3. parenting pattern by dr djatnika (28 oktober 2014)

PARENTING(Good and effective)

Djatnika Setiabudi

Family Medicine System

BASIC NEEDS OF CHILDREN

PARENTING LOVE EDUCATION

COMMUNITY-ENVIROMENT

MACRO

PROFESIONAL ORGANISATION

GOVERNMENT POLICY

COMMUNITY ORGANIZATION

MICRO

NUTRITIONAL• Breast milk• Food complemen tary• Micronutrient

MOTHER• Nutritional • Education• Family Planning

MESO

HEALTH SERVICE

FACILITIES

NON HEALTH SERVICE

FACILITIES

EDUCATION FACILITIES

MINI

HOME ENVIROMENT

FAMILY

ENVIROMENT

PRENATAL NEONATUS INFANTS TODLER PRESCHOOL ADOLESENCE

GROWTH-DEVELOPMENT

RISK OF GROWTH AND DEVELOPMENT DISTRUBANCE

PRENATAL NEONATALANTENATAL

GOLDEN GENERATION

What is parenting?

Parenting is the process of

promoting and supporting

the physical, emotional, social and intellectual development of a child

from infancy to adulthood

Parenting

Practically:

• Meeting the child’s need to age of 18 or

sometimes longer

• Guiding the child toward the goal of becoming a competent adult

Parenting

Providing care, support, and love in a way that leads to a child’s total development

Parenting Skills:

- Physical

- Nurturing

- Guidance

Physical

Food

Clothing

Shelter

Health

Safety

Nurturing

Support

Encouragement

Attention

Love

Sense of security

Guidance

Acceptable behavior

Right from Wrong

Social skills

Emotional skills

Parenting styles

1. Authoritarian or strict

2. Permissive

3. Democratic or authoritative or balance

4. (Neglectful)

Authoritarian style

Limits without freedom

Extremely strict and often cold

communicate through lecture, yelling, punishment, and one-sided discussion

Authoritarian style

Outcome:

- Obedient

- distrustful

- No expression of freedom

- withdrawn

- unhappy

- Not high achievement

Permissive style

Freedom without Limits

More of an “anything goes” attitude

Do not attempt to exert any sort of control over their children

Permissive style

Outcome:

- Aggressive

- most unhappy

- least self-reliant

- least self-controlled

- least explorative

Democratic style

Freedom within Limits

Middle ground approach and is often considered the parenting ideal

Based on warmth, love, guidance, and positive discipline

Democratic style

Outcome:

- Happy

- cooperative

- friendly generous

- mostly self-reliant

- mostly self-controlled

- High achieved

Effective Parenting

A style of raising children

that increases the chances of a child

becoming the most capable person and adult he or she can be

Ten Basic Principles of Good Parenting

1. What you do matters

2. You can not be too loving

3. Be involved in your child’s life

4. Adapt your parenting to fit your child

5. Establish and set rules

Ten Basic Principles of Good Parenting

6. Foster your child’s independence

7. Be consistent

8. Avoid harsh disciplines

9. Explain your rules and decisions

10. Treat your child with respect

Parent’s Pledge

I promise…………………………

Parent’s Pledge

I will show my children I love them

I will listen and value what my children say

I will praise my child’s efforts towards

accomplishment

I will respect my children as individuals

I will enjoy with my children everyday

Take-home messages

Parenting is a gift of God

Parenting is gardening

Parenting is trust

Parenting is labor of love

Parenting is enjoying

Take-home messages

Good Parenting:

Parenting from the Heart