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Dealing With Conflict Before Conflict Deals With You

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 1

Come up with a word for each letter in your first name that represent

you

G- GenerousL- Live

E- Energy N-Never D-Devil A-Angel

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 2

1 Arrange yourselves in groups

2 Choose a spokesperson for your group

3 ldquoCome up with a name for your grouprdquo

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

3

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 4

When people have different views on issues

Conflict is unavoidable Conflict can be good or bad Conflict is normal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 5

Honey pleaseJust calm down hellipLet me explainhellip

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 6

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 7

What are some signs of unresolved Conflict

Culture race and ethnicity

Gender and sexuality

Knowledge (general and situational)

Impressions of the Messenger

Previous experiences

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 8

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 9

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 10

FIGHT POVERTY IN AFRICA BETTER SCHOOLS FOR OUR NEIGHBORHOOD

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

11

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 12

Are women too sensitive or are men insensitive

Should the wife have equal say in the marriage or should the husband have the last say

Can a woman lead the church

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 13

A- APPROVE B- REJECT

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 14

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 15

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 16

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 17

Your Culture race and ethnicity+

Your Gender and sexuality+

Your Knowledge +

Your Impressions of the Messenger+

Your Previous experiences

=A Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 18

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 19

Activity 3

Who are you

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

Come up with a word for each letter in your first name that represent

you

G- GenerousL- Live

E- Energy N-Never D-Devil A-Angel

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 2

1 Arrange yourselves in groups

2 Choose a spokesperson for your group

3 ldquoCome up with a name for your grouprdquo

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

3

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 4

When people have different views on issues

Conflict is unavoidable Conflict can be good or bad Conflict is normal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 5

Honey pleaseJust calm down hellipLet me explainhellip

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 6

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 7

What are some signs of unresolved Conflict

Culture race and ethnicity

Gender and sexuality

Knowledge (general and situational)

Impressions of the Messenger

Previous experiences

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 8

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 9

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 10

FIGHT POVERTY IN AFRICA BETTER SCHOOLS FOR OUR NEIGHBORHOOD

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

11

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 12

Are women too sensitive or are men insensitive

Should the wife have equal say in the marriage or should the husband have the last say

Can a woman lead the church

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 13

A- APPROVE B- REJECT

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 14

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 15

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 16

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 17

Your Culture race and ethnicity+

Your Gender and sexuality+

Your Knowledge +

Your Impressions of the Messenger+

Your Previous experiences

=A Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 18

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 19

Activity 3

Who are you

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

1 Arrange yourselves in groups

2 Choose a spokesperson for your group

3 ldquoCome up with a name for your grouprdquo

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

3

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 4

When people have different views on issues

Conflict is unavoidable Conflict can be good or bad Conflict is normal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 5

Honey pleaseJust calm down hellipLet me explainhellip

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 6

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 7

What are some signs of unresolved Conflict

Culture race and ethnicity

Gender and sexuality

Knowledge (general and situational)

Impressions of the Messenger

Previous experiences

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 8

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 9

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 10

FIGHT POVERTY IN AFRICA BETTER SCHOOLS FOR OUR NEIGHBORHOOD

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

11

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 12

Are women too sensitive or are men insensitive

Should the wife have equal say in the marriage or should the husband have the last say

Can a woman lead the church

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 13

A- APPROVE B- REJECT

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 14

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 15

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 16

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 17

Your Culture race and ethnicity+

Your Gender and sexuality+

Your Knowledge +

Your Impressions of the Messenger+

Your Previous experiences

=A Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 18

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 19

Activity 3

Who are you

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 4

When people have different views on issues

Conflict is unavoidable Conflict can be good or bad Conflict is normal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 5

Honey pleaseJust calm down hellipLet me explainhellip

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 6

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 7

What are some signs of unresolved Conflict

Culture race and ethnicity

Gender and sexuality

Knowledge (general and situational)

Impressions of the Messenger

Previous experiences

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 8

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 9

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 10

FIGHT POVERTY IN AFRICA BETTER SCHOOLS FOR OUR NEIGHBORHOOD

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

11

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 12

Are women too sensitive or are men insensitive

Should the wife have equal say in the marriage or should the husband have the last say

Can a woman lead the church

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 13

A- APPROVE B- REJECT

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 14

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 15

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 16

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 17

Your Culture race and ethnicity+

Your Gender and sexuality+

Your Knowledge +

Your Impressions of the Messenger+

Your Previous experiences

=A Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 18

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 19

Activity 3

Who are you

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

When people have different views on issues

Conflict is unavoidable Conflict can be good or bad Conflict is normal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 5

Honey pleaseJust calm down hellipLet me explainhellip

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 6

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 7

What are some signs of unresolved Conflict

Culture race and ethnicity

Gender and sexuality

Knowledge (general and situational)

Impressions of the Messenger

Previous experiences

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 8

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 9

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 10

FIGHT POVERTY IN AFRICA BETTER SCHOOLS FOR OUR NEIGHBORHOOD

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

11

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 12

Are women too sensitive or are men insensitive

Should the wife have equal say in the marriage or should the husband have the last say

Can a woman lead the church

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 13

A- APPROVE B- REJECT

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 14

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 15

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 16

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 17

Your Culture race and ethnicity+

Your Gender and sexuality+

Your Knowledge +

Your Impressions of the Messenger+

Your Previous experiences

=A Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 18

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 19

Activity 3

Who are you

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

Honey pleaseJust calm down hellipLet me explainhellip

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 6

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 7

What are some signs of unresolved Conflict

Culture race and ethnicity

Gender and sexuality

Knowledge (general and situational)

Impressions of the Messenger

Previous experiences

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 8

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 9

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 10

FIGHT POVERTY IN AFRICA BETTER SCHOOLS FOR OUR NEIGHBORHOOD

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

11

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 12

Are women too sensitive or are men insensitive

Should the wife have equal say in the marriage or should the husband have the last say

Can a woman lead the church

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 13

A- APPROVE B- REJECT

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 14

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 15

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 16

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 17

Your Culture race and ethnicity+

Your Gender and sexuality+

Your Knowledge +

Your Impressions of the Messenger+

Your Previous experiences

=A Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 18

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 19

Activity 3

Who are you

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 7

What are some signs of unresolved Conflict

Culture race and ethnicity

Gender and sexuality

Knowledge (general and situational)

Impressions of the Messenger

Previous experiences

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 8

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 9

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 10

FIGHT POVERTY IN AFRICA BETTER SCHOOLS FOR OUR NEIGHBORHOOD

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

11

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 12

Are women too sensitive or are men insensitive

Should the wife have equal say in the marriage or should the husband have the last say

Can a woman lead the church

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 13

A- APPROVE B- REJECT

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 14

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 15

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 16

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 17

Your Culture race and ethnicity+

Your Gender and sexuality+

Your Knowledge +

Your Impressions of the Messenger+

Your Previous experiences

=A Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 18

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 19

Activity 3

Who are you

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

Culture race and ethnicity

Gender and sexuality

Knowledge (general and situational)

Impressions of the Messenger

Previous experiences

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 8

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 9

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 10

FIGHT POVERTY IN AFRICA BETTER SCHOOLS FOR OUR NEIGHBORHOOD

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

11

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 12

Are women too sensitive or are men insensitive

Should the wife have equal say in the marriage or should the husband have the last say

Can a woman lead the church

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 13

A- APPROVE B- REJECT

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 14

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 15

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 16

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 17

Your Culture race and ethnicity+

Your Gender and sexuality+

Your Knowledge +

Your Impressions of the Messenger+

Your Previous experiences

=A Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 18

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 19

Activity 3

Who are you

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 9

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 10

FIGHT POVERTY IN AFRICA BETTER SCHOOLS FOR OUR NEIGHBORHOOD

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

11

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 12

Are women too sensitive or are men insensitive

Should the wife have equal say in the marriage or should the husband have the last say

Can a woman lead the church

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 13

A- APPROVE B- REJECT

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 14

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 15

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 16

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 17

Your Culture race and ethnicity+

Your Gender and sexuality+

Your Knowledge +

Your Impressions of the Messenger+

Your Previous experiences

=A Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 18

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 19

Activity 3

Who are you

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 10

FIGHT POVERTY IN AFRICA BETTER SCHOOLS FOR OUR NEIGHBORHOOD

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

11

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 12

Are women too sensitive or are men insensitive

Should the wife have equal say in the marriage or should the husband have the last say

Can a woman lead the church

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 13

A- APPROVE B- REJECT

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 14

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 15

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 16

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 17

Your Culture race and ethnicity+

Your Gender and sexuality+

Your Knowledge +

Your Impressions of the Messenger+

Your Previous experiences

=A Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 18

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 19

Activity 3

Who are you

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

FIGHT POVERTY IN AFRICA BETTER SCHOOLS FOR OUR NEIGHBORHOOD

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

11

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 12

Are women too sensitive or are men insensitive

Should the wife have equal say in the marriage or should the husband have the last say

Can a woman lead the church

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 13

A- APPROVE B- REJECT

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 14

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 15

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 16

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 17

Your Culture race and ethnicity+

Your Gender and sexuality+

Your Knowledge +

Your Impressions of the Messenger+

Your Previous experiences

=A Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 18

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 19

Activity 3

Who are you

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 12

Are women too sensitive or are men insensitive

Should the wife have equal say in the marriage or should the husband have the last say

Can a woman lead the church

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 13

A- APPROVE B- REJECT

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 14

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 15

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 16

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 17

Your Culture race and ethnicity+

Your Gender and sexuality+

Your Knowledge +

Your Impressions of the Messenger+

Your Previous experiences

=A Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 18

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 19

Activity 3

Who are you

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

Are women too sensitive or are men insensitive

Should the wife have equal say in the marriage or should the husband have the last say

Can a woman lead the church

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 13

A- APPROVE B- REJECT

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 14

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 15

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 16

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 17

Your Culture race and ethnicity+

Your Gender and sexuality+

Your Knowledge +

Your Impressions of the Messenger+

Your Previous experiences

=A Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 18

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 19

Activity 3

Who are you

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

A- APPROVE B- REJECT

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 14

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 15

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 16

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 17

Your Culture race and ethnicity+

Your Gender and sexuality+

Your Knowledge +

Your Impressions of the Messenger+

Your Previous experiences

=A Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 18

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 19

Activity 3

Who are you

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 15

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 16

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 17

Your Culture race and ethnicity+

Your Gender and sexuality+

Your Knowledge +

Your Impressions of the Messenger+

Your Previous experiences

=A Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 18

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 19

Activity 3

Who are you

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 16

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 17

Your Culture race and ethnicity+

Your Gender and sexuality+

Your Knowledge +

Your Impressions of the Messenger+

Your Previous experiences

=A Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 18

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 19

Activity 3

Who are you

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 17

Your Culture race and ethnicity+

Your Gender and sexuality+

Your Knowledge +

Your Impressions of the Messenger+

Your Previous experiences

=A Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 18

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 19

Activity 3

Who are you

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

Your Culture race and ethnicity+

Your Gender and sexuality+

Your Knowledge +

Your Impressions of the Messenger+

Your Previous experiences

=A Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 18

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 19

Activity 3

Who are you

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 19

Activity 3

Who are you

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice

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