RESENTMENT INVENTORY AFFECTS MY MY PART #

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WHAT IS MY FEAR? THE SoLUTIoN

SEXUAL PERSONAL: MISCONDUCT INVENTORY AFFECTS MY MY PART #

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WHAT SHoULd I HAvE doNE? THE SoLUTIoN

FEAR INVENTORY AFFECTS MY MY PART

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MY PART - dEFECT LIST selfish

Inconsiderate

self-Centered

self-seeking / self-serving / self-Righteous Pursuing only one’s own ends or interests. exhibiting concern only with promoting one’s own ends or interests.

self-Pity / Victim A feeling of being hard done by! Poor me, how could he do that to me?

self-Loathing / Lack of self Acceptance

stubbornness

Judgemental

Critical / Intolerance

Impatience

Anger / Hatred

Blaming others

Unrealistic expectations

Denial

Controlling

Manipulative

(False) Pride / ego What will people think?

Arrogance

Fearful

Revenge

Gossip

Greed

Materialism / superficial

envy Resentful of more fortunate people - their health, looks, intelligence or ways.

Jealousy The fear of being out done by someone. The fear of being replaced by another. seeing people as rivals.

Dishonest

Ungrateful / entitlement

Lust

sloth

Procrastination

Perfectionism

Comparing To others

Contempt Prior To Knowledge / Investigation

Resentment / Bitterness A subtile hatred.

suspicios

Rebelliousness (against higher power / God) Defiant

Arrogance

Grandiosity

Vanity

Hypocritical

Negative Thinking

overly sensitive / Inscure / Thin-skinned

Gluttony

Tardiness