraswellasaCertifiedFamilyLifeEducator.IamcurrentlywritingabookonfacilitatingonlinelearningforadultlearnersthroughParentingPressandIamworkingwithElizabethCraryasshebringsherbookSTARParentingtothegeneralpublicthroughonlinelearningsystems.Additionally,IwillbeginworkingwithConcordiaCollegeinthespringasanonlineeducatorwiththeirFamilyLifeEducationProgramofstudy.Mypreviousworkopportunitieshaveincluded;childcareatacenterforat‐riskchildren,ECEandParentEducatorwithDistrict279ECFE,authorofSoundFoundations‐aparentingkitforat‐riskparentsofyoungchildren,andinstructorinanearlychildhoodeducationprogramatacommunitycollege. IhaveaBachelorsofSciencedegreefromtheUniversityofMinnesotainHomeEconomicswithadditionalfocusareasofstudyinEarlyChildhoodEducationandParentEducation.MyMastersdegreeisinPostSecondaryandAdultEducationfromCapellaUniversity. IameagertojointheboardofMCFRasamemberatlarge.Iwaspreviouslyontheboardinthe1990’sbutleftsoonaftermyappointmentwhenmyhusbandandImovedourfamilytoanotherstate.Priortomyleavingin1994,IservedontheEthicsCommitteeduringwhichtimetheoriginalEthicalThinkingandPracticeforParentandFamilyLifeEducatorswaspublished.
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InmytimeawayfrommyprofessionalendeavorsIenjoyreading,hikingandtimespentatmyfamiliesremotecabin“upnorth”.InthesummerIameagertofindtimetospendinmykayakandinthewintertreadingaroundonmysnowshoes.MyhusbandandIareproudparentsoftwoadultsons,whocontinuetobringuspleasureandpride.
Alisha M. Hardman, CFLEIreceivedmyBachelor’sofScienceinFamilyStudiesandHumanServicesatKansasStateUniversityinMay2005andcompletedmyMastersofScienceinFamilyLifeEducationandConsultationalsoatKansasStateinAugustof2008.ImovedtoMinnesotainAugustof2008andamcurrentlyadoctoralstudentattheUniversityofMinnesotaintheDepartmentofCurriculumandInstructionFamily,YouthandCommunityprogramtrack.IaminmyfourthyearasagraduateresearchassistantwiththeUniversityofMinnesotaExtensionCenterforFamilyDevelopmentResearchandEvaluationUnit.InthisroleIconsulton,design,collectdata,analyzedataandwriteupreportsandarticlesforanumberofresearchandevaluationprojects.IamanavidK‐StatefootballandbasketballfansowatchingthegamesismyfavoritepastimewhenI'mnotbusywithcourseworkormyassistantship.IhaveservedontheboardastheStudent/NewProfessionalchairthepasttwoyearsandameagertocontinueservingontheboardinanewcapacity.
Lisa Krause, MA, isafamilylifeeducationstudentandcertifiedparentcoach.ShefoundedtheadoptionandfostercareministryatCalvaryLutheranChurchinGoldenValleywheresheprovidessupportgroups,parenteducationandyouthdevelopmentprogramsforadoptedandfostercareyouth.Shealsohasexperienceworkingasadomesticabuseadvocateandchildcareprovider.Hercurrentpassionisprogramdevelopmentparticularlyintheareaofadoption/fostercare,youthdevelopmentandparenteducation. Lisaisamotheroftwowonderfulteensandatwentyyearold.Sheisenjoyingseeinghowhernewroleasaparentofanadultisunfolding.Herfavoriteactivitiesarescrapbooking,campingandgeocaching. AsmyschoolingiscomingtoanendIwantedtofindawaytocontinueworkingwithcolleagueswhosharethesamepassionsforfamiliesasIdowhilefurtherstrengtheningthecredibilityofthefieldoffamilylifeeducation.BeingontheMCFRboardwouldmeetthosegoals.•B.A.Psychology‐St.CloudStateUniversity•M.A.FamilyLifeEducation‐ConcordiaUniversitytobecompletedinFebruaryof2012.•CertifiedParentCoach‐ConcordiaUniversity,St.Paul.
Gail Peavey, MSForthelastfourteenyears,IhavebeenemployedwithUniversityofWisconsin‐CooperativeExtensionasaFamilyLivingAgentandCo‐DepartmentHeadforthePolkCountyExtensionOfficeinBalsamLake,WI.Mycareerasanextensionagenthasprovidedmenumeroustrainingsandopportunitiestoenhancefamilyrelationships,promotepositiveparentingandco‐parentingstrategiesandhelpfamiliesmeetfuturefinancialneedswhileaddressingthebasicofspending,saving,andhousingissues.PriortomycareerwithUWExtension,IworkedforeightyearsasaparenteducatorintheMarshall,MNECFEprogram. IreceivedmyundergraduatedegreeinBusinessEducationandtaughtbusinessforfouryearspriortochoosingoneofthemostimportantcareersandthatbeingawifeandmothertothreechildren.Whenouryoungestwasthreeyearsold,Istartedpart‐timeasaparenteducatorforECFEandbeganthenon‐traditionaleducationaljourneyofgraduateschoolwhereIearned(aftereightyears)myMastersofScienceinChildandFamiliesStudiesfromStCloudStateUniversitywithalicenseinEarlyChildhoodandParentEducation.Bothmyundergraduateandgraduatedegreeandteachingcareerpreparedmeformynewroleasanextensioneducator. Oneofmyfavoritejoysinlifeisspendingtimewithourgrandchildren.Everyweek,mygrandsonandIplaytogetheratECFEinBurnsville.WhenRuger‘graduates’fromECFE,thatspecialplaytimewillcontinuewithhisyoungerbrother.MyhusbandandIalsoenjoytravelingandexperiencingdifferentculturesandfoodsaswellasrelaxingatourcabinonasmallWisconsinlake. Ilookforwardtonetworkingwithcolleaguesasacontributingmemberandalsogainingprofessionalknowledgeandexperiencesinhelpingfulfillthemission.
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Heather Cline, MCFR Treasurer
MCFRhashadanenergizingandprosperous2011.ThespringconferencefeaturingDr.DavidWalshbroughtinnearly$6,000inregistrationincome,andcostus$3,700inexpenses.Thankstoconferenceparticipation,includingongoingethicsworkshops,andmembershiprenewalsourcurrentbalanceis$10,266.02.Thisisup$4,193.66fromSeptember2010.Aswelooktowardtheendof2011,withtheDecemberconferencestillonthehorizon,weareproudofouraccomplishmentsandthankfultoallwhohavecontributedtoourgrowth.Withyourcontinuedsupport,MCFRwillcontinuepursuingourmissiontoeducate,support,andconnectfamilyprofessionals.
Communications Committee ReportPegLindlof,CommunicationsCommitteeChair
TheMCFRCommunicationsCommitteeisworkingtobecomemorevisibleinternallyasaresourceformembers,andexternallyasasourceofinformationandexpertiseaboutfamilyissuesthroughoutthelifespan.IfyouareamemberofMCFR(oranNCFRmemberwholivesinMinnesota)youaregettingweeklyMinneNewsupdates.
Ifyouaren’tamember,butenjoyreadingthisnewsletterpublishedthreetimesayear,we’dliketoinviteyoutobecomemoreinvolved.Letusknowwhatkindsofprofessionaldevelopmentopportunitiesyouneedthatarenotcurrentlyavailabletoyou.Feedbackfrommembersiswelcomeandalwayscarefullyconsidered.
MembersoftheMembershipandCommunicationscommitteesarecollaboratingthroughaMarketingTaskForce.Duringtherestof2011wewillalsocollaboratewiththeStudentSectiontoexplorehowsocialmediamightimproveorenhanceourcommunicationandmarketingefforts.
MCFRmembersarewelcometopostevents,news,questionsorideasonourlistserv.SendyouremailmessagetoMCFR@lists.umn.edu.ContactSanHaathaxx0039@umn.edutopostyourorganization’slinkoreventonthewebsite.
Committee Reports Treasurer’s Corner
$Have you renewed your MCFR membership? ThetermforMCFRmembershipisSeptember1–August31.MCFRmembersreceivedanemailmembershiprenewalreminderonSeptember1,2011.
Why you should join MCFR or renew your membership: MCFR’smissionsupportsyouandyourwork.It'saninvestmentinyourprofessionalidentity.MCFRoffersyou
‐aprofessionalworkingwithfamilies‐opportunitiestolearn,connectandtakeactionwithothersinthefamilyfield.MCFRistheMinnesotaaffiliateoftheNationalCouncilonFamilyRelations(NCFR.) Yourmembershipalsosavesyoumoney,withreducedfeesforMCFRconferencesandworkshops. Visitwww.mcfr.nettolearnmoreaboutallofthebenefitsandactivitiesofMCFR.Ifyouwouldpreferamembershiprenewalapplicationmailedtoyou,calltheMCFRofficeat651‐407‐0950.
Membership Committee ReportHave you renewed your MCFR Membership?
NancyMelquist,MembershipCommitteeChair
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It’s hard to believe thattwoyearshavepassedandinNovemberI’llfinishmytermontheNCFRBoardofDirectorsandtakethehelmoftheAffiliateCouncilsBoardasPresident.RoseAllenwilltakemyplaceontheBoardofDirectorsinhernewroleasPresident‐electoftheAffiliateCouncils.IhavelearnedsomuchabouttheNCFRorganizationandmetsomewonderfulandcommittedboardmembersaswell.Ifyouareeveraskedtoservethisorganization,Iwouldencourageyoutodoso.WehavegreatleadershippotentialhereinMinnesota.
The NCFR Annual Conference is coming up November 16‐19 in Orlando.Ifyouhaven’tdoneso,takealookattheprogramatwww.ncfr.org.Thereare
lotsofinterestingworkshopsrelatedtothetheme“FamiliesandtheShiftingEconomy”.Scanningtheprogram,InoticedanumberoffamiliarnamesincludingMCFRBoardmembers,PegLindlof,AlishaHardmannandme.OtherMinnesotascholarspresentingatNCFRincludeJodiDworkin,JenniferDoty,KathrynRettig,JeanBauer,PaulineBoss,SusanWalker,KatherineWickel,CatherineSolheim,NancyGonzalez,PaulRosenblatt,EllieMcCann,andMaryMarczak.I’msureImissedothers,butwhatalineup!Ihopetoseeyouthere.
MinnellTralle,AffiliateCouncilsPresident‐electNCFRLiasontoMCFR
What’s New at NCFR by Minnell Tralle, CFLE
Ethics Project to be ReviewedMCFRispleasedtobethedistributoroftheEthical Thinking and Practiceworkshopsandwearegettingrequestsfromawidevarietyofinterestedprofessionalswhoworkwithfamilies.Weareintheprocessofdecidingifandhowtoadaptmaterialsforeachaudienceaswellasageneralreviewoftheproject.IfyouhaveattendedanEthical Thinking and Practiceworkshop,wewouldvalueyourfeedback!Thinkaboutwhatyoulearned,howyouusedtheinformation,and/orwhatyou'dstillliketolearn.Thenletusknow!SendinformationtoLeanneSponsel,[email protected].
Thanksforyourinput. LeanneSponsel,MCFRPresident
Stay in touch at www.mcfr.net
Sharon Powell, PhD earnedherMastersdegreeinHumanDevelopmentCounselingfromVanderbiltUniversity(1994)andherdoctorateinFamilySocialSciencefromtheUniversityofMinnesota(2004).Herprofessionalinterestsincludefamilypolicy,childdevelopment,andlow‐incomefamilyissues.ShecurrentlydivideshertimeteachingadjunctattheUinFamilySocialScienceandservingastheFamilyandChildren’sProgramCoordinatorattheSpiritofSt.Stephen’sCatholicCommunity.
The Ballot is found on page 8.
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2011 MCFR Board BallotPresident‐Elect: (Choose or write‐in one nominee) ☐MaryMaher,MSW,LPE
☐______________________________________
Secretary: (Choose or write‐in one nominee) Treasurer: (Choose or write‐in one nominee)
☐KristinDillon,MS,PhD☐ BethYokom,LPE,MA
☐______________________________________☐ ______________________________________
At‐Large Members: (Choose or write‐in up to nine nominees)☐MichaelP.Brown,EdD ☐ AlishaM.Hardman,CFLE
☐CarolBruess,PhD☐ LisaKrause,MA
☐PeggyCardenas☐ GailPeavey,MS
☐ColleenClements☐ SharonPowell,PhD☐BethGausman
☐_____________________________________
DIRECTIONS
Pleaseprintthispage,thenreturnyourcompletedballottoMCFRviafax(651‐407‐1754)
orUSmailto: MinnesotaCouncilonFamilyRelations 2738EvergreenCircle St.PaulMN55110.
Ballots are due by November 15, 2011 Thank you.
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Student/New Professional Events
Inanefforttoprovidestudentsandnewprofessionals withmoreopportunities,theS/NPsectionwillbehostingtwoeventseachsemester.TheseeventswillrangefromworkshopsthathelpstudentsandnewprofessionalsdevelopskillstosocialeventsthatallowS/NPstogathertogethertosocializewithoneanother. Wehadasmallgroupofstudentsandfamilyprofessionalsmeetforourfirstfallevent,heldonFriday,October7.Thediscussionfeaturedtwofamilyprofessionals:WilliamAllen,alicensedmarriageandfamilytherapistandNancyMelquistwhoisalicensedparenteducator.Thegroupengagedinastimulatingdialogueaboutthefamilyfieldwithparticularemphasisonthevitalroleofrelationshipsinbothfamilytherapyandfamilyandparenteducation.StudentsandnewprofessionalscanfindresourcesfromthiseventincludinginformationregardingtheMinnesotalicensingrequirementsforbothMarriageandFamilyTherapistsandParentEducatorsonourwebsiteundertheFall2011topic“AConversationwithFamilyProfessionals:MarriageandFamilyTherapy&ParentEducation.” Join us for a social gathering at Sweeney’s Saloon on Friday, November 4 from 4:30 to 6:30 pm. Comeenjoyhappyhourappetizersandsocializewith
otherstudents!Thisisagreatopportunitytomeetandminglewithotherstudentsinfamilyrelatedprograms. Ourspringeventsincludeaworkshoponwritingandsubmittingconferenceproposalsandanotherconversationwithfamilyprofessionals.CheckourwebsiteregularlyforupdatedinformationontheseeventsandotheropportunitiesavailablethroughtheS/NPsectionofMCFR.
Professional Development Opportunities
TheMCFRFallConferenceisquicklyapproaching!Afewofthebenefitsthatstudentswhoattendwillgaininclude:theopportunitytohearakeynotepresentationbyanationally‐recognizedspeaker,anopportunitytonetworkandbecomemorefamiliarwithfamilyprofessionalsaswellastheworkbeingdonewithfamiliesinMinnesota. Thestudentrateforthisconferenceis$59butduespayingstudentmembersofMCFRareeligibletoapplyforascholarshiptoattendtheconference.Thosewhoreceiveascholarshipwillbeabletoregisterfortheconferenceforonly$29.ThescholarshipformisavailableontheS/NPwebsiteandbyclickingontheconferenceregistrationlinkontheMCFRconferencewebsite.ThedeadlineforstudentscholarshipapplicationsisNovember15.
Student/New Professional Section Alisha Hardman, CFLE, Student Section Chair
A note from the Editor:
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ImayaswellstartthisreviewbystatingbaldlythatIthinkDavidWalsh’sbookshouldberequiredreadingforeveryparentorprospectiveparentanddefinitelymandatoryreadingforanyoneworkingwithfamilies.Inadditiontoseveralotherbooks,hehaswrittenNo:WhyKids‐‐‐ofAllAges‐‐‐NeedtoHearItandWaysParentsCanSayit,whereWalshtaughtparentshowtosay“no”whenitwasnecessary.InWhyDoTheyActThatWay?:ASurvivalGuidetotheAdolescentBrainforYouandYourTeen,heshowedparentshowtonavigatethedramaandupheavalofadolescence.[Inmyreviewofthisbook,Isuggestedthatparentsandteensorpre‐teensreadanddiscusstheimplicationsofthisbooktogether].Andnow,WalshhaswrittenSmartParenting,SmarterKids.Inthisexcitingnewbook,Walshlooksatthelatestscientificfindingsandnewandinterestingfactsaboutthebrain,frombirththroughadolescence.Inadditiontoprovidingfamilieswithsolidscientificinformationaboutthebrain,Walshalsodiscussesimportantaspectsofexercise,nutrition,play[playisakid’sjobandequipsher/himforveryimportantadultfunctions],sleep,emotionalintelligenceandsocialconnection.
Therearesixteenchaptersinthisnewbook,includingOurChildren’sAmazingBrains;HowtoRaiseYourChild’sIQ;HowtheBrainListens,Speaks,ReadsandWrites;Memory,Attention,andtheRuleofSeven[i.e.
ourbrainsaredesignedtorememberupto7chunksofinformationatatime];BrainFood:NutritionandtheBrain;PlayisSeriousBusiness;BrainWorkouts:WhyExerciseisCritical;YourBrain’satWorkWhileYouSnooze;Self‐Discipline:TheKeyToSuccess;ABrainUnderConstruction:TheAdolescentYears;BoyandGirlBrains:What’stheDifference;StressandtheBrain;CyberBrains:ParentinginanOnlineWorld;WiredDifferently:SpecialNeedsBrains,MentalIllnessandChemicalUse;Brain‐WiseDaycare,PreschoolandSchoolDecisions;andthe21st‐CenturyParent.NotesandanIndexfollow.EachchapterendswithaParentToolKit[alistofquestionstowhichyourespondyesorno],alistofDo’sandDon’ts,andthequestions“WhatdoIwanttocontinue?”and“WhatdoIwanttochange?”
Walsh’sgoalistoseparatesoundscientificfactfromfictionandurbanmythandtoprovideparentswithaguidetoraisinghappyandhealthychildrenwhocanliveuptotheirpotential.Iguaranteethatyouwilllearnsomethingnewandexcitingineachandeverychapter,andsometimeseachpage.WiththeaidofCTscans,MRIs,PETscansandSPECTscans,wenowknowmorethaneverabouthowthebrainfunctions.Forexample,thebrainisequippedwithtwokindsofattentionsystems:reactiveattention[locateddeepinthebrain’semotionalcenter,automatic,instinctiveandinvoluntary…..allowingkidstofocus
onvideogamesforhoursonend]andfocusedattention[locatedintheprefrontalcortexortheexecutivecenterrightbehindtheforehead…..notanautomaticsystembutonewhichkidsneedtolearnthingswhicharenotnecessarilyflashyorstimulatingbutimportantnonetheless,suchaswordrhymingorreadingskills].
Walshpullstogetherwhatiscurrentlyknownabouthowthebraindevelopsandfunctionsfrominfancythroughadolescence,buttressedwithpracticaladviceandimportantinformation.Inadditiontochecklists,toolkitsanddo’sanddon’ts,Walshincludessampledialogues,conversationstarters,anecdotes,casestudiesandstoriestohelpillustratewhatheisdiscussing.Hepaintsavividpictureofwhatgoesoninthebrain.Forexample,onpages35‐36,hegivesadetailedlistofthelanguageandhearingmilestonesforbirthto3months,3‐4months,6‐9months,12‐15months,18‐24months,3yearsofageand4yearsofage.Healsoaddressesaveryimportantissueinkidsbecomingdeafduetoloudmusicandloudsounds.Onpage43,hehasanexcellentlistof22differentthingswecandotoreadtokidsandhelpthemdeveloptheirlanguageskills.Pages64‐65listthingswecandotohelpdevelopandrefineachild’smemory,retentionandretrievalofinformation[thestagesincluderehearsal,organizationintocategories,retrieval,studytime,
review A Review of Smart Parenting, Smarter Kids: The One Brain Book You Need to Help Your Child Grow Brighter, Healthier, and Happier
Reviewed by Marcie Parker, Ph.D., CFLE, President and CEO of Parker and Associates, a healthcare research and consulting firm in Excelsior, Minnesota.
[by David Walsh, Ph.D.; Free Press, June 14, 2011; ISBN # 9781439121177; $25.00; hardcover; 304 pages; e-book 9781439137338]
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elaborationandstudytechniques].Hementionsonesetofparentswhobringanewobjecttothedinnertableeachnightanddiscussitwiththeirchildtoexpandherworldandhervocabulary.
Walshstartswithaverysimpleoverviewofwhatweknowabouthowthebrainworksandhowhormonesaffectourbehaviorsandactions.Forinstance,whenababyisborn,only17%ofhisorherbraincellsarewiredtogetherandthevastmajorityofthewiringoccursinthedaysandweeksandmonthsanddecadesfollowingbirth.Ourbraindevelopmentisaffectedbothbyourgeneticinheritanceandbyourlifeexperiences.Humanbrainsgothroughlongperiodsofblossomingandpruninguntilbraindevelopmentis,moreorless,completeinthemidtolate20’s.Walshpointsoutthatlessthan50%ofourintelligenceisinheritedandthatwetendtooverestimatetalent’scontributionandunderestimatetheroleofluck,hardworkandeffort.Hestressesthatweneedtopraisetheeffortachildmakesandnotlavishgeneral‐izedpraiseonthechild’sinnateabilityotherwiseshewillbeafraidtofailandnottrynewthings.Walshsaystopraisetheeffort,bespecificandnotgeneric,besincereinthepraiseanddonotoverdothepraise.
Inhischapteronnutritionandbraindevelopment,Walshtakesontheexcessivesalt,fatandsugarinthetypicalAmericandietandsuggestsbreakfasts,lunchesanddinnerstoprovidegrowingchildrenwithwhattheyneedtogrowuphealthfully.Heincludesvaluablestrategies[pp.83‐84]toencouragehealthyeating,especiallyforpickyeaters.Walshstressestheimportanceofregularrigorousphysicalexerciseforbrain
development.Sleep,untilrecentlyamuchmisunderstoodandunder‐appreciatedbutcriticallyimportantactivity,isvitaltothebraindevelopmentofchildren.Onaverage,Americanchildrenofallagegroupsarenotgettingenoughsleepandareoperatingonasleepdeficit;thebiggestsleepdeficitbeingforteens,whoneedatleast9‐10hoursofsleepanightandgetonly6‐7.Thissleepdeficitleadstolotsofhealthissuessuchasobesity,memoryproblemsandlanguagedevelopment.Childrenwhodonotgetenoughsleepcanbecrankyanddifficultandhaveproblemsinschool.Babies,astoundingly,need16‐18hoursofsleepaday!Ifyourchildhassleepapnea,nightmares,nightterrorsornarcolepsy,Walshaddressestheseaswell.TV,electronicmedia,overscheduling,stress,anxietyandcellphonesmayallbeculpritsincuttingintovaluablesleeptime.
Walshalsostressestheimportanceofplayaswellasfreeandunstructuredtimetoplayandcreate.Theneedforunstructuredfreetimeisalsobeingtoutedinthepopularpress[seeforexample“The Joys of Summer: Go Ahead, kids: Lie in the Grass. Study the Clouds. Daydream, Be lazy. You Have Our Permission”byMitchAlbominParadeAugust7,2011,page12].Freeplayisawaytoencouragecreativity,languagedevelopment,imaginationandexecutivefunction.Ialwaysthoughtthatitwouldbeneat,asaparent,tohaveabasementfullofmusicalinstruments[portableandotherwise],dressupclothes/hats/jewelry/cowboybootsandchaps,andlaterallkindsofenginesandmotorsandage‐appropriatetoolssothatkidscouldtakethings[suchaswatches,clocks,motors,engines]
apartandputthemtogetheragain.Irememberaverypoignantstoryaboutamotherofa5‐year‐oldboy.Shewasplanninghisbirthdaypartyandwasthinkingalongthelinesofhuge,expensiveandelaborate…..youknow,clowns,ponies,Ferriswheels,bands,thatkindofthing.Thenshedecidedtoaskhersonwhatkindofpartyhewanted.Heaskedforafewhugeapplianceboxesandblanketsinthelivingroomsotheboyscouldmakefortsandthen,whenherequestedit,hewantedhismomtoservecakeandicecream.Theboysplayedfortforseveralhours,hadcakeandicecreamandwenthome,vowingitwasthebestpartytheyhadeverattended.
Therearesectionsontheterribletwo’sandtheeightstepstolimitsandconsequencesaswellaswaystoavoidpowerstruggleswithyourchildren.Thereisanimportantandilluminatingchapteronthedifferences[andsimilarities]ofthebrainsofboysandgirls.Anotherchapterlooksatstressinchildren’slivesandhowkidsandparentscancopewithstress;animportantpartofthisishelpingparentshelpkidswhoarestrugglingthroughacrisis.Anotherimportantchapterdealswithparentinginanonlineworld,distractionandmultitasking,onlineactivitiesandobesity,cyberbullying,sexting,cellphonesanddistracteddriving,andinternetaddiction.Onechaptertakesreadersthroughtherequirementsofspecialneedsbrains,mentalillnessandchemicaluseinkids[includingAspergerSyndrome,childhooddepressionandsuicide,anxietydisorders,medications,tobacco,alcoholanddrugsandtheimportanceofparentingastheantidrug].Onecriticallyimportantchapterlooksatdaycare,preschoolandschooldecisionsandhow
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parentscanmakethebestpossibledecisionsfortheirchildren.Inadditiontochecklistsonhowtochooseinfantcareandtoddlerdaycare,Walshprovides[p.241]aninvaluablelistsothatparentscanknowiftheirchildiskindergartenready.
Inhisfinalchapter,“The21st‐CenturyParent”,Walshleavesandencouragesparentswithseveralwisephrases[pp.254‐255].Relax. It’s all about balance. Don’t make your kids your report cards. The time we spend with our kids is a better investment than the money we spend on them. Slow down. And finally: Remember, parenting is a delayed gratification activity!
Somesuggestionsforfutureeditionsorfuturebooks:use“suchas”insteadof“like”where
appropriate.Totheextentthatitexists,giveusmoreresearch[seepage114foronementionofthisdiverseresearch]illustratingcontrasts,suchastheyare,betweenrural‐suburban‐urbansettings,youngvs.olderparents,immigrantvs.Americanfamilies,minorityandethnicfamilies,familieswithdeaforblindparentsorchildren,andparentsofmultiples.
Theaudienceforthisbook,inadditiontoparents/prospectiveparentsandteens,wouldbestudents,graduatestudents,physiciansandthoseinthehelpingprofessions,anyoneworkingwithorinterestedinfamiliesandfamilylife,CertifiedFamilyLifeEducators,mentalhealthprofessionals,therapists,psychologistsandpsychiatrists,andpublicpolicymakers
whoarecraftingfamilypolicy.YouwillnotbeabletoputthebookdownonceyoustartitandIguaranteethatyouwillencounterchallengingandexpansiveideas…evencounter‐intuitiveideasthatwillinterestyoufrombeginningtoend.DavidWalshissimilartothewise,patient,gentlerelativewhohelpsnewparentsunderstandandsuccessfullynavigatethedifficultiesandfrustrationsofraisingkids.Weshouldallprofitfromhisyearsoffamilyparenting,familytherapy,experienceandresearch.WearefortunateindeedtohaveWalshlivinghereinMinnesotaandtheUSA,soavailableandaccessible.Heconsistentlyofferssuchwonderfulaffirmingfamily‐enhancingguidance.Ifyoureadonlyonefamilybookthisyear,letthisbeit.
Earlyinourprofessionaldevelopment,wecanbecomeawe‐struckbyfamousresearchersandteachersinourdiscipline.Shypeoplemaynotgettoknowothersaseasilyasthosewhoaremoreout‐going.Doweaskabouttheresearch?Dowechallengetheconclusions?Dowewanttolearnmoreandclarifypoints,orwouldweratherimpresstheotherbyshowingourgreatunderstandingofresearch?Balanceisdifficultaswelearntoaskquestionsandshareperspectives.Weallaretooforwardortooshyattimes.Welearntolimitourquestionsandgetoverourreticenceofasking. Thelearningcurveisusuallyfast–learnedbypersonalexperienceandbyobservingothers.Aswebecomemoreexperienced,webecomethemodelsforothers–forbetterorforworse.Withmoreresponsibilities,webecomeleadersinoursmallgroups.Herecomestheopportunitytocomefromthemodelslearnedincoursework,orfromtheexperiencesofthosewhowanttolearn. Aformerstudentwasconcernedthatshemightnotbeabletosharethemostcurrentresearch,orforgettheresearchmethodology.Shesawhergoalashavingtheprofessorlookingoverhershoulder.Whenshewasabletoseethatthelearnerwasbetterabletodefinehis/her
need,theinstructorcouldselectthepointstoemphasizeforthelearnertoabsorb.Thattransitionbeganalongprofessionforher,whereshecouldshareinformationandhelpfacilitatethelearningincolleagues.Iamstillproudtoreadofherendeavorsinthefamilyfield,andIevenletherknoweverysooften. Ihaveobservedhowsomeofmy“experienced”friendsareadaptingtodifferenttechnologicaladvancesandfindthatI’mbackinthatveryinexperiencedprofessionallearningfromothers.DoIreallywanttotweetothers?DoIwanthundredsoffriends?CanIlearnandadapttonewmethodsofsharingandreceivinginformation?Iknowhowmanyofmyagematesarespendingmoretimethanexpectedtolearnthesenewtechniques.Withgrammariansasparents,IMisveryuncomfortable.I’msuremymomwouldturnoverinhergravetofindthenewlanguageoftexting. SonowIamlearninghowtoaskthosequestions,withoutactingasthoughIknowmorethanIreallydo.Thismaymeanfindingaten‐yearoldwhowon’tlaughatmeorwon’ttelleveryonehow“dumb”Iam.ThankheavensIhavefriendsintheir90swhohavemodeledopennessandaskingforhelp.This lesson is a hard one – ask for help when you need it!
MCFR History - A Reflection by Sue MeyersSueMeyers,ProfessorEmeritus,SchoolofSocialWork,UniversityofMinnesota;MCFRhistorianandBoardmember