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TheCrisisthatistheNorm:StandinguptoRelationshipViolence

EvangelUniversitySpringfield,MO

KatieBuckholz,ResidentDirector

ChristineFlores,ResidentDirector

EmilyTerry,ResidentAssistant

KerryMarsh,CampusCounselor

NationwideStatistics

●94%ofadultsintheUSwillneverperpetrateviolenceagainsttheirpartneryet1in3womenand1in4menwillexperiencerelationshipviolenceintheirlifetime.

●“Fortoolong,the‘good’guysandgirlshavebeensilentonanissuethatdramaticallyimpactsthemandtheirfriends.OneLoveiswakingthemup,equippingthemwiththetoolstheyneed,andhelpingthemfindtheirvoices.”-OneLovewebsite

SpringfieldStatistics

https://www.springfieldmo.gov/549/The-Situation

SpringfieldStatistics

●An Increase in ViolenceIn the fall of 2012, the Springfield Police Department recognized a significant increase in aggravated assaults. Research by the SPD’s Crime Analysis Unit found the upturn was directly linked to domestic assaults. Seventy percent of all aggravated assaults in Springfield were found to be domestic related.

●Statistics At the end of 2012, the SPD logged 2,476 domestic violence incidents for the year; this averages to over 6 incidents per day. The total amount of incidents had increased from 2,207 in 2011. ●Just the first half of 2013 (January-June) showed another high

amount of 1,319 domestic violence incidents. There are by far more victims of domestic violence in Springfield than local shelters are able to house.

●https://www.springfieldmo.gov/549/The-Situation

EvangelStatistics

●AccordingtotheMissouriAssessmentofCollegeBehaviors

●381studentsparticipatedinthissurveyin2015.

●12%experiencedanabusiverelationshipinthepastyear

●5.3%experiencednon-consensualsexualcontactinthepastyear

WhatisOneLove?

●TheOneLoveFoundationwascreatedin2010afterYeardleyLovewaskilledbyherex-boyfriend.HerfamilystartedOneLovetoraiseawarenessandeducatestudentsaboutthewarningsignsofrelationshipabuse.

●Yeardley’smother,SharonLove,firstarticulatedhergoalin2012todoforrelationshipviolencewhatMADDdidfordrinkinganddriving-stigmatizethebehaviorandgetbystanderstotakeawaythekeys.

WhoisYeardley?

●SeniorattheUniversityofVirginia

●MajoredinGovernmentandminoredinSpanish

●MemberoftheLaCrosseteam

●Welllovedandrespectedbypeers

●Datedboyfriend,GeorgeHuguely,for2years

●Murderedatage22

● http://www.joinonelove.org/escalation_workshop

Escalation

● Followstherelationshipofatypicalcollegecouple.

● Nearly90%ofworkshopparticipantssuggestedEscalationberequiredviewingforallcollege

students.

● 2068workshopshavebeenheldoncollegecampuses.

● Studentsacrossthecountryseethemselvesortheirpeersinthisstoryandaremovedtobea

catalystforchange.

OneLoveModel

EscalationWorkshops

●AFREEpartnershipwithOneLoveprovidesyourschoolwithtrainingandeverythingyouwillneedtosuccessfullyimplementtheevent.

●Tobringthiseventtoyourschool,registeryourschoolontheirwebsite.You’llbecontactedbyhelpfulrepswhowalkyouthroughthebestwaystogetyourstafftrainedandmakeitaneffectiveevent.

●#ThatsNotLove-OneLove’sdigitalcampaignhelpsdefinethegrayareabetweenloveandcontrol.

●Virtualtrainingshappen5-8timesperweekviaGoogleHangout

CurriculumandTraining

●OneLovewillprovideyouwiththeStudentDiscussionGuideforuseaspartoftheEscalationWorkshopCurriculum.

●Includes:●WorkshopAgenda●FacilitatorTraining

●DiscussionGuideincludingteachingpoints●ActivationtoJointheTeamOneLoveMovement●Ongoingsupportfromtheirstaffisalsoavailablethroughtheplanningprocess

WorkshopAgenda

●Educate●Empower●Activate

Educate

1.Handoutresourcelist,includingbothlocalandnationalresources.

2.Giveanintroductionwhichincludesthefollowing:●AboutOneLove

●TriggerWarning

●StatementofInclusivity

Empower

1.ShowEscalation

2.Discussion-Facilitatorsateachtableleadtheirpeersthrough20thoughtprovokingquestionsabouttheEscalationfilm

Activate

●BuildtheTeamOneLoveCommunityonyourcampus

●Participateinthe#ThatsNotLovecampaign

●Brainstormfurtherideasonhowtogetyourpeers’attentioninpreventingrelationshipviolence

OurStrategy

WecompletedtheagendaasprovidedbyOneLoveaswellasbuiltontopofthatbyendingwith20minutesfocusedonbuildinghealthyrelationshipspresentedbyourCounselingDepartment.

Partneredwithotherdepartments:CounselingServices,CommunityLifeResidentAssistants,CommuterDirector,CoordinatorofStudentMinistriesandDiscipleship,&SeminaryStudentLifeAdmin.Assistant -Allowedforsharedcosts -AllowedforgreaterPRcoverage

OurStrategy

●StartedtheplanningprocessinAugustduringRAtraining●The“HealthyRelationships”taskgroupconsistedof10RAswhochosetopartnerwiththisparticularprogrammingeffort.

Dividedstudentorganizersintothreegroups:PR,GiveawaysandHospitality

●Met4timestocompletetheplanningandpreparationphase●Trainedstudentfacilitatorspriortotheeventforeffectiveconversations●TwoResidentAssistantsfacilitatedtheOneLoveportionofthenight

OurStrategy

PR

●T-shirtsforfacilitatorstoweartheweekoftheeventandattheeventitself

●Wristbands

●Socialmedia

●Fliers●Leadershipclasses●Chapelannouncements

●Devicedecalstickers●Qualifiedforcredit

OurStrategy

Giveaways

●HelditinOctoberduringDVAM-allowedforlotsoffreegiveawaysfromlocalbusinesseswhowereeagertosupporttheeffort

●Providedchips/salsa,popcornandsoda●Distributedgiveawaysperiodicallythroughouttheevent

Hospitality

●Greeted●Madenametagswhenstudentsentered

●Distributedticketsforgiveaways

●Createdyellow/greenalertsystemateachtable

●Candyandpensateachtable

OurStrategy

●Watchingthemovieinsectionsalternatingwith3-4questionsatatimeallowedformoretimetoprocesscurrentemotionsthroughdiscussion

●PowerofStory-astaffmembersharedtheirpersonalexperience

●Askedstudentstotakeapre-testandpost-testtomeasurethenight’seffectiveness

●Providednational,localandon-campusresourcescardforstudentstofollowupwithifneeded

Thingswemightdodifferently

●ChooseaTuesdayorThursdayevening

●Encouragefaculty/stafftoparticipate

●InviteSocialWorkClubtopartnerwithourefforts(possiblyforcredit)

LocalResources

●EU’sCounselingServices

●EU’sCampusPastor,GregJohns;johnsg@evangel.edu

●TitleIXDeputyCoordinator,GinaRentschler●417-865-2815ext.7317●email:rentschlerg@evangel.edu

●EvangelPublicSafetyext.7000

●RA--ResidentDirector--CommuterDirector

●VictimCenter-Springfield,MO(417)863-7273

●HarmonyHouse–Springfield,MO(417)837-7700

NationalResources

●OneLoveMyPlanApp-canbefoundintheappstore

●NationalDomesticViolenceHotline1-800-799-SAFE(7233)

●LoveIsRespect-www.LoveIsRespect.org1-866-331-9474

●NationalSexualAssaultHotline1-800-656-HOPE

●Helplinewww.stopitnow.org1-888-PREVENT

●CenterforRelationshipAbuseAwareness stoprelationshipabuse.org

HealthyCommunication

●Speakup.

●Respectyourpartner.

●Compromise.

●Besupportive.

●Respecteachother’sprivacy.

HealthyBoundaries

●Gooutwithyourfriendswithoutyourpartner.

●Participateinactivitiesandhobbiesyoulike.

●Donothavetosharepasswordstoyouremail,socialmediaaccountsorphone.

●Respecteachother’sindividuallikesandneeds.

Whatdohealthyrelationshipslooklike?

●Mutualrespect

●Sharedvalues

●Inspireeachothertobebetter

●Goodbalanceofseparatenessandtogetherness

Whatdohealthyrelationshipslooklike?

●Familyandfriendssupporttherelationship

●Resolveconflicteffectively●Happytogether●Trustandsecurity

Howcanyouknowifyouarereadyforrelationship?

Youare●selfless●onacareerpath

●livingahealthylifestyle

●happyandwhole

●overyourex

ResultsoftheEvent

●Attendance:125●Continuetoholdtheeventbi-annually●Testimoniesofunhealthyrelationshipsending●Receivedemailsrequestingrelationshipquizapp●Peertopeeridentificationofrelationshipsaroundthemexhibitingsimilarbehaviors

PretestExample

PosttestExample

SurveyResults

●Awarenessofrelationshipviolenceamongfriends.● Increaseby16%

●Awarenessofrelationshipviolenceamongfamily.● Increaseby12%

●Confidenceinspottingwarningsignsofanabusiverelationship.● Increaseby28%

● Confidenceininterventionstrategiesforviolentrelationships.● Increaseby51%

●Beliefthatcampuscreatesasafespacetotalkabouthealthyrelationships.● Increaseby13%

●Beliefthatcampuscreatesasafespacetotalkaboutunhealthyrelationships.● Increaseby11%

●Commitmenttocontinuetheconversationabouthealthyandunhealthyrelationships.● 99%said“Agree”or“StronglyAgree”bytheendoftheevent.

PartnerwithOneLove

CameronKinkerCampusCoordinatorTheOneLoveFoundationc:(914)960-0464w:(914)440-3282cameron.kinker@joinonelove.org

YeardleyLove

Mayherstoryofdating

violenceleadtothelast.

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