13 Excuses That Will Destroy Your Dreams

by Adam Johnstone[1] | Popular[2], Purpose[3] | 2 comments

How often have you told yourself this: “I’d LOVE to pursue my dream … BUT …

1. I’m not an expert2. I’m too young/too old3. People tell me to get a “real job”4. It’s tough in the “current climate”5. People don’t support my dream6. What if I fail?7. I don’t have time8. I don’t like people9. It’s “risky”10. I’m waiting to be inspired11. I’m planning on thinking about possibly doing it sometime … maybe12. I probably can’t beat the competition

13. I don’t know what I’m doing!

How long have you been believing these excuses?

The truth is NOW IS THE TIME TO START[4]. Not tomorrow. Not next week. And notwhen you feel “motivated” or “inspired”.

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But I know it’s not that simple. I have lied to myself for a long time too. I have made amillion excuses. But it took a few traumatic events before I finally realised the following:

You’re Luckier Than the Majority of the World

Chances are that millions of people out there would DIE to live the kind of life you do. Ifyou’re reading this, it’s highly probable that you live in a place where starvation, war,and death aren’t daily realities. Chances are that some of your major “worries” in liferevolve around mundane things like paying off your mortgage, buying a bigger TV, or –

the big one – trying to figure out what you want to do with your life[6] (which is quite aluxury when you think about it).

We should ALL consider ourselves lucky that we’re reading this because we HAVEOPTIONS that millions of others don’t. And we only have them through sheer LUCK. Doyou realise the unbelievable odds that were against you being born in a stable societywith choices and opportunity around you?

Don’t squander your good fortune on living a mundane existence. If you have choicesand options (which you most certainly do!), then you owe it to yourself to make this lifecount. After all …

You Will Die One Day

I know it’s not pleasant to think about. But, no matter how much we pretend we won’t,

WE WILL ALL DIE ONE DA[7]Y (hopefully not all at the same time due to somecatastrophic environmental disaster … but I digress!).

Just think about that for a minute…

Imagine not existing.

Imagine never waking up again.

Imagine never seeing your friends, family, and close ones again.

Imagine never seeing the beautiful world around you again.

Imagine having completed your ONE and ONLY “turn” at life (you DON’T get a secondchance, remember that).

What would you miss? What would you regret? What would you wish you had at leastTRIED before time was up? Which dreams will you have left unfulfilled?

WAKE UP NOW.

You’re still here. You’re still alive. And you’re still reading this post (which probablymeans you are in the top 5% of the world’s population who are actually literate).

You can still HAVE IT ALL in life, but it’s time to get moving RIGHT NOW.

Remember – you ARE one of the luckiest people on the planet, and you are actually stillALIVE. Those two things are enough for you to be able to accomplish ANYTHING in life.

So what’s still holding you back?

Chances are, it’ one of the following 13 excuses …

1. I’m not an expert

Neither is this guy … but it clearly hasn’t stopped him …

Animal Identification Fail

How often have you stopped yourself from chasing your dream because you didn’tconsider yourself an “expert”?

Eg. “I want to start a business, but I’m no expert.”

An “expert” by whose definition? By OTHER experts’? By YOUR definition? Or is an

expert someone who has obtained “qualifications[8]” in a particular field?

“Expert” has to be one of the most annoying words in the English language.

It means so much, yet simultaneously means so little.

Consider the definition provided by dictionary.com:

“A person who has special skill or knowledge in some particular field”

That’s pretty vague when you think about it. For example, what’s the definition of“special skill” or even “knowledge”?

If you think “knowledge” means obtaining “qualifications”, then stop and think for asecond. Try to step back from the relentless pre-conditioning you have receivedthroughout life about the “importance” of qualifications.

Then SCREW the qualifications. Honestly.

Unless your dream is to work as a lawyer, doctor, engineer, nurse, school teacher, etc(basically any job that LEGALLY requires you to hold some sort of relevant qualification),

YOU DON’T NEED PAPER “QUALIFICATIONS”[9].

Paper “qualifications” often prepare you to do too much thinking, and not enough

action.

Paper qualifications tend to be 3+ years of procrastination. Trust me. I’ve been thereseveral times …

So if you think a paper qualification will give you “special skills”, then guess again.

University curriculums are often outdated, and are rarely cutting-edge. Why? Becausethese are big institutions that are slow to adapt to anything new.

Besides, they don’t have a lot of incentive to adapt. Their enrollments keep going up yearafter year, because they do such a great job of convincing people that a degree is the keyto success.

It’s not.

Ask Bill Gates. Ask Richard Branson. Ask Steve Jobs. Ask thousands of other people thathave lived their dreams.

So the only definition of “expert” that you should be using (if you REALLY want tocontinue to use that word…) is this one:

An expert is someone who can help other people with something.

THAT’S IT!

You do not need to be the NUMBER 1 EXPERT ON THE PLANET (unless you really needthat “ego massage” … ).

All you need to know, is to know MORE than your customer does about a particular area.

Chances are that you already know a LOT more than a LOT of other people do about yourparticular area. So guess what that means? Yep, YOU ARE AN “EXPERT”.

2. I’m too young / too old

Are there things that you find interesting? Are there things you are passionate about? Do

you have ENERGY for these things?

If you do, that’s all that is required. End of story. Let’s put this “age” nonsense behind usnow. It’s just another one of these pointless “quantity vs quality” arguments.

Who cares whether you’re only 18 and want to start your own business?

Who cares if you’re 52 and are thinking about writing your first novel?

What difference does the number make in this equation?

The answer is NONE.

It might be an issue if you’re looking to be employed by someone, since, let’s face it,employers WILL discriminate based on age (despite what local laws might have to sayabout that…).

But if your dream doesn’t rely on anyone employing you, then your age is completelyirrelevant.

The only relevance it might have is that you never truly know how long you have beforeyour time expires.

But that applies to you regardless of whether you’re 18, or in your 50s.

Don’t ever forget that.

So all the more reason to hurry the f*ck up and start!

3. People tell me to get a “real job”

“Get a real job”. Yep, people say a LOT of stupid things – and this has to be one of thewinners. Next time someone tells you this, ask them whether they can ask you something“real original” in future …

Let’s face it – we’re all wired differently. We don’t all learn the same way. We don’t allfind the same things interesting. And we all certainly aren’t destined to work the same

handful of jobs that supposedly represent “real jobs”.

Firstly, what does “real job” mean?

Does it mean a 9-5 office job?

Does it mean being part of the “rat race”?

Does it mean working a job that is unstimulating and unsatisfying to you, just so that youcan pay off your monthly instalments on things you don’t actually need?

If so, that might be appealing to some people, but why should you feel forced to accept itas your own destiny?

Secondly, people that tell you to get a “real job” probably have some minor level ofresentment towards you. Perhaps they, too, once had dreams in life. Dreams thatsomeone else ALSO told them were unrealistic. So they ended up accepting less in life,sacrificed their dreams, and now don’t want to see you achieving them either. Becausethat’s “the real world”. You should therefore get a “real job”. Suck it up, Princess!

Pfff, it doesn’t have to be like that, AND YOU KNOW IT.

Remember – just because a majority of people have decided that this is the way THEYshould live their life, doesn’t mean it’s right for YOU.

And if those closest around you keep telling you to get a “real job” too, it’s time to

change your social circles[10]. Don’t keep surrounding yourself with this negativity.

4. It’s tough in the “current climate”

Every now and then I hear someone say this. And I always have to fight my primal urge toslap them silly.

Sometimes I succeed … other times I have to apply for bail …

Let’s face it – if it’s not the “global financial crisis” – or GFC, as the cool cats call it – it’s

some other form of mass hysteria[11].

Because it sells well, and it keeps people scared. Stop letting this fear dictate your life.

So do yourself a HUGE favour if you want to achieve your dreams. TURN OFF THE NEWS

TODAY[12]. I mean it.

Stop reading it.

Stop “consuming” it (and that’s all it is – a product to be consumed by the masses).

Stop being affected negatively by it (let’s face it – when is the last time the news madeyou feel POSITIVE about ANYTHING … besides that time they showed a mongooseplaying a bassoon …?).

Now become SELECTIVE about what you expose yourself to[13]. If it’s not providing youwith ANY value (eg. knowledge, relaxation, or entertainment), GET RID OF IT. Findingout that Britney Spears didn’t wear any underwear last night doesn’t really affect yourlife.

You will be amazed at how little you miss the news once you stop consuming it … youwill have more energy, less negativity, and – most importantly – a LOT more time topursue your dreams.

So switch off the news RIGHT NOW. Don’t make me slap you … the judge told me “threestrikes and you’re out” …

5. People don’t support my dream

This one is closely related to number 3 above.

I’ve personally never understood this one. The answer is simple. Either accept it (inwhich case sometimes people will eventually come around…), or find new social

circles[14].

Sometimes it might seem near impossible to do any one of those.

Perhaps you’re romantically involved with someone who genuinely doesn’t want youpursuing your dreams. It’s amazing how often this happens. If this explains YOUR

situation, take a look at it objectively. The other person is essentially saying that theirOWN happiness is more important than YOURS.

I simply don’t understand the purpose of a close relationship if the other person does notwant to see you succeed at something that is important to you.

THIS IS NOT A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP.

How long will you suppress your own dreams to make the other person “happy”? Whatkind of a f*cked up relationship are you in?!!

6. What if I fail?

Victory Fail

Ah, yes – a word that our society seems obsessed with. Fail. Mistake. Lindsay Lohan. Itgoes by a number of different names.

We seem to have been taught from a young age that mistakes are BAD. At school we werepenalised for making mistakes. If we made too many mistakes we were sent to a “specialroom” where we would basically stare at a wall for an hour to “teach us a lesson”.

Or maybe that was just me … either way, that experience taught me a lot about load-bearing structures.

So naturally we grow up programmed to be afraid of making mistakes[15].

And then we thrust our fear of mistakes onto other people in society.

We’ll loudly “boo” (or worse) a player out on the field who missed a goal that “he shouldhave scored”.

Or, better yet, we’ll demand one of our elected officials be immediately sacked becausehe or she just made a mistake.

It’s no wonder our governments often can’t solve anything when they’re under suchrelentless pressure. It’s no wonder they shy away from some of the longer-termimportant issues – issues where mistakes HAVE to be made to eventually achievesuccess. Instead, they just look at the opinion polls all the time, and try to makedecisions that are “safe”, but won’t propel us forward as a society.

We NEED to make mistakes.

That is the best way of learning anything.

No amount of “qualifications” will teach you the stuff that a mistake can teach you.

Success does not necessarily teach you anything. And expecting to constantly succeed atEVERYTHING in life, every step of the way, has to be the biggest delusion imaginable.

Instead, go out there and start making some mistakes instead (the legal kind obviously)!

7. I don’t have time

You don’t have time now, you say? Well, you certainly won’t have time when you end up

in Davy Jones’ Locker[16] …

We could talk about productivity and time management techniques for hours here. Butthe initial problem for many people seems to be quite simple.

Firstly, refer back to number 4 above. That should free up PLENTY of time to begin with(both physically, and mentally).

Secondly, stop wasting hours in front of the television (or computer screen). Yes, we allneed some time off every now and then. We all need leisure and entertainment. But a lotof us take it too far.

I often like to go for a drive through the suburbs, and down along the beach. It alwaysamazes me how many televisions I can see from the street. And they all seem to be on.

That might be fine if you are genuinely happy with life, and everything is already perfectfor you. Fair enough. Keep watching that television then.

But for many of us, that is not the case.

Yet we continue to consume countless hours in front of the “idiot box”, and then claimthat we “don’t have enough time!”.

I often see some scary statistics that the average person tends to watch 3-5 hours oftelevision EVERY DAY. How on earth are people doing this?!!

We each have 24 hours in every day. The time is there. You’re only running out of timebecause you’re not prioritising the most important things.

So do this for a week: start tracking what you spend time on every day. You will quicklysee where your time disappears.

But some people genuinely feel they don’t have time. Perhaps you spend 40 hours a weekin a mindless office job that you hate. Well, I am willing to bet you don’t spend all of thattime “working” (don’t worry, I won’t tell the boss … ;)

Let’s face it – there are MANY office jobs where there literally isn’t enough work to fill allthe time that you have to be “present”.

So you could either spend this time mindlessly surfing the web and emailing all yourfriends a video of some skateboarder knackering themselves on a hand rail (that gets meevery time!) …

… you could actually  USE this additional time to start making your dreams happen.

After all, someone is paying you to fill your time with SOMETHING! Think of it as

someone paying you to pursue your dreams[17]. Just don’t tell them that or you might besent to a room to stare at the wall for an hour!

But there is an exception here.

If you work a job that gives you NO free time, a job where you’re worked to the bone 80+hours a week, then it’s time to think about changing your circumstances (unless you love

what you do – in which case why are you reading this article?).

I can understand it’s scary.

But what are you sacrificing if you don’t make this change?

8. I don’t like people

We probably should have dealt with this first …

You need to clarify this thought for yourself. Do you not like certain “types” of people?Or do you really not like ANYONE?

If it’s the first one, fair enough.

There are certain types of people that none of us will ever truly click with. That’s fine.Accept it. Focus on dreams that don’t involve those types of people, if you can.

But if it’s the second reason, then you have a problem that you need to solve before youcan continue your dreams.

Sure, you might think that some dreams don’t require you to deal with people. Maybeyou want to be a painter, an author, or run your own one-person business.

Well, unless you only want a hobby, you will still need to be able to work with people.After all, how do you intend on SELLING your work??

Believe it or not, people generally won’t come knocking on your door because they’vesomehow noticed your “talent”. Sure, that MIGHT happen to the occassional person.Perhaps. But to at least have a greater chance of success, you will need to put yourself

out there[18].

If, ultimately, your dreams revolve around giving other people something (whether that’sa service, a product, or just making them feel good in some way), how could you NOT likepeople??

But if this is seriously a problem for you, please skip to the bottom of this article for some

useful resources that might help.

Otherwise, if you’re not careful, you’ll find yourself living in a log cabin far away fromcivilisation sometime soon … but if that’s what you want, read no further. Perhaps infuture I’ll write an article about things to look out for when purchasing a log cabin …

9. It’s “risky”

Everything is “risky”.

You’re reading this article on some sort of monitor right now. Chances are, you’rereceiving a nice dose of radiation as a result. And chances are that within a few decadesresearch will reveal how much damage these various monitors are causing us RIGHTNOW.

Yes, it’s something I’d rather not think about either …

It’s often said that driving your car is more “risky” than catching a plane (no wonder JohnTravolta flies himself everywhere…).

And you know what? Even sitting on a chair can be “risky” …

Chair Fail

And to think … this guy is the “Chair”-person of the committee. Ah, the irony …

EVERYTHING is “risky”.

Pursuing your dreams is “risky”.

You might make mistakes. You might even … *shock-horror* … FAIL.

Well, as the cliche goes, if you fall, you just get back up again.

But NOT pursuing your dreams is even riskier.

By not pursuing, you have failed without even trying. And what’s worse – you haven’tlearned ANYTHING from it. You have lost everything, and gained nothing.

You tell me which one of these options is truly “risky”…

10. I’m waiting to be inspired

How’s that working out for you?

Have you been waiting a few years now?

Who, or WHAT, is supposed to magically inspire you?

Sure, inspiration is GREAT. A motivational piece can be very useful. It temporarily makesus believe WE CAN DO ANYTHING (which we need to start believing).

But then the feeling passes … and we’re back at square one.

Then we wait for our next dose of “inspiration” (now available in a multitude of differentflavours …).

And the cycle continues …

Let’s face it – this is why “self-help” books sell so damn well.

Many of us LOVE devouring this type of stuff (including me!). And it CAN certainly beuseful – but only if combined with ACTION. Don’t fall into the trap of becoming addictedto “inspiration”. Most people never take the ACTION required.

Inspiration exists, but it has to find us working.

– Pablo Picasso

Let’s take the alternative to the extreme, and see what happens. Here is a terrific quote

from Steve Manning[19]:

Can you think of any profession that operates only when inspiration hits?

“Sorry lady, I can’t fix your plumbing today, I’m not inspired.”

“I’m not coming into the office today, boss, sorry, no inspiration.”

“Love to remove that cancerous growth from you today, Mr. Jeffries, but, well, I’m notfeeling particularly inspired.”

So stop believing in the fairytale that inspiration will suddenly strike you like a bolt oflightning. It might for a select few individuals (arguably), but it’s not worth counting on…

Start working and THEN you will find inspiration.

11. I’m planning on thinking about possibly doing it sometime… maybe

Whoa, hold your horses there, cowboy! Don’t be so committed!!

We both know what happens here.

Ultimately, NOTHING.

Stop “thinking” about planning. Sit down and do it RIGHT NOW.

Believe it or not, there is NO such thing as the “perfect time[20]” to start something. It’sonly your lazy brain trying to convince you that something like that exists.

Tomorrow will be no different from today[21], but you will be one day further away fromyour dream.

And one day closer to death…

Okay, I promise to stop saying that!.

So start something NOW, and within an hour you will be on a roll.

Then focus on finding at least SOME time EVERY DAY to continue pursuing your dreams.

This might only mean 10 minutes some days, or maybe 30-60 minutes if you’re lucky.BUT IT’S BETTER THAN NOTHING.

Imagine you find 1 hour a day for a whole year. That’s just over 15 FULL 24-HOUR days ofworking towards your dream. Or, if you prefer, that’s 45 8-hour work days. That’s like 2months of work!! And that’s even while you’re already working another job!

So use this time, and the momentum will build (if you truly enjoy what you are doing ofcourse!).

12. I probably can’t beat the competition

That’s what I used to think too. And I used to think that about EVERYTHING.

It’s true – no matter how good you are, there will ALWAYS be someone that does itbetter.

So what? Let them. There is enough room on the planet for both of you.

But it’s also possible that you are SERIOUSLY overestimating your competition.

It never ceases to amaze me HOW MANY PEOPLE simply don’t “show up” in life. Theysay they will do something, then they fail to follow it through.

When I used to be a student at university[22] (I don’t recommend being one, by the way…), I used to think my writing was pretty bad. I used to think all my essays probablydidn’t live up to the standards of my peers.

Later, I began TEACHING at university (yeah, I know … how did THAT happen!). So fromwriting essays I went to GRADING essays. HUNDREDS of essays every year. And what Isaw  shocked me.

The standard of the majority of papers was absolutely terrible. Weak arguments,misunderstanding of basic information, incomprehensible paragraphs, spelling errors,grammar errors, and just overall laziness and slopiness. Then when I read a good paperevery now and then, IT REALLY STOOD OUT.

So you might not think you are anything “hot”, but chances are you’re WAY ahead of thecompetititon without even realising it.

And if your dream is to start your own business, you’ll be ahead of the competitionsimply by RESPONDING TO ALL ENQUIRIES, BEING RELIABLE, and ACTUALLYLISTENING.

Yes, the simplicity of this advice astounds me as well. But it’s TRUE.

The bar in life is often set very low by other people. It doesn’t have to be hard to beat atall. The major obstacle to beat is YOUR OWN MIND.

13. I don’t know what I’m doing!

Neither do I … don’t tell anyone … ;)

But seriously, this is a perfectly normal fear to have. And it’s a fear that keeps usgrounded and modest. It is CRUCIAL. You might only feel it occassionally, but it’s justchecking up on you to ensure you haven’t grown a large head recently.

But if you start thinking you know it all, then you’re overdue for an unpleasant wake upcall soon … and a “big head” will be the least of your problems …

So … what now?

But ultimately all of the above points are just words on a page.

Why have I written them?

I have written them because I want to see you pursue your dreams. And I want to seeMYSELF pursuing my dreams too.

The above is as much a reminder for you, as it is for me. We are all guilty of these doubts.Perhaps you only have a few of them. Or you might have even MORE than I havementioned above.

To finish this mammoth article, I will leave you with a few further self-developmentresources that will help inspire and motivate you further.

But be warned: reading about self-development can often become just another form of

procrastination[23]. Yes, it can be motivational and inspiring, but remember – inspirationneeds to find us working first. So use the following when you need that extra bit ofmotivation.

Randy Pausch

Randy Pausch[24] was a Carnegie Mellon Professor of Computer Science and Human-Computer Interaction and Design. Randy achieved some incredible stuff during hislifetime.

One of his final achievements was presenting a lecture – a lecture he knew would be thefinal lecture of his life (Randy had been diagnosed with a terminal illness). He took thisopportunity to share the lessons he had learned in life, and to inspire and motivateothers to pursue their childhood dreams.

The result is one final lecture called “Really Achieving Your Childhood Dreams”. It was ahit right across the web in 2007, and was seen by millions of people. Now, here it is onemore time:

Randy Pausch Last Lec...

Randy died within a year of presenting his final lecture (he was only in his late 40’s).Before he died, he also wrote a book that expanded on the above lecture. It’s called “The

Last Lecture”[25].

So if you need one last kick in the pants to get moving, the above video and book are it.

Steve Jobs

Steve Jobs, as you would no doubt know, is the CEO of Apple, and the major reason Applehas become such a huge success during the last decade (of course, few people seem torealise how much of an impact Steve Wozniak had too, especially in the earlier days …).

Whether you love or hate Apple, it doesn’t really matter. We can’t deny the influence andaccomplishments of this guy.

During the last few years he has also battled with some serious health issues.

At one stage, he was near death.

The realisations he came to during that period provided some great reflections in thefollowing, legendary commencement speech at Stanford University in 2005, where heurges us all to pursue our dreams and see the opportunities in life’s setbacks:

Steve Jobs Stanford C...

Self-Development Blogs

Below are some of my favourite self-development blogs. I have learned a lot from thesepeople. I have no doubt you will learn something too.

The Positivity Blog[26]

Written by Henrik Edberg, a self-described self-development “enthusiast” who has some

great advice on attaining happiness in life.

The Art of Nonconformity[27]

Written by Chris Guillebeau, a well-travelled, unconventional individual whose goal is tohelp others change the world and achieve their own personal goals.

Zen Habits[28]

Written by Leo Babauta, who has created quite a remarkable life for himself, and nowruns a self-development blog that is one of the top 100 blogs on the web.

The Blog of Author Tim Ferriss[29]

Written by Tim Ferriss, the “Indiana Jones for the digital age”, and writer of the NewYork Times bestseller: “The 4-Hour work Week: Escape 9-5, Live Anywhere, and Join the

New Rich”[30]

Classic Self-Development E-books

“The University of Hard Knocks”[31]

Written by Ralph Parlette and published in 1914! Yet it remains incredibly relevanttoday. An absolute must-read that will change your perspective on life. Available as a

free e-book here[32], or in hard copy here[33].

Written by James Allen and published in 1902! This book basically started the “self

development” movement. Available as a free e-book here[34], or in hard copy .

“Think and Grow Rich”Written by Napolean Hill and published in 1937. This book features a list of 15 “laws” ofsuccess intended to be applied by anybody to achieve personal success. Available as afree e-book here.

One last thought for you …

I have one final quote to share with you all:

The tragedy of life is not that it ends so soon, but that we wait so long to begin it.

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