Dr. Hayes Wicker, Senior Pastor Churchwide

This weekend includes Valentine’s Day. It is a special time of the year for Janet and me, since our first date was on February 12. We were married later that year on December 27, but we prefer to celebrate around this time of the year. I am grateful for 40 years of a loving relationship with my beautiful bride.I would encourage all married couples to rekindle romance and reaffirm your love. You can certainly do this by simply telling your spouse on a regular basis, “I love you.” As simple as this seems, after a number of years, many fail

to do this. As the king said to his beloved, “How beautiful and pleasant you are, O loved one, with all your delights” (Song of Solomon 7:6). Actually, it is not a bad idea to read again the Song of Solomon and to be reminded of the God-ordained passion, partnership, and pleasure which the Lord intended for a married couple.According to Harlequin Publishing House, which has been in the romance business for over half a century, more than 180 million romance novels are purchased each year, with that company itself, selling an average of 5 ½ books per second. I am not suggesting reading that material but urge you to remember and reaffirm the kind of sacrificial love which Paul described in Ephesians 5:33. We are charged to love and respect our mates with Christ as our example (Ephesians 5:33). Our Associate Pastor of Family Ministries, Steve Hayes, has written a short booklet to help you in rekindling your relationship which we are distributing this weekend. Naturally, love must be demonstrated by the will and not just the emotion. Pastor George Crane tells of a wife who came into his office full of hatred toward her husband. She said: “I do not only want to get rid of him, I want to get even. Before I divorce him, I want to hurt him as much as he has me!” Dr. Crane suggested an ingenious plan: “Go home and act if you really love your husband. Tell him how much he means to you. Praise him for every decent trait. Go out of your way to be as kind, considerate, and generous as possible. Spare no efforts to please him and to enjoy him. Make him believe you love him. After you have convinced him of your undying love and that you cannot live without him, then drop the bomb. Tell him you are getting a divorce. That will really hurt him!” Smiling at the thought of revenge, she exclaimed, “Beautiful! Will he ever be surprised!” The woman did it with enthusiasm, acting “as if …” For two months, she followed the plan diligently, but didn’t return to Crane’s office. He finally phoned her and asked, “Are you ready now to go through with the divorce?” She replied: “Never! I discovered I really do love him.” Loving actions changed her feelings. Motion resulted in emotion. I know I would not gamble with that term “divorce,” but I trust God gave him unique wisdom. The Lord knew the outcome if she would love by the will. You don’t need to “drop the bomb,” but obliterate hatred and resentment. Happy Valentine’s Day!

*There is a guest reception in the Commons following the Saturday night and Sunday morning 11:00am worship services. Pastor would love to meet you!

A Valentine Lifestyle

Divorce CareBegins Saturday, Feb 27 at 7:15pm in Room DC113Someone you know is hurting as a result of divorce. Tell him/her about our next session of Divorce Care. For more information, contact Jim at 992-7242 or hilljd76@gmail.com.

Discovering First Baptist Church NaplesMonday, Feb 22 at 6:30pm in the Worship Center

Led by Pastor Hayes Wicker and the pastoral staff, this dinner seminar is for those who are new to FBCN, want to become a member of the church, or would like more information about our ministries. Please RSVP at 596-8600 x679. Childcare is available, but needs to be reserved separately by calling 596-8600 x360.

Men’s Ministry

Welcome Guests!We are so glad you joined us for worship! Greeters at the doors can help with any immediate needs. Volunteers at the Connection Point in the Commons can assist you in finding the perfect Bible and Life Group. If you are a first time visitor, stop by the Connection Point for a free gift!

Missions

“Absent from the Body, Present with the Lord”Iain Plommer passed away on February 7. Gene Robinson passed away on February 6. We express our sympathy to, and are praying for, these families.

New ArrivalJames Lawrence Apperti was born on February 7, 2016 weighing 5 pounds, 2.5 ounces and measuring 18 inches. Proud parents are Domenic & Brittney, and big sister is Kirra.

Upcoming Tanzania Mission TripInformational Meetings this Saturday and Sunday

If you are interested in learning more about how you can join the upcoming mission trip to Tanzania (June 8 - 22), please join us at one of our informational meetings this weekend: Saturday, February 13 at 8:30pm in WC117, or Sunday, February 14 at 12:30pm in WC117.

Bible & Life Groups

Helps OutreachAt the Missions Kiosk in the Commons

Helps Outreach is a local Christian mission with a simple purpose - to feed, clothe, and comfort the hurting in our community. Please come visit and experience firsthand the love of our Lord Jesus for His people. You will be blessed. Have some free time? Volunteer at Helps Outreach. Located at 2025 J & C Blvd. Stop by the Missions Kiosk this weekend for more information.

Calling All Foster and Adoptive FamiliesMonday, February 15 at 6:00pm in Room WC117

Fostering Grace is a brand new ministry catering to the needs of foster and adoptive families. We will introduce ourselves, talk about the ministry, have light refreshments, and pray for each other. Childcare is available for those aged 0-10. For a childcare reservation, please email Ashley at santanafosteradopt@gmail.com.

Kingdom Missions WeekendFebruary 20 & 21

We will be introducing our new USA partners as well as our new Kingdom Missions Offering partners. You will find out our mission trip line-up for 2016 and how you can participate. Our 2016 Kingdom Missions Offering goal will be announced. Jarrett Stephens (Teaching Pastor at Prestonwood Baptist Church in Dallas) will be our guest speaker on Saturday night at 6:00pm and also at our Sunday 11:00am Chapel service. Al Gilbert (Executive Director of Church Mobilization at the North American Mission Board) will be our guest speaker at our Sunday 9:00am and 11:00am worship center services.

Beach BaptismSunday, March 6

If you would like to make your public profession of faith in Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior at the beautiful Gulf of Mexico, please call Linda at 596-8600 x280.

Book ClubBegins Thursday, February 18

The Lighthouse Bookstore will begin a Book Club for the purpose of community, discipleship, and encouragement. A different book will be chosen each month as we meet together for discussion. Our February title is Islam Anthology with Dr. Stephen Plaster facilitating. Sign-up is required in the Lighthouse Bookstore.

Tickets are on sale now at the Lighthouse Bookstore. You may also buy tickets Wednesday night at Band of Brothers Men’s Ministry,

or by going online at fbcnmen.org. Get your tickets today!Lindsey Graham Concert

Sunday, February 28 at 7:00pm in the ChapelAll are invited to attend Lindsey Graham’s Annual Concert and CD release celebration of I Lift My Voice and Hymns and Spirituals with special guest pianist, Jeremy Silverman. Doors open at 6:15pm. No ticket required. A love offering will be received.

Quarterly Business MeetingWednesday, February 24 at 8:00pm in the Chapel

All church members are invited and encouraged to attend.

Register to Vote This WeekendAt Our Table in the Commons

Florida’s presidential primary is March 15. The deadline to register to vote in this primary is Monday, February 15. If you are not registered to vote yet, please stop by our table in the Commons this weekend and register to vote right here. This election is so important. Don’t be left on the sidelines. Make sure your voice is heard.

College/20s Worship NightTuesday, Feb 16 at 7:00pm in the Student Center

If you are a college student, or a young adult in your 20s, then please plan to join us for this special Worship Night.

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Weekly Schedule

You can be part of FBCN’s worship services no matter where you are. Simply go to fbcn.org on Saturday at 6:00pm or Sunday at 9:30am for our live streaming.

Kelly PulverBrian SneedJames SneedJennifer ToussaintEsther Varela

Saturday Evening at 7:30pmMike & Teri Dolan Teach Couples in their 20s

in Room DC216Mike & Teri are currently teaching on “The Truth Project.” Feel free to visit their class, or stop by the information desk in the Commons for more details.

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February 17 (4:45-6:00 p.m. in theFellowship/Recreation Gym)

Sweet & Sour Pork, Rice,Vegetable, Salad, and Dessert

Tickets may be purchased at the Lighthouse Cafe or at the door for $6 each or $25 for a

family. Alternate choices available.

This Upcoming Week

February 15 - 21Russ Ayers

&Philip Nemni

If you need assistance, please call the church deacon hotline

at 800-732-9573.

Wednesday Family MealDeacon of the Week

2015-2016 Operating RevenuesJuly 1, 2015 - February 7, 2016

Budget Actual Variance$5,340,000 $5,206,167 ($133,833)

Financial Stewardship

Decisions for Christ Worship AttendanceLast Weekend

February 6 & 7Saturday Night 646Sunday 8:15am 199Sunday 9:30am 723Sunday 11:00am 601Home Groups 886Total 3,055

Bible & Life Attendance

Kingdom Missions OfferingYTD through February 7

Pledges Received$343,488 $435,398

RefresHer Women’s MinistryStatement of Faith

Elysa CherubinLiliana Williams

First Baptist Academy

RefresHer New Bible StudyBegins Tuesday, February 16 at 9:00am or

Wednesday, February 17 at 6:30pmIn the Worship Center (East Side)

Join us as we study the people, places, and promises of the Bible, tying them together into the greater story of Scripture. This session will be taught by our Senior Pastor’s wife, Janet Wicker. Books are available at the Lighthouse Bookstore. Preschool childcare is provided for both sessions by calling 596-8600 x360 to pre-register.

Transfer of LetterGail Miller

February 6 & 7Saturday Night 1,219Sunday 9:30am 1,744Sunday 11:00am 1,128Chapel 11:00am 360Total 4,451Wednesday Evening 1,609

Saturday, February 136:00 p.m. Worship Service: Worship Center7:30 p.m. Bible and Life Groups: Various Rooms on CampusSunday, February 148:15 a.m. Bible and Life Groups: Various Rooms on Campus9:00 a.m. Haitian Bible Study & Worship: ED2069:00 a.m. Vietnamese Worship & Bible Study: DC2219:30 a.m. Worship Service: Worship Center9:30 a.m. Bible and Life Groups: Various Rooms on Campus9:30 a.m. Spanish Worship Service: Family Life Center10:00 a.m. Romanian Bible Study & Worship: Modular 411:00 a.m. Worship Service: Worship Center11:00 a.m. Worship Service: Chapel11:00 a.m. Bible and Life Groups: Various Rooms on Campus5:00 p.m. Various Children’s Choirs (various locations on campus)6:00 p.m. Romanian Worship Service: Modular 46:30 p.m. Haitian Worship Service: ED206

Tuesday, February 169:00 a.m. RefresHer Women’s Bible Study: Worship CenterWednesday, February 174:45 p.m. Family Meal: Fellowship Recreation-Gym6:20 p.m. AWANA for Kids: Education Building6:25 p.m. Band of Brothers Men’s Bible Study: Worship Center (c)6:30 p.m. RefresHer Women’s Bible Study: Worship Center (a)6:30 p.m. High School Ministry: Student Center by 6pm (to go to Home Groups)6:30 p.m. Middle School Ministry: Student Center6:30 p.m. Worship Choir Rehearsal: Choir Room

Other events this week include: Register to Vote in the Commons, Foster Parents/Fostering Grace, College/20s Worship Night, Book Club, Celebrate Recovery

Legacy Builders Senior AdultsLuncheon with Adams Road

Thursday, Feb 25 at 11:30am in the Worship CenterAdam’s Road is made up of three men whom God rescued out of Mormonism. You’ll enjoy hearing their testimonies and music. $8.00 per person until February 17 ($10 after). Deadline is February 21. Purchase your tickets at the media window, church office, or call Vada at 596-8600 x268.

FBA Fine ArtsAll-State OrchestraCongratulations to Mallory Eisel and Trent Wilson for a fine performance in the All State Honor Orchestra on January 16 at the Florida Music Educators Association State Convention.Fine Arts ExtravaganzaAll are invited to this upcoming event on February 23 at 7:00pm in the Commons, which will highlight the talents of our FBA students in art, drama, and music. Also, tickets for the upcoming spring musical, Beauty and the Beast, will go on sale at this event.Music FestivalsAll FBA middle and high school musicians will attend either Association of Christian School International Music Festival or Festival Disney in the month of March.Grandparents DayEveryone is invited to the Grandparents Day Musical and Art Show featuring K4-5th grade students. Program begins at 11:00am in the Worship Center on Friday, March 11.