a tribute to a mother!
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When God cannot be everywhere, she created Mothers
Since the day I started writing professionally somewhere in August 2008 and my short stories,
travelogues, critiques on books and films were not just published but appreciated by a varying
international audience on the Internet, it had remained a dream that I should write somethingon my celebrated mother but since she has been such a towering personality, it was always so
difficult to write about her.
Usually, I take about three days to write an article but this one has taken more than three
months to complete with so much thought and feelings that go along with it. Thus, I had been
contemplating as to how I should go about it when suddenly it dawned upon me that I should
ask her to help me write a short autobiography of herself. So here I am trying to paint a canvass
of her glorious life in her own sweet words. Here we go Mom! Please do forgive me for any
Faux Pas that I may commit along the way. This is what she has to say:
I was born in a small state inGujrat, Palanpur, Indiaon Tuesday 10th
September, 1935. A state
governed by the Nawab Tallae Muhammed Khan Bahadur (Late). Palanpur; a princely state was
famous for Kewda a kind of flower shaped like maize but has a very strong fragrance. As the
train approaches the station of Palanpur; the passengers could smell the fragrance from a long
distance.
The Map of the City of Palanpur
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My father i.e. Abdul Qadeer Khan was theAide-De-Camp(ADC) of the Nawab and was also a
commander of the cavalry which was trained to give guard of honor to theViceroyand other
dignitaries who visited the princely state off & on. Since I was the only offspring of my parents, I
was given a lot of love and care. I was brought up like a Tom Boy. I used to dress up like a boy,
play all kinds of monkey tricks, games and sports played by the boys, so much so that I evenused to climb trees like a boy my age which was so unusual for a girl to attempt. I used to ride a
pony every evening and would ride bicycles around the house. I loved to accept all kinds of
challenges; this gave me great confidence. My life was somehow full of challenges.
I got my early education in a small school which imparted education in theGujrati language
while the second language taught was English. This was the reason I was deprived of my
mother tongue which wasUrdu. After the retirement of my father, I had to shift toJodhpur
where my grandfather lived with all my uncles and aunts. Jodhpur is a very beautiful place
situated inRajasthan, India, a great house of culture of theRajput; a great race and name in the
history ofIndia.
This blending of culture of Gujrat and Rajasthan gave me a chance to learn about the people of
both the states and their colorful culture and religions. This was the 1st
phase of my education. I
took a great interest in the various activities, learnt a lot about the language, music, dances and
religious ritual. It was all so interesting, colorful and enchanting for a young Muslim girl of my
age. I keenly participated in their religious festivals too.
InJodhpur, my educational environment was totally different. I was admitted in a very famous
Convent school managed by the Nuns, like most of the Convents in other parts of India. This
school i.e. Saint Patrick was the only school where all the elite of the society, including the girls
of the royal family came to learn. This gave me a chance to mingle with the Rajput girls and
make friends with them. One of the daughters of the cousin of the Maharaja of Jodhpur i.e.
Umaid Singhbecame a close friend of mine. This gave me an access to visit the famous palace
of Jodhpur which was known for its grandeur namely the Chittar Palacewhich also became a
tourist attraction after the partition of India.
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Umaid Bhavan or Chittar Palace, Jodhpur
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In India, the ratio of Muslim girls was very low in school as compared to the Hindu girls. Very
few Muslim families allowed their children to attend schools, besides the St. Patrick School was
rather expensive so very few girls were admitted. This school gave me a wonderful chance to
promote the artistic capabilities in me. I extensively participated in stage plays, group dancing,
tableaus and English chorus songs etc.
After completing my High School, I was admitted in a famous college. The only girls college in
Jodhpur at that time was known as the Rajmahal College which seemed to be an old building
of the Maharajas; a huge building which looked like a great temple with a beautiful Baoli, a
small lake like ditch on one side where our library was situated. There were only four Muslim
girls in the college. They all observedPurdahand were quite timid to come forward and
participate in any activity. HavingRajputblood flowing in my veins, I was the only girl who was
bold enough to come forward and participate in all kinds of activities, including their religious
dramas and dances. I even choreographed some group dances and did some caricature of our
teachers which they all enjoyed.
During this period we saw many ups and downs when the war of independence was fought. Lifebecame rather insecure. Many Punjabis from thePunjabprovince entered Jodhpur after the
assassination of their ruling Maharaja who was not allowing the migrating people fromSindh
and Punjab to enter Jodhpur. We lived like fugitives and shifted from one place to another, I
dressing up like Hindu girls.
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The Minar-e-Pakistan, the symbol of Pakistans independence
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Ultimately, in 1952; we migrated toPakistan. This was a very crucial time for the Muslims in
India. There had been a massacre in many parts of India. With great difficulty, I reached
Hyderabad, Sindh with my mother. My father had already migrated to Pakistan in 1946 when
the turmoil started. As most of my uncles were government servants, they all insisted my father
to purchase a property in Pakistan so that if worse comes to worse, all the womenfolk could
migrate to Pakistan in times of danger. So he was already residing in Hyderabad since 1946.
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Initially, I had also come with him to Pakistan along with my mother but the climate of Sindh
did not suit me. I got sick and went back to Jodhpur with my mother after six months,
completed my Matric which I earlier left in between due to the upheaval. I continued my
studies from 1947 to 1950 in Jodhpur. After doing my Inter Arts from Raj Mahal College, I could
not do my B.A because there was no girls college for graduation. It was from the university thatstudents did their Bachelor where it was co-education and the Muslim girls were not allowed to
join. My two precious years were wasted thus.
Before coming to Pakistan, I got a chance to visitBombay. Though I had already visited Bombay
two times but then I was quite young at that time. This time around it gave me a chance to visit
Bombay when I was quite grown up. My mother and I were invited by the Chotee Begum
(Youngest wife of the Maharaja) of Palanpur who was the sister in law of the late Nawab of
Palanpur who was living in Bombay after partition whenVallabhbhai Patel(One of the founding
fathers of India) annexed all the states to the government and most of the states were given a
kind of pension, the Nawab of Palanpur and all his relatives left Palanpur and shifted to
Bombay. This trip to Bombay was yet another adventure of my life. We were living inBandra, a
famous place where people from the film industry lived. Here I got a chance to visit the film
industry.
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When I was in college, I started writing stories and poems inHindias Hindi was the main
language of India then. So I thought that I could give my stories to the distributors of Kardar and
Mahboob Khan, the famous director of Indian films then. The distributor was our next door
neighbor in Bandra and he promised to help me in contacting Kardar and Mahboob. I was also
offered a film as I was a good singer and performer. But I knew that I will not be allowed to doany such thing since during those days good families looked down upon the people associated
with the film industry and this episode came to an end but I did get a chance to see the famous
film actorDilip Kumar, his sister and other film actors in Bombay.
From Bombay we had planned to come to Pakistan via ship but our passports were not ready so
we had to drop the idea. We returned to Jodhpur while breaking our journey at Palanpur to
visit some old friends. For the first time when I travelled to Pakistan in 1946 along with my
father, we were given all the facilities because some of our relatives were working in the
railways. They helped us to shift our entire luggage through train safely but the next time when
I migrated to Pakistan in 1953, it was a tough journey. People had to cross half their journey by
buses escorted by Indian police and the remaining journey through theTharparkardesert which
was very tiresome.
The great Tharparkar Desert
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After getting down from the bus, we had to cross the desert by camels but unfortunately there
was a strike and there were no camels to carry us across the desert. We had to complete our
journey on foot. Since it was very hot in the day time thus we had to carry on our journey in the
evening. The caravan walked throughout the evening and rested during the night. Travelling
during the nights was very risky since there was a fear of attack from the villages. The male
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members used to keep a watch during the night. After crossingMunabaoandBarmerin
Rajasthan, we were expecting some trains from Pakistan which were to carry us toMirpurkhas.
But as luck would have it, there was no sign of any train. We had to wait for the train at the
railway station for the entire night and when the train arrived, we were flabbergasted. It was a
Maal-gari (read goods train) and not a passenger train. We were all loaded into it like cattlewith dry grass under our feet on which we had to sit for hours together before we reached our
destination.
This is how we were welcomed to Pakistan, the land of the pure. This incident shook me
completely because it was the bitterest experience of my life. Imagine a child who was brought
up amongst the royalty in Palanpur and Jodhpur was made to travel like cattle in a goods train
to Pakistan. It could not get any worse than that and our egos were blemished but we had to
endure all this with patience in the name of our new country, Pakistan. It took me quite some
time to overcome this shock. My father was facing a lot of financial problems so I had to work
to survive in this new land. I joinedSaint Marys school, Hyderabadas a school teacher. As I had
a lot of experience of being with theNunsin India, this gave me an opportunity to work with
them here in Hyderabad. I worked with them from 1952 to 1960.
In 1955, a girls college was floated by the same order of the Nuns named Nazareth College for
girls in Hyderabad. I joined the college to complete my BA honors in English. This was the most
glorious period of my life. We had different clubs in our college for students activities like
debate, music, drama and dance etc. I was the in-charge of the Dance club for I had good
knowledge of theKathakdance which I learnt when I was in Jodhpur. There was a ruined
palace, one of the portions of a fortress where a school was run by some famous masters. Itwas called Kalamandir. I learnt Kathak dance andSitarat this school.
Sitting on extreme left, English play School for scandal, Nazareth College, 1.09.1953
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I could not continue my classes here since we had to suddenly migrate to Pakistan and thus my
course remained incomplete. Anyhow, whatever I learnt; I taught my friends in the Nazareth
College. The club organized annual functions where we presented folk dances, tableaus, dance,
drama etc. I often used to perform during these functions and all the teachers liked it so much
since majority of them were foreigners who belonged to the same Order of Nuns but were fromdifferent countries like USA, UK, Germany, Italy and France. They loved and enjoyed our
cultural activities.
Standing 3rd from left with Begum Rana Liaquat Ali Khan and the drama cast 30.11.1953
Once, it so happened that when I participated in a music competition, I secured 1st
position and
my name was published in the local newspapers. One day I received a letter. It was a big
surprise for me since the letter was written by an old friend i.e. Ms. Anita Ghulam Ali who was
my class mate in Class IX when I came for the first time to Pakistan. I joined St. Marys convent
for a few months before returning to India. It was almost after six years that she discovered me
and this reunion took place between other students also who studied with me during that
period. It was something like a good dream and we are still good friends.
As I was an all-rounder, I was very popular among the college students and the teachers alike.
When our college organized the annual sports day, I participated almost in every event be it
high jump, broad jump, hurdle race, relay race, lemon spoon race, three legged race, flat raceand my favorite bicycle race which I always won. Basketball was one of the games in which we
played at the Inter College level and we often came toKarachito play againstSt. Joseph
College; another famous Convent college managed and run by the Nuns those days. I did not
miss a chance to play other games like baseball, throw ball, tennis, table tennis and badminton.
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I enjoyed every moment of the sports day. I won many certificates and trophies in sports,
games & music competitions.
After the partition of India, when Mr.Liaquat Ali Khanbecame Prime Minister of Pakistan, his
wifeBegum Rana Liaquat Aliplayed an active part for the uplift of the women in Pakistan. She
formed an organization calledAll Pakistan Womens Association(APWA) which was more like a
Non-Governmental Organization (NGO) which helped the down trodden women and helped
them. It participated in all kinds of social service. It also had a branch called National guard in
which many college girls were enlisted. Our college also became its member.
Every year, we were invited by Begum Sahiba to participate in the National Guard parade on
14th
August to celebrate the Independence Day. It was so exciting to be a part of this ceremony.
We were made to live in a hostel for two days and were given the best treatment by the first
lady in the Prime Ministers house. We all felt so proud and were enthralled by this gesture.
Every year, when the session concluded, the best students were awarded with trophies andcertificates for their achievements.
Standing with Begum Rana Liaquat Ali Khan Trophy for best student @ Nazareth College,
Hyderabad, Sindh 20.03.1955
The students of Saint Mary and Nazareth College had formed an association of both the
institutions. I used to organize an alumni function where majority of the old and new students
were invited. Some of them even came from abroad who had left Pakistan after their
education. All the old teachers were also invited and we had great fun. Everyone looked
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forward to this day. The function would remain incomplete if I did not perform my songs at the
end.
When it was my final year at the College, I was also awarded a special trophy for the best
student of the year and a social service trophy for the year by the first lady. She was the
Ambassador in Hague for Pakistan during those days. When our college sent her this report, she
wrote a letter of congratulations to me in appreciation of my achievements. This was the
greatest reward for me besides all the rewards I won. My passion to excel in life did not end
here. I took a chance to move forward and tried some other avenues too.
Receiving trophy from Begum Rana Liaquat Ali Khan, Nazareth College, Hyderabad, Sindh
20.03.1955
Radio Pakistanin Hyderabad, Sindh became another center of attraction for me after leaving
the college. I was selected in the audition for acting and was given a chance to take part in the
weekly plays where I became very popular. Since the people of Hyderabad were still very
conservative, so I did not disclose my original name and was known by the pen name of A. S.
Naz. The people around me were very educated and respectable so I was encouraged to
continue. Initially, I only participated as a drama artist but slowly when some music directorssupported me, I began to give performances in music, singing Urdu ghazals, songs and Sindhi
folk songs.
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Receiving 1st
Prize at the Music competition @ Law College, Hyderabad, 1956
Once there was a drama festival at Radio Pakistan, Hyderabad where different writers
participated. I already had some short stories which I had written in India. I tried to make an
attempt to enter the competition. As lady luck would have it, my play was selected for the
festival but the credit goes to Mr. Ilyas Ishaque who had done his MA in Hindi and Sanskrit
besides Urdu. He acted as my God father throughout my career as an artist at Radio station,
Hyderabad. He translated my play in Urdu as all my literary work was in Hindi and much of it
was laying waste because so far there was no one who could help me out in translating my wok
in Urdu. Thus, my play for the drama festival was selected and was very much appreciated by
the listeners. It was a story of two twin sisters fromBangladeshand it was called Saharey.
After the festival got over, there was a discussion panel comprising of some Professors and
writers. I was also invited to take part in it. I received a great appreciation from them and
received many letters from the listeners. After this success, I was asked to write some musical
play for Hindu festivals by Mr. Ilyas Ishaque who helped me in translating my religious plays like
Deep Mala, Janam Ashtme, Dashera, Deepa Walietc. These plays were broadcast from
Hyderabad and Karachi Radio Pakistan simultaneously.
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Standing in Black Sari with Drama artists and Director Radio Pakistan, Hyderabad, 27.07.1956
The Hindu minority living in Pakistan was very glad to hear these musical plays and many of
them became great fans of mine. The religious songs &Bhajansin the plays were also written
by me. This gave me a great scope in the literary field. I was encouraged to write Urdu ghazals
and was assisted by some famous poets like Mr.Zia Mohyeddinand Mr.Himayat Ali Shairwho
was also a co-actor with me in my plays which were broadcast from the Radio Pakistan. He was
a great help to me and taught me a lot about Urdu poetry and corrected my poems.
I now started taking part in Mushairas as well and many of my ghazals and songs were
published in local magazines. I became a member of the Writers Guild and was one of the
famous members of the guild. I was only a student and was a little nervous to join the company
of the literary stalwarts but I got the highest regard from all the members. So much so that one
of my Hindi songs written about Saat Sur (Sargam) was very much appreciated by a great poet
of Pakistan i.e. Mr.Jamiluddin Aaliwho was also writing Doha (Couplets) based on Hindi
writers pattern. I was getting so many programs that once there was an objection from the
Audit Department of the Radio Pakistan but I never bothered since I was working for free for
the organization.
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Pak-Hind Mushaira, Sukkur, 25.05.1957
One day I got a letter from the Head of the Department of English at my College that I waswasting too much time at Radio Pakistan so no programs should be given to me before his prior
permission. As I had high regards for my Professor thus I could not defy him. Mr. Iftikhar
wanted that I should pass my Final exams with good grades and should concentrate more on
my studies rather than on my literary pursuits.
Once the noted stage performer, Zia Mohy-Ud-Din visited Hyderabad. He was invited by the
Director of Radio to participate in some program. I got a chance to perform with him in one of
the plays. Since he was an expert in his field, I learnt a lot from him. During those days, I was
studying at theUniversity of Sindhand was reading my MA in English. My Professors took keen
interest in my progress. I was the only girl student in my department at that time. I also got
elected as the Vice President of the society of the English Department.
Old Sindh University building, Hyderabad
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The history department was arranging some function for a delegation which came from Asian
countries. I extended my help to organize some dances and Tableau to entertain the delegates.
I choreographed a Deepakdance performed by a male student and a tableau with the help of
the program producer of Radio Pakistan, Mr. Qayum who also arranged for the music and stage
decoration.
This gave me an opportunity to mix with the other departments and their teachers. The
program was a great success and I was awarded for my efforts. Another interesting incident
took place in my student career. When I had to appear for my viva voce, Professor Mazhar Ali;
Head of the English department of theUniversity of Peshawarcame to conduct our viva as an
external examiner. My Professor i.e. Mr. Iftikhar introduced me as a poetess to the visiting
Professor and recited one of my ghazal couplets from my poem. I was so embarrassed and I had
to recite one of my poems before I gave my viva. I think this was something very unusual thing
which would happen to a student during her viva although I felt very nervous but I faced the
situation bravely while the recitation did leave an impression on the visiting Professor.
Once a friend of my brother in law visited Pakistan from India. I invited him over for tea. As he
was a writer, he took keen interest in my Hindi poetry. I recited a religious Bhajan written in
Hindi and few words ofSanskrit. He was enthralled to hear the Bhajan since it was written in
praise ofLord Krishna, the Hindu deity. He never imagined that a Muslim woman could write
such a devoted Hindu religious song.
After getting my M. A. Degree from the University of Sindh, I was promoted asLecturerat the
Saint Marys convent school where I was already teaching and was transferred to Saint
Nazareth College from where I had also done my B. A. Honors degree. During the same year,
some positions were announced in the English Department in the University of Sindh. I also
appeared for the interview and luckily I was selected. It was a very good opportunity for me and
for my professional career but I do not remember why I did not accept the offer which was one
of the greatest mistakes I could have made.
There was an evening college for boys where they needed a lady teacher. Since it was a boys
college, no lady was ready to join. One Christian lady was already teaching there but ultimately
she also left. My Professor who was also my mentor encouraged me so I joined the college as a
part time lecturer. I also joined the department ofComparative Religionto do an M. A. but afterclearing the first year I developed some health issues so I had to discontinue. I also tried to do a
PhD in English fromUniversity of Cambridgebut I got a little late in applying so could not get
the admission in that particular year and was enlisted for the next year but due to some
financial constraints could not join that either.
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In 1959, I got married to Mr. Muhammed Ishaque Shaikh; the son of a noted doctor of
Hyderabad Sindh, and a very famous poet (Taj Ush Shura-e-Sindh) i.e. Mr. Shaikh Muhammed
Ibrahim Khalil and had to shift to Karachi with my husband who got a job in ICI, a British
multinational. Naturally, I had to leave my College job in Hyderabad and find a new job in
Karachi. A new college was recently founded by Mr.Adamjeea great name in the businesscommunity of Karachi. The Vice Chancellor of Sindh University Prof. A. L. Shaikh who had
retired was appointed as the first Principal of the college. He knew me very well and had taken
my interview in the University of Sindh for English (which I had earlier declined) called me and
offered me the position of Head of the English Department in the newly established college.
I had other offers also in some colleges in Karachi but I preferred to join theAdamjee Science
Collegefor the reason that the Principal was known to me and secondly it was another
challenge for me. This college again was purely a boys college and all the faculty of the college
were males while I was the only female specie of this institution. Thank God that my career in
this college was a great success. Being the only lady teacher, I was given great respect by the
students and my fellow colleagues. So much so, that after almost 20 years of serving here, I was
transferred to another reputed college for girls when all the colleges were nationalized by Mr.
Zulfiqar Ali Bhuttothe then Prime Minister of Pakistan.
With Mohtarma Begum Nusrat Bhutto, Adamjee Science College Auditorium, 1970
Due to my abrupt transfer, the students of Adamjee Science College went on strike and closed
the Principals office. All the Professors had to retire from their offices because they had all
crossed their retirement period in the government since they had reached their super
annuation age of 60. The whole setup of the College was changed. My case was put up to the
Director of Education. When he saw my case, he called me and directed me to teach in both the
colleges simultaneously i.e. two days in Adamjee Science College and three days in PECHS
College for women.
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Addressing students at Sindh Medical College, Annual Debate, Karachi, 1975
This was my punishment for being so popular among my students. After the term was over, I
was appointed as full Professor at the PECHS womens college. I had become very much
attached with all my students in both the colleges because I was involved in their
extracurricular activities.
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In the early eighties, the Saudi government was in need of lady teachers in different subjects so
a delegation had come to Pakistan to hire such teachers. Quite a number of faculty were
selected from Pakistan since the Saudi government preferred Muslim teachers and thus only
two counties got the preference i.e.EgyptandPakistan.
God was too gracious to me for I was given three years deputation to serve inSaudi Arabiafrom
1983 to 1985. As the women were not allowed to travel to Saudi Arabia alone, my husband had
to accompany me as Mehram (escort). My husband was working with theDawn groupthose
days and he had to resign since he could not get a leave for three long years. So I, along with my
husband i.e. Mr. Muhammed Ishaque Shaikh and my only son i.e. Shaikh Muhammed Ali who
had just passed his Inter Science from the same Adamjee Science College left for Saudi Arabia in
August 1982.
I was provided four 1st
class return tickets for my family every year to travel to Pakistan during
vacations and was given a handsome salary as I was directly appointed as a full Professor. Assoon as we landed in Saudi Arabia, the next month wasHajjand immediately we planned to
perform Hajj, an honor from God right away. During my three years of stay in Saudi Arabia, my
family and I performed severalUmrah,Masha Allah. By the grace of God almighty, my husband
and I got a lucky chance to perform Haj-e-Akbar (Haj which falls on a Friday) the very next year.
My two daughters could not perform Haj because of their studies and thus could not visit Saudi
Arabia during the Haj season. I think my family was one of the chosen ones for getting the
opportunity to perform Haj and Umrah and visit the holy shrines ofMedinaMunawarra many a
times.
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The first two years at the Kulyat-ul-Binnat atDammamin Saudi Arabia went on very smoothly
but during the third year, we Pakistanis had to face an ordeal. As the Egyptians were our
teaching rivals, they objected that the M. A. Degree of the Pakistani contingent was not
recognized and the entire Pakistani faculty should thus be demoted by one grade. As there had
been some problem for the Asian countries in this context, so a notification was issued by theSaudi government that all the teachers from Pakistan will be considered as having a Bachelors
degree and their salaries were slashed by SR 7,000.
This was a very serious insult for us and we planned to appeal to both the governments of Saudi
Arabia and Pakistan to reconsider our case or else we will resign. Unfortunately, our case
became weak since rather than waiting for a reply from the government, nine out of twelve
teachers accepted the demotion and the low salary except for the three of us who were full
Professors who blatantly refused to accept the order. Two of these teachers were from Colleges
inRiyadhandJeddahwhile I was fromDammamwho had refused to continue under such
circumstances. One delegation went to Riyadh to the Pakistan Embassy for help in this matter.
Thank God that our prayers were heard and the government agreed to withdraw the orders,
after the intervention of the then President of Pakistan; for those teachers who were on
deputation for three years and thus sanity prevailed.
Ultimately, the struggles of us three teachers gave all the benefits to the entire Pakistani
contingent. I hope God will give us the reward for the struggle which helped the Pakistani
teachers to get their due share. After returning from Saudi Arabia, I joined the same college i.e.
PECHS College for women as there was no teacher at that time to teach English Literature
classes but soon after as my promotion was due in the 20
th
Grade, I had to accept the Principalship ofKhatoon-e-Pakistan College. During that time, this college was in a very bad shape. I had
to make many changes in it.
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Being a government college, it was very difficult to bring about any changes but being a woman
who likes perfection, I could not tolerate the irregularities that were abounded. I had to put my
foot down and did all I could for the betterment of the students and the faculty members. I
separated the Science from the Arts Department, announced a reward for those teachers who
had been working in the college for around 25 years, promoted different activities for thestudents and awarded the best students and organized many functions.
Posing as Principal Khatoon-e-Pakistan College, Karachi, 1988-90
When I was in the PECHS College, there also I organized many functions along with other
teachers and students because it was in my nature to keep myself attached in all sort of student
activities. In December 1990, I retired from the government job having more than 38 years of
continuous service in schools and colleges. I was also nominated by my son for the Star womenof the year award somewhere in 1992 which I won and was presented by my old friend Anita
Ghulam Ali who was a Director in the Education Department. During my tenure, I got many a
chance to attend conferences, paper setting for colleges and universities and monitoring visits
to examination centers.
After retiring from government job in 1990, I was approached by a family friend i.e. Mrs.
Maroof who was the in-charge of a private school in Karachi i.e. Karachi Public school which
was owned and managed by the Bohra community. They had different branches in Karachi and
many retired professors from different colleges had also joined their various branches. Initially,
it was a bit difficult for me because there was a stark difference in the O & A level system and
the Matric & Intermediate system taught in local colleges.
I being a teacher of purely English literature found the teaching of English language a little
boring and dry but slowly and gradually I picked up the method of teaching and also attended a
few workshops arranged by theBritish Council. Since all the Professors were quite senior and
experienced, the school teachers gave us great regards and even the Principal showed us great
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respect. We ultimately proved to be an asset for the institution where the atmosphere was very
friendly and cordial.
After teaching for 15 years in this School, I left teaching on 30th
December, 2005 because the
journey from my house to the new campus which was too far away had become very tiresome.
I was given a very warm and respectful farewell by the Principal, my fellow teachers and the
students. Thus, ended my long journey of teaching whereby I completed almost 54 year
without any break.
Besides being a Muslim, I inherited many virtuous qualities from my parents. As my mother was
of Rajput origin and my father a Khan, both these races had some very strong beliefs. Rajputs
were true to their word while Khans would give their life for honor. I also staunchly believed in
these qualities from my childhood. Brought up under the guidance of disciplined Nuns in
childhood, I believed in many virtues and honesty and to date I uphold these virtues in my daily
life. This, I believe; is the only reason my children are honest to the core.
None of my three off springs believe in wrong doings. My older daughter Novera Humayun is
married to a pilot Mr. Humayun Wahid Shaikh here in Karachi and has three children. My
younger daughter Dr. Noreen Hamid who is a Gynecologist is married to an Anesthesiologist
Mr. Syed Hamid Ali also here in Karachi and has three children too while my only son is married
and works for theHigher Education Commission(HEC) and is based inIslamabadand
surprisingly has three children too. Thank God my children are leading an honest and content
life particularly in this age when there is so much corruption around but I am so lucky that none
of my children or my husband is influenced by this evil.
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Sometimes, I regret for not learning Urdu because due to this I was deprived of reading the
Tafseer(Interpretation) and the Translation of theHoly Quranwritten by some famous Ulema.
This I always regretted. But some enlightenment came to me at the age of seventy five when a
lady having Islamic knowledge became my tenant at one of my apartments in 2002. For a whole
1.5 years, she read out the Tafseerof the Holy Quran daily to me. This was the greatest blessingfor me. All the darkness and doubts were removed from my mind. I started taking interest in
knowing more about Islamic knowledge. I started collecting religious books written in English
and started to read them. I got a chance to read many hadith fromSahih BukhariandSahih
Muslimand other authenticHadithbooks.
I also thought of reading the Quran with correct pronunciation from a good Qari so I engaged a
Qariand read the Holy Quran for almost two years with his help. Somehow or the other, I felt
that during the days when we were taught to read the Quran in our childhood by a female
teacher, we were not aware of the many things and read the Quran like a parrot besides my
Urdu was also not good. I read the Quran purely on theArabicphonetics. So I was now satisfied
after reading it correctly.
There was a family friend who presented a copy of the Quran to my husband in the early
eighties which was translated in English byAbdullah Yusuf Ali, a very renowned scholar. The
best thing I liked about him was that when he wrote the Tafseer(Interpretation) of eachAyah,
he traced the background of the Hebrew Testament, the originalInjeel(Bible) and the historical
background of the situation. It helped me to get a clear picture of the situation and the context
of that particular Ayah and things become very clear. Had I not read the translation of the
Quran, my knowledge of Islam would have remained incomplete?
Though, I had enough knowledge of theHindu mythologyandChristianitysince I had read a lot
about their history and that was the reason I was doing my M.A in the comparative study of
religion which I could not complete. But due to this I did get some knowledge ofBuddhism,
Sikhism,ZoroastrianismandJainismalong with other known and famous religions of the world.
I had also read a lot of world history to add to my knowledge. I still utilize my time in reading
the Tafseer of the Quran along with the recitation which gives a great solace to my heart and
mind.
Recently, I have started writing the synopsis of eachJuz(Chapter) of the Quran in English tokeep myself aware of the facts mentioned in each chapter and revise them now and then. I
hope that God almighty will forgive me for all my sin and provides me the strength and the
courage to remain steadfast in prayer and stay on the righteous path till I am alive, Ameen!
I hope Mom that I have done justice with this article and have given the due respect that it
deserves. You have indeed been a great source of inspiration for me throughout my life and
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today whatever I am and wherever I am is solely because of you. May you and Dad live long
with health and happiness, Amen!
With my husband, children & grandchildren @ Sajjad Restaurant, Sea View, Karachi,
31.08.2011
Shaikh Muhammed Ali
E-mail:[email protected]
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