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What the 4 Heart LinesTell You About Your

Relationships

Pamelah LandersMaster Hand Analyst

What the 4 Heart Lines Tell You About Your Relationships

Do you want to know what each of the 4 heart line types tell you about successful relation-ships? The answer is: everything!

Your heart lines identify your emotional system, telling you how you want to be loved, howyou express love to others and how you communicate your feelings Your non-negotiable rela-tionship needs are reflected in your heart lines. Thus your relationship success also exists here.Knowing the heart line types provide an easy way to gain understanding of yourself and otherswithout knowing much else about the hands.

There are four types of heart lines:Passionate Romantic IdealistBig Heart Hermit

You may have the same heart line type on both hands, or have a different one on your lefthand than you do your right hand. Some people even have multiple heart line types. Later inthis report is an example of what that looks like.

Each heart line type contains a unique perspective. People in your life may have a differ-ent heart line type than you do, thus they have different perspectives, needs and desiresabout relationships.

Even though this is only one line, it could play a significant role in creating ease in yourrelationships or attaining more relationship success.

The Responsibility of the Heart Line OwnerWhichever heart line(s) you have, it is your responsibility to get your needs met. It is not your

partner’s job, your parent’s responsibility nor your children’s obligation. For example, if youhave a Big Heart and seek deep connection, it is up to you to find people with whom you canhave that experience. Your husband may not have a Big Heart and thus the need for connectionisn’t as important for him.

You may want to consider talking about your heart line’s needs with your close relationshippartners. Identify what you want, ask how the other(s) can meet your requests and you meettheirs, without either one having to deny what is true for you.

It is my hope that this report assists you in being true, literally, to your own heart.

Avoiding Bad RelationshipsHow to avoid bad relationships is to be true to your own heart line type and to know charac-

teristics of the other heart line types. Be understanding and supportive of people being true totheir own heart line types.

Master and Student PathsThe master path is behaviors, feelings, characteristics and actions that feel good. The student

path is behaviors, feelings, characteristics and actions that don’t feel good. When you are on thestudent path, by making a different choice, you can move to the better feeling master path.

Some people or circumstances may inspire the master path while others take you to the stu-dent path. Neither one is bad or good. Life feels better on the master path. The student path iswhere you learn the most about yourself. You can be on the master or student path multipletimes a day.

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Passionate Heart Line

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Passionate – Classic ExampleStarts under Mercury (pinkie) and curves up to Saturn (middle) finger

Starts here

ends here

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The Passionate Heart Line

“I want what I want,and I want it now!”

Danielle and David walked into the charity ball, arm-in-arm, strikingly dramatic, looking likeroyalty. Danielle was dressed in her elegant V-neck red-sequined floor length gown slit to the lowerthigh on her left side, showing off her ruby and diamond necklace with matching earrings. Davidwore his midnight black tuxedo with satin stripes down the pant leg, sporting a red cummerbund tomatch her dress. All eyes turned to them, mesmerized by their beauty and stately manner as theywalked. As they worked the room, their charm was unmistakable, as well as their unspoken demandfor compliments on their appearance. The other guests were surprised by Danielle’s temper tantrumlater in the evening when someone spilled a water glass at her table, even though it didn’t touch her.“It could have,” she declared. They didn’t understand that once she’d said her piece, she was over it.This story demonstrates some of the possible behaviors of the Passionate heart line types.

Self-oriented/SelfishBecause this heart line ends under the middle finger, it is self-focused. This means,

Passionate heart line types are really good at identifying what they want and then askingfor it. To some it seems like a benefit to be self-oriented. And it is. Others know exactlywhat you want and can choose to either give it to you or not.

On the ‘selfish’ side, it may feel, and most to others, that you are self-oriented in a waythat makes them uncomfortable. What is happening in that circumstance is this, “Don’ttake care of your needs; take care of mine.”

Many people with Passionate heart lines have heard “you are selfish” their entire livesand have taken it negatively. But to be true to this heart line, self-orientation is a require-ment. The Passionate’s purpose, I want what I want and I want it now, demonstrates toother heart line types they also have permission to ask for what they want. Knowing whatis desired and asking for it is one of the Passionate’s greatest gifts.

Please note: selfishness and self-orientation are not employed at the expense of otherson the master path. On the student path, your self-orientation may cause difficulty withothers.

Examples include saying, “I want to eat at 7:00 PM because I want to run after work.”Self-orientation could be trusting that you need to take a few minutes to center yourself.It may include saying “no” to another person’s request if you don’t have the energy tosupport their desire, or you’re simply not interested.

In the movie Kinsey, Alfred Kinsey is a very passionate man, selfishly driven by hisdesire to research and then educate the public about human sexual behavior. His selfishlifestyle changed our country’s view of sexuality and provided more education and thusmore freedom as a result. He was passionate about exploring sexuality, interviewingpeople and discovering what they knew and didn’t know about sex. He experimented

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with sex to understand it more completely. Then he educated the public about options,what satisfies women, what men want with sex. It really shifted things for the better.

Passionates often don’t understand why other heart line types waver on decision-mak-ing and why they don’t ask for what they want as easily as a Passionate does.

Note to Passionates: If you are a Passionate, you’ll need to practice patience becauseother heart lines types don’t find it as easy to identify desires and then ask as you do.

A Hermit may be able to identify desires, but it takes longer and asking is much moredifficult. Romantic Idealists and Big Hearts are focused on taking care of other people’sneeds first, so it doesn’t “automatically” fall into their consciousness that they have theright to identify and ask for what they want.

Asking Directly/ManipulatingA value of being self-oriented is identifying desires and asking. It’s a gift to others in

your life when you ask directly for what you want—no guessing and no mind-reading onthe part of others.

Ultimately you are going to get what you want. On the master path, you are in touchwith your desires and you make direct requests, empowered to be yourself, and thushappier. It is easier for others because they know what you want up front. The requestmay not always be granted, but the process of asking empowers you.

In the movie Erin Brockovich, based on a true story, Erin (Julia Roberts) wants informa-tion about chromium 6 in the local water, trying to prove that PG&E has contaminated thewater thus causing severe illnesses in Hinckley, CA. Her first visit to the Water Boardfinds her dressed in a very short skirt and low cut top. Spontaneously bending over thefront desk, exposing her breasts, knowing the young man behind the counter can’t resisther charm, Erin gets what she wants—full access to all the documents. Yes, it’s manipula-tive but nobody is hurt. Her needs are met. In a more gentle but still manipulating waylater in the movie Erin is given the most necessary and priceless document that helps wintheir case against PG&E. To receive this paper, she buys beer for a man who holds notonly this paper but really important information. A win-win.

On the student path you manipulate or demand, blame others, or make yourself wrongfor being “selfish.” Manipulation creates havoc in relationships and requires involvedconversations to get what you want. People know when they’re being manipulated, andthey don’t like it, in fact, may be even more resistant to you.

In the movie Beautiful, Mona (Minnie Driver) unrelentingly asks directly for help untilshe is crowned Miss America Miss. Starting at age 8 she demonstrates the master path torealize her dream by entering every beauty contest and taking dance and voice lessons.Nothing can stop her, not even her unsupportive mother. Mona asks for the help sheneeds whevever she can get it.

Knowing she needs help and clearly missing some skills, in elementary school Monabefriends Big Heart type Ruby, because Ruby is good at what Mona can’t do well. Theystay friends throughout their lives, Ruby sewing Mona’s costumes, taking care of theapartment they share. Mona has an illegitimate daughter, Vanessa, which would ruinMona’s chances of winning any beauty contest. In the ultimate act of selfishness and ma-

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nipulation, at Mona’s insistence, Ruby raises Vanessa as if she were her own.On the student path Mona manipulates publicity opportunities and other contestants

so that she wins, regardless of the cost to other pageant entrants. While shopping in agrocery store having her eight-year-old daughter video her, Mona sees a pregnant womango into labor. “Helping” the woman is staged when Mona puts the woman in a grocerycart and wheels her down the street to the hospital, insisting Vanessa get it all on tape. Offcamera, Mona is making negative comments about having to help somebody. A monthlater in a beauty contest, Mona destroys another contestant’s baton. In both cases she ismanipulating the circumstances to her favor with a lack of genuine kindness to others.

Here is another example of a Passionate on the student path: Sammy wants to go danc-ing at Mario’s but says, “Honey, where do you want to go dancing tonight?” It’s a setup.Wife Jenny thinks she has a vote! A discussion ensues with his continual manipulationuntil she agrees to go to Mario’s. It is easier for the people in your life to know what youwant, as opposed to guessing or being manipulated into compliance.

It’s not uncommon for other heart line types to be jealous of your ease at asking forwhat you want and getting it.

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Big HeartHeart Line

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Big Heart – Classic ExampleStarts under Mercury (pinkie) and curves up to Jupiter (index) finger

Starts here

ends here

The Big Heart

“Let me be the oneto care for you.”

I feel drawn to Big Heart Michelle, sharing my innermost secrets, because I know she will listenand be there for me, offering wisdom that feels good and at an appropriate time in the conversation.Michelle always does. Her direct eye contact and presence are genuine. When she reaches out totouch my hand and hold it ever so gently in hers, I can feel love emanating from Michelle’s heart. It’sfrustrating that she has such a difficult time receiving my gratitude, because she has been so influen-tial in supporting me. When I give Michelle compliments or gifts she acts as though she is uncomfort-able. Sometimes she looks tired, burned out, but continues giving to everyone, holding herself to-gether, rarely acknowledging she needs to rest.

There are times when she inserts herself into conversations that aren’t her business but somehowshe manages to make us feel like she’s supposed to be there. Occasionally she also offers unsolicitedadvice and that irritates me.

I know she was hired as our department administrator, but I feel like she stays because, in addi-tion to being very competent, everybody trusts her and likes her, and she seems to revel in being THEONE to whom everybody takes their problems. Michelle has such a Big Heart.

Other-OrientedAs a Big Heart one of your major characteristics is genuine focus on others’ needs be-

fore considering yours. On the master path, you find ways to meet yours AND othersneeds. Your needs are met when others are happy. On the student path, your needs don’tget met because others come first. You don’t ask to have your needs met and at timesaren’t even sure it’s OK to ask.

Big Heart Kate in the movie One True Thing has been diagnosed with cancer. In our firstview of Kate, she is dressed as Dorothy from the Wizard of Oz. Complete with yarn for sidebraids, red sparkling shoes and a basket on her arm, Kate’s preparing a surprise party forher husband George’s 55th birthday. All the guests are invited to wear costumes to addmore fun to the party. Planning a surprise party is not at all unusual for a Big Heart.

When George appears and is totally surprised, the love in her eyes, the warm smile andgenuine affection in holding his arm and leaning her head against his chest clearly dis-play Kate’s soul satisfaction in pleasing her husband. He comes first to her, no matterwhat. Her affectionate nature is natural and part of being a Big Heart.

Later in the movie Kate is exhausted and in pain from the cancer, yet still feels thattaking care of George is more important than taking care of herself. On Thanksgiving,George invites his favorite writer to join them, without Kate’s permission. She grins and

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bears it, wanting George to be happy. Making only one comment in response to his an-nouncement, Kate doesn’t display her disappointment. It would feel selfish to her tothink her needs came first. This is a typical Big Heart characteristic.

Desire for ConnectionThe desire for connection is one of your main focuses, preferring to be with others

rather than alone. People genuinely interest you as you delve into their lives by askingpersonal questions and listening with sincerity. On the student path, you can be so hun-gry for connection that being alone is devastating.

Patti is the “Phone Queen,” spending several hours on phone calls, back-to-back, andloving every minute. At events or parties, she is in the kitchen preparing food in themidst of the activity and conversation, not wanting to miss out on anything. She’s con-nected and happy.

“Do you need some help?” is a common question Big Hearts ask that is often motivatedby desiring connection. Or “How can I help you?” or “Let me help you.”

Dee shared that she had to “sit on her hands” to not help a person she knows move,even though Dee wasn’t invited to help. But her natural desire to give coupled with adesire for connection, all Big Heart feelings, compelled her to want to assist. Fortunatelyshe wasn’t asked because at home she already had so many others whom she does assiston a regular basis and a huge remodeling project happening on her home. But, she says,“I can’t help it!” With two Big Hearts, it’s understandable. Connection motivates her andhelping others is one way to create it, a comfortable, giving way.

A Big Heart would want to be in the kitchen on Thanksgiving to learn of all the latestevents and feelings being experienced by family and friends. This is the best example ofa positive “gossip” experience. For a Big Heart, the feelings that accompany events aremore important than the events themselves.

As a Big Heart, you usually prefer a personal phone call rather than email—more con-nection. Email is better than no contact, however. Your ability to tune in and be sensitiveto how a person is feeling is better accomplished in person or the phone.

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HermitHeart Line

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Hermit – Classic ExampleStarts under Mercury (pinkie) and stops below the Saturn (middle) finger

Starts here

ends here

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Hermit Heart Line“Freedom Lover”

“When a relationship binds your heart in fearof betrayal, then it isn’t an offering of love,

it’s a trap.”—From “Wild Nights,” a book by David Deida

What attracted Sheila to Bob was that he, too, likes his own space, physically and emotionally.They both instinctively knew that neither would cling nor encroach on each other’s freedom or time.They are now married and feel fully committed and loyal to each other.

Bob hangs out in his workshop for hours in the evening or on weekends. Sheila is content to be inher craft room upstairs, where her sewing machine is always set up. Demonstrating his love, Bobconverted her sewing closet to multiple shelves where she places notions and accessories however shewants, grateful that nobody moves them because she knows exactly where everything is.

Both Bob and Sheila are content that the other is happy doing what he or she loves. Each feels freeto spend time alone in a self-contained “sanctuary,” not resentful of the time apart. Spending so littletime together, however, takes its toll on the intimacy of the relationship. Some things about theirmarriage don’t get discussed. Neither confrontation nor sharing deep feelings are experiences eitherof them likes.

Bob, the neat one, puts things away immediately after use. Creating stacks in almost every roomwith her sewing magazines and newspaper articles is more Sheila’s style, saving them “just in caseshe needs them some day.” Tension exists in their relationship over this issue. No longer able to talkabout it without Sheila shutting down emotionally, Bob suggests that she “lighten the load” justmakes it worse. Sheila’s feeling of insecurity keeps her attached to things, unwilling to let them go. IfBob helped her by going through each thing and getting her permission to let it go, he would havemore success. Expecting her to release things on her own is unrealistic. Bob and Sheila both haveHermit heart lines.

Self-orientedThe short length of this heart line, ending under Saturn (the middle finger), makes it

self-focused. Many of the Hermit’s decisions, desires, and actions are manifested “be-cause it serves me.”

On the master path, self-orientation serves a Hermit because they know what works forthem. Hermits tend to take action to get their needs met, without discussion or askingpermission and often not even sharing their desires or needs.

In Out of Africa, Denys (Robert Redford) focuses on his needs by choosing to live forhimself first, not giving into Karin’s (Meryl Streep) desires to get married or live togetherunder her rules. Karin, a Passionate heart line type, displays ‘I want what I want and Iwant it now.’ She demands that he not see a woman with whom he has a platonic relation-ship. He won’t compromise his integrity to give in to Karin’s unreasonable demands,

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from his perspective. She insists he move out if he can’t live by her rules. He does. Hisfreedom is really important and he won’t tolerate feeling trapped.

On the student path, when a Hermit turns a situation around to be about ‘him’ or ‘her’when it’s not, that would be a display of the self-orientation. Lou, feeling Jenny was ‘outof integrity’ in an interaction they had, calls Jenny aside the next time he sees her. Tellingher he disapproves of her behavior, Lou tells Jenny he doesn’t want her participating in afuture event where she had volunteered to assist. The selfish expression happened whenhe gave her no opportunity to tell her side of the story. It was all about him, what hewanted and his perception. The part of the earth energy that can be stubborn shows up onthe student path of self-orientation. Lou’s perception is the only one that counted to him.Of course it causes huge rifts in intimacy and a desire for others to avoid him. Not allow-ing for interaction, the only thing that matters is what he feels and what he wants, shuttingdown any further interaction. This is one of the ways Hermits keep their world in control,safe and secure.

FreedomAs Denys in Out of Africa displays, freedom is a primary driving force for Hermits. As a

Hermit, choices and options are a requirement for your happiness.Feeling trapped or contained puts a Hermit on the student path. Feeling trapped brings

a desire for autonomy—leave me alone! Hermits will do anything to avoid feeling trapped.Cary has been dating Janet for two years. Recently he became aware of feeling ‘edgy’

about their relationship and realized that he had been feeling this way for a while, unsurewhat is happening emotionally. Torn between a sense of obligation and commitment toJanet and his need for freedom and flexibility, Cary chose a student path expression of hisHermit heart lines. One night he went gambling, leaving a voice mail on their answeringmachine, “I’ll be back late—don’t wait up for me.” Cary knows it will upset Janet and thathe is sabotaging the relationship. His sense of commitment and loyalty would make ittoo hard to initiate leaving the relationship.

Not knowing how to communicate his feelings, he took an action that led to his free-dom without having to ask for it. He set up an opportunity for Janet to find out, get angrywith him, and make him leave.

“Don’t Cling to Me”A surefire way to create Hermit distancing is clinging—physically or emotionally. Kathy

says her biggest complaint about her former husband was that he wanted to physicallytouch her all the time. The public display was especially irritating to her. It felt like hewas clinging.

To the Hermit, anybody standing too close at a store feels “clinging.” They may be theones who create as much space as possible behind them or in front by placing their basketstrategically so nobody gets too close.

The Hermit in your life may act distant or overly polite. Your instinct tells you some-thing is not right. You may want to ask yourself if you can honor them by toning downyour clinging behavior. Even if asked, sometimes it may be difficult for the Hermit toidentify that they feel ”clung to”—entrapped.

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RomanticIdealist

Heart Line

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Romantic Idealist – Classic ExampleStarts under Mercury (pinkie) and ends under the Jupiter (index) finger

Starts here

ends here

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Late Saturday morning Charlie runs around the local high school track. He can’t get out of hismind the conversation just completed with his teenage daughter, Juliet. In a very honest and mean-ingful conversation, without the usual heated discussions, Juliet shared why she, at age 16, wants toget a car. He’s not going to allow Juliet the freedom to drive her own car until he sees her acting moreresponsibly, specifically by improving her grades. Charlie also has fears about her driving. Juliet hasjust passed her driving test and has had little practice. He knows about the responsibility of carownership and maintenance. She doesn’t. He remembers the difficulties he had with his son, Jim,when he got his first car at 16. He’s not making that mistake again.

As Charlie runs the track, lap after lap, he replays the conversation, recalling how upset Juliet waswhen she didn’t receive his permission. It hurts him that she’s angry because he is so sensitive to herfeelings about him. He’s also aware how hard it was for him to stick to his decision. Charlie’s overpro-cessing now, looping through the conversation repeatedly as he loops around the track. He wants tobe considerate of Juliet’s desires. Justifying his decision to himself, he also knows that as her father,there are times when he has to set boundaries, hard as that is for him.

This is a typical story of a Romantic Idealist heart line: thinking about what he feels,overprocessing, being considerate of others, justifying everything, and having a hard timesetting boundaries.

Consideration and ThoughtfulnessBeing a long heart line that goes to the Jupiter (index) finger, focusing on other people’s

needs first is natural. Romantic Idealists are known for being considerate and thoughtful.How could you not be considerate—using your own definition of “consideration.”

Candy, a Romantic Idealist, spends the weekend with friends at a lake cabin. In themiddle of the night she needs to use the bathroom. Not only is she sharing a room withEllen, but their bedroom door squeaks. She’s on the second floor, so walking might awakenthe sleepers below. Candy’s quandary: should she get up and use the bathroom and riskwaking her friends when the door squeaks and the toilet flushes, or should she hold ituntil somebody else is bold enough to make the first noise? This is the Romantic Idealist’sdilemma: how do I be considerate of others and still take care of myself?

Passionates, a common partner for Romantic Idealists, don’t understand this lack ofdecision-making. If you are in relationship with Passionate, understand the Passionategets impatient with your dilemma. It’s not your problem that a Passionate doesn’t get itand you don’t have to change because the Passionate wants you to. Remember, Passionatesare experts at being passionate about whatever is up in the moment and also being ma-nipulative to get their way. On the master path, a Passionate can help you take more risksif you allow it.

The Romantic Idealist Heart Line

“I think, think, think about whatI feel, feel, feel.”

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You may feel disappointed and hurt if others don’t act with the same considerationtowards you. It eventually turns to resentment.

Mickey spent a month planning a 30th birthday surprise party for Hannah. After herentrance and greeting all her friends first, she finally turned to Mickey. He was disap-pointed when she didn’t immediately hug him and tell him how wonderful he was forplanning this. Mickey hoped she’d jump into his arms with delight. Because she didn’the judged her as being thoughtless.

Pay attention when you are making a decision from the motivation of being consider-ate and determine if there is a cost to you. If so, what is it? Do you expect others to do thesame for you? What if they are don’t? How do you communicate this important value?Do you feel resentment if they don’t? That’s a clue that your needs aren’t in the mix.

Identifying Desires and AskingRomantic Idealists need to feel safe before asking to have desires met. Once you feel

safe, the next step is identifying desires, then asking for what you want. You may gothrough the following process to identify your desires. Patience is required.

1. Decide what you want.2. Determine if the desire is appropriate: Do I deserve this? Do I have the right to ask

for it? How will it affect the other person(s) involved? Try to be realistic about this;you tend to overestimate the negative effects of your desire.

3. Articulate the desire. This requires that you feel safe with the person with whomyou are communicating.

Excuses for not asking for what you want could include:1. This isn’t a good time.2. It would be distracting to the other person if I say what I want now.3. I don’t REALLY need or want this, do I?4. I’m being too selfish by asking for what I want.5. Do I deserve to have this desire?

You are other-oriented, so issues of being “too selfish” come into play in asking forwhat you want. This is what leads to resentment on your part in relationship. This is thecrux.

In the movie Sleepless in Seattle, Annie wonders if she has the right to pursue Sam whenshe’s engaged to Walter. She vacillates between wanting and not wanting to meet Sam.Annie finds the courage to fly to Seattle, sees him across the street, and then doesn’t talkwith him when she sees Sam hug another woman. Turns out that the woman is Sam’ssister, but Annie doesn’t know that, nor does she ask. She flies back to Baltimore moreconfused about what she wants.

Note to the Romantic Idealist: it actually helps others in your life if you can articulatedesires and wants. Others don’t have to guess or figure out what you want, then deal withyour pouting if they don’t get it right. Asking is one of the gifts Passionates can teach you,because it’s more natural for them.

The Simian Crease

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Simian Creasethe head line and heart line are combined into one line

if hands have this marking then you don’t have a separate heart line

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Purpose of this Gift Marking

The Simian Crease combines the head line and heart line. Because there is one linewhere normally there would be two, you experience both feelings (heart) and thoughts(head) as one energy. Often a Simian owner may not know what is meant by “feeling andthinking” as separate experiences. Simians tend to express intensely, see things in ex-tremes, and have a lot of physical and mental stamina. On the master path they can bereally strong communicators.

IntensityAs a Simian, since you two processes (feeling and thinking) culminating in one expres-

sion or said differently, two systems functioning as one, it increases your intensity offocus. Your capacity to focus is just more intense than people who have separate headand heart lines. You can’t help it. You are designed this way. And trying to diminish yourintensity to please others won’t work.

Many people with this marking have a difficult time differentiating between how theyfeel and how they think. So many times when I’ve said this during a reading, I get a blankface from the Simian owner. The concept of separating feelings and thoughts doesn’t sit inthem.

When a Simian owner is asked how he or she feels and the response may be a thinkinganswer. Understand that this is their make-up.

As a Simian, when you do something, it may become your predominant focus. Doingone thing at a time is preferable so you can stay intensely focused on it until it is done.While eating you just eat—no phone calls. Interruptions are not always welcome.

Burning the midnight oil is not uncommon for this Gift Marking. When you want some-thing, you want it with all your heart and mind, literally.

When starting his new business, Simian owner Jim worked until 2 a.m. often, gettingup at 6 a.m. and beginning again. He did this for seven days in a row and took one day torelax. Then the cycle commenced again. He had the physical stamina, mental stamina andfocus to make this happen.

This unusual head line/heart line combination occurs as a single straight line acrossthe palm, instead of as the usual separate head and heart line. Most commonly, the ownerof a Simian Crease has this Gift Marking only on one hand. But they can appear on both.Gift Markings are line formations that are ‘extra potential talent.” The Simian Crease isone of 17 Gift Markings. To learn more about Gift Markings, go to http://handsoncompany.com/products/giftmarkingscomplete.html. There is a map of wherethe Gift Markings are located.

Simian Crease - a Gift Marking

Multiple Heart Lines on One handIf you hands look something like this you have 3 heart line types on one hand. This is not very

common but it does mean you have access to more than one heart line type emotinally.

Big Heart

Starts here

Romantic Idealist

the heart line splits here. Upto this point is the Hermit -up to the point of splitting

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Books on Heart Lines/Relationship Success by Pamelah Landers

The Complete Guide to Relationship Success: Your Heart LinesA Basic Guide to Relationship Success: Your Heart Lines

Relationship Success for Singles: Life Partner or Life Problems?

Other Books by Pamelah LandersThe Complete Guide to Gift Markings: Your Extra Potential Talent

The Complete Guide to Artistic Brilliance: The Artist in YouA Basic Guide to Artistic Brilliance: The Artist in You

Audios from Pamelah Landers on Heart LinesYour Heart is in Your Hands Volume I: The Hermit and Big Heart

Your Heart is in Your Hands Volume II: The Passionate and RomanticIdealist

Your Love Style in Song - songs that represent the heart lines performedby Pamelah Landers

Special Reports by Pamelah LandersActivity Central: many lines on the handsBottom Line: very few lines on the hands

Gotta, Gotta, Gotta: short life linesIndependent Thinker: head line separated from the life line

Appreciation: High Set ApolloAbandonment: Low Set MercuryR-E-S-P-E-C-T: High Set Jupiter

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If you would like to learn more about heart lines, go towww.HandsOnCompany.com/products.html and

look for books on “Relationship Success”