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Would I Benefit From Coaching?

Mind Your Career Webinar

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Planned Topics• Differences between coaching, consulting, mentoring, managing, therapy, training, and just plain friendship.

• Basic logistics of what it costs, how much time it takes, how to know if it is working, and how long the results last. 

• Finding, selecting, and getting started with an executive coach. • What topics and concerns are best addressed with coaching. 

• Typical components of a coaching conversation.

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Ad Hoc Topics

Add your questions to the “Chat” window.I will address as many as time allows.

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Additional Resources

Links to all referenced articles are here:http://tonymayo.com/career-webinar/

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Additional Resources

Links to all referenced articles are here:http://tonymayo.com/career-webinar/

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Coaching is Growing

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Coaching is Growing

Me !

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Coaching is in Demand

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Coaching is Effective• 96% of organizations saw individual

performances improve after they introduced coaching.

• 92% reported improvements in leadership and management effectiveness

• 77% of the respondents indicated that coaching had a significant or very significant impact on at least one of nine business measures.

60% improved productivity53% increased employee satisfaction

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Coaching is not…

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Questions

What questions do you have so far?

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What Coaching Does 1 of 2

I get input from many sources and experts but everyone else is telling me what they would do in my place.

Tony seems to draw out from me my own best thinking and helps me see what is best for myself.

Tony has a way of truly transforming my thinking to achieve positive results.

—Nancy Belmont

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What Coaching Does 1 of 2Tony’s coaching helped me

look at the world from an entirely new perspective.

After years of trying to fix “what’s wrong” in my business and life, he’s helped me learn to pursue what’s possible.

The change in perspective has made all the difference. results.

—Josh Weidman

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A Quick Experience That’s Similar to Being Coached

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A Quick Experience That’s Similar to Being CoachedInstall a window that is one foot high and one foot wide.

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A Quick Experience That’s Similar to Being CoachedInstall a window that is one foot high and one foot wide.

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A Quick Experience That’s Similar to Being CoachedInstall a window that is one foot high and one foot wide.

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A Quick Experience That’s Similar to Being CoachedInstall a window that is one foot high and one foot wide.

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A Quick Experience That’s Similar to Being CoachedStill one foot high and one foot wide — but just half the surface area.

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A Quick Experience That’s Similar to Being CoachedStill one foot high and one foot wide — but just half the surface area.

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A Quick Experience That’s Similar to Being CoachedOur knowledge is limited & limiting.

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A Quick Experience That’s Similar to Being CoachedOur know-edge is limited & limiting.

Coaching provides the Do-Edge.™

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Coaching is……an intentional conversation that provides an alternative

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Coaching is……an intentional conversation that provides an alternative

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Another Quick Experience

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What is this?

What is this?

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What is this?

What is this?

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What is this?

What is this?

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Topics Best Addressedwith Coaching

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Topics Best Addressedwith Coaching

• The Gap.

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Topics Best Addressedwith Coaching

• The Gap.• Groundhog Day.

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Topics Best Addressedwith Coaching

• The Gap.• Groundhog Day.• Choice vs Stuckness.

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Topics Best Addressedwith Coaching

• The Gap.• Groundhog Day.• Choice vs Stuckness.• Feel like life or career is

happeningto you instead of by you.

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Topics Best Addressedwith Coaching

• The Gap.• Groundhog Day.• Choice vs Stuckness.• Feel like life or career is

happeningto you instead of by you.

• Dearth of love, joy, and freedom.

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Topics Best Addressedwith Coaching

Getting better at being human.

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Basic Logistics$ Cost Contact Time

Calendar Time

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Basic Logistics$ Cost Contact Time

Calendar TimeHow Enduring?

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Basic Logistics$ Cost Contact Time

Calendar TimeHow Enduring?

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Still see it?

What is this?

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Questions

What questions do you have so far?

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Components of a Coaching Conversation

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Components of a Coaching Conversation• Clearing• Check Results• Introduce Distinctions• Insights &

Commitment

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Components of a Coaching Conversation• Clearing• Check Results• Introduce Distinctions• Insights &

Commitment

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Components of a Coaching Conversation• Clearing• Check Results• Introduce Distinctions• Insights &

Commitment

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Components of a Coaching Conversation• Clearing• Check Results• Introduce Distinctions• Insights &

Commitment

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Finding, selecting, and getting started with an executive coach.

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Finding, selecting, and getting started with an executive coach.

• Clear Intention. Your Why.

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Finding, selecting, and getting started with an executive coach.

• Clear Intention. Your Why.• Referral — or Google Search.

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Finding, selecting, and getting started with an executive coach.

• Clear Intention. Your Why.• Referral — or Google Search.• Coached for similar results.

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Finding, selecting, and getting started with an executive coach.

• Clear Intention. Your Why.• Referral — or Google Search.• Coached for similar results.• Compatible — but not too comfortable.

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Finding, selecting, and getting started with an executive coach.

• Clear Intention. Your Why.• Referral — or Google Search.• Coached for similar results.• Compatible — but not too comfortable.

• Free or money-back initial conversation.

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Finding, selecting, and getting started with an executive coach.

• Clear Intention. Your Why.• Referral — or Google Search.• Coached for similar results.• Compatible — but not too comfortable.

• Free or money-back initial conversation.

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Planned Topics• Differences between coaching, consulting, mentoring, managing, therapy, training, and just plain friendship.

• Basic logistics of what it costs, how much time it takes, how to know if it is working, and how long the results last. 

• Finding, selecting, and getting started with an executive coach. • What topics and concerns are best addressed with coaching. 

• Typical components of a coaching conversation.

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Questions

Last call for questions on any topic covered today.

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Additional Resources

Links to all referenced articles are here:http://tonymayo.com/career-webinar/

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Would I Benefit From Coaching?

Mind Your Career Webinar

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Awareness & Choice

Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space lies our freedom and power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and freedom.