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A liberal and inclusive pathway to finding community Vol.17, No. 3 November 2016
Sunday, November 6 “Maturation, Marriage, and Ministry,” Rev. Danny Reed
Rev. Reed promises to avoid self-indulgence and public therapy, but three personal anniversaries occur this year and the minister wants to talk about it. (Hint: 50-25-20.) Sermon was scheduled for October but was postponed due to Hurricane Matthew.
Sunday, November 13 “Blessings of Liberty,” Rev. Danny Reed
By the time this morning arrives, the United States will have a new president-elect, and the vapid and vicious election we have endured will be over. What will need to be said? What will need to be done? What have the past months taught us?
Sunday, November 20 “Harvest Sunday,” Rev. Danny Reed
A service of gratitude and a celebration of Thanksgiving, complete with cider and cornbread prepared by church families. Come and let us give thanks together. Remember to bring hardy vegetables or canned goods to fill our cornucopia and later
donate to local outreach agencies.
Sunday, November 27 “Trans Lives at Our Table,” William Epes, Intern Minister
How deep is our church welcome? Can it exceed our understanding? Who sets a place for a stranger at their family table? As our Intern Minister’s outreach and in-reach begins, we examine the embrace and the Othering of trans and non-gender-conforming people, and ask what it would take, as allies, to love a beautiful people back to church.
Forums at 10 am in Gage Hall
Sunday, November 6 “The Next President’s Middle East Challenges”
John Creed, Associate Political Science Professor, College of Charleston
Join us as we examine what a new American administration will likely face in the Middle East region and how the candidates have suggested they will address this agenda.
Sunday, November 13 “General Election Analysis”
Jordan Ragusa, Assistant Professor of Political Science at the College of Charleston
There is much to analyze in this most unusual of an election cycle.
Sunday, November 20 “The Saint and the Sultan”
Lester Pittman, History Professor at Trident Technical College
In 1219 a meeting took place between Saint Francis of Assisi and Sultan Malik al-Kamil in the midst of the Fifth Crusade. This encounter has lessons for us about Muslim-Christian relations in Charleston today.
Sunday, November 27 Thanksgiving Weekend-No Forum
The Rev. Danny R. Reed,
Minister
Published monthly from September to June, and
once during the summer, by the Unitarian Church
in Charleston
Sandra Selvitelli,
Compositor (843) 723-4617
December Deadline: November 20
Services at 11 am in Sanctuary
The Minister’s Missive
The brief upheaval caused by Hurricane Matthew, the announced departure of a deeply-
involved church couple, and a spate of autumn weddings, have come together in my thoughts and have led me to ponder anew the role of membership in our congregation. Another group of new members formally joined the church in late October and as they settle into congregational life they will bring their perspectives and talents into our mix. Over time, in ways, they will change us and the church will change them. This is as it should be as we are an ever-evolving organization, grounded in traditions deep but open to new influences.
Occasionally, I will meet someone who scoffs at the idea of formal church membership and participation, and who claims to have little need for religious affiliation. I am not threatened by these disavowals but I do take the liberty to remind the skeptic of a few important points. For example, one day he might fall in love and wish to be united in some formal way. Or she will inevitably lose someone dear to her and a faithful service of remembrance might be needed. Or some other life event will surely occur and it helps to be in relationship with a minister and a congregation during those essential times.
Every now and then, I am asked to preside over a ceremony for people I do not know. This is part of ministry, and despite my aforementioned admonition, I am happy to provide what counsel and time I have to share. But it is often a little touching to witness the poignancy of a memorial service, or the beauty of a wedding, or the sweetness of a child dedication, for folks I really do not know and may never see again. However, when I have been privileged to walk some portion of the path with individuals and couples, and know I will remain in relationship with them, the difference in ceremonial planning and execution is remarkable.
Membership matters here, because what we do and say matters here. As we move from Thanksgiving into Christmas and the New Year, let us consider the role of church membership in our lives. Let us think of the relationships that sustain us, and the caravan of seekers we join when we enter into membership. We never know from year to year what charming people will leave us because their lives take a new turn, nor do we know the fascinating individuals who will enter our doors and stay for a lifetime. Because we need help in saying both “hello” and “goodbye,” and all the tender words that pass in between, so too do we need our church for the ceremony and support only it can offer. I look forward to the seasonal ceremonies that await us.
Happy Thanksgiving,
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Vestry Visions
Facing the uncertainty that was Hurricane Matthew, it was reassuring
to know that our church staff could rely on an updated Emergency
Operations Plan for guidance. Our sexton, Joe McCormack, led a
small team of volunteers who secured the churchyard and covered the
first floor windows of Gage Hall, among other necessary tasks. Janet
Watts and Sandra Selvitelli prepared the office area. Being
experienced with building management in general and our property in
particular, Joe knew just what to do, but it was good that he had a formal checklist at his
disposal. Thank you, Carol Tempel and the members of the Safety and Security Committee-for
providing us with a comprehensive emergency plan. Many thanks to Joe and the intrepid
volunteers who came to put the plan into action.
The buildings and grounds were prepared, but do we have a plan for communicating the needs
of church members in an emergency? Yes, our plan is to have a well organized Caring
Committee that operates all church year and can be used when there is an emergency. Thank
you to Kay Haun, Marcia Castano and the others who lead the committee. The current
structure of the Caring Committee is designed for good communication about the needs of our
community. The committee covers several distinct geographic areas, each with an area leader
who is familiar with members of the congregation in that area who may need special
assistance. Our ministerial staff is also aware of those who may need assistance. If you have
not already done so, you can sign up to become a member of the Caring Committee. Its easy!
Go to the church website and from any page click on “getting involved” in the right margin
and then find Caring Committee in the drop-down menu. From the Caring Committee page,
you can contact your area leader and volunteer to help or let the leader know of a need you or
another church member may have. Hurricane Matthew focused our attention on just how
much we depend on one another and reminded us that we all need a little help from our
friends!
At the October Vestry meeting, we will be conducting an assessment of our response to
Hurricane Matthew. We’ll look at what worked and what weaknesses were noticed. Putting
this together with lessons learned from the flooding in October 2015, the Vestry will make sure
we do what we can to improve on our level of future preparedness.
Yours truly, Maureen Porter, Vestry Chair
Intern Insights
Life happens. Then life moves on.
Such was the sliver of wisdom my academic advisor offered me last year at seminary. She was drawing on her
experience of a disruption of her early ministerial career, and counseling me to look forward after some family
health issues impacted my studies. I was focused on making up missed work. She reminded me our class
together was pass/fail. “Forget it. Move on.”
Since last year, I have thought hard about how one might measure disruptions of family, personal, or
professional life. Psychologists have well-tested scales of common, stressful events. But who has published a
comprehensive scale of upheaval? If you have one, let me know. Meanwhile, here’s my impromptu scale,
based on named storms.
So by analogy, life disruptions fall roughly into four categories. There is the year-old Arthur-sized disruption,
100 miles offshore, a source of worry, but barely remembered; then Hurricane Matthew, fresh and painful in
memory, causing serious anxiety, triggering evacuation, but only impacting a week or so of church life; then
monster Hugo, changing the landscape and many lives for many years; and finally, unforgettable Katrina,
linked by human folly to a cruel aftermath that changed thousands of lives permanently.
Regardless of the scale, a common feeling of major disruption is that the world can, for a time, seem to stop.
The familiar becomes strange. One can become detached and disoriented. In times of disruption, we are forced
to call on deep resources. Some reach out, others reach down. Some do both.
So I felt in late September. Several of you mentioned you noticed my absence from church. It was not long, so
I am grateful to those who did notice. But now that I am almost back to a full schedule, I can share that I am
successfully recovering from major surgery. It was not an emergency, but it was more than a Hurricane
Matthew-sized event.
So thank you for your patience and for your concern for me and my family. As I told a few lifelong friends,
“Thank you, but don’t forget to pray for world peace.” I was lucky. I had a skilled surgeon I trusted, a family
who instinctively gathered ‘round, and good odds of success. As a result, I am filled with gratitude and newly
appreciative of all who face medical intervention, and life disruption of any kind.
Life happens. Then life moves on.
With both a first fall sermon under my belt, and a small but meaningful role in the interfaith Charleston
Revival last month, I am excited for full engagement in our ministry again. I have a new church project to
share with you this month. But mostly, I am just deep in the work (and the learning) again, and pleased to be
in service to you.
-- William Epes, [email protected]
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Among Our Family & Friends
Unfortunately accidents and associated injuries seem to be taking a toll on our members.
· Amy Mitchell and her kids, Sophia and Eli, were in an auto accident a while back when hit crossing the Paul Gelegotis Bridge. Amy suffered multiple fractures of her lower leg, 14-year-old Sophia developed a concussion, fractured wrist, and neck injury, and 11 year-old Eli broke his arm. All of this has put them out of commission in significant ways for some time. Each is healing in her/his own time.
· Jane Upshur remains at The Village in Summerville rehabilitating from a fall in August. She has gained tremendous ground and is getting feisty – a very good sign.
· Several weeks ago, Carol Oates was injured in a two-bike accident, fracturing her arm and hip. Luckily she is young and healthy. She says her wounds are healing well. In the meantime, she is tied to a fancy walker and has significant help from Richard.
· Also in bike wrecks, member Wendell Belden was hit some months ago when riding his bike, thus exacerbating an old injury. He continues to be in therapy and is addressing his back pain. Wendell says he is overwhelmed and grateful for the remarkable outpouring of caring from our church family.
· Hillary Hutchison was injured when biking around her neighborhood in the aftermath of Matthew. She got a significant ‘shiner’ but says she was otherwise uninjured.
· And you may remember, over the summer Lisa Thompson Ross was injured in a biking accident, and not a minor one. This brings recent Unitarian adult biking injuries to four and that is just the number we know about.
Each of these riders is mature and wise. I think we can conclude that biking can be a pretty dangerous pastime. To those of us who ride, please be careful.
· Rosemary Repeta’s back surgery was delayed a week or more by Hurricane Matthew but did occur in late October. At this writing she is working hard at her rehabilitation and hopes to be home soon.
· In good news, Anita Harrison and Danny Reed celebrated their 25th wedding anniversary in mid-
October. That’s pretty nice all by itself, but there is a wedding photo of them floating around somewhere which is worth a look-see. Congratulations to Anita and Danny.
· On October 16th the Unitarian Church in Charleston welcomed Nancy Pelligrini into a covenant with the church as she assumes her new role as Assistant Minister. She has served us in a number of ways over the past three years as part of her ministerial credentialing process with the Unitarian Universalist Association. That step is concluding and allows us the opportunity to expand our ministry with Nancy. Welcome to our new, formal assistant minister.
Submitted by Judy Bruce
It was a beautiful sunny day in October, though a bit warm. Fewer than usual Eden Keepers came out—perhaps it was the nice weather, perhaps it was one of the last summer days, perhaps it was the last minute change of starting time. Whatever the reason, only nine stalwart gardeners came to help beautify the churchyard: Bob and Pat Jontos, Sarah Cothran, Karen Rues, Laura Moses, Tom Hartry, Stan Boyer, Ed Stephens, and Fran Ennis.
We pulled weeds and trimmed vegetation. Little did we know that within the week, we would be visited by Matthew! He did little real damage except to blow over one tree in the Open Space area. He did help us, though, by blowing down a number of dead palmetto fronds, which Joe picked up.
Since Janet Watts was conducting teacher training in Gage Hall, we ate in the Annex. Joe set up adult-sized tables and chairs for us and we feasted royally. Once again Pat opted out of our meeting and did KP duty
The next work party will be on November 5th, from 9 to noon, followed by our covered dish lunch. I was delighted to learn that the James Island Connector Run seems to have been moved away from the first Saturday in November. That date always used to present traffic headaches for those of us who use the connector.
Newcomers are always welcome to join us in Eden. Bring garden tools if you have them, gloves, bug repellent (still), something to drink while working, and a dish to share at lunch. And by the way, staying for the meeting is entirely optional. The meeting does not start until folks are about through, eating.
Hope to see lots of you on November 5th. There
is a great deal of work to be done.
Pat and Bob Jontos. Photo taken by Laura Moses
Submitted by Fran Ennis
The Eden Keepers “Who loves a garden still his Eden keeps.”
-- Amos Bronson Alcott
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Children & Youth Religious Education
Harvest Sunday Food Drive:
On Sunday, November 20th we ask everyone to please bring food items to church and drop them off with the teens just outside the sanctuary doors. We are seeking healthy, non-perishable foods like rice, grits, cereal, oatmeal, canned tuna and soups especially. Drivers are also needed to store these items in their cars overnight and carry the food to the Lowcountry Food Bank on Monday. Please contact the church office if you can help.
Holiday Collection for the Homeless:
Starting December 4th we will have a collection box in the vestibule of the sanctuary. Personal hygiene items for the homeless can be dropped off in this box for the entire month of December. Some examples of useful items include: Travel-sized shampoos, soaps and combs
Toothbrushes and toothpaste
Small towels and wash-cloths
Shaving materials
Notepads and pens
Small sewing kits
Warm socks, hats, gloves and scarves
Please include your children or grandchildren in purchasing these items and use this as an excellent opportunity to enjoy another teachable moment together.
Holiday Events to Look Forward To:
Nov. 27 Holiday Project for grades 1-6
Dec. 2-4 Middle School Youth Conference in NC
Dec. 4 Gingerbread Houses Fundraiser Dec. 9 Holiday party in Gage Hall 6-8
Dec.9-11 High School Youth Conference in NC
Dec. 11 Cantata
Dec. 18 Children's Pageant Dec. 24 Two Christmas Eve services
Dec. 25 Christmas Day service
Submitted by Janet Watts, Director of Religious Education
The high school youth group would like to thank everyone who came out to support them in their bake sale fundraiser. It was a crazy few weeks with Hurricane Matthew coming in and they really appreciate everyone who bought something from our sale. They are one step closer to attending the 2017 General Assembly!
Many thanks to Janet Watts, the Religious Education Committee and various volunteers for making this year’s Halloween party a huge success. With 40 kids in attendance we had a tremendous turn out! We had some new carnival games this year and stuck with old traditions such as toilet paper mummy wrapping and “bobbing” for donuts which is both hysterical and somewhat gross at the same time. It is something that the kids certainly look forward to! The night ended with a spooky ghost story in the churchyard. Janet led the crew with lit candles and tall tales along with some planted teenagers to throw in some spooky sounds. Fun was had by all.
Submitted by Sandra Selvitelli
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Halloween 2016
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Adult Education Series
Listener’s Guide to Charleston Symphony Orchestra’s
Masterworks Series
12:30 p.m., Charleston Day School Library
Symphony fan? Ticket-holder? Music fan? These informal discussions, highlighting the Charleston Symphony Orchestra’s Masterworks concerts, will not be music theory, music history, or even “music appreciation.” Instead, these talks will be a practical guide for listeners—emphasizing how things fit together musically, what to listen for, and the artistic impact of the music offered at the CSO concerts. Led by music aficionado Fred Himmelein, the talks will take place before the upcoming concerts at 12:30 p.m. in the Charleston Day School Library just across Archdale Street. The workshops are open to all and the
building is accessible to everyone.
November 13 I Remember Mama—Brahms “A German Requiem”
January 8 Bon-Bons in the Snow—Grieg Piano Concerto
February 5 Haydn Go Seek—Haydn Symphony No 60
February 26 Cherished Places—Tchaikovsky Violin Concerto
March 12 Great Britons—Vaughan-Williams “A Sea Symphony”
March 26 Bugle Call Rag—Mahler Symphony No. 5
The Study of Religion
January 15, 22, 29, February 5, 12 and 20
1:00 p.m., Lower Gage Hall
Lee Westbrock will discuss how scholars study religion. What are they hoping to learn about the human condition as expressed in religious practice and belief? This course is an introduction to how scholars study religion with The Teaching Companies’ seven DVD lectures by professor Charles Jones of Catholic University of America. Each session will consist of a thirty-minute lecture and a sixty-minute discussion.
The first three lectures cover the early history of religious studies which began in the sixteenth century as theologians began to pull away from theology and look at religions worldwide. This process was completed when David Hume published “Dialogues Concerning Natural Religion” in the eighteenth century.
We will also hear about the work of: William James: What is the religious experience?
Sigmund Freud: Views on religion taken from Totem and Taboo.
Carl Jung: How does religious belief affect the human mind?
We recommend that you enjoy a leisurely lunch after church at a nearby restaurant or bring a picnic to enjoy in the churchyard and then come participate in this exciting new offering.
For questions or childcare please contact Janet Watts at [email protected].
Submitted by Janet Watts, Director of Religious Education
We Welcome Our Newest Members
On Sunday, October 30 we were honored to have 11 people sign our Membership book. Their
nametags will have a red ribbon affixed to them. Please seek them out and help make them
feel welcome.
Liz and Marcel Benedix
Kevin Gainey
Robert Graham
Eimer Kernan
Karen Morgan
Anita and Colin Thomas
Nanc Van Clief Lauren Williams
Suzanne Withers
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Mark Your Calendars
Tuesday, November 1
Men’s Group
6:30 p.m., Second floor of Gage Hall
U.S. presidential elections have often been tumultuous affairs, but within the framework of our electoral traditions the 2016 presidential election seems extraordinary. Ralph Haller will moderate a discussion of the forthcoming elections of November 8, including the pros and cons of each major candidate, the potential for election day violence, and post-election effects in the
legislature.
We welcome newcomers! Submitted by Arnold Penuel
Tuesday, November 1
Rescheduled CAJM Potluck
6:00 p.m., Lower Gage Hall
The Charleston Area Justice Ministry (CAJM) is a growing network of faith-based congregations who are culturally, economically, geographically and religiously diverse—coming together to make the Charleston area a more just place to live. CAJM is an important component of the Social Justice work initiatives at the Unitarian Church in Charleston.
Who’s Invited?
All interested members of the congregation
Any team member who could not attend his/her team house meeting
Purpose:
Listen to your opinions on CAJM Social Justice projects and methods
Hear updates on CAJM projects and board plans program
Discuss the role of the Church and its CAJM participants
Hear about projects and board actions updates
General discussion and voting on projects
Please come — CAJM values your input and support!
Please bring a salad, entrée or dessert to share.
Childcare provided.
Contact Mike Griffith at [email protected]. Submitted by Mike Griffith
Candlelight Concert
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The 2016 Service Auctions Are Almost Here! Chocolate Is the Answer
Silent: Sunday, November 6, Noon-2:00 p.m. Charleston Day School
Live: Saturday, November 12, 6:30-9:00 p.m. Gage Hall
Advance discounted tickets for the Live Auction are available
today at the Welcome Table in Gage Hall.
Give It to Us – We Can Take It – And You Can Deduct It!
There is still time to be creative and resourceful in coming up with donations for each of the service auctions. Consider what’s in your household, your expertise or passion that can be shared. Also think of your network of friends and associates, and the community of businesses you patronize.
With chocolate as the theme, we hope to appeal to all of our members—new and old, couples, young singles and families. Please consider donating a service or item that would be
reasonably priced and of particular interest to our expanding and wonderfully diverse church family. Some examples include: “cater” a meal for 2 families at buyer’s home; paint a room; host a pool party; host a child’s birthday party; provide a gift certificate to a popular music venue; make arrangements for a surprise birthday party for someone’s significant other. You get the idea – let your imagination run wild!
Mark Your Calendars to Attend!
Our auction events are fun! Both offer food, fellowship and a terrific assortment of auction items. The Live Auction is on a Saturday night and offers food, wine and other beverages along with lively bidding. Childcare is available by request (see reverse side of this form for childcare).
*Donation Form on Next Page
Donations due by Tuesday, November 1
Unitarian Church in Charleston
Service Auction 2016 Donation Form
Chocolate Is the Answer
NAME__________________________________________________PHONE_________________________
EMAIL_________________________________________________________________________________
ADDRESS_______________________________________________________________________________
CITY______________________________________________________ZIP__________________________
TITLE OF ITEM OR SERVICE:_____________________________________________________________
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DETAILED DESCRIPTION:________________________________________________________________
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ESTIMATED MARKET VALUE $_______________ (The Auction Committee reserves the right to re-price items as necessary before or during auction)
If Dinner/Event, Sell as: Total of seats_________ Date & Time___________
If Vacation Home, Dates available____________________________________________________________
If Item does not sell:______ Return to donor ____Donate to church
Do you need babysitter for the Live Auction? _____# of children__________
*DONATION DEADLINE: NOVEMBER 1
AUCTION DATES: Sunday, November 6 after church (Silent) and Saturday, November 12 (Live), 6:30 pm Gage Hall.
PUT FORM IN AUCTION BOX IN GAGE HALL, OR EMAIL
THE ABOVE INFORMATION TO TERRY WALSH AT
THANK YOU!
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Saturday, November 12
Docent Training
9:00 a.m.-10:00 a.m., Sanctuary
Paul Garbarini, our resident historian, will be in top form to answer your questions about the history of church with emphasis on the sanctuary. All church members and friends are invited to attend. If you’ve been thinking of joining the program it’s an opportunity to learn more about us. We hope to see you then. Submitted by Abby Himmelein
Sunday, November 13
Adult Education Orchestra Class 12:30 p.m., Charleston Day School Library
Don’t miss this exciting Adult Education class created by member Fred Himmelein. For more details, please see page 9.
Sunday, November 13
Books and Coffee 5:30 p.m., Paul and Sue Nelson’s Home
1600 Franke Dr., Apt 103, Mt. Pleasant
Tuesday, November 15
Let’s Do Lunch! 12:30 p.m., Charleston’s Café
1039 Johnnie Dodds Blvd. Mt Pleasant
(Located in the Anna Knapp Plaza)
843-856-7796
Let’s do Lunch is a monthly luncheon that is open to women and men in our church. It’s a time for socializing and catching up with our fellow members and friends. Newcomers are always welcome.
Please note the change in date to the 3rd Tuesday of the month because Election Day is the 2nd Tuesday this
November!
Please let me know if you will join us by Thursday, November 10th so I can make our reservation. Susan Hartry 843-259-0674 or by email [email protected].
Submitted by Susan Hartry
Ellie and Ray Setser will lead a discussion of an authoritative book on a dilemma of the Middle East, The Two-State Delusion: Israel and Palestine, by Padraig O’Malley. This is a fascinating and detailed analysis of the core issues at the heart of the stalemate between Israel and Palestinians of the West Bank and Gaza. It's dense reading, so do what you can with it. I'm about halfway through and have learned a lot so far--much of it not very hopeful.
Please RSVP by phone to the Nelsons at 884-9589 if you plan to attend and if you would like directions.
Submitted by JoAnne Simson
Thursday, November 17
Transgender Day of Remembrance 7:00 p.m., Church Sanctuary
Our church is proud to host this annual event. All are invited to attend.
“As we honor those who lost their lives or experienced violence because of their gender identity or expression, let us come together as a nation and rededicate ourselves to securing the full measure of possibility and acceptance in our time and for generations to come.”
— President Barack Obama, 2015 Transgender Day of Remembrance
Saturday, November 19
Backpack Buddies 9:00 a.m.-12:00 p.m., Lowcountry Food Bank
2864 Azalea Drive, North Charleston 29405; meet in the lobby
We will pack food for low-income elementary schoolchildren. The bags we pack are put into
the children’s backpacks on Friday afternoons so they’ll have food to eat over the weekend.
* We need at least 20 volunteers to get the job done * New volunteers welcome
* No experience needed * Bring a friend!
With questions or to RSVP, please contact Kris Rife: 843-884-8808 work / 843-822-0597 cell
Remember the dress code: Closed-toe shoes and no tank tops.
Minimum age suggested: 14 with parental supervision but a bit younger have been very
successful.
Submitted by Kris Rife
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Gage Hall Coffeehouse Presents:
Steve Simon & the Kings of Jazz Saturday, November 19
7:30 p.m.
Featuring Steve Simon, Markus Helander, LeRoy Smalls, Jr., Roman Pekar, and special guest artist Charleston jazz vocalist Heather Rice
The 2016 Gage Hall Coffeehouse Series presents an exciting evening of cool jazz performed by Charleston’s hottest jazz band, Steve Simon & the Kings of Jazz. With his uniquely expressive and soulful sound, jazz clarinetist Steve Simon has been entertaining audiences all over the world for over 40 years. Since moving to Charleston six years ago, Steve has brought together some of the city’s greatest jazz musicians to form the Kings of Jazz, which has become the most popular jazz band in the Lowcountry, and features special guest Charleston jazz vocalist Heather Rice (http://archermusic.com/heatherrice.htm). Steve Simon also hosts Thursday Night’s Jazz Jam every week at Barsa Tapas Lounge (630 King Street) in the Upper
King area of downtown Charleston.
Don’t miss a great evening of jazz at this Coffeehouse. The Kings of Jazz are the hottest jazz
band in the coolest city!
Profits from Gage Hall Coffeehouses support enrichment activities in Mitchell Elementary School. Gage Hall is located at 4 Archdale Street.
Suggested donation of $15 for Adults and $5 for Students.
Submitted by Steve Simon
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Sign Up at the Welcome Table in Gage Hall
Contact Judy Manning
404-216-9294
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Announcements
Art On Our Walls
We welcome Susan Burton-Stephens as our solo artist for the Candlelight Concert. This show will run until January 6. For purchases, please contact the artist at [email protected]. Submitted by Joanna Innes
Auction Help Needed
Come and help serve food for the live auction on November 12! We need two more volunteers to help us set up the food table at 5:30 PM, then serve and help with clean-up. If you are interested in this once-a-year opportunity to assist with the auction, please contact Gail Schiffer at [email protected] or 843-216-0326. See you there! Submitted by Gail Schiffer
Book Angels We Need Books!
Book Angels, a non-profit literacy organization operated by a few of our members, needs books to donate to Title I elementary and middle schools where the students read below grade. Books are primarily collected through book drives organized in private schools and public schools serving more affluent families that typically have lots of books at home that are now in storage. If you have connections with administration staff or teachers at such a school and can put in a word for running a book drive for Book Angels, please contact Ren Manning at [email protected] or 404-202-6039. Typically, Book Angels needs 15-20 book drives a year to collect enough books to meet its program needs. Many thanks!
Submitted by Ren Manning
Coffeehouse Concert Volunteers Needed
Do You Love Music? The Coffeehouse is looking for two or three folks to work with Mark Farnham to identify and recruit musical talent for our monthly coffeehouse. The coffeehouse raises money to provide enrichment programs for children at a local inner-city school. We are interested in presenting a variety of music genres, so if you like attending local music performances on a regular basis and would like to use your interest to help us help children, please call Mark at (843) 367-9663 or email him at [email protected]. Thank you! Submitted by Gail Schiffer
Join the Docent Program!
Three days a week, Friday and Saturday from 10:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m. and Sunday from 12:30 p.m. until 2:00 p.m., from September through June, our beautiful sanctuary is open to the public. Volunteers from our church congregation are on hand to tell visitors about our history and answer questions about our liberal philosophy. Docents generally serve one day a month, Friday, Saturday, or Sunday, for ten months.
Anyone can be a docent! Training is “on the job,” where new docents are paired with an exper ienced docent. All the material you will need is provided to you in the form of a Docent Notebook.
The docent program is especially appropriate for new members. It is the best and quickest way to learn about our church – its history, philosophy, culture and Unitarianism in general, and to get to know more people in the church.
Among the biggest advantages of the docent program is its development of a reservoir of people in our congregation who are very knowledgeable about our church and its history. As a docent, one feels compelled to learn as much as possible so one is able to give a reasonable talk and answer questions. Present and former docents in general know more about our church than even some long-term members, which is a very healthy thing, and adds substance to our church.
We are always in need of more docents! If it is something you feel you could do once a month for a year or three, I’m sure you will find it time well spent. It is not difficult, a lot of fun, and it is not a lifetime commitment!
If you are interested, contact our Docent Chair Abby Himmelein at (843) 534-8222 (call or text) or email
Submitted by Abby Himmelein
Eden Keepers Please note that the Eden Keepers can use extra help for their November 5th work party. There is still debris in the churchyard after the hurricane and many hands will make light work. For more information, please see the Eden Keeper article on page 6. Submitted by Sandra Selvitelli
Flowers for the Sanctuary
Flowers beautify our Sanctuary on Sunday mornings. People bring flowers to honor loved ones or anniversaries, celebrate birthdays and other special events. We have availability to bring flowers throughout the year. Please contact the office at 843-723-4617 if interested.
Submitted by Sandra Selvitelli
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Green Sanctuary
Book Review of “How Not to Die” by Dr. Michael Greger
The Green Sanctuary Committee partnered with the Charleston Veggie Meet Up group to sponsor the movie “Cowspiracy” which dealt with environmental and ethical issues of meat consumption. There is a plethora of studies on the relationship between meat consumption and human health.
Dr. Michael Greger, who also gives constant updates on his website Nutritionfacts.org, has recently published his book “How Not To Die” which attempts to connect the dots between eating habits and the statistics of the fifteen most common causes of premature death. When you read the title “How Not to Die” the emphasis needs to be on “how” and not on “die” since, alas, we have no choice about the latter but, according to Dr. Greger, we have a choice to remain healthy into old age by following a whole food, plant-based diet.
Part I of the book addresses the 15 most common deadly diseases in the US starting with heart disease going through various types of cancer, diabetes, high blood pressure, kidney, brain and liver diseases and relates them to the many published studies on how the standard American diet is playing a major role. Each chapter references over 100 studies, with a total of close to 3,000 references for the book. Some of the studies are remarkably convincing. For instance, he quotes statistics about fatal heart disease in Central Africa – Western doctors found it virtually non-existent (they found that in 632 people autopsied in St. Louis, Mo. there had been 136 heart attacks – but in 632 age-matched Ugandans, one single heart attack.) Immigration studies show that his is not just something in Africans’ genes. When people move from low-risk to high-risk areas, their disease rates become the same as the population’s whose diet and lifestyle they adopt.
Part II of the book goes over the groups of whole foods Dr. Greger found to be associated with disease prevention: Beans, berries, fruits, cruciferous vegetables, greens, flaxseeds and nuts, whole grains, herbs and spices. It’s a compilation of studies describing the health benefits of each group, including plant-based recipes.
For anyone interested in practicing healthy eating to recover or prevent disease, the book offers a wealth of information. Dr. Greger is a personable writer and the book provides easy reading of science-based information. Submitted by Mela Khedouri
Rummage Sale Success
Once again, our October Rummage Sale was very successful. We had lots of great items for sale and the weather cooperated as well. Thanks to all the Alliance Members and Friends who helped on Friday and/or Saturday. What a great team: Diane Boyer, Susan Garrison, Barbara Goldberg, Tom Hartry, Mary Anne Hughston, Toni Johnson, John Meffert, Will Moredock, Susan Robinson, David Ruef, Gail Schiffer, JoAnne Simson. Thank you also to those who made donations. The Alliance is grateful for your support, fellowship and hard work.
Please mark your calendar, the Holiday Bazaar will be on December 3rd. Set up is Friday the 2nd and the half-price sale is Sunday after service on December 4h.
Submitted by Sue Prazak and Susan Hartry
Membership Happenings
Classes
Pathfinders: December 4, 12:30 – 1:30
Upstairs in Gage Hall This is a class geared toward those new to our congregation who would like to receive basic information about Unitarian Universalism and the Unitarian Church in Charleston. Bring your questions! Childcare available. Contact Carol Oates, Membership Coordinator, [email protected].
Winter Pathways to Membership: January 22, 29, 12:15 – 2:30
Charleston Day School Pathways is a 2-session class for people who have attended Pathfinders and are ready to explore what it means to be a Member of the Unitarian Church in Charleston. Lunch served, childcare provided.
Sign up at the Membership Table in Gage Hall, or contact Carol Oates, Membership Coordinator,
Submitted by Carol Oates, Membership Coordinator
Planned Giving
Remembering Those Who Remembered Us: Sue Metzger
Your Planned Giving Committee encourages us to remember the important mission of this church through legacies and bequests, insuring a continuing Unitarian presence in the community. Elnora Sue Metzger loved our church, and she generously left a substantial legacy to us from her estate. We remember her.
Sue’s life ended too quickly in January 2010, when she died during what is usually a rather straightforward surgical procedure. She was such a vital and constant presence among us that her death seemed to contradict reason. Indiana was Sue’s home state, but she had worked and lived here from 1973 as a Director of Student Programs at MUSC. Her big voice matched her great heart and her strong will. She held many offices within our congregation. When financial times at the church were much less secure than today, Sue managed the Endowment astutely and tenaciously, insisting that it not be used for daily operations but safeguarded for the future welfare of the church. She and her companion of many years, Ellie Garvin, were trusted and consulted in every proposal and decision requiring congregational attention.
Although Sue never married, she was a consummate nurturer who loved to cook and “mother” others. Just ask her students at MUSC or perhaps our Churchyard Committee whom she fed for years. Ask Sue Prazak and the Alliance members about Sue’s helpfulness and leadership. Sue also taught Religious Education. In fact Steve Wilson’s now-adult daughter April remembers her well as a great person and a memorable teacher. Plus, every Sunday afternoon for years, Sue and Ellie would set out to visit members and friends who might be ill or in nursing care, taking fun and food along with them. I continue to miss her, and I’ll bet many of you do, as well!
Sue’s name is now engraved on our Gilman Society plaque placed in the small courtyard in front of the sanctuary. Her belief in giving to her community reminds us of how much we owe to those UUs who have led the way for us. Stop by the remembrance courtyard and send a smile to Sue and our other dear friends in the Gilman Legacy Society. And you might consider a legacy of your own for the mission of this important church. Submitted by Kay Haun, Planned Giving Committee Member
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November 2016
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The Unitarian Church
4 Archdale Street Charleston, SC 29401
RETURN SERVICES REQUESTED
Minister, Rev. Danny Reed [email protected]
Assisttant Minister, Rev. Nancy Bird Pellegrini [email protected]
Intern Minister, William Epes
Office Administrator, Sandra Selvitelli [email protected]
Religious Education Director, J anet Watts
Music Director, Johanna Evenson
Membership Coordinator, Carol Oates [email protected]
Sexton, Joe McCormack
Vestry: vestry@char lestonuu.org
Vestry Chair, Maureen Porter (‘17) 1st Vice Chair, Sue Weller (‘18) 2nd Vice Chair, Tommy Hughston (‘19) Secretary, Gail Schiffer (‘19)
Vestry Members
Frank Hardie (‘17) Jonathan Lamb (‘18) Erica Hattings (‘18) Richard Nelson (‘19) John Klintworth (‘17)
Treasurer, Nolan Prestwood
Office Hours: Monday - Thursday 8 a.m. - 4 p.m. Sunday 8 am - 1:00 pm
Phone: (843) 723-4617
Email: [email protected]
Web Page: www.charlestonuu.org
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