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  • Name Aiesha Title Siddiqa,

    known as Umm Al Mumaneen.

    Since she had adopted her sis-

    ters son Abdullah bin Zubair as

    such she was also known as

    Umm -e -Abdullah. In addition

    she was also given the title of

    Hamera (Fair)

    GenealogyThe family tree of Hazrat aiesha

    according to various authentic

    authors is as follows:

    Fatherabu Bakr abi Kahan -usman-

    amer umar- Khab- Saad -Tayeem

    -Marta -Kab luoyy -Ghalib -fahir -

    Malik. nazar Kanaa Ghazima

    Madrak Ilayas Muzar nazar

    Sad bin adnan

    Motherumm e ruman -amir -awamir -

    abdu Shams -atab -azania Sabi-

    Whaman Harithah -Ghanam -

    Malik -Kunana.

    ParentsHazrat aiesha was the daughter

    of Hazrat abu Bakr- Siddiq, who

    was born in 573 aD at Mecca. Thus

    he was two years younger than the

    Holy Prophet. He belonged to a

    respectable and noble family, the

    Bani Tamim, a branch of Quraish

    Tribe. His lineage joins with that of

    the Holy Prophet six generations

    before. His name was abdullah and

    abu Bakr was his patronymic name

    (or Kuniyah), which became so

    famous that most of the people did

    not know his real name. after his

    conversion to Islam he received

    the title of as-Siddiq (The

    Truthful). Though he was a strict

    man but he was extremely respect-

    ed for wide knowledge, gentle

    manners and an agreeable pres-

    ence. His fathers name was

    usman who was known by his

    patronymic name, abu Qahafah.

    His mothers name was Salma but

    she too was also known by her

    patronymic name, ummul Khair.

    abu Bakr had four wives,

    Qatilah bint abdul aziz, Umm-e-

    Ruman, Asma and Habibah. The

    lineage of Hazrat aieshas mother

    umm-e- ruman joined with that of

    the Holy Prophet eleven genera-

    tions before. She was first married

    to abdullah azwe and after his

    death she was married to abu Bakr.

    from her abu Bakr had two children

    one son abdul rehman and a

    daughter aiesha.

    Her father died in 13 Hijrah in

    Medinah .as regards her mothers

    death different versions exist.

    according to one of them she died

    in 5 or 6 Hijrah but it cannot be true

    as various Hadiths consign that

    she was alive till the time of Hazrat

    usman. In the Hadith in which the

    story of afak is narrated her name

    is referred time and again.

    according to Bukhari during the

    incident of Takbir in the 9 Hijrah

    she was still alive.

    Brothers and SistersHazrat aieshas mother umm-e-

    ruman was the second wife of

    Hazrat abu Bakr. She had one real

    bother, abdur rehman, two-step

    sisters asma and umm Kulthum

    (born to Qatilah and Habiba) and

    two-step brothers abdullah and

    Muhammad (born to Qatilah).

    Early lifeThere are various reports

    regarding her date of birth. However

    according to various records 1she

    was born in July 614 i.e the 5th year

    of the Prophet-hood and 9 years

    before the Hijrat in the city of

    Mecca. She was destined to

    become the wife of the Holy Prophet

    and to be remembered for her vast

    knowledge and beauty.

    In her youth, already known for

    her striking beauty and her formida-

    ble memory, she came under the

    loving care and attention of the Holy

    Prophet himself. as his wife and

    close companion she acquired from

    him knowledge and insight such as

    no woman has ever acquired. The

    life of Hazrat aiesha is a proof that a

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    Columnist SADI GILANI

    Aiesha Bint Abu Bakr

  • woman can be far more learned

    than men can and that she can be

    the teacher of scholars and experts.

    Her life provides ample proof that a

    woman can exert influence over

    men and women and provide them

    with inspiration, encouragement and

    leadership. Her life also indicates

    that the same woman can be totally

    feminine and be a source of pleas-

    ure, joy and comfort to her husband.

    Marriage Proposalby The Holy Prophetafter the death of Hazrat

    Khadijah, usman bin Mazuons wife

    Khaulah bint Hakim requested the

    Holy Prophet to get married again.

    She suggested the names of Sudah

    bint Zama (widow) and aiesha bint

    abu Bakr (virgin). on getting the

    positive response from the Holy

    Prophet she went over to abu

    Bakrs house and conveyed him the

    desire of the Prophet. abu Bakrs

    reply though was in affirmative but

    he informed her that as aieshas

    hand has already been asked by

    Jabrin bin Matiem for their son

    therefore he would first ask them

    and then intimate accordingly.

    When the family of Jabrin was

    consulted, since they had not yet

    become a convert, they were very

    apprehensive, that, if aiesha came

    to their house they might have to

    change their religion, as such,

    they themselves refused to contin-

    ue with the bondage.

    Marriage with The Holy ProphetHazrat aiesha became the

    Prophets wife in Mecca. There is a

    difference of opinion in the age and

    the year in which her nikka and

    ruksati took place. The details are:

    Before and after her wedding

    she maintained a natural jollity,

    innocence and did not seem at all

    over awed by the thought of being

    wedded to the Messenger of God,

    whom all his companions, includ-

    ing her own mother and father,

    treated with such love and rever-

    ence as they gave to no one else.

    about her wedding, she related

    that shortly before she was to

    leave her parents house, she

    slipped out into the courtyard to

    play with a passing friend:

    I was playing on a see-saw and

    my long streaming hair was

    disheveled, she said, They

    came and took me from my play

    and made me ready. They

    dressed her in a wedding-dress

    made from fine red-striped cloth

    from Bahrain and then her moth-

    er took her to the newly built

    house where some women of

    the ansar were waiting outside

    the door. They greeted her with

    the words for good and for hap-

    piness may all be well!

    Then, in the presence of the

    smiling Prophet, a bowl of milk was

    brought. The Holy Prophet drank

    from it himself and offered it to

    aiesha. She shyly declined it but

    when he insisted she did so and

    then offered the bowl to her sister

    asma who was sitting beside her.

    others also drank of it and that was

    as much as there was of the simple

    and solemn occasion of their wed-

    ding. There was no wedding feast,

    however it was clear that it was

    aiesha whom he loved the most,

    because from time to time, one or

    the other of his companions would

    ask: o Messenger of God, whom

    do you love most in the world? He

    did not always give the same

    answer to this question for he felt

    great love for his daughters and

    their children, for abu Bakr, for ali,

    for Zayd and his son usama. But of

    his wives the only one he named in

    this connection was aiesha.

    She too loved him greatly in

    return and often would seek reas-

    surance from him that he loved

    her. once she asked him: How is

    your love for me? like the ropes

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    Book Author Age at Nikka Year Hijri Age Ruksati Year Hijri

    Serathe Syed Suleman 6 620- 3 YBH 9 Years 623

    aiesha nadwi

    Seerah afzul ur rehman 6 10th Yont 9 years after Hijri

    Islamic

    encyclopedia Syed Qasim 10th Yon 9 or 15 years apr 623

    Mahmood also 1 Hijri

    rehmatul alimeen Qazi Suleman 9 11th Yont Shawal

    Manzoor 1st Hijri

    alim Mulana Mududdi 10 14/15 years 2nd Hijri

  • knot, he replied meaning that it

    was strong and secure. and time

    after time thereafter, she would

    ask him: How is the knot? and he

    would reply: ala haaliha in the

    same condition.

    Hazrat Aieshaa Treasure of KnowledgeShe was very intelligent, profi-

    cient, observant and gained

    immense knowledge of multifarious

    problems from the Prophet while

    she was still quite young. even

    though she did not graduate from

    any university, but still her utter-

    ances are studied in faculties of lit-

    erature. Her legal pronouncements

    are studied in colleges of law and

    her life and works are studied and

    researched by students and teach-

    ers of Muslim history as they have

    been for over a thousand years.

    Her nephew urwah asserts that

    she was proficient not only in fiqh

    (jurisprudence) but also in medicine

    (tibb) and arabic history of genealo-

    gy and poetry. Many of the senior

    companions of The Holy Prophet

    used to seek advice on various

    aspects of inheritance and the

    scholars regarded her as one of

    the earliest fuqua of Islam along

    with persons like umar ibn al-

    Khattab, ali and abdullah ibn

    abbas. The Holy Prophet referring

    to her extensive knowledge of

    Islam is reported to have said:

    learn a portion of your religion

    (Din) from this red coloured lady.

    Humayra meaning red-coloured.

    Hazrat aiesha not only pos-

    sessed vast knowledge but also

    took an active part in education and

    social reforms. as a teacher she

    had a clear and persuasive manner

    of speech. Her power of oratory has

    been described in superlative terms

    by al-ahnaf, who said, I have heard

    speeches of abu Bakr, umar,

    usman and ali and the Khulafa, but

    I have not heard speech more per-

    suasive and more convincing from

    the mouth of any person than from

    the mouth of aiesha. Men and

    women came from far and wide to

    benefit from her knowledge. The

    number of women is said to have

    been greater than that of men.

    Besides answering inquiries, she

    took boys and girls, some of them

    orphans, into her custody and

    trained them under her care and

    guidance. This was in addition to

    her relatives who received instruc-

    tion from her. Her house thus

    became a school and an academy.

    Some of her students were out-

    standing and among them her

    nephew urwah is known as a distin-

    guished reporter of hadith. among

    her women pupils is the name of

    umrah bint abdur rehman. She is

    regarded by scholars as one of the

    trustworthy narrators of hadith and

    is said to have acted as aieshas

    secretary, receiving and replying to

    letters addressed to her. The exam-

    ple of Hazrat aiesha in promoting

    education and in particular the edu-

    cation of Muslim women in the laws

    and teachings of Islam is one, which

    needs to be followed.

    Life with The Holy ProphetDespite her feelings of jealousy,

    which nonetheless were not of a

    destructive nature, she was really a

    generous soul and a patient one.

    She bore with the rest of the Holy

    Prophets household poverty and

    hunger that often lasted for long

    periods. for days no fire would be lit

    in the sparsely furnished house of

    the Holy Prophet for cooking or bak-

    ing bread and they would live mere-

    ly on dates and water. Poverty did

    not cause her distress or humiliation;

    self-sufficiency when it did come did

    not corrupt her style of life.

    once the Prophet stayed away

    from his wives for a month because

    they had distressed him by asking of

    him that which he did not have. This

    was after the Khaybar expedition

    when an increase of riches whetted

    the appetite for presents. returning

    from his self-imposed retreat, he

    went first to aieshas apartment. She

    was delighted to see him but he said

    he had received revelation that

    required him to put two options

    before her. He then recited the vers-

    es from surah al-ahzab (33:28)

    O Prophet! say to thy

    Consorts: If it be that ye desire

    the life of this world and its glitter

    then come! I will provide for your

    enjoyment and set you free in a

    handsome manner. (33:28)

    Hazrat aieshas reply was

    Indeed I desire God and His

    Messenger and the abode of the

    Hereafter, and all the others fol-

    lowed her response. She stuck to

    her choice both during the lifetime of

    the Holy Prophet and afterwards.

    later when the Muslims were

    favoured with enormous riches, she

    was given a gift of one hundred

    thousand dirhams. She was fasting

    when she received the money and

    she distributed the entire amount to

    the poor and the needy even though

    she had no provisions in her house.

    Shortly after, a maidservant said to

    her: could you buy meat for a

    dirham with which to break your

    fast? If I had remembered, I would

    have done so, she said.

    Aiesha a Loving WifeThe Holy Prophets love for

    Hazrat aiesha was not only for her

    physical attractions and beauty, for

    there were among his wives others

    who were equally, if not more beau-

    tiful and charming than her, but it

    was for her intelligence and her total

    submission and devotion for the

    apostle of allah. She was very obe-

    dient and served the Prophet well.

    In spite of having a maid to

    assist her she prepared and did the

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  • work herself. She used to grind and

    make paste for flour, cook food and

    make his bed (Bukahri and Trimzi).

    She brought water for his ablu-

    tion. (Musnad).

    When he sent camels for sacri-

    fice, she herself used to twist gar-

    lands for the hadis of the Prophet

    (Bukhari).

    She combed his hair and scent-

    ed his hair and body and washed

    his clothes herself (Bukhari).

    When he went to bed she put

    miswak and water near his bed

    (ahmed).

    She also cleaned his miswake to

    remove any dirt (abu Dawud).

    Whenever any of his guests

    arrived in the house she served

    them (Qais Gaffri). one of the asso-

    ciates of Suffah stated, one day

    allahs Messenger told us to go to

    aieshas house. When we reached

    there, he said, aiesha give us some

    food. She brought some cooked

    food. Then he asked her for more

    food and she brought harirah made

    of dried dates. Thereafter he asked

    for some drink and she brought milk

    in a big bowl and then water in a

    small cup. (abu Dawud).

    She lived with him for 9 years

    and served him, meeting all his

    needs and demands, without ever

    disobeying him. In fact, she felt

    pleasure and delight in his service.

    Whenever he showed his dislike

    for any thing, she at once abstained

    from that thing and removed it from

    her compartment (Bukhari).

    In addition to daily prayers and

    Tahajjud prayer, she also offered

    Ishraq prayer (between sunrise and

    noon) with the Prophet. She often

    fasted (other then the fasting in

    ramadan) along with the Prophet

    and some times she also shared

    with him the duty of itikaf (confining

    one self to the mosque for special

    devotions) in the last ten days of the

    month of ramadan. She would get

    a tent put up for her for this purpose.

    The Holy Prophet would come to

    her after the morning prayers for a

    while. (Bukhari).

    Hazrat aiesha reported that

    allahs Prophet used to put his head

    out of the mosque while he was in

    itikaf inside, and she would comb

    and oil his hair.

    Though the use of silk and gold

    is permissible for women in Islam,

    but the Prophet did not like the

    members of his household to wear it

    for he had a natural dislike for world-

    ly decoration and ornamentation.

    once aiesha wore gold bangles

    and he said, shall I tell you a better

    plan? Take of these bangles and get

    two silver bangles and put saffron

    colour on them (nasai).

    a relationship of love and affec-

    tion existed between her and the

    Prophet and there are score of

    instances in the books of hadiths

    and seerah, which reveal the nature

    of this loving and cordial relation-

    ship. It is reported by Hazrat aiesha

    that the people used to choose

    aieshas day to bring them gifts

    seeking there by to please allahs

    Messenger. She said that the Holy

    Prophets wives were in two groups,

    one including aiesha, Hafsah,

    Safyiah and Saudah and the other

    including umm Salamah and the

    rest. umm Salamahs group

    requested her (i.e. to umm

    Salamah) to ask the Messenger of

    allah to tell the people If anyone

    wishes to make a present to allahs

    Messenger, let him bring to him

    when ever he happens to be with

    them, she did so. But he replied,

    Do not annoy me regarding aiesha,

    for revelation has not come to me

    when I was in any womens garment

    except aieshas. She said I repent

    to allah for annoying you, allahs

    Messenger. They then called

    Hazrat fatimah and sent her to

    allahs Messenger and she spoke to

    him about this matter but he replied,

    Do you not like what I like, my girl?

    She said, certainly. So he said,

    love this woman (Bukhari and

    Muslim). When she came back

    unsuccessful, they then chose

    Hazrat Zaynab, for she was suitable

    for this purpose. She delivered the

    message with great courage and

    tried very effectively to prove that

    Hazrat aiesha did not deserve the

    position (she had been given by the

    Holy Prophet). Hazrat aiesha kept

    quiet and looked at the face of the

    Holy Prophet. When Hazrat Zaynab

    finished her speech. Hazrat aiesha,

    availing the opportunity, stood up

    and spoke so convincingly that

    Hazrat Zaynab had no answer. The

    Holy Prophet said, why not? after

    all, she is the daughter of abu Bakr,

    (Muslim). even in abnormal circum-

    stances, her love for the Holy

    Prophet remained as intense as

    ever and their martial relationship

    become all the closer.

    Revelation for HerIn the words of Hazrat aiesha

    Whenever allahs apostle intended

    to go on a journey, he would draw

    lots amongst his wives and would

    take with him the one upon whom

    the lot fell. During a Ghazwa of his,

    he drew lots amongst us and the lot

    fell upon me, and I proceeded with

    him after allah had decreed the use

    of the veil by women. I was carried

    in a Howdah (on the camel) and dis-

    mounted while still in it. after the

    Ghazwa, on our way back to

    Medinah when the order of setting

    off for the night was given, I walked

    till I was past the army to answer the

    call of nature. after finishing I

    returned (to the camp) to depart

    (with the others) and suddenly

    became conscious of the fact that

    my necklace over my chest was

    missing. So, I returned to look for it

    and was delayed because of that.

    The individuals assigned the

    responsibility for carrying me on the

    camel, came to my howdah and

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  • placed it on the back of the camel,

    presuming that I was in it. Since I

    was a young lady and did not weigh

    much, those individuals did not feel

    the difference in the heaviness of

    the howdah and they moved for the

    new destination. on finding the

    necklace I came to the campsite

    only to find that the army had moved

    on so, I went to the place where I

    stayed, thinking that soon they

    would discover my absence and

    come back in my search. While in

    that state, I felt sleepy and slept.

    Safwan bin Muattal as-Sulami

    adh-Dhakwani was behind the army

    and reached my abode in the morn-

    ing. When he saw a sleeping per-

    son, he came closer, but as he had

    seen me before the decree of veil-

    ing, I immediately got up when I

    heard him saying, Inna lil-lah-wa

    inn a ilaihi rajiun (We are for allah,

    and we will return to Him) on recog-

    nizing me. He made his camel to

    kneel down and I sat over it while

    Safwan set out walking; leading the

    camel by the rope till we reached

    the army, which had halted to take

    rest at midday. Then whoever was

    meant for destruction, fell into

    destruction, (some people accused

    me falsely) and the leader of the

    false accusers was abdullah bin

    ubai bin Salul. after that we

    returned to Medinah, and I became

    ill for one month while the people

    were spreading the fabricated state-

    ments of the false accusers. I was

    feeling during my ailment as if I was

    not receiving the usual kindness

    from the Prophet, which I used to

    receive from him when I got sick.

    But he would come, greet and say,

    How is that (girl)? I did not know

    anything of what was going on till I

    recovered from my ailment and

    went out with um Mistah to the

    Manasi where we used to answer

    the call of nature, and we used not

    to go to answer the call of nature

    except from night to night and that

    was before we had lavatories near

    to our houses. and this habit of ours

    was similar to the habit of the old

    arabs in the open country (or away

    from houses). So. um Mistah bint

    ruhm and I went out walking. um

    Mistah stumbled because of her

    long dress and on that she said, let

    Mistah be ruined. I said, You are

    saying a bad word. Why are you

    abusing a man who took part in (the

    battle of) Badr? She said, o

    Hanata (you there) didnt you hear

    what they said? Then she told me

    the rumours of the false accusers.

    My sickness was aggravated,

    and when I returned home, allahs

    apostle came to me, and after greet-

    ing he said, How is that (girl)? I

    requested him to allow me to go to

    my parents. I wanted then to be sure

    of the news through them. allahs

    apostle allowed me, and I went to

    my parents and asked my mother,

    What are the people talking about?

    She said, o my daughter! Dont

    worry much about this matter. By

    allah, never is there a charming

    woman loved by her husband who

    has other wives, but the women

    would fabricate news about her. I

    said, Glorified be allah! are the peo-

    ple really talking of this matter? That

    night I kept on weeping and could

    not sleep till morning. In the morning

    allahs apostle called ali bin abu

    Talib and usama bin Zayd when he

    saw the Divine Inspiration delayed,

    to consult them about divorcing his

    wife (i.e. aiesha). usama bin Zayd

    said what he knew of the good repu-

    tation of his wives and added, o

    allahs apostle! Keep your wife, for,

    by allah, we know nothing about her

    but good. ali bin abu Talib said, o

    allahs apostle! allah has not

    imposed restrictions on you, and

    there are many women other than

    she, yet you may ask the woman-

    servant who will tell you the truth.

    on that allahs apostle called

    Buraira and said, o Buraira. Did you

    ever see anything, which roused

    your suspicions about her? Buraira

    said, no, by allah Who has sent you

    with the Truth, I have never seen in

    her anything faulty except that she is

    a girl of immature age, who some-

    times sleeps and leaves the dough

    for the goats to eat. on that day

    allahs apostle ascended the pulpit

    and requested that somebody sup-

    port him in punishing abdullah bin

    ubai bin Salul. allahs apostle said,

    Who will support me to punish that

    person (abdullah bin ubai bin Salul)

    who has hurt me by slandering the

    reputation of my family? By allah, I

    know nothing about my family but

    good, and they have accused a per-

    son about whom I know nothing

    except good, and he never entered

    my house except in my company.

    Sad bin Muadh got up and said,

    o allahs apostle! By allah, I will

    relieve you from him. If that man is

    from the tribe of the aus, then we will

    chop his head off, and if he is from

    our brothers, the Khazraj, then order

    us, and we will fulfill your order. on

    that Sad bin ubada, the chief of the

    Khazraj and before this incident, he

    had been a pious man, got up, moti-

    vated by his zeal for his tribe and

    said, By allah, you have told a lie;

    you cannot kill him, and you will

    never be able to kill him. on that

    usaid bin al-Hadir got up and said

    (to Sad bin ubada), By allah! You

    are a liar. By allah, we will kill him;

    and you are a hypocrite, defending

    the hypocrites. on this the two

    tribes of aus and Khazraj got excited

    and were about to fight while allahs

    apostle was still standing on the pul-

    pit. He got down and quietened

    them till they became silent and he

    kept quiet. on that day I kept on

    weeping so much so that neither did

    my tears stop, nor could I sleep.

    In the morning my parents were

    with me and I had wept for two

    nights and a day, till I thought my

    liver would burst from weeping.

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  • While they were sitting with me and

    I was weeping, an ansari woman

    asked my permission to enter. I

    allowed her to come in and as she

    sat down she started weeping with

    me. While we were in this state,

    allahs apostle came and sat down

    and he had never sat with me since

    the day they fabricated the accusa-

    tion. no revelation regarding my

    case came to him for a month. He

    recited Tashah-hud (i.e. none has

    the right to be worshipped but allah

    and Muhammad is His apostle) and

    then said, o aiesha! I have been

    informed such-and-such about you;

    if you are innocent, then allah will

    soon reveal your innocence, and if

    you have committed a sin, then

    repent to allah and ask Him to for-

    give you, for when a person con-

    fesses his sin and asks allah for for-

    giveness, allah accepts his repen-

    tance. When allahs apostle finished

    his speech my tears ceased com-

    pletely and there remained not even

    a single drop of it. I requested my

    father to reply to allahs apostle on

    my behalf. My father said, By allah,

    I do not know what to say to allahs

    apostle. I said to my mother, Talk

    to allahs apostle on my behalf.

    She said, By allah, I do not know

    what to say to allahs apostle.

    I was a young girl and did not

    have much knowledge of the

    Quran, but I said, I know that you

    have listened to what people are

    saying and that has been planted in

    your mind and you have taken it as

    a truth. now, if I told you that I am

    innocent and allah knows that I am

    innocent, you would not believe me

    and if I confessed to you falsely that

    I am guilty, and allah knows that I

    am innocent you would believe me.

    I dont compare my situation with

    you except to the situation of

    Josephs father (i.e. Jacob) who

    said, So (for me) patience is most

    fitting against that which you assert

    and it is allah (alone) whose help

    can be sought. Then I turned to the

    other side of my bed hoping that allah

    would prove my innocence. I had

    never thought or even imagined that

    allah would reveal Divine Inspiration

    in my case, as I considered myself

    too inferior to be talked of in the Holy

    Quran. I had hoped that allahs

    apostle might have a dream in which

    allah would prove my innocence. The

    Hoy Prophet had not got up and

    nobody had left the house before the

    Divine Inspiration came to him. So,

    there overtook him the same state,

    which used to overtake him, (when

    he used to have, on being inspired

    divinely). He was sweating so much

    so that the drops of the sweat were

    dropping like pearls though it was a

    (cold) wintry day. When that state

    was over, he was smiling and the first

    word he said, aiesha! Thank allah,

    for allah has declared your inno-

    cence. My mother told me to imme-

    diately go to the Prophet. I replied, I

    will not go to him and will not thank

    but allah. So allah revealed this

    verse of Surah an-nur (24:11)

    Those who brought forward the

    lie are a body among yourselves:

    think it not to be an evil to you: on

    the contrary it is good for you: to

    every man among them (will come

    the punishment) of the sin that he

    earned and to him who took on

    himself the lead among them will

    be a Penalty grievous. (24.11)

    When allah gave the declaration

    of my innocence, Hazrat abu Bakr,

    who used to provide for Mistah bin

    uthatha for he was his relative, said,

    I will never provide Mistah with

    anything because of what he said

    about aiesha. But allah later

    revealed in Surah an-nur (24:22):

    Let not those among you who

    are endued with grace and

    amplitude of means resolve by

    oath against helping their kins-

    men those in want and those

    who have left their homes in

    Allahs cause: let them forgive

    and overlook: do you not wish

    that Allah should forgive you?

    For Allah is Oft-Forgiving Most

    Merciful. (24.22)

    after that Hazrat abu Bakr asked

    for God almightys forgiveness and

    resumed helping Mistah as before.

    The Prophet had also asked

    Zaynab bint Jashsh (i.e. the

    Prophets wife) if she had heard or

    seen any thing about me. To which

    she replied, o allahs apostle! I

    refrain to claim hearing or seeing

    what I have not heard or seen. I

    know nothing except goodness

    about aiesha. aiesha further

    added, Zaynab was competing with

    me (in her beauty and the Prophets

    love), yet allah protected her (from

    being malicious), for she had piety.

    Holy Prophet Joins The Life HereafterThe Holy Prophets affection for

    Hazrat aiesha remained to the last.

    During his final illness, it was to her

    apartment that he went on the sug-

    gestion of his wives. for much of

    the time he lay there on a couch

    with his head resting on her lap. She

    chewed the tooth stick in order to

    soften it and the Prophet, despite

    his weakness; rubbed his teeth with

    it vigorously. not long afterwards, he

    lost consciousness and aiesha

    thought it was the onset of death,

    but after an hour he opened his

    eyes. Hazrat aiesha has preserved

    for us these dying moments of the

    most honoured of Gods creation,

    His beloved Messenger may He

    shower His choicest blessings on

    him. When he opened his eyes

    again, aiesha remembered Iris hav-

    ing said to her: no Prophet is taken

    by death until he has been shown

    his place in Paradise and then

    offered the choice, to live or die.

    He will not now choose us, she

    said to herself. Then she heard him

    murmur: With the supreme com-

    munion in Paradise, with those

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  • upon whom God has showered His

    favour, The Prophets, the martyrs

    and the righteous. again she heard

    him murmur: o lord, with the

    supreme communion, and these

    were the last words she heard him

    speak. Gradually his head grew

    heavier upon her lap, until others in

    the room began to lament, and

    aiesha laid his head on a pillow and

    joined them in lamentation. In the

    floor of her room near the couch

    where he was lying, a grave was

    dug in which was buried the Seal of

    the Prophet amid much bewilder-

    ment and great sorrow.

    Efforts for spreading IslamHazrat aiesha lived on almost

    fifty years after the passing away of

    the Prophet. She had been his wife

    for a decade and much of this time

    was spent in learning and acquiring

    knowledge of the two most impor-

    tant sources of Gods guidance, the

    Quran and the Sunnah. Aiesha

    was one of the three wives (the

    other two being Hafsah and Umm

    Salamah) who memorized the

    Revelation. like Hafsah, she had

    her own script of the Quran written

    after the Holy Prophet had died.

    So far as the hadiths or sayings

    of the Prophet are concerned,

    Hazrat aiesha is one of four per-

    sons (the others being abu

    Hurairah, abdullah ibn umar, and

    anas ibn Malik) who transmitted

    more than two thousand sayings.

    Many of these pertain to some of

    the most intimate aspects of per-

    sonal behavior, which only some-

    one in aieshas position could

    have learnt. What is most impor-

    tant is that her knowledge of hadith

    was passed on in written form by

    at least three persons including

    her nephew urwah who became

    one of the greatest scholars

    among the generation after the

    companions. Many of the learned

    companions of the Holy Prophet

    and their followers benefited from

    her knowledge. abu Musa al-

    ashari once said: If we compan-

    ions of the Messenger of God had

    any difficulty on a matter, we asked

    aiesha about it

    Difference with Hazrat AliHazrat aiesha and Hazrat ali

    though very close to each other and

    favourites of the Holy Prophet went

    at war (the battle of camel) as

    adversaries. The sole reason was

    the instigation by few members of

    the family of Hazrat usman, Talha

    and Zubair in forcing Hazrat ali to

    expedite in taking the revenge from

    the assassins of Hazrat usman.

    unfortunately at that time the city of

    Medinah was not free from the grip

    of Sabaites and there was a gener-

    al feeling against umayyads in the

    public. Hazrat ali was anxious to

    restore peace first so that the

    assassins could be punished sub-

    sequently. However, inspite of the

    deliberate efforts being put in by

    Hazrat ali every day the things went

    from bad to worse.

    Hazrat aiesha had not correctly

    assessed the delicate situation in

    Medinah and while remaining in

    Mecca prepared for her march

    towards Medinah at the head of

    about two thousand men with the

    object of dealing with the assassins

    herself. Her supporters and the

    army of Hazrat ali came face to face

    at Basra. Due to efforts of both the

    bloodshed had almost been avoid-

    ed and they had reached an agree-

    ment but some agents of abdullah

    bin Saba (Sabaites) and Hakim bin

    Hublah, did not allow any settle-

    ment. ultimately a full-scale war

    started in which both sides lost

    approx 10 thousand lives. finally

    Hazrat aieshas supporter lost the

    battle. according to Tabari the fol-

    lowing Sabaites were the leaders

    behind this most tragic event in the

    history: Ashtar Nakhi Ibn Sauda,

    Khalid bin Muljam, Alba bin

    Haitham and Shuraib bin Aufa.

    Ibn Saba was the ringleader.

    Joining the Eternal LifeThe last phase of amir

    Muhawiyas regime was also the

    last moments of Hazrat aiesha. at

    that time she was 64 years of age.

    In 58 hijri during the month of

    ramzan she fell ill which proved to

    be fatal, as she never recovered

    from it. During her those last

    moments of this worldly life she

    made her will that as she had com-

    mitted a sin as such she should not

    be buried next to the Prophet. She

    emphasized to be buried along with

    the other wives of the Prophet in

    the Janat-ul-Baqi during the same

    night of her death.

    She died after the nameze witr

    during the night of 17 of ramadan 58

    aH (13 June 678 AD). as soon as

    the news of her death spread there

    were cries of mourning from every

    house. It is said that a very large pro-

    cession gathered and as she

    instructed, was buried in the Jannat

    ul-Baqi in the city of light, beside

    other companions of the Prophet.

    It is said that after Hazrat

    Khadijah al-Kubra (the Great) and

    fatimah az-Zahra (the

    resplendent), aiesha -Siddiqah (the

    one who affirms the Truth) is regard-

    ed as the best woman in Islam.

    Because of the strength of her per-

    sonality, she was a leader in every

    field, in knowledge, in society, in pol-

    itics and in war. She often regretted

    her involvement in war but lived long

    enough to regain position as the

    most respected woman of her time.u

    end notes1encyclopedia of seerah by afzal ur

    rehman and seerate aiesha by Syed

    Suleman nadwi.

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