50 shades of gray

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50 SHADES OF GRAY By: Yeha Park, Yunji Choi

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50 shades of grayBy: Yeha Park, Yunji Choi

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Even its the turn of the new century where there is equality of gender, women are still likely to be submissive and viewed as the weaker one than men especially in relationship. If woman will be the one who is working at home, it is not a good picture in the societys eyes. In a relationship, there should be the feeling of safety and security and most of all, the loyalty or faithfulness to ones partner. Each depends on each other as partners on their wants and needs but as we can see in this day and age, mostly women prefers to be independent.They dont want being obligated to submit and to the power of the men because of the thought that there is no equality and suppression of freedom. So a lot of families are being broken because of this insight. Each has a pride to take care of, nobody wants to submit; each wanted to be the best and on the top.

Others also shows one-sided love in a relationship. Its like you have that person but theres a feeling that he/she is not there. Its like your feelings dont match and connect. There are a lot of relationships these days that fall apart because of it. Families were wrecked because of this. Divorce, separation and cheating resulted from one-sided love. Partners should listen to each others thoughts and needs. There should be cooperation and understanding or the relationship wont work out. Even there is love if the feelings dont connect, it wont have spark.

Nowadays, there is this kind of relationship that emerged in existence-the submissive and dominant. Submissive and slavery are different terms wherein submissive can have terms and conditions to his Master which is the dominant. It means there is still a choice whether to pursue that or just simply say NO.It really depends upon the partners if they are willing to accept each other wholly even flaws. One can also change for the best if that person really loves his/her partner.

Another idea we want to point out is, this kind of relationship is just a mere sexual desire-its all in the mind. More on for the sake pleasure and lust. There is a thick line that separates true love and lust. Because if you truly love your partner wholly, sex really doesnt matter. Just look at the old couple.