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A Bullying Awareness A Bullying Awareness GameGame
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Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 2004Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 2004
Bullies, Bullies, Who Who Are Are
They?They?
Types Types of of
BullyinBullyingg
Why No Why No One One
Tells on Tells on the the
BullyBully
Ways Ways to Stop to Stop BullyinBullyin
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What What to Do If to Do If You’re You’re BulliedBullied
BullyinBullying, In g, In the the
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Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
True or FalseTrue or False
Bullies are always the biggest, strongest Bullies are always the biggest, strongest person in the class, or in the school yard!person in the class, or in the school yard!
TRUETRUE FALSEFALSE
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
WRONG!!WRONG!!
Bullies come in all shapes and sizes, Bullies come in all shapes and sizes, they can be:they can be:
Big or smallBig or small
Smart or not so smartSmart or not so smart
Attractive or unattractiveAttractive or unattractive
Popular or unlikablePopular or unlikable
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
CORRECT!!CORRECT!!
Bullies come in all shapes and sizes, Bullies come in all shapes and sizes, they can be:they can be:
Big or smallBig or small
Smart or not so smartSmart or not so smart
Attractive or unattractiveAttractive or unattractive
Popular or unlikablePopular or unlikable
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
All bullies share the common quality of All bullies share the common quality of getting getting thisthis out of someone else’s out of someone else’s painpain
A.A. In troubleIn trouble
B.B. PleasurePleasure
C.C. An awardAn award
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
WRONG!!WRONG!!
All bullies share the common All bullies share the common quality of getting pleasure out of quality of getting pleasure out of
someone else’s painsomeone else’s pain
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
CORRECTCORRECT
All bullies share the common All bullies share the common quality of getting pleasure out of quality of getting pleasure out of
someone else’s painsomeone else’s pain
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
WRONG!!WRONG!!
All bullies share the common All bullies share the common quality of getting pleasure out of quality of getting pleasure out of
someone else’s painsomeone else’s pain
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
Bully’s Often Feel…Bully’s Often Feel…
A.A. Better than other peopleBetter than other people
B.B. That they have the right to leave people That they have the right to leave people outout
C.C. That they are unable to accept other peoThat they are unable to accept other people’s differencesple’s differences
D.D. A and C only A and C only
E.E. All of the aboveAll of the above
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
CLOSE BUT NO CIGAR!!CLOSE BUT NO CIGAR!!
Bully’s usually believe that they are:Bully’s usually believe that they are: Better than other peopleBetter than other people They have the right to leave people They have the right to leave people
outout Unable to accept other people’s Unable to accept other people’s
differencesdifferences
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
CLOSE BUT NO CIGAR!!CLOSE BUT NO CIGAR!!
Bully’s usually believe that they are:Bully’s usually believe that they are: Better than other peopleBetter than other people They have the right to leave people They have the right to leave people
outout Unable to accept other people’s Unable to accept other people’s
differencesdifferences
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
CLOSE BUT NO CIGAR!!CLOSE BUT NO CIGAR!!
Bully’s usually believe that they are:Bully’s usually believe that they are: Better than other peopleBetter than other people They have the right to leave people They have the right to leave people
outout Unable to accept other people’s Unable to accept other people’s
differencesdifferences
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
CLOSE BUT NO CIGAR!!CLOSE BUT NO CIGAR!!
Bully’s usually believe that they are:Bully’s usually believe that they are: Better than other peopleBetter than other people They have the right to leave people They have the right to leave people
outout Unable to accept other people’s Unable to accept other people’s
differencesdifferences
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
WAY TO GO!!!WAY TO GO!!!
Bully’s usually believe that they are:Bully’s usually believe that they are: Better than other peopleBetter than other people They have the right to leave people They have the right to leave people
outout Unable to accept other people’s Unable to accept other people’s
differencesdifferences
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
True or FalseTrue or False
Bullies are usually just joking around Bullies are usually just joking around
and often mean no harm and often mean no harm
by their actions and words.by their actions and words.
TRUETRUE FALSEFALSE
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
YOU GOT IT!!!YOU GOT IT!!!
Bullying is:Bullying is: A conscious, willful and deliberate A conscious, willful and deliberate
hostile activity, intended to harmhostile activity, intended to harm A power struggle; not always A power struggle; not always
physicalphysical
It’s no joke!It’s no joke!
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
BETTER LUCK NEXT TIME!BETTER LUCK NEXT TIME!Bullying is:Bullying is: A conscious, willful and deliberate A conscious, willful and deliberate
hostile activity, intended to harmhostile activity, intended to harm A power struggle; not always A power struggle; not always
physicalphysical
It’s no joke!It’s no joke!
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
Some of the mean things Some of the mean things bullies say to others bullies say to others
can hurt inside for….can hurt inside for….
A.A. A few daysA few days
B.B. At least a yearAt least a year
C.C. A lifetimeA lifetime
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
NOT USUALLY NOT USUALLY
Some people are so hurt by the things Some people are so hurt by the things bullies say that they carry the bullies say that they carry the
emotional and psychological scars emotional and psychological scars with them for a lifetime.with them for a lifetime.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
NOT USUALLY NOT USUALLY
Some people are so hurt by the things Some people are so hurt by the things bullies say that they carry the bullies say that they carry the
emotional and psychological scars emotional and psychological scars with them for a lifetime.with them for a lifetime.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
ABSOLUTELY!! ABSOLUTELY!!
Some people are so hurt by the things Some people are so hurt by the things bullies say that they carry the bullies say that they carry the
emotional and psychological scars emotional and psychological scars with them for a lifetime.with them for a lifetime.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
It’sIt’s a common form of bullying a common form of bullying used by girls. used by girls.
A.A. Physical attacksPhysical attacks
B.B. TrippingTripping
C.C. ExcludingExcluding
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
NOT SO!NOT SO!
Girls are actually more likely to use Girls are actually more likely to use non-physical types of bullying such non-physical types of bullying such
as excluding others.as excluding others.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
NOT SO!NOT SO!
Girls are actually more likely to use Girls are actually more likely to use non-physical types of bullying such non-physical types of bullying such
as excluding others.as excluding others.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
YES!YES!
Girls are more likely to use non-Girls are more likely to use non-physical types of bullying such as physical types of bullying such as
excluding others.excluding others.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
True or FalseTrue or False
Boys are naturally more aggressive so Boys are naturally more aggressive so they have to hurt someone before they have to hurt someone before
they are a real bully.they are a real bully.
TRUETRUE FALSEFALSE
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
I DON’T THINK SOI DON’T THINK SO
Bullying among boys is often physical Bullying among boys is often physical but no injuries have to result.but no injuries have to result.
Bullying may include launching a spit Bullying may include launching a spit ball at someone, ignoring them, ball at someone, ignoring them, stealing from them or being mean to stealing from them or being mean to them.them.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
GOOD STUFF!!GOOD STUFF!!
Bullying among boys is often physical Bullying among boys is often physical but no injuries have to result. but no injuries have to result.
Bullying may include launching a spit Bullying may include launching a spit ball at someone, ignoring them, ball at someone, ignoring them, stealing from them or being mean to stealing from them or being mean to them.them.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
True or FalseTrue or False
Teasing someone about their clothes, Teasing someone about their clothes, hair, grades or friends is not bullying hair, grades or friends is not bullying if the person you are teasing is also if the person you are teasing is also
laughing.laughing.
TRUETRUE FALSEFALSE
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
NOT WHAT WE WERE NOT WHAT WE WERE LOOKING FOR!!!LOOKING FOR!!!
Sometimes people who are bullied Sometimes people who are bullied will laugh along with the bully when will laugh along with the bully when they are teased, hoping that no one they are teased, hoping that no one
will realize how hurt they are.will realize how hurt they are.
No one likes to be teased!No one likes to be teased!
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
YOU GOT IT!!YOU GOT IT!!
Sometimes people who are bullied will Sometimes people who are bullied will laugh along with the bully when they laugh along with the bully when they are teased, hoping that no one will are teased, hoping that no one will
realize how hurt they realize how hurt they are.are.
No one likes to be teased!!No one likes to be teased!!
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
Stealing someone’s Stealing someone’s belongings because you don’t belongings because you don’t like them is bullying; it is also like them is bullying; it is also
known as known as THISTHIS by the law. by the law.A.A. ArsonArson
B.B. TheftTheft
C.C. MischiefMischief
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
WRONG!!WRONG!!
Stealing is known as the crime of theft. Stealing is known as the crime of theft. You can be arrested and charged You can be arrested and charged
criminally for theft. If you are criminally for theft. If you are convicted you will get a criminal convicted you will get a criminal
record, which may be with you for record, which may be with you for the rest of your life!!the rest of your life!!
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
CORRECT !!CORRECT !!
Stealing is known as the crime of theft. Stealing is known as the crime of theft. You can be arrested and charged You can be arrested and charged
criminally for theft. If you are criminally for theft. If you are convicted you will get a criminal convicted you will get a criminal
record, which may be with you for record, which may be with you for the rest of your life!!the rest of your life!!
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
WRONG !!WRONG !!
Stealing is known as the crime of theft. Stealing is known as the crime of theft. You can be arrested and charged You can be arrested and charged
criminally for theft. If you are criminally for theft. If you are convicted you will get a criminal convicted you will get a criminal
record, which may be with you for record, which may be with you for the rest of your life!!the rest of your life!!
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
Telling stories about others Telling stories about others behind their back is a type behind their back is a type
of bullying known as…of bullying known as…
A.A. Spreading rumorsSpreading rumors
B.B. Being a ratBeing a rat
C.C. Picking favoritesPicking favorites
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
BINGO!!BINGO!!
Spreading rumors is one of the most Spreading rumors is one of the most damaging forms of bullying. Once a damaging forms of bullying. Once a
rumor has been started it is very rumor has been started it is very difficult to set the record straight. difficult to set the record straight. As rumors spread the information As rumors spread the information
often gets twisted and the often gets twisted and the information ends up being wrong!!information ends up being wrong!!
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
NOPE!!NOPE!!
Spreading rumors is one of the most Spreading rumors is one of the most damaging forms of bullying. Once a damaging forms of bullying. Once a
rumor has been started it is very rumor has been started it is very difficult to set the record straight. difficult to set the record straight. As rumors spread the information As rumors spread the information
often gets twisted and the often gets twisted and the information ends up being wrong!!information ends up being wrong!!
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
NOPE!!NOPE!!
Spreading rumors is one of the most Spreading rumors is one of the most damaging forms of bullying. Once a damaging forms of bullying. Once a
rumor has been started it is very rumor has been started it is very difficult to set the record straight. difficult to set the record straight. As rumors spread the information As rumors spread the information
often gets twisted and the often gets twisted and the information ends up being wrong!!information ends up being wrong!!
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
It’sIt’s a feeling that you’ve a feeling that you’ve done something wrong or done something wrong or disgraceful to deserve the disgraceful to deserve the
bullying.bullying.A.A. SpitefulSpiteful
B.B. AshamedAshamed
C.C. DemoralizedDemoralized
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
SORRY!!SORRY!!
Shame is what keeps a lot of kids from Shame is what keeps a lot of kids from reporting bullying. They start to reporting bullying. They start to
believe that they have done believe that they have done something wrong or disgraceful.something wrong or disgraceful.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
YOU’RE RIGHTYOU’RE RIGHT
Shame is what keeps a lot of kids from Shame is what keeps a lot of kids from reporting bullying. They start to reporting bullying. They start to
believe that they have done believe that they have done something wrong or disgraceful.something wrong or disgraceful.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
SORRY!!SORRY!!
Shame is what keeps a lot of kids from Shame is what keeps a lot of kids from reporting bullying. They start to reporting bullying. They start to
believe that they have done believe that they have done something wrong or disgraceful.something wrong or disgraceful.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
Retaliation is one reason Retaliation is one reason why many kids don’t why many kids don’t
report bullies. Retaliation report bullies. Retaliation could mean..could mean..
A.A. Getting in troubleGetting in troubleB.B. Making the bullying worseMaking the bullying worseC.C. Loosing the respect of adultsLoosing the respect of adults
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
NOOOO!!NOOOO!!
Retaliation is also known as ‘pay back’. Retaliation is also known as ‘pay back’. Kids fear that the bully will just be Kids fear that the bully will just be angry that they were reported and angry that they were reported and
the bullying will increase. the bullying will increase.
In fact if a bully knows they will get In fact if a bully knows they will get away with it, they are likely to away with it, they are likely to
continue bullyingcontinue bullying
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
YUP!!YUP!!
Retaliation is also known as ‘pay back’. Retaliation is also known as ‘pay back’. Kids fear that the bully will just be Kids fear that the bully will just be angry that they were reported and angry that they were reported and
the bullying will increase. the bullying will increase.
In fact if a bully knows they will get In fact if a bully knows they will get away with it, they are likely to away with it, they are likely to
continue bullying.continue bullying.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
NOOOO!NOOOO!
Retaliation is also known as ‘pay back’. Retaliation is also known as ‘pay back’. Kids fear that the bully will just be Kids fear that the bully will just be angry that they were reported and angry that they were reported and
the bullying will increase. the bullying will increase.
In fact if a bully knows they will get In fact if a bully knows they will get away with it, they are likely to away with it, they are likely to
continue bullying.continue bullying.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
If a person reports bullying If a person reports bullying and nothing gets done and nothing gets done
about it….about it….
A.A. They usually move to a different schoolThey usually move to a different school
B.B. They ignore the bully and he/she goes awayThey ignore the bully and he/she goes away
C.C. They believe that no one can help themThey believe that no one can help them
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
HOPEFULLY NOT!!HOPEFULLY NOT!!
Often kids feel that no one is willing to Often kids feel that no one is willing to help them because they’ve had a help them because they’ve had a
negative experience with reporting negative experience with reporting bullies before. Just because the first bullies before. Just because the first person that you report bullying to person that you report bullying to doesn’t take action doesn’t mean doesn’t take action doesn’t mean
you should give up. Keep trying until you should give up. Keep trying until the bully is dealt with.the bully is dealt with.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
NOT LIKELY !!NOT LIKELY !!
Often kids feel that no one is willing to Often kids feel that no one is willing to help them because they’ve had a help them because they’ve had a
negative experience with reporting negative experience with reporting bullies before. Just because the first bullies before. Just because the first person that you report bullying to person that you report bullying to doesn’t take action doesn’t mean doesn’t take action doesn’t mean
you should give up. Keep trying until you should give up. Keep trying until the bully is dealt with.the bully is dealt with.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
SAD BUT TRUE!!SAD BUT TRUE!!
Often kids feel that no one is willing to Often kids feel that no one is willing to help them because they’ve had a help them because they’ve had a
negative experience with reporting negative experience with reporting bullies before. Just because the first bullies before. Just because the first person that you report bullying to person that you report bullying to doesn’t take action doesn’t mean doesn’t take action doesn’t mean
you should give up. Keep trying until you should give up. Keep trying until the bully is dealt with.the bully is dealt with.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
What can you do, as a student, What can you do, as a student, to decrease bullying in your to decrease bullying in your
school?school?A.A. Nothing, since I’m neither the bully nor the bulliNothing, since I’m neither the bully nor the bulli
eded
B.B. Make an extra effort to be kind to kids who are Make an extra effort to be kind to kids who are bulliedbullied
C.C. Make sure that I don’t annoy the bullyMake sure that I don’t annoy the bully
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
WRONG !!!WRONG !!!
You are an important part of the You are an important part of the puzzle. When you take the time to puzzle. When you take the time to say or do something nice to a kid say or do something nice to a kid who is being bullied you will be who is being bullied you will be
making an enormous difference in making an enormous difference in their life. Being nice to someone is their life. Being nice to someone is
often easier and takes less effort often easier and takes less effort than being mean!!than being mean!!
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
YOU’RE RIGHT YOU’RE RIGHT
You are an important part of the You are an important part of the puzzle. When you take the time to puzzle. When you take the time to say or do something nice to a kid say or do something nice to a kid who is being bullied you will be who is being bullied you will be
making an enormous difference in making an enormous difference in their life. Being nice to someone is their life. Being nice to someone is
often easier and takes less effort often easier and takes less effort than being mean!!than being mean!!
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
WRONG!!WRONG!!
You are an important part of the You are an important part of the puzzle. When you take the time to puzzle. When you take the time to say or do something nice to a kid say or do something nice to a kid who is being bullied you will be who is being bullied you will be
making an enormous difference in making an enormous difference in their life. Being nice to someone is their life. Being nice to someone is
often easier and takes less effort often easier and takes less effort than being mean!!than being mean!!
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
THISTHIS may include detention, may include detention, suspension or even expulsion suspension or even expulsion from school depending on the from school depending on the
extent of the bullyingextent of the bullyingA.A. AwarenessAwareness
B.B. DisciplineDiscipline
C.C. EvaluationEvaluation
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
BETTER LUCK NEXT TIME!!BETTER LUCK NEXT TIME!!
Discipline in school with regards to Discipline in school with regards to bullying often comes in the shape of bullying often comes in the shape of
detentions, suspensions and detentions, suspensions and expulsions. The Discipline is usually expulsions. The Discipline is usually
more severe as the bullying becomes more severe as the bullying becomes worse.worse.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
RIGHT ON THE MONEY!!RIGHT ON THE MONEY!!
Discipline in school with regards to Discipline in school with regards to bullying often comes in the shape of bullying often comes in the shape of
detentions, suspensions and detentions, suspensions and expulsions. The Discipline is usually expulsions. The Discipline is usually
more severe as the bullying becomes more severe as the bullying becomes worse.worse.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
BETTER LUCK NEXT TIME!!!BETTER LUCK NEXT TIME!!!
Discipline in school with regards to Discipline in school with regards to bullying often comes in the shape of bullying often comes in the shape of
detentions, suspensions and detentions, suspensions and expulsions. The Discipline is usually expulsions. The Discipline is usually
more severe as the bullying becomes more severe as the bullying becomes worse.worse.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
True or FalseTrue or False
Having a chance to show that you Having a chance to show that you are good at something may make are good at something may make you less of a bully and/or less hurt you less of a bully and/or less hurt
by bullies.by bullies.
TRUETRUE FALSEFALSE
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
YEAH!!!YEAH!!!
When you have a chance to show off When you have a chance to show off your skills it is an excellent way to your skills it is an excellent way to boost self esteem which may help boost self esteem which may help
reduce bullying. Figure out what it is reduce bullying. Figure out what it is you like to do and work hard at; you like to do and work hard at; focus energy on positive things!focus energy on positive things!
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
OH NO!!OH NO!!
When you have a chance to show off When you have a chance to show off your skills it is an excellent way to your skills it is an excellent way to boost self esteem which may help boost self esteem which may help
reduce bullying. Figure out what it is reduce bullying. Figure out what it is you like to do and work hard at; you like to do and work hard at; focus energy on positive things!focus energy on positive things!
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
Empathy is the ability to put yourself Empathy is the ability to put yourself in someone else’s shoes and in someone else’s shoes and
understand how they are feeling.understand how they are feeling.
TRUETRUE FALSEFALSE
True or FalseTrue or False
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
RIGHT ON!!RIGHT ON!!
When you try to be empathetic When you try to be empathetic towards kids who are being bullied towards kids who are being bullied you’ll be able to see how hurt they you’ll be able to see how hurt they are by what is going on. Then you are by what is going on. Then you
help put a stop to it!help put a stop to it!
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
WRONG!!WRONG!!
Empathy is understanding how others Empathy is understanding how others feel. When you try to be empathetic feel. When you try to be empathetic towards kids who are being bullied towards kids who are being bullied you’ll be able to see how hurt they you’ll be able to see how hurt they are by what is going on. Then you are by what is going on. Then you
help put a stop to it!help put a stop to it!
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
Television and music may Television and music may promote physical forms of promote physical forms of
bullying. Kids are said to have bullying. Kids are said to have witnessed 8000 deaths and witnessed 8000 deaths and
100,000 violent conflicts by the 100,000 violent conflicts by the time they are… time they are…
A.A. 12 years old12 years old
B.B. 14 years old14 years old
C.C. 17 years old17 years old
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
EXACTLY!!EXACTLY!!
By the age of 12 media influences may By the age of 12 media influences may teach kids to see fighting as a teach kids to see fighting as a
legitimate way of solving social legitimate way of solving social problems instead of teaching them problems instead of teaching them that there are alternative ways to that there are alternative ways to
respond to conflict. respond to conflict.
Don’t believe that it is acceptable to Don’t believe that it is acceptable to behave the way your TV and Music behave the way your TV and Music
heroes do!!heroes do!!
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
TOO OLD!!TOO OLD!!
By the age of 12 media influences may By the age of 12 media influences may teach kids to see fighting as a teach kids to see fighting as a
legitimate way of solving social legitimate way of solving social problems instead of teaching them problems instead of teaching them that there are alternative ways to that there are alternative ways to
respond to conflict.respond to conflict.
Don’t believe that it is acceptable to Don’t believe that it is acceptable to behave the way your TV and Music behave the way your TV and Music
heroes do!!heroes do!!
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
TOO OLD!!TOO OLD!!
By the age of 12 media influences may By the age of 12 media influences may teach kids to see fighting as a teach kids to see fighting as a
legitimate way of solving social legitimate way of solving social problems instead of teaching them problems instead of teaching them that there are alternative ways to that there are alternative ways to
respond to conflict.respond to conflict.
Don’t believe that it is acceptable to Don’t believe that it is acceptable to behave the way your TV and Music behave the way your TV and Music
heroes do!!heroes do!!
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
Being tolerant of those Being tolerant of those around you will make you around you will make you less likely to be a bully. less likely to be a bully.
Tolerance is…Tolerance is…
A.A. Minding your own businessMinding your own business
B.B. Treating other people the way you Treating other people the way you want to be treatedwant to be treated
C.C. Accepting others for who they areAccepting others for who they are
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
NO, BUT A GOOD IDEA!!NO, BUT A GOOD IDEA!!
When you accept other people for who When you accept other people for who they are and get to know kids from they are and get to know kids from
different backgrounds, you will make different backgrounds, you will make friends more easily. Others will see friends more easily. Others will see
this quality in you and you’ll find this quality in you and you’ll find friends are never in short supply. friends are never in short supply.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
NO, BUT GOOD IDEA!!NO, BUT GOOD IDEA!!
When you accept other people for who When you accept other people for who they are and get to know kids from they are and get to know kids from
different backgrounds, you will make different backgrounds, you will make friends more easily. Others will see friends more easily. Others will see
this quality in you and you’ll find this quality in you and you’ll find friends are never in short supplyfriends are never in short supply
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
YOU BET!!YOU BET!!
When you accept other people for who When you accept other people for who they are and get to know kids from they are and get to know kids from
different backgrounds, you will make different backgrounds, you will make friends more easily. Others will see friends more easily. Others will see
this quality in you and you’ll find this quality in you and you’ll find friends are never in short supplyfriends are never in short supply
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
True or FalseTrue or False
Working at feeling good about yourself Working at feeling good about yourself may lessen the pain of bullying.may lessen the pain of bullying.
TRUETRUE FALSEFALSE
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
YES!!YES!!
Improving self esteem helps in many Improving self esteem helps in many ways. Pick your strong points and ways. Pick your strong points and build on those qualities. It won’t build on those qualities. It won’t
make bullying go away but you’ll be make bullying go away but you’ll be better prepared to deal with it if you better prepared to deal with it if you
are feeling good about yourself.are feeling good about yourself.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
NO!!NO!!
Improving self esteem helps in many Improving self esteem helps in many ways. Pick your strong points and ways. Pick your strong points and build on those qualities. It won’t build on those qualities. It won’t
make bullying go away but you’ll be make bullying go away but you’ll be better prepared to deal with it if you better prepared to deal with it if you
are feeling good about yourself.are feeling good about yourself.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
To raise awareness, anyone To raise awareness, anyone can speak out against can speak out against
bullying, by:bullying, by:A.A. Doing a project Doing a project
B.B. Putting on a play Putting on a play
C.C. Creating a posterCreating a poster
D.D. All of the aboveAll of the above
E.E. A &BA &B
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
PARTLY, BUT THERE’S MORE!!PARTLY, BUT THERE’S MORE!!
Creating awareness involves just Creating awareness involves just getting the message out, in any way, getting the message out, in any way, to as many people as possible. That to as many people as possible. That
way there is a greater chance of way there is a greater chance of reducing the occurrences of bullying, reducing the occurrences of bullying, not just having to deal with it after it not just having to deal with it after it
has already happened.has already happened.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
PARTLY, BUT THERE’S MORE!!PARTLY, BUT THERE’S MORE!!
Creating awareness involves just Creating awareness involves just getting the message out, in any way, getting the message out, in any way, to as many people as possible. That to as many people as possible. That
way there is a greater chance of way there is a greater chance of reducing the occurrences of bullying, reducing the occurrences of bullying, not just having to deal with it after it not just having to deal with it after it
has already happened.has already happened.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
PARTLY, BUT THERE’S MORE!!PARTLY, BUT THERE’S MORE!!
Creating awareness involves just Creating awareness involves just getting the message out, in any way, getting the message out, in any way, to as many people as possible. That to as many people as possible. That
way there is a greater chance of way there is a greater chance of reducing the occurrences of bullying, reducing the occurrences of bullying, not just having to deal with it after it not just having to deal with it after it
has already happened.has already happened.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
FOR SURE!!!FOR SURE!!!
Creating awareness involves just Creating awareness involves just getting the message out, any way, to getting the message out, any way, to
as many people as possible. That as many people as possible. That way there is a greater chance of way there is a greater chance of
reducing the occurrences of bullying, reducing the occurrences of bullying, not just having to deal with it after it not just having to deal with it after it
has already happened.has already happened.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
PARTLY, BUT THERE’S MORE!!PARTLY, BUT THERE’S MORE!!
Creating awareness involves just Creating awareness involves just getting the message out, in any way, getting the message out, in any way, to as many people as possible. That to as many people as possible. That
way there is a greater chance of way there is a greater chance of reducing the occurrences of bullying, reducing the occurrences of bullying, not just having to deal with it after it not just having to deal with it after it
has already happened.has already happened.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
Reporting bullies to an Reporting bullies to an adult is an important way adult is an important way to help stop bullying. Who to help stop bullying. Who
should report it?should report it?
A.A. Innocent bystandersInnocent bystanders
B.B. The bullyThe bully
C.C. The policeThe police
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
YOU GUESSED IT!!YOU GUESSED IT!!
The bystander is often in the best The bystander is often in the best position to report the bullying. They position to report the bullying. They aren’t directly involved but they see aren’t directly involved but they see
it all happening. Usually the kids it all happening. Usually the kids being bullied are feeling too badly being bullied are feeling too badly
about the whole thing to say about the whole thing to say anything. They need the support of anything. They need the support of
other kids. other kids.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
NOT LIKELY!!NOT LIKELY!!
The bystander is often in the best The bystander is often in the best position to report the bullying. They position to report the bullying. They aren’t directly involved but they see aren’t directly involved but they see
it all happening. Usually the kids it all happening. Usually the kids being bullied are feeling too badly being bullied are feeling too badly
about the whole thing to say about the whole thing to say anything. They need the support of anything. They need the support of
other kids.other kids.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
NOPE! NOPE! POLICE ARE REPORTED POLICE ARE REPORTED TOTO..
The bystander is often in the best The bystander is often in the best position to report the bullying. They position to report the bullying. They aren’t directly involved but they see aren’t directly involved but they see
it all happening. Usually the kids it all happening. Usually the kids being bullied are feeling too badly being bullied are feeling too badly
about the whole thing to say about the whole thing to say anything. They need the support of anything. They need the support of
other kids.other kids.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
If you are bullied, always If you are bullied, always remember that it’s not remember that it’s not
your…your…A.A. FaultFaultB.B. BattleBattleC.C. Only problem so don’t worrOnly problem so don’t worr
y about ity about it
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
GREAT!!GREAT!!
It’s not your fault. No matter what you It’s not your fault. No matter what you say or do, nothing justifies being say or do, nothing justifies being
bullied. You must deal with it to get bullied. You must deal with it to get it to stop. Talk to someone about the it to stop. Talk to someone about the problem and get help working it out!problem and get help working it out!
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
BETTER LUCK NEXT TIME!!BETTER LUCK NEXT TIME!!
It’s not your fault. No matter what you It’s not your fault. No matter what you say or do, nothing justifies being say or do, nothing justifies being
bullied. You must deal with it to get bullied. You must deal with it to get it to stop. Talk to someone about the it to stop. Talk to someone about the problem and get help working it out!problem and get help working it out!
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
BETTER LUCK NEXT TIME!!BETTER LUCK NEXT TIME!!
It’s not your fault. No matter what you It’s not your fault. No matter what you say or do, nothing justifies being say or do, nothing justifies being
bullied. You must deal with it to get bullied. You must deal with it to get it to stop. Talk to someone about the it to stop. Talk to someone about the problem and get help working it out!problem and get help working it out!
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
If you aren’t comfortable If you aren’t comfortable talking to your parents or talking to your parents or teachers about bullying teachers about bullying
you can call…you can call…A.A. Phone BustersPhone Busters
B.B. Kids Help PhoneKids Help Phone
C.C. Bullies anonymousBullies anonymous
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
NOT FOR BULLYING!NOT FOR BULLYING!
The Kids Help Phone is a toll-free, 24-The Kids Help Phone is a toll-free, 24-hour, bilingual and anonymous phone hour, bilingual and anonymous phone
and internet counseling service for and internet counseling service for children and youth. At Kids Help Phone, children and youth. At Kids Help Phone,
there's no such thing as a problem there's no such thing as a problem that's too big, too small, too that's too big, too small, too unimportant, too serious, too unimportant, too serious, too
embarrassing... too anything. Call 1-embarrassing... too anything. Call 1-800-668-6868800-668-6868
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
EXACTLY!!EXACTLY!!
The Kids Help Phone is a toll-free, 24-The Kids Help Phone is a toll-free, 24-hour, bilingual and anonymous hour, bilingual and anonymous phone and internet counseling phone and internet counseling
service for children and youth. At service for children and youth. At Kids Help Phone, there's no such Kids Help Phone, there's no such
thing as a problem that's too big, too thing as a problem that's too big, too small, too unimportant, too serious, small, too unimportant, too serious,
too embarrassing... too anything. Call too embarrassing... too anything. Call 1-800-668-68681-800-668-6868
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
DOSEN’T ACTUALLY EXIST!DOSEN’T ACTUALLY EXIST!
The Kids Help Phone is a toll-free, 24-The Kids Help Phone is a toll-free, 24-hour, bilingual and anonymous phone hour, bilingual and anonymous phone
and internet counseling service for and internet counseling service for children and youth. At Kids Help children and youth. At Kids Help Phone, there's no such thing as a Phone, there's no such thing as a
problem that's too big, too small, too problem that's too big, too small, too unimportant, too serious, too unimportant, too serious, too
embarrassing... too anything. Call 1-embarrassing... too anything. Call 1-800-668-6868800-668-6868
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
What percentage of school What percentage of school aged bullies have a criminal aged bullies have a criminal
record by age 24. record by age 24.
A.A. 30%30%
B.B. 50%50%
C.C. 60%60%
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
HIGHER!!HIGHER!!
60% of kids who admitted to bullying 60% of kids who admitted to bullying when they where younger ended up when they where younger ended up with a criminal record by the age of with a criminal record by the age of 24. Saddled with a criminal record 24. Saddled with a criminal record your chances of getting the job or your chances of getting the job or
volunteer placement of your choice is volunteer placement of your choice is unlikely!!unlikely!!
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
HIGHER!!HIGHER!!
60% of kids who admitted to bullying 60% of kids who admitted to bullying when they where younger ended up when they where younger ended up with a criminal record by the age of with a criminal record by the age of 24. Saddled with a criminal record 24. Saddled with a criminal record your chances of getting the job or your chances of getting the job or
volunteer placement of your choice is volunteer placement of your choice is unlikely!!unlikely!!
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
RIGHT ON!!RIGHT ON!!
60% of kids who admitted to bullying 60% of kids who admitted to bullying when they where younger ended up when they where younger ended up with a criminal record by the age of with a criminal record by the age of 24. Saddled with a criminal record 24. Saddled with a criminal record your chances of getting the job or your chances of getting the job or
volunteer placement of your choice is volunteer placement of your choice is unlikely!!unlikely!!
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
When bullying is When bullying is permitted…permitted…
A.A. School School becomes a prison sentence for targetsbecomes a prison sentence for targets
B.B. Kids pretend to be sick to stay home from schoolKids pretend to be sick to stay home from school
C.C. Kids really become physically ill and need to stay Kids really become physically ill and need to stay homehome
D.D. All of the aboveAll of the above
E.E. None of the aboveNone of the above
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
THERE’S MORETHERE’S MORE
Some kids who are bullied feel that Some kids who are bullied feel that school is like prison for them. They school is like prison for them. They sometimes pretend to be ill so they sometimes pretend to be ill so they won’t have to face the bully. Still won’t have to face the bully. Still
others actually become ill as a result others actually become ill as a result of the stress of bullying.of the stress of bullying.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
THERE’S MORETHERE’S MORE
Some kids who are bullied feel that Some kids who are bullied feel that school is like prison for them. They school is like prison for them. They sometimes pretend to be ill so they sometimes pretend to be ill so they won’t have to face the bully. Still won’t have to face the bully. Still
others actually become ill as a result others actually become ill as a result of the stress of bullying.of the stress of bullying.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
THERE’S MORETHERE’S MORE
Some kids who are bullied would Some kids who are bullied would rather be in prison than have to rather be in prison than have to endure any more bullying. They endure any more bullying. They
sometimes pretend to be ill so they sometimes pretend to be ill so they won’t have to face the bully. Still won’t have to face the bully. Still
others actually become ill as a result others actually become ill as a result of the stress of bullying.of the stress of bullying.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
EXACTLY!!EXACTLY!!
Some kids who are bullied feel that Some kids who are bullied feel that school is like prison for them. They school is like prison for them. They sometimes pretend to be ill so they sometimes pretend to be ill so they won’t have to face the bully. Still won’t have to face the bully. Still
others actually become ill as a result others actually become ill as a result of the stress of bullying.of the stress of bullying.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
WRONG!!WRONG!!
Some kids who are bullied feel that Some kids who are bullied feel that school is like prison for them. They school is like prison for them. They sometimes pretend to be ill so they sometimes pretend to be ill so they won’t have to face the bully. Still won’t have to face the bully. Still
others actually become ill as a result others actually become ill as a result of the stress of bullying.of the stress of bullying.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
True or FalseTrue or False
Some targets Some targets see see suicidesuicide aas their only s their only escapeescape from bullying. from bullying.
TRUETRUE FALSEFALSE
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
CORRECTCORRECT
Sadly, every year a number of young Sadly, every year a number of young people take their own lives because people take their own lives because the bullying has become more than the bullying has become more than
they could bear!!they could bear!!
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
WRONG, UNFORTUNATELY!WRONG, UNFORTUNATELY!
Sadly, every year a number of young Sadly, every year a number of young people take their own lives because people take their own lives because the bullying has become more than the bullying has become more than
they could bear!!they could bear!!
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
How often does bullying How often does bullying occur in Canadian schools?occur in Canadian schools?
A.A. Once every seven minutesOnce every seven minutes
B.B. Twice a dayTwice a day
C.C. Four times a weekFour times a week
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
RIGHT ON THE MARK!!RIGHT ON THE MARK!!
Unbelievably, every seven minutes Unbelievably, every seven minutes someone is the victim of bullying. someone is the victim of bullying.
When you think about all the types of When you think about all the types of bullying there are including physical, bullying there are including physical, psychological and emotional you can psychological and emotional you can
see how it adds up.see how it adds up.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
MORE OFTEN!!MORE OFTEN!!
Unbelievably, every seven minutes Unbelievably, every seven minutes someone is the victim of bullying. someone is the victim of bullying.
When you think about all the types of When you think about all the types of bullying there are including physical, bullying there are including physical, psychological and emotional you can psychological and emotional you can
see how it adds up.see how it adds up.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
MORE OFTEN!!MORE OFTEN!!
Unbelievably, every seven minutes Unbelievably, every seven minutes someone is the victim of bullying. someone is the victim of bullying.
When you think about all the types of When you think about all the types of bullying there are including physical, bullying there are including physical, psychological and emotional you can psychological and emotional you can
see how it adds up.see how it adds up.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
True or FalseTrue or False
Kids who are bullied may be more Kids who are bullied may be more likely to have difficulty falling or likely to have difficulty falling or
staying asleep and difficulty staying asleep and difficulty concentrating.concentrating.
TRUETRUE FALSEFALSE
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
RIGHT!!RIGHT!!
These are some of many symptoms of These are some of many symptoms of an emotional state called Post an emotional state called Post
Traumatic Stress Disorder. Bullying Traumatic Stress Disorder. Bullying is often interpreted as a traumatic is often interpreted as a traumatic
event with similar emotional event with similar emotional consequences!consequences!
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
WRONG!!WRONG!!
These are some of many symptoms of These are some of many symptoms of an emotional state called Post an emotional state called Post
Traumatic Stress Disorder. Bullying Traumatic Stress Disorder. Bullying is often interpreted as a traumatic is often interpreted as a traumatic
event with similar emotional event with similar emotional consequences!consequences!
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
Adults often tell kids that Adults often tell kids that bullying is just ….bullying is just ….
A.A. Going to last for a short timeGoing to last for a short time
B.B. Part of growing upPart of growing up
C.C. A problem that the schools should A problem that the schools should deal with on their owndeal with on their own
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
WRONG !!!WRONG !!!
Bullying is rarely short livedBullying is rarely short lived
Despite what some adults say, bullying Despite what some adults say, bullying is not a normal part of growing up. In is not a normal part of growing up. In fact, it can have a devastating effect fact, it can have a devastating effect on the lives of kids who are bullied. on the lives of kids who are bullied.
Everyone deserves to live free from Everyone deserves to live free from bullying.bullying.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
YOU’RE RIGHT, YOU’RE RIGHT, THEY’RE WRONGTHEY’RE WRONG
Despite what some adults say, bullying Despite what some adults say, bullying is not a normal part of growing up. is not a normal part of growing up. In fact, it can have a devastating In fact, it can have a devastating effect on the lives of kids who are effect on the lives of kids who are
bullied.bullied.
Everyone deserves to live free from Everyone deserves to live free from bullying.bullying.
Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks Provincial Constable Jennifer Wilks 20042004
WRONG!!WRONG!!
Bullying is everyone’s problemBullying is everyone’s problem
Despite what some adults say, bullying Despite what some adults say, bullying is not a normal part of growing up. In is not a normal part of growing up. In fact, it can have a devastating effect fact, it can have a devastating effect on the lives of kids who are bullied. on the lives of kids who are bullied.
Everyone deserves to live free from Everyone deserves to live free from bullying.bullying.