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7 Habits of 7 Habits of Highly Effective Highly Effective

TeensTeensWeekly LessonsWeekly Lessons

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Highly Effective HabitsHighly Effective Habits

1)1) Be ProactiveBe Proactive2)2) Begin with the End in MindBegin with the End in Mind3)3) Put First Things FirstPut First Things First4)4) Think Win-WinThink Win-Win5)5) Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Seek First to Understand, Then to Be

UnderstoodUnderstood6)6) SynergizeSynergize7)7) Sharpen the SawSharpen the Saw

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Highly Defective HabitsHighly Defective HabitsREACTREACT Blame all of your problems on Blame all of your problems on

your parents, your stupid your parents, your stupid teachers or professors, your teachers or professors, your lousy neighborhood, your boy- lousy neighborhood, your boy- or girlfriend, the government, or girlfriend, the government, or something or somebody or something or somebody else. Be a victim. Take no else. Be a victim. Take no responsibility for your life. Act responsibility for your life. Act like an animal. If you’re hungry, like an animal. If you’re hungry, eat. If someone yells at you, eat. If someone yells at you, yell back. If you feel like doing yell back. If you feel like doing something you know is wrong, something you know is wrong, just do it.just do it.

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Highly Defective HabitsHighly Defective Habits

BEGIN WITH NO END IN BEGIN WITH NO END IN MINDMIND Don’t have a plan. Avoid Don’t have a plan. Avoid

goals at all costs. And goals at all costs. And never think about never think about tomorrow. Why worry tomorrow. Why worry about the consequences of about the consequences of your actions? Live for the your actions? Live for the moment. Sleep around, get moment. Sleep around, get wasted, and party on, for wasted, and party on, for tomorrow we die.tomorrow we die.

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Highly Defective HabitsHighly Defective Habits

PUT FIRST THINGS LASTPUT FIRST THINGS LAST Whatever is most important in Whatever is most important in

your life, don’t do it until you your life, don’t do it until you have spent sufficient time have spent sufficient time watching reruns, talking watching reruns, talking endlessly on the phone, surfing endlessly on the phone, surfing the Net, and lounging around. the Net, and lounging around. Always put off your homework Always put off your homework until tomorrow. Make sure that until tomorrow. Make sure that things that don’t matter always things that don’t matter always come before things that do.come before things that do.

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Highly Defective HabitsHighly Defective Habits

THINK WIN-LOSETHINK WIN-LOSE See life as a vicious See life as a vicious

competition. Your classmate competition. Your classmate is out to get you, so you’d is out to get you, so you’d better get him or her first. better get him or her first. Don’t let anyone else succeed Don’t let anyone else succeed at anything because, at anything because, remember, if they win, you remember, if they win, you lose. If it looks like you’re lose. If it looks like you’re going to lose, however, make going to lose, however, make sure you drag that sucker sure you drag that sucker down with you.down with you.

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Highly Defective HabitsHighly Defective Habits

SEEK FIRST TO TALK, SEEK FIRST TO TALK, THEN PRETEND TO THEN PRETEND TO LISTENLISTEN You were born with a mouth, You were born with a mouth,

so use it. Make sure you talk so use it. Make sure you talk a lot. Always express your a lot. Always express your side of the story first. Once side of the story first. Once you’re sure everyone you’re sure everyone understands your views, understands your views, then pretend to listen by then pretend to listen by nodding and saying “uh-nodding and saying “uh-huh.” Or, if you really want huh.” Or, if you really want their opinion, give it to them.their opinion, give it to them.

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Highly Defective HabitsHighly Defective Habits

DON’T COOPERATEDON’T COOPERATE Let’s face it, other people are Let’s face it, other people are

weird because they’re different weird because they’re different from you. So why try to get from you. So why try to get along with them? Teamwork is along with them? Teamwork is for the dogs. Since you always for the dogs. Since you always have the best ideas, you are have the best ideas, you are better off doing everything by better off doing everything by yourself. Be your own island.yourself. Be your own island.

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Highly Defective HabitsHighly Defective Habits

WEAR YOURSELF OUTWEAR YOURSELF OUT Be so busy with life that you Be so busy with life that you

never take time to renew or never take time to renew or improve yourself. Never improve yourself. Never study. Don’t learn anything study. Don’t learn anything new. Avoid exercise like the new. Avoid exercise like the plague. And, for heaven’s plague. And, for heaven’s sake, stay away from good sake, stay away from good books, nature, or anything books, nature, or anything else that may inspire you.else that may inspire you.

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What is a Habit?What is a Habit?

Things that we do repeatedlyThings that we do repeatedly Most of the time we are hardly aware that we have Most of the time we are hardly aware that we have

them. They’re on autopilot.them. They’re on autopilot.

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What is a Habit?What is a Habit?

GOOD HABITSGOOD HABITS Exercising RegularlyExercising Regularly Planning AheadPlanning Ahead Showing RespectShowing Respect

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What is a Habit?What is a Habit?HABITS THAT ARE OKHABITS THAT ARE OK Eating Yogurt with a ForkEating Yogurt with a Fork Reading Magazine from back to frontReading Magazine from back to front

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What is a Habit?What is a Habit?

BAD HABITSBAD HABITS Thinking NegativelyThinking Negatively Feeling InferiorFeeling Inferior Blaming OthersBlaming Others

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HabitsHabits

Habits can either make us Habits can either make us or break usor break us

They are learned and can They are learned and can be changedbe changed

Baby steps will help with Baby steps will help with the processthe process