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ESL learner's refelction on her shortcoming

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My main shortcoming

By: Eliana Ramirez

September 20, 2010

What is the concept?

A perfectionist is a person that insists that things should be done perfectly

I’m perfectionist (symptoms)

I think I develop very well my projects. But I always think I had could do it better. No matter what I do, nothing is ever good enough for me.

I always want something else. I’m very strict, specially at my work.

Negative consequences

If you are a perfectionist person, you’ll be stressed all the time, because you always want that all things are perfect.

In consequence, The stress could cause illness in any part of your body. You could eventually suffer a heart attack, in the worse of the cases.

You can be in a bad – tempered all the time, specially when a person don’t do the things in the way you want it.

Negative consequences

You don’t value your own efforts and the other one.

Nothing is ever good enough for you. So, you can’t be happy with your life.

There isn’t satisfaction at any moment of your life, because you always want something else.

Positive consequences

In general, when you are a perfectionist, you are very responsible.

You can have a lot of possibilities for getting successful in different fields.

You are an organized person.

You can become an important leader.

You can be a good employee.

How you can overcome it!!

You should understand that the human being can make mistakes; the most important in these cases is that you can correct your own mistakes and learn of them.

It’s very important to remember that in the world aren’t everything perfect, the unique perfect being is God.

You should learn to value your efforts, at the same time that you should value the efforts of the other persons.

How you can overcome it!!

You should understand that If you is a person perfectionist, you never will be happy, you’ll stay sad because you have been hoping better results, although the current results were very good.

You should know that when you gave all what you could have given for getting a goal, you can relax.

This shortcoming can be seen in your face!!!

WITHOUT SHORTCOMING WITH SHORTCOMING

BYE…….

THANK YOU FOR YOUR ATTENTION!!!!

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