the attraction building 2

The Attraction Building BlueprintVideo 2

Tools, Strategies, and Mindsets for

Attracting Beautiful Women

By Bobby Rio

What to Expect in this Video:

•“How-to” Guide for Attraction

•What to SAY and DO

• ATTITUDE and the way you

come across as you say or do it

Important Concepts to Understand:

•Women Love Sex

•Women Depend on Men to Make it •Women Depend on Men to Make it

Happen

• Attraction is NOT black or white

Game Killing Mistakes:

• Putting Women on a Pedestal

• Approval Seeking• Approval Seeking

• Supplication

• Letting an interaction ‘Plateau’

• Not recognizing signals

The ‘Glue’ That Holds Attraction

Together

Escalation

As my Friend ‘Sixty Years of Challenge’ says:

Escalation is AttractiveEscalation is Attractive

Escalation

• It’s Attractive

• Displays Confidence• Displays Confidence

• You’re Capable

• Sexual Tension

Escalation

• It Feels Good Mentally

• It Feels Good Physically

• ‘Make up My Mind’

What is Escalation?

• Always Take the Lead

• Control• Control

• Initiating Physical Contact

• Expressing Your Intent

Always Take the Lead

• Control the ‘Flow’

•Move Conversations Forward•Move Conversations Forward

• Begin Touching Her

Remember

• She is Depending on You

• You’re Both Playing Same Game. • You’re Both Playing Same Game.

But You’re Playing Different Roles.

• Allow her to relax

• Getting her in ‘follow’ mode

A ‘Magical’ Word

• Let’s Go Dance

• Let’s Go and Get Some Fresh Air

• Let’s Take a Walk• Let’s Take a Walk

• Let’s Play a Game

• Let’s Do a Shot

• Let’s Exchange numbers

• Let’s Go back to my place

Physical Escalation

• It works on a ‘primal’ level

• The ultimate distinction between

‘friendly’ and ‘sexual’‘friendly’ and ‘sexual’

• Prepares her to be kissed

Initiating Physical ‘Touch’

• Hand shaking

• Arm Brushing

• Light Touching while Talking• Light Touching while Talking

• Anchoring Elbow

• High Fives

• Palm Reading

• Examining Bracelet

The Progression of “Touch”

• Hand fondling

• Grabbing her hand to walk• Grabbing her hand to walk

•Walking arm in arm

• Standing closer with bodies

touching

The Objective

• Holding her while sitting down

• Lightly stroking her face/hair/neck

• Hand on her lower back pulling her

into you

• Kissing

2 Steps Forward 1 Step Back…

• Touching should smoothly

escalate up ‘the ladder’

• Continually Establish Comfort • Continually Establish Comfort

Level

• Use it a way to build sexual

tension

Common ‘Escalation’ Mistakes:

• Not Beginning Soon Enough

• Not Reading Her Signals• Not Reading Her Signals

• Not Escalating Enough

•Missing opportunities to kiss her

Try this:

1. Initiate ‘touch’ a lot sooner

2. Find out where her comfort 2. Find out where her comfort

threshold is

3. Focus on her hands

Verbal Escalation

• Clearly Identifies you as a ‘sexual’

man

• Builds up the tension

Expression of Interest

•Making a statement or compliment

that immediately takes you out of the that immediately takes you out of the

friend zone

Examples

• “You've got an incredibly sexy

smile”

• “You're making it really hard for

me not to kiss you”

Sexualized Fun

• Sexual Framing

• Sexual Teasing• Sexual Teasing

Getting Sexual…

• Bait Her

• Challenge Her• Challenge Her

• Role Playing

Bait Her

•Mis-interpretations

• Exaggerations• Exaggerations

• Jokes

•Subtle Sexual References

Examples of Baiting

� "That guy is actually a pickup

artist. Seriously, he has like a artist. Seriously, he has like a

different girl in his bed every night.

Girls actually take numbers to sleep

with him… Are you sure you

haven't? I won't be mad… he does

have skills."

Challenge Her

• Express doubt she has a wild

sideside

• Act like she is trying to seduce

you, but can’t

Examples of Challenging:

� If she tells you a story about something naively child

like… you could say "Don't think you can fool me with

that puppy dogs and ice cream talk… I totally see you

as the kind of girl with a stash of whips and chains

under her bed.“under her bed.“

�Or if she is giving a slightly sexual vibe… you could

go the opposite way. And say "You're not naughty

enough for me… I bet you’re the kind of girl who only

likes missionary and has to rush to confession every

time she even kisses a guy."

Role Playing

Role-playing involves finding a humorous

situation and then projecting the two

of you into that “role”.

1. It’s Fun

2. It projects the 2 of you doing things

together in the future (even though the

situations are clearly fictional).

Role Play Example

Let's say you're talking to a girl and you tell her that you're going

to Italy next week… and she says jokingly "can I come…“

Instead of laughing it off… you would say something like:

"Yea, I'll hide you in my suitcase… When you get there you need to "Yea, I'll hide you in my suitcase… When you get there you need to

be my paparazzi. I'm going to give you a camera and you just need

to follow me around the entire time snapping pictures of me….

And point at me like I'm someone famous. Then you can sell the

pictures to a local tabloid- and we can use the money to take a

yacht down to gamble in Monaco. Of course I'll wind up losing you

in a poker game to some Iranian sheik…"

Things to Remember

• You Must Calibrate

• She Must Already Feel Some • She Must Already Feel Some

Attraction Towards You

Important Points About Escalation:

1. Always be Escalating

2. Always be Escalating

3. Learn to Read Her Signals3. Learn to Read Her Signals

4. Begin Physically Touching Early

5. Don’t blow opportunities

6. You Must make a Expression of

interest